fredoooooo:

Very very simple , no let a woman see you finish. Don't invest 100% feelings .

If your comment dey page 1, you go get better likes, that see finish b the Koko,,,she go use you play Ball, death sentence to SIMPs shaa

pansophist:


Think of a bird. When it perches on a tree branch, he relaxes and feels at peace, but if its breaks off, it will fly off because its strength is not external (on the branches), but internal (it's wings).

It's not possible to love someone without being attached to them somehow, that's psychopathic, but loving someone is the acknowledgement that you understood the human part of them. You did not naively bequeath messianic expectations on them and think they will be there when the going gets tough. It's like having a cat, it's the acceptance that you can be bitten, but you'll take care of yourself and be fine afterwards.

About the materials you lost, how long was it? There comes the maturity of the girls in question. Unless they've been patient and proved with deeds, not words only, that they are trustworthy, which takes time, you don't have to open up. Let them go, it's fine, better than having your heart being shattered and dumped. But if they have proven beyond doubt to be good, then you have to, but not to a point where you loose your inner strength like the bird analogy.

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Slynation:
It's so painful tho...A lot of people might not understand this young man, Emotional trauma is very painful to experience because at that point, you are on self destruction, bobo might not be crying because his girl left him, but because he has built his happiness around the girl and has invested so much emotions, resources, time to the extent of losing himself in the process...!!

March 28th 2020 was a very bitter experience for me, My ex broke up with me just like that 8days after her birthday, A birthday I SIMPingly sponsored before lockdown was fully activated, Omo fear this gender...!! I was down just like my manchi up there, but I didn't shed tears physically, only did that in my sleep, it was a bitter experience that gave me the necessary strength, sense and pills I needed in life...I quickly remembered the badboy quote "Every heartless man once cared too much"

Now I live by two principles...As a lady "if you are Good, I will make you a saint...but if you are Bad, I will make you worst"

how will you now know who is good and who's not ?

Slynation:
It's so painful tho...A lot of people might not understand this young man, Emotional trauma is very painful to experience because at that point, you are on self destruction, bobo might not be crying because his girl left him, but because he has built his happiness around the girl and has invested so much emotions, resources, time to the extent of losing himself in the process...!!

March 28th 2020 was a very bitter experience for me, My ex broke up with me just like that 8days after her birthday, A birthday I SIMPingly sponsored before lockdown was fully activated, Omo fear this gender...!! I was down just like my manchi up there, but I didn't shed tears physically, only did that in my sleep, it was a bitter experience that gave me the necessary strength, sense and pills I needed in life...I quickly remembered the badboy quote "Every heartless man once cared too much"

Now I live by two principles...As a lady "if you are Good, I will make you a saint...but if you are Bad, I will make you worst"

I think every man should experience break up issues..It comes with a huge advantage..Your senses and alertness will be top notch.

And it will teach how to spot good ladies from a distance.
The bolded explained that reason every man need that break up with a lady/ladies he cared soo much about.

If we men realise that Loving comes only from men while caring is a thing from the female side, the better we live happy.

Men express love with providing, women reciprocate with care.

SmellySperm:

Do I need to appease the gods before you quit mentioning and trolling me here?

i've noticed that bro SHE LIKES YOU

Munzy14:

I think every man should experience break up issues..It comes with a huge advantage..Your senses and alertness will be top notch.

And it will teach how to spot good ladies from a distance.
The bolded explained that reason every man need that break up with a lady/ladies he cared soo much about.

If we men realise that Loving comes only from men while caring is a thing from the female side, the better we live happy.

Men express love with providing, women reciprocate with care.

I salute you elder. I applied this a few times, and i found peace. Women should love, we provide. Simple

When you're done crying....go yee to the world and break as much heart as you can, introduce dem to your family if that's what it will take....fu k and dump dem....spit on their p ussy, leave dem in the hotel and disappear.....get her naked and roast her ugly fat body....they deserve no respect cos they are mere b itches

NamelessOGBENI:

I might borrow a page from your book, man.

feel free bro...

