cornerstonee:


It's you that's not okay

u come to Nairaland claimin u sleep wit Ghost & then u get upset when people ask if u r ok?...Ghost is not real.
.Bro seeek help please!!!(no ofeinse)

It honestly depends.
Where you both in an actual defined relationship? Then yes ghosting is rude and an explanation is warranted.

If you both just went on a few of dates, and where just in a nebulous undefined thing, then chop that ghosting with your full chest. You don't need an explanation over what never solidified.

The first rule of building any form of bonding or friendship with people is basically you understanding that ...IT WOULD NOT LAST FOREVER...


Now back to your question....it depends on the personality of the person ....my type of person ... I get tired of people , conversations and what have you ....so instead of me hurting your feelings it's best I ghost you and maybe come back when I get to miss you ..( that's if I do )

Sometimes ghosting is necessary. People with poor social skills don’t get the necessary cues.

If someone ghosts you, it doesn't mean they are right. Ghosting is one of the ways people run away from facing your judgment, to avoid correcting their wrong deeds, which gives them a false sense of control and power.

To deal with ghosting, always make sure you are on the right side. Because what actually hurts people more during ghosting is the self-questioning that follows, wondering what you did wrong, and your need to be worthy of explanations.

How to deal with a ghoster'' is to simply ignore him/her. This is a time you have to be strong because the ghoster will feel a strong sense of satisfaction when they see that you are troubled by their ghosting.

Treat them like the ghost that they truly are, they should be invincible henceforth. and live a good life, success is always the best revenge.

I dont ghost people but I can block sha.
And I wont allow you ghost me,we need to have a conversation,if the person doesnt want,na to block them.

You cant leave me with a debate of "where did I go wrong" Nah, it doesnt work for me laidat

Vinnie2000:
Ghosting is quite different from rejection. When a girl turns down a guy who woos her and keeps away, dats rejection. When a guy gets rich and when d girl trys to come back. If d guy avoids or blocks her, dats ghosting!

This must be your personal definition of ghosting.

cornerstonee:
Because it's a total lack of respect for you as a person.its just kinda "like you are not worth my time to even explain" . As harsh as it may sound..its a complete way of devaluing and it's very hurtfull..in my own view ghosting Is actually a way of the dominant taking an easy way out and i'sint a good relationship material anyway..

What do you think!

I dated one girl like that at work. When she started her rubbish I ghosted her for 1yr.. she kneel down beg me tire she wrote about 5 letters to me. She had a gang with her friends against me .. I ghost all of them. She told her current bf about me . I ghost she and d guy d guy sef con day vex say I ghost am ..... she now started preaching that she doesn't know what she has done and we don't know when we would die . She said if my enemy dies now I might go to hell bcs I ghost her .

When her friends told me d I upgrade d ghosting



I hate rubbish

Lalasticala��

Know your worth. Nobody on earth can make me feel shit. Am too proud, and I know my type be very rare to find. DGAF who bleeps with me or not.

I don’t mind but at least have the decency to respect yourself and not be childish about it. I ghosted my mothers womb but you don’t hear her bitching only men

Some of you ghost and resurface when the money don finish if you can help ..help if you can’t don’t.

All go survive

danietohbadt:
Lol
Ghosting dey always sweet the Ghoster
But you see the Ghostee

Na chest pain go kill am

Fool! But truth shaa

Because there is usually no real closure.
You are left with so many questions of what could have gone wrong, who was at fault, why you weren't given a chance to right your wrongs if so and so on.
Plus, its extremely immature and those who initiate it do it out of not wanting to deal with - outbursts, explaining themselves or the guilt of what they really know is the problem; themselves. Either way, its childish behavior

Ghost me, I assume you are dead. .

Most people who ghost,if you look deep have one or two personality disorder.

I’m a 99% Ghoster meaning “see no evil, hear no evil” you should kill ursef caz I ghost u, I’d rather you ghost me baq caz we’ll shouldn’t give a fuq

cornerstonee:
Because it's a total lack of respect for you as a person. It's just kinda "like you are not worth my time to even explain".

As harsh as it may sound.. Iit's a complete way of devaluing and it's very hurtfull..in my own view ghosting Is actually a way of the dominant taking an easy way out and i'sint a good relationship material anyway..

What do you think!

Ghosting is a very good reaction towards people who lack manner of approach. If you keep mute at somebody emitting negativity towards you, it clearly shows the foolishness of that person and people around will see it there and then. It can go a long way to also either put the person in his place or make amends.

Was just educated on the meaning of ghosting by the poster below me.

If i am working with that definition, then it is simply horrible for anyone to do that to another person without justifiable reasons

Amarisco:
Sometimes ghosting is necessary. People with poor social skills don’t get the necessary cues.

Exactly. It is the perfect antidote for people that lack manner of approach. Ghosting such person brings out his/her foolishness for people around to see there and then, and can even make him/her realize the fool of himself/herself made, for corrections.

Dis 1 we never hear anytin abt ukraine and russia war since mrn,e bi lyk say the war dn end ooh...

danietohbadt:
Lol
Ghosting dey always sweet the Ghoster
But you see the Ghostee

Na chest pain go kill am

I tell you. E dey pain o

MNDY:


Exactly. It is the perfect antidote for people that lack manner of approach. Ghosting such person brings out his/her foolishness for people around to see there and then, and can even make him/her realize the fool of himself/herself made, for corrections.

Some girls that had mental issue do it.

Its a game. You ghost people, people ghost you too.

cornerstonee:
Because it's a total lack of respect for you as a person. It's just kinda "like you are not worth my time to even explain".

As harsh as it may sound.. Iit's a complete way of devaluing and it's very hurtfull..in my own view ghosting Is actually a way of the dominant taking an easy way out and i'sint a good relationship material anyway..

What do you think!

I can remember, not to long ago I was being Ghosted by someone and it turned out the person
Is now a real ghost.. "RiP" Please stop ghosting people we are all humans.

Davidganna10:
The thing dey sweet eh if you be the ghoster.
I do it a lot but it is not my fault I lose interest in ladies easily. It is a disease I'm trying to cure, I just can help it, it is like drugs.

Omo I think say na only me sha. To dy update babe just be like hardwork to me. And I hate stress.

Double0h7:
That's why I don't take people seriously anymore. I'm now the responder, I don't approach anyone, if you hit me up then I respond, and if you don't then I stay in my lane. People nowadays have some issues, they just want to disturb your peace because they lack peace.

Very valid

interesting

danietohbadt:
Lol
Ghosting dey always sweet the Ghoster
But you see the Ghostee

Na chest pain go kill am