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Re: How I Disregarded A Guy And He No Longer Talks To Me by Victerica(m): 8:12pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
OP, is it that he does not respond to your greetings? Or you dey exaggerate the thing? |
Re: How I Disregarded A Guy And He No Longer Talks To Me by LINTUNE(m): 8:15pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:for u to wake up to reality, nobody gives a Bleep about you,u aren't special,so don't expect any guy to waste time wooing u while u act silly to boost your self esteem.. 4 Likes |
Re: How I Disregarded A Guy And He No Longer Talks To Me by Kobojunkie: 8:18pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
Tallesty1:1. I have found myself in similar shoes as the guy on several occasions, this in my past, and one problem I admit to struggling with, particularly when I was younger, is lack of self-confidence. A person with self-confidence will consider what the Op said at that juncture as a opening to try again, whereas a one with no self esteem would outright consider what she said a rejection and a stab as his person. Now to top it off, this particular guy goes even further to block OP(keep malice) - all clear signs of low self-esteem/confidence. How in the world is the Op to blame for any of that? 2. OP didn't say she had any expectations of him so let's ask instead of plugging our personal delusions in here please. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How I Disregarded A Guy And He No Longer Talks To Me by Anon4: 8:19pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
Dizzyyish:This was exactly the first thought I had when I read her write up. It very unlikely that the guy would behave that way if she indeed behaved properly. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How I Disregarded A Guy And He No Longer Talks To Me by Kobojunkie: 8:27pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
LINTUNE:Huh? 1 Like |
Re: How I Disregarded A Guy And He No Longer Talks To Me by Jamahyel(m): 8:34pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
Linda4321:ask him don’t come and disturb us with ur shakara 2 Likes |
Re: How I Disregarded A Guy And He No Longer Talks To Me by Silentgroper(m): 8:42pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:can you take a break PUSSY!!! |
Re: How I Disregarded A Guy And He No Longer Talks To Me by Kobojunkie: 8:43pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
Silentgroper:Huh? |
Re: How I Disregarded A Guy And He No Longer Talks To Me by McEphiks(m): 8:47pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
cowardafonja: Comrade lower your voice... you're shouting, the people at the back will hear you |
Re: How I Disregarded A Guy And He No Longer Talks To Me by samtol4(m): 8:49pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
Many women have missed their husbands because of " forming too busy " |
Re: How I Disregarded A Guy And He No Longer Talks To Me by Truvelisback(m): 8:50pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
Linda4321:
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Re: How I Disregarded A Guy And He No Longer Talks To Me by SenecaTheYonger: 8:56pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
Linda4321: You probably told him rudely. I know you Nigerian girls well, especially when you like a guy. Tufiakwa. I hope he never talks to you again 2 Likes |
Re: How I Disregarded A Guy And He No Longer Talks To Me by promisedeco(m): 9:00pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Yes "I'm busy" is not rude but as my grandmum would say "goodnight is not a curse/rude but it depends on the mouth (tone) of the person" |
Re: How I Disregarded A Guy And He No Longer Talks To Me by Kobojunkie: 9:05pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
samtol4:That na lie... fabu wey particularly pastors and mogs use to deceieve their gullible into regretting what never was. 1 Like |
Re: How I Disregarded A Guy And He No Longer Talks To Me by Kobojunkie: 9:08pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
promisedeco:That doesn't make any sense to me. If you choose to read your private delusions into my words, what has that got to do with me? "goodnight" remains just that, "goodnight" until proven, not assumed, otherwise. 1 Like |
Re: How I Disregarded A Guy And He No Longer Talks To Me by Oturatetuala(m): 9:19pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
siofra: Including the ones in your family I guess. Thinking before typing rubbish on here fool. |
Re: How I Disregarded A Guy And He No Longer Talks To Me by BeanmanX(m): 9:23pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Rest,,,,u re always everywhere,,, don't u have something doing? or u re competing with Fernandezisback?? 6 Likes |
Re: How I Disregarded A Guy And He No Longer Talks To Me by damtan(m): 9:24pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
Like someone said, it may not be what you said that angered him but how you said what you said. Even the bible says, a gracious answer turns away wrath. You might have been rude in utterance. Anyways, walk up to him and talk it out. |
Re: How I Disregarded A Guy And He No Longer Talks To Me by promisedeco(m): 9:32pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
J Kobojunkie:I know you want to sound smart... nice try but let me educate you a little. In linguistics, there are things known as connotative and denotative meaning. Let me give you an instance. When you're laughing with a friend and then say "guy you be idiot oo". Does he pick offense? However call him an idiot while discussing something serious and see his reaction. Another example... In our society we often you "bad" to describe someone who is good. As in, Ronaldo scores a classic goal, Kobojunkie goes "omoh! Ronaldo bad oo". Does that mean bad is good? 4 Likes |
