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Re: I Don't Regret Marrying But Am Not Happy At All by NeoWanZaeed(m): 9:30pm On Mar 09, 2022
hussey1149:
financial help for his business

Oh.. now I understand.

Think twice.. even thrice before thinking of loans..


The best he can do is to add another job to this present job. That might ease things a bit
Re: I Don't Regret Marrying But Am Not Happy At All by Nicepoker(m): 9:31pm On Mar 09, 2022
A woman needs help here. All the evening newspapers have disappeared. Broke things.

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Re: I Don't Regret Marrying But Am Not Happy At All by Nobody: 9:31pm On Mar 09, 2022
NeoWanZaeed:


Oh.. now I understand.

Think twice.. even thrice before thinking of loans..


The best he can do is to add another job to this present job. That might ease things a bit
ok sir thank you for the advice
Re: I Don't Regret Marrying But Am Not Happy At All by Localgrandpa: 9:37pm On Mar 09, 2022
Sorry

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Re: I Don't Regret Marrying But Am Not Happy At All by Munzy14(m): 10:22pm On Mar 09, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Wrong! Matthew 11 vs 28 - 30 tells you why not. undecided
You no dey tire for this Matthew hand? undecided

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Re: I Don't Regret Marrying But Am Not Happy At All by MP3GAGAdotCOM: 10:31pm On Mar 09, 2022
Run to Jesus Christ..

I don't give this advice to my enemies, but I saw you as a friend in need, that's why I'm telling you this truth.

ONLY JESUS CHRIST CAN TURN THINGS AROUND.

Note: Even if you get the said 20k, your life problems are not even halfway solved.

Life is a journey and without CHRIST, all your journeys will be in CRISIS. embarassed

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Re: I Don't Regret Marrying But Am Not Happy At All by tensazangetsu20(m): 10:33pm On Mar 09, 2022
Poverty in marriage and poverty when single are two different things entirely sad. Op I know where you are coming from. I havent experienced it but I have seen it a lot in my family. God is your strength.

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Re: I Don't Regret Marrying But Am Not Happy At All by Kobojunkie: 10:33pm On Mar 09, 2022
MP3GAGAdotCOM:
Run to Jesus Christ..

I don't give this advice to my enemies, but I saw you as a friend in need, that's why I'm telling you this truth.

ONLY JESUS CHRIST CAN TURN THINGS AROUND.

Note: Even if you get the said 20k, your life problems are not even halfway solved.

Life is a journey and without CHRIST, all your journeys will be in CRISIS. embarassed
Run to Jesus Christ for money or for what exactly? undecided

Read Matthew 11 vs 28 - 30 so you clearly learn those who Jesus Christ actually calls to Himself instead. undecided

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Re: I Don't Regret Marrying But Am Not Happy At All by MP3GAGAdotCOM: 10:46pm On Mar 09, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Run to Jesus Christ for money or for what exactly? undecided

Read Matthew 11 vs 28 - 30 so you clearly learn those who Jesus Christ actually calls to Himself instead. undecided
Oga, you certainly don't know the scripture. Every infirmity is a load (poverty, sickness, etc).. You think is when one carry 50bags of garri that he needs to run to Christ. grin

My condition was worse than this, but now, I'm a living testimony and still urging others to come and receive their own turnaround from Master Jesus.
Our God don't segregate, so long as you call upon Him with a Pure and Genuine heart.
Re: I Don't Regret Marrying But Am Not Happy At All by Kobojunkie: 10:51pm On Mar 09, 2022
MP3GAGAdotCOM:

Oga, you certainly don't know the scripture. Every infirmity is a load (poverty, sickness, etc).. You think is when one carry 50bags of garri that he needs to run to Christ. grin

My condition was worst than this, but now, I'm a living testimony and still urging others to come and receive their own turnaround from Master Jesus.
Jesus Christ healed thousands of people, many of whom did not in fact believe in Him - they believed in God to heal them - but of those thousands, only a handful He called to Himself as followers
And the reason is stated in Matthew 11 vs 28 - 30 undecided

If you are not ready to rid yourself of the cares of this world, your house, home, career, job, family, friends, etc., Jesus Christ is not for you. undecided

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Re: I Don't Regret Marrying But Am Not Happy At All by abokikhalifa: 10:54pm On Mar 09, 2022
JomasisTech:
No details on what happened, so how can we help you? Nevertheless, may your happiness be restored. Amen

Amebo, even if she gives full details will you help them ?