MrMacinterchi1:

how will you now know who is good and who's not ?

Trust me, you will know...but once they start there useless behaviour, I will just Switch up as well...

TechTack:



I salute you elder. I applied this a few times, and i found peace. Women should love, we provide. Simple

Don't expect love from a woman...Rather expect Care...If she loves you, she is going to care much about you..

A man brings love..A man chase a woman, A man finds his woman..It is never the other way round..if not it is bound to scatter.

Munzy14:

I think every man should experience break up issues..It comes with a huge advantage..Your senses and alertness will be top notch.

And it will teach how to spot good ladies from a distance.
The bolded explained that reason every man need that break up with a lady/ladies he cared soo much about.

If we men realise that Loving comes only from men while caring is a thing from the female side, the better we live happy.

Men express love with providing, women reciprocate with care.

Boss...You have said it all...!! Every man needs that heartbreaking experience, most are the necessary motivation and drives needed to succeed in life...

Munzy14:

Don't expect love from a woman...Rather expect Care...If she loves you, she is going to care much about you..

A man brings love..A man chase a woman, A man finds his woman..It is never the other way round..Of not it is bound to scatter.

I see. So the energy shoots from the men... " To love ", and is reciprocated , by " care ".

I see one of my wrong patterns now

Slynation:
Boss...You have said it all...!! Every man needs that heartbreaking experience, most are the necessary motivation and drives needed to succeed in life...

Betrayal and disappointments motivates o. That's bloody true

Hassanmaye:

So you even admit you are a SIMple man

Then abi...Yes naw!! I think I should be named Barth Simpson then make I shock you self, I once went out under the rain to get her food just to please her...Omo, I came back, babe said she has lost appetite

Today, when I see SIMPle Guys, I just laugh because na there time...

Slynation:
Trust me, you will know...but once they start there useless behaviour, I will just Switch up as well...

it's well

Ade3131:


Many of us have been through it too. It's hard to escape it especially if you're a kind person at heart. Naija girls will always find a way to soil the pure heart their inner soul craves for....I learnt the hard way too. I came to the conclusion that good girls love the bad boys and vice versa.

As much as you're bent on being good to them, you're going to be in for a shocker of your life.

"Every heartless man once cared too much"

That quote just defined my present state of mind. I can sense it that all my emotions are gone.

ladies don't love who love them but who use them. bad boys don't love but use women
woman don't have that capacity to love a man but only use the man to upgrade her social class.

if you can beat em at their own game. you will have their maximum respect and loyalty.

this is how niggas role
take this to the bank

See as e dey cry like person that got his Paypal account blocked . SIMP

TechTack:


I see. So the energy shoots from the men... " To love ", and is reciprocated , by " care ".

I see one of my wrong patterns now

Exactly...You love by providing as man...With this, you will always get the drive and motivation to keep focused on hustle.

Knowing fully that a success for you, strengths the care from her and extended to your kids as well.

Slynation:
It's so painful tho...A lot of people might not understand this young man, Emotional trauma is very painful to experience because at that point, you are on self destruction, bobo might not be crying because his girl left him, but because he has built his happiness around the girl and has invested so much emotions, resources, time to the extent of losing himself in the process...!!

March 28th 2020 was a very bitter experience for me, My ex broke up with me just like that 8days after her birthday, A birthday I SIMPingly sponsored before lockdown was fully activated, Omo fear this gender...!! I was down just like my manchi up there, but I didn't shed tears physically, only did that in my sleep, it was a bitter experience that gave me the necessary strength, sense and pills I needed in life...I quickly remembered the badboy quote "Every heartless man once cared too much"

Now I live by two principles...As a lady "if you are Good, I will make you a saint...but if you are Bad, I will make you worst"

Gee....
You too much..
Word bro

Slynation:
Boss...You have said it all...!! Every man needs that heartbreaking experience, most are the necessary motivation and drives needed to succeed in life...