Re: How I Disregarded A Guy And He No Longer Talks To Me by richie3384: 9:40pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
Linda4321: @kobojunkie, wake up. Op if u really like the guy, subtly go for him. You can try to be friendly. Nowadays it must not be the guy that makes the first move but he already did, so reciprocate "subtly" enough for him to get the msg. Not all those shallow green light that are hard to understand. If u like him enough to come to NL , also find a way to reconnect with him. He may never approach u again, this is guy's attitude these days. Some of us prefer to simply go for girls that like us than taking the unnecessary stress wooing someone. Those days are gone. Girls are really upgrading, some approach guys for their numbers and strike off a good friendship from there. Just go for what u want, who cares; what a man can do, women can do better. Girls have approached me in Nigeria not just abroad and it's a worthy experience. I really value such women. Op make your move! 3 Likes |
Re: How I Disregarded A Guy And He No Longer Talks To Me by Kobojunkie: 9:42pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
promisedeco:um.. I wasn't trying to be smart, but literal , here. Also, I fail to see how any of what you posted above relates to this topic or my comment to you. Again... Kobojunkie:If we are to instead assume that a previous bond exists between my person and the one who uttered the word "goodnight", then and only then can we begin to consider such things as whether the word was spoken in connotative voice or not. However, in the OP'S case, it isn't indicated that a bond existed prior to that fateful encounter so it makes no sense to suggest possible connotations where there really isn't evidence for it. 1 Like |
Re: How I Disregarded A Guy And He No Longer Talks To Me by Kobojunkie: 9:49pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
richie3384:1. It is 2:43 PM here. Already done with my nap! 2. You are actually here advising the gal to make the first moves on the guy, this with so many out there still clinging to the idea that ladies who make the first move are respected and even loose women? 3. Ah, I see! So you "value" such women who approached you first but how long was your longest relationship with any of them? 1 Like |
Re: How I Disregarded A Guy And He No Longer Talks To Me by promisedeco(m): 10:00pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:@bolded Too bad However, let me try one last time. The the guy was offended by what OP said - which by the way is literary not a bad response from her. However, what I'm taking into account here is HOW SHE SAID IT. which is why I brought in my grandmum's cliche. Could be her body language, could be her tone that got him upset. That's why I mentioned connotative and denotative meanings. If you don't get it now then I can't help you 1 Like |
Re: How I Disregarded A Guy And He No Longer Talks To Me by Shegzdave: 10:19pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:You love meaningless arguments. In a bid to sound smart, you end up sounding otherwise. 5 Likes |
Re: How I Disregarded A Guy And He No Longer Talks To Me by Kobojunkie: 10:24pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
Shegzdave:Waka pass if this is a win or die affair for you abeg! 1 Like |
Re: How I Disregarded A Guy And He No Longer Talks To Me by Shegzdave: 10:28pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:So you dey people dey catch cruise abi wetin |
Re: How I Disregarded A Guy And He No Longer Talks To Me by Kobojunkie: 10:29pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
promisedeco:1. And i have already severally state that there is absolutely no reason given in the story by the Op for the guy to have been offended by what she claimed she said. 2. I no dey engage in coulda-woulda-shoulda debates abeg. 1 Like |
Re: How I Disregarded A Guy And He No Longer Talks To Me by promisedeco(m): 10:35pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Forgive me for engaging you. As the guy above rightly said you indulge in meaningless arguments. Have a good night sweetie 6 Likes |
Re: How I Disregarded A Guy And He No Longer Talks To Me by Richarlison640(m): 10:38pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
Same tin happened to me last week the girl day do POS for front of my house I like her and I always stire at her so last week my younger brother wanted me to sub his phone just as I promise him earlier I decided to send him 2k went to her but network was disturbing so I ask her to send it when the nework is available I didn't see her dat day again and my younger brother didn't call me so the next day on way to work she was coming to shop so my plan was to approach her and ask wether the transfer was successful as I was coming close this girl turn to another direction I try calling her she no answer me and she was very close to her shop I was totally disappointed maybe she thinks say I want toast her well I still like her Shar but no more stirring at her me now am tired of shakara anyway later I go woo her, as for Linda try talking to him believe me that guy tinks you're not interested in him try make am kno say you get interest na woman you be you know how you go take do am |
Re: How I Disregarded A Guy And He No Longer Talks To Me by cowardafonja: 10:49pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
McEphiks: |
Re: How I Disregarded A Guy And He No Longer Talks To Me by FahBuLous: 11:39pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
siofra:How useless is your dad?? Low useless or very high, abi he is the chief of all the useless men? |
Re: How I Disregarded A Guy And He No Longer Talks To Me by AgentGoat: 11:45pm On Mar 09, 2022 |
Linda4321: Na unnecessary shakara you did which is consistent with nigerian ladies. Hiss 5 Likes |
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