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Re: I Don't Regret Marrying But Am Not Happy At All by MP3GAGAdotCOM: 11:01pm On Mar 09, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Jesus Christ healed thousands of people, many of whom did not in fact believe in Him - they believe in God to heal them - but of those thousands, only a handful is what He called to Himself as followers
And the reason is stated in Matthew 11 vs 28 - 30 undecided

If you are not ready to rid yourself of the cards or thi world, your house, home, career, job, family, friends, etc., Jesus Christ is not for you. undecided
Ok, then why is so many testifying about the riches and wealth He gave them? Are they daft to understand who helped them?
Oga, God told us that 'His ways and our ways are not the same'.

Stop discouraging people, you are not God and will never speak for Him. You don't even understand 2% of His ways.

Just pack well abeg. I don't even know if you belong to God sef, or you are trying to scare people away from Him, mtcheew.

I just checked your profile, all the erotic topics you created have said it all. You know nothing about Christianity and Jesus Christ.
Re: I Don't Regret Marrying But Am Not Happy At All by Help2020: 11:04pm On Mar 09, 2022
nickyj19:
The only solution to this is JESUS.
Is the prince of peace,both of you need to accept
jesus christ as your lord and your personal savour.
Wetin Jesus wan do for here nan? Everything Jesus.

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Re: I Don't Regret Marrying But Am Not Happy At All by MP3GAGAdotCOM: 11:06pm On Mar 09, 2022
Atheists (The Anti-Christ) have hijacked this thread to deceive those they can deceive.
I'm certainly not among them because I know the God I serve grin grin

To every Christian; don't let them influence you with their frustrated and impoverished life. The devil has hardened their minds with poverty, so as to think that Jesus Christ is the cause of their suffering. I use to think this way before, but now; Christ have opened my eyes to see the deceitful tricks of the devil.

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Re: I Don't Regret Marrying But Am Not Happy At All by Kobojunkie: 11:10pm On Mar 09, 2022
MP3GAGAdotCOM:

1. Ok, then why is so many testifying about the riches and wealth He gave them? Are the daft to understand who helped them?

2. Oga, God told us that 'His ways and our ways are not the same'.

3. Stop discouraging people, you are not God and will never speak for Him. You don't even understand 2% of His ways. Just pack well abeg. I don't even know if you belong to God sef, or you are trying to scare people away from Him, mtcheew.
1. Many in the world also have the same wealth and riches all from similar sources, so is God really the source of the wealth claim or the world's system which it is all sourced from? undecided

2. God's Way? Recall that Jesus Christ said, "I am THE WAY, the Truth and the Life....". So,if God's Way is Jesus Christ, and Jesus Christ said only those who are willing to abandon it all can come to Him, surely you see how God's Way is definitely not our way in this sense. undecided

3. Jesus Christ sent His followers out to teach His Truth, so how could it be said that I discourage people when what I do is teach His Truth as decreed even in Matthew 11 vs 28 - 30 ? undecided

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Re: I Don't Regret Marrying But Am Not Happy At All by Kobojunkie: 11:12pm On Mar 09, 2022
MP3GAGAdotCOM:
Atheists (The Anti-Christ) have hijacked this thread to deceive those they can deceive.
I'm certainly not among them because I know the God I serve grin grin

To every Christian; don't let them influence you with their frustrated and impoverished life, the devil has hardened their minds with poverty, so as to think that Jesus Christ is the cause of their suffering. Men of doom embarassed
If you claim to be a Christian, and what Jesus Christ proclaimed in Matthew 11 vs 28 - 30 means nothing to you, surely you can see how that can be construed as a lack of belief on your part in the Truth, Jesus Christ?

