30 bro and please stop using that word childish because u have never love a girl so much with your heart

Emperorx:
You are a small boy tell me how old are u?

You are right dear she does those things, she told me same thing you just did. After reading the comments her yesterday I we to apologise toher and promise not to talk of it again, she was happy and me too. My dear the problem with me is that I am jealous type I don't want to lose her.

tragergeorge:
how's she hiding you,,she no de go out with you?abi she no de come see u,or she no de hang around with you her friends family or so which if them abi na for the what's app

Pasima:
30 bro and please stop using that word childish because u have never love a girl so much with your heart

you talk as if you know me ,I have loved a woman with my university school fee what did I get betrayal.

Goat

shiwex:
You be real fool....I suggest you start watching freshandfit podcasts on youtUbe. so you go fit get some sense.

Help me tell am o

Verysmart101:


Ur still asking when this evidence is quite obvious.U should have asked him the name she used to save his number if u were a detective instead of supporting her

You are a fool I am 31 so dont see it as childish because if u read my post well you will understand the reason. Why I told her to post it. It was a test.

tctrills:

I am not sure you are up to 21 years. See what you are complaining about.
Clearly, you don't have problems.
Trust me, when you get older, you would see that this was never an issue

We are dating for 8 months she told me someone hurt her before, I did everything to make her believe in love again. It pains me when people keep saying I am childish because they are nkt in my shoe. I intentionally told her to do that to know her reaction but she fells me instantly.

goodman55:
Sincerely, I do understand what this guy is talking about. It pains when you so cherish your partner and he/she is not doing much to show it but you understand that ladies are the receiving end of almost all hurts in a r/ship except the ones caused by them. Don't expect much from your partner but they said to whom much is given; much is expected. If I may ask how long have you dated her bcus love at the starting point is much on your side than to her. She could be doing that based on her past experiences. R/ship is all abt patient and understanding but you marry these two with continuous communication.

Thank you so much

Verysmart101:


Lemme advice you.The best way to stop all this shit is to withdraw ur love, attention,money,care etc from her.Have other girls too.She isn't the only one that can have multiple partners.She knows u can't do without her that's y she's treating like rag.Show her ur a high value man and it works like magic.

Wow this is the best advice so far thank you very much

Stevenson1:


Oga, let me tell you something... I had the same experience too. I don't know if she's cheating on you or not.
First off, you need to stop complaining cos it will become a regular thing and it's not okay.
Second off, stop posting her picture at all. Whether it's her birthday or not. Don't post anything at all but wish her the best and even take her out.
Third off, you need to stop giving her money in anyway with any excuses at all and stop sucking her pussy too. If possible, stop asking for sex too.
Remove whatever nonsense she brings to the table and watch her become a shadow of herself.
Be calm but be ruthless. Last last, find another girl and transfer your love to her but keep her for play off. Two can play the game.
Last warning, don't ever have a woman problems and seek advice from a woman even if she's your sister. You are doomed.

Wow thanks for that wonderful advice

jaxxy:


She has another guy as an option trust me and u are probably plan b or plan A bt not her only consideration. It’s not that she doesn’t like u bt has trust issues with guys not just with u.

U have to be smart of u might be in for a rude shock.

Thanks alot this your comment just made me to cry chai I really Bleep up o

Psoul:


O boy, pls get matured. No be like dis people dey take marry oo.
With this, u can wake up and kill this lady or any man u finds around her for no just cause.
Your obsession is too much.
Can you imagine asking the girl the man she took ice cream with just because u saw two cups of ice cream in her house.

Let me assure you one thing.
If you continue like dis, the girl will LEAVE YOU for another man.
Try to be giving this girl a breathing space for Christ sake.
She's just a girlfriend.
Allow her to have other life apart from you all the time.
She should be allowed to associate and do other thing.
Her life should not revolve around u all the time.
I'm not saying she should go and start dating other men, but you should learn to give her space.
Get busy. Nwoke m jee chuba ego (My man go and make money).
A busy man will not be checking how many empty cups of Ice Cream that is in a girl's room.
A busy man will not have time to be quarreling with a girl that refused to use his picture on her Status.
Get enough money and the babe will be displaying everywhere.
Guy, JEE CHUBA EGO.

This comment just made me weep

Blue86:
I wanted to scroll away.

But let me give you some silver coins.

One, the lady no respect and honour you.
Two, you know love yourself.
You are sucking w whatever, spending money, and neglecting God, who sent the Christ to die for you.
If for all the years, you have been living for God, you would have a strong purpose.
Your money will be used for profitable things.
And while at it, you will be connected by God himself.