Exactly..

Slynation:
lol, when you see the crying guy, channel this post to him...!! Don't think you can guilt trap me with the blackmailing emotional quote "what if it was your sister/cousin/family/ whatever...That sh*t doesn't work on me

My message is for the crying guy who complained of being dumped after dating a girl for 6 years.

edoairways:

A woman can still conceive at old age.

Definitely. But the chances of that happening is slim

Slynation:
Then abi...Yes naw!! I think I should be named Barth Simpson then make I shock you self, I once went out under the rain to get her food just to please her...Omo, I came back, babe said she has lost appetite

Today, when I see SIMPle Guys, I just laugh because na there time...

Lol I learned the hard way until luck get me to read redpill thread on nairaland since then my life has changed, now women ain't stress, no wonder everyday no matter How busy I must login to nairaland

philme87:
A heartbroken man was recently captured crying profusely after he had his heart broken by his girlfriend of six years.

The man had wailed bitterly while being consoled by his friends. Who had assured him that he would meet another woman.

The sad man, whose heart had been shattered into pieces, paid no heed to his friends attempt to placate him; rather he wailed even more.


His friends urged him to make money so that he’d be able to get another girlfriend.

Seeing that he refused being pacified, they frustrated friends decided to leave him to his woes.

Watch the video below:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r3YbD6x11Ok

Always have many girlfriends at any given point in time to prevent heart break.....

TechTack:



As usual succinct. I believe life experiences with the fickle nature of humans and how quickly the best of humans could transform into beasts thought you this. After many betrayals, I also live by this code too. But then, how does one live detached and still fall in love? I've lost good materials cause they detected and caught I was not going to open up, preserving myself from betrayals. What advice can you give? I lost two prime materials

materials? metaphorically speaking or just as it is ?

Kaysnow:
Lol I’ve been there, mine wasn’t even a girlfriend, mine was a best friend, when I got into the university, I had a best friend from my year one, we were so close that after we got to year two I asked her out, na so she say she can never date a guy like me lol that was the first day of year 2018 omoh I didn’t eat food that morning I traveled home from Abuja and told my home boys, those Igbo guys told me to up my game and she how she will come back.
I made some cool cash, came back to Abuja, went back to school, to cut the story short, madam asked me out herself, I said no, so she will feel what I felt lol she was crying as she went home.
I later told her sorry, I just wanted her to feel what I felt we laughed, and bleeped for a year.

My advice is invest more in yourself if you want any girl.

that she won't date a guy like me in what aspect?

Zonefree:

You laughed cos Kriss was mentioned, right?

nope.

walkingshadow911:



ladies don't love who love them but who use them. bad boys don't love but use women
woman don't have that capacity to love a man but only use the man to upgrade her social class.

if you can beat em at their own game. you will have their maximum respect and loyalty.

this is how niggas role
take this to the bank

Change this mindset...Bad boys love women to nonsense...But are driven by focus..A bad boy leaves a woman when job calls...Then returns to unwind with her and give her a little spoil ones in a while.

But the SIMPle men, leave work to care for women...This is a woman's thing, she will get fed up and irritated and eventually dump his sorry azz..Then he will come an create thread here..

A woman is a complex human..Only another woman can try a little to understand the other...If you know this as man, why trying and cracking your brain to understand a woman? You want to challenge God na..
A focused guy who doesn't care about a woman, but deep down loves her is what the society call bad boy.
The truth is, na them the marry the best of females.. They spot them from a distance.

MrMacinterchi1:

materials? metaphorically speaking or just as it is ?

Another word for very high class ladies

Masterito

Since you have proved you have nothing in your brain, I recommend this thread for you. Please dont near Ukraine Russia war again.

Stay here. Na peni.s talk fits you.

Goodluck.

TechTack:


Another word for very high class ladies

hmm. what a name for it