Your choice.

Pasima:
You are a fool I am 31 so dont see it as childish because if u read my post well you will understand the reason. Why I told her to post it. It was a test.

Really, you are 31? Clearly age is a number.

Pasima:
You are a fool I am 31 so dont see it as childish because if u read my post well you will understand the reason. Why I told her to post it. It was a test.

You have proven that you are not matured enough or intelligent enough to bear criticism.
You are insecure and you need assurance from your lady.
You are weak and confused.
You appreciated all those that told you what you want to hear.
But you disrespected me for telling you the truth.
At 31, you are bringing a minor case like this to nairaland for others to teach you.
This is the problems for an 18 years old kid

Pasima:
You are afool you are stupid do u know what I have done for her.

what did you do for her? You bought her a private jet? House at banana island? Sponsored her education outside the country and dropped millions of dollars in her bank account abi? Fok of loser! Cry cry baby. Cry me a river. Relationship is not for babies

tctrills:

You have proven that you are not matured enough or intelligent enough to bear criticism.
You are insecure and you need assurance from your lady.
You are weak and confused.
You appreciated all those that told you what you want to hear.
But you disrespected me for telling you the truth.
At 31, you are bringing a minor case like this to nairaland for others to teach you.
This is the problems for an 18 years old kid

the guy is an adult with a baby’s brain

tctrills:

Really, you are 31? Clearly age is a number.

pls tell him

Pasima:
Thanks alot this your comment just made me to cry chai I really Bleep up o

e pain am, my sister chop him money, him no see her pants and bra

Pasima:
Wow this is the best advice so far thank you very much

small boy!

Enemyofpeace:
pls tell him

He is a complete disappointment.

Proposed to her. Everyone in the family knows her. I dey help based on say na wife to be. It's pathetic

poweredcom:


You helped a girl with 200k for her course omo una de try o

Why did you do that bro that is not a good thing to do to naija girls na , they will still fall ur hand

Useless fool

Enemyofpeace:
the guy is an adult with a baby’s brain

Oga,stop dating gold diggers.stop dating local illiterate girls.and the fact that she can speak good english doesn't make her reasonable.learn to press the block button bro.

Pasima:
Useless fool

cry cry baby!

Pasima:
My own name, if you are in my position won't u be angry

She is romantically and emotionally closer to that person than you. If anyone tells you otherwise, he or she does not like you. Just go ghostmode; If she comes, aggressively demand for sex; If she refuses, tell her you have somewhere important to go. Do not breakup with her verbally; Subject her to the same torment she subjected you to. Quietly & gradually make friends with another girl and build a mutually beneficial relationship together.
Do not fall for emotional blackmails like tears or threats. No lady loves losing a maga or naive lover. Be sharp!

Wisesaying001:
That doesn't mean she's no longer into you,she definitely might be a reserved person.

She also might be definitely cheating. Learn to see things from both sides of the coin. Not ever girl who refuses to post is reserve. Some are cheating and you can't determine which side the op's gf is on so tha statement "definitely might be" is really shortsighted.

Murphyenemuwe:
Proposed to her. Everyone in the family knows her. I dey help based on say na wife to be. It's pathetic

What did she really do to you

Most of these gals are psychos ..they are not mentally stable must tell u d truth

Iyaebe:
Only an unwise lady will be uploading a boyfriend pics on her status, the life of a woman is quite different from that of a man.

Word... She must have advertised herself as being engaged to her eventual husband truly.

Stargurl20:
She posting u doesn't mean she loves you. Similarly, not posting doesn't mean she doesn't love you. She could have posted it and still block other guys from viewing( if she's truly cheating). It's so surprising how social media has taken away our sense of reasoning that every relationships seek its validation to prove that it's perfect.

Do not ruin your beautiful relationship because if social media validation.
I personally as a person do not give a hoot if my bf post me or not, and I doubt if I will ever post him just for people's validations. Well, except on his birthdays and with subtle captions.

What if she doesn’t post the guys pics on his birthday?

Chesco2luv:


What if she doesn’t post the guys pics on his birthday?

Still doesn't mean she doesn't love him. He can also decide not to post her anyway

Emperorx:
you talk as if you know me ,I have loved a woman with my university school fee what did I get betrayal.

Lol, you be mumu boy.
I liked my past gf, anytime she asked for money, I used to tell her that it's my school fees that it's with me and she wouldn't collect the money no matter how much I persuaded her. Well, the fool was collecting money from other sources, some she told me some she didn't. Thank God I dumped her ass.