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Re: I Don't Regret Marrying But Am Not Happy At All by nickyj19: 11:14pm On Mar 09, 2022
Help2020:
Wetin Jesus wan do for here nan? Everything Jesus.
u need him brother

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Re: I Don't Regret Marrying But Am Not Happy At All by Kobojunkie: 11:18pm On Mar 09, 2022
nickyj19:
u need him brother
You all need Him if you are ready to abandon everything - quit your job, career, family etc.,
- for His sake, else it is all meaningless. undecided
Re: I Don't Regret Marrying But Am Not Happy At All by MP3GAGAdotCOM: 11:20pm On Mar 09, 2022
Kobojunkie:
If you claim to be a Christian, and what Jesus Christ proclaimed in Matthew 11 vs 28 - 30 means nothing to you, surely you can see how that can be construed as a lack of belief on your part in the Truth, Jesus Christ?
I draw people to Christ - I don't send them out.
Judging by your human standard, then Jesus Christ won't have saved the prostitute who was about to be stoned to death.

Oga, you can't understand the magnitude of JESUS love for mankind.
Stop discouraging people, you don't speak for God.
God can punish you for this, don't say I didn't warn you.
Re: I Don't Regret Marrying But Am Not Happy At All by Nobody: 11:22pm On Mar 09, 2022
I wish all this argument could stop.
All I need is 20k to complete our rent for now. It's all we need please help us.
Re: I Don't Regret Marrying But Am Not Happy At All by Kobojunkie: 11:26pm On Mar 09, 2022
MP3GAGAdotCOM:

1. I draw people to Christ - I don't send them out.
Judging by your human standard, then Jesus Christ won't have saved the prostitute who was about to be stoned to death.

2. Oga, you can't understand the magnitude of JESUS love for mankind.
Stop discouraging people, you don't speak for God.
God can punish you for this, don't say I didn't warn you.
1. So you assume that by telling people the Truth of Jesus Christ, as contained in His very gospel teachings, I instead send people away? undecided

So if the actual Gospel repels them, what exactly do you claim to draw them with? Lies? undecided

2. The magnitude of the same Jesus Christ whose teachings, which I post , repel the people, or the Jesus Christ whose Gospel you reject so you can draw peope into the delusion that you feed them instead? undecided

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Re: I Don't Regret Marrying But Am Not Happy At All by Awkabigboy: 11:36pm On Mar 09, 2022
hussey1149:
Getting married to a good man is very good.
We share everything together happiness joy pain secrets etc. But things keep getting worse by day it's getting to the point where am breaking down myself I feel his pain I supported him that is why I share his problem I find solutions on my own I hide all my pains just to comfort him and stop him from losing his mind and doing something we will forever regret but I can't bear it anymore what do I do?
We are losing our home because of 20k.

We planned business like POS business for him.
And a hair saloon for me but we were unable to start the business because of money what else can we do?
I just hope this is not a scam format , I no trust nija guys
Re: I Don't Regret Marrying But Am Not Happy At All by MP3GAGAdotCOM: 11:55pm On Mar 09, 2022
Kobojunkie:
1. So you assume that by telling people the Truth of Jesus Christ, as contained in His very gospel teachings, I instead send people away? undecided

So if the actual Gospel repels them, what exactly do you claim to draw them with? Lies? undecided

2. The magnitude of the same Jesus Christ whose teachings, which I post , repel the people, or the Jesus Christ whose Gospel you reject so you can draw peope into the delusion that you feed them instead? undecided
I don't have energy to waste.. First, go and delete the erotic articles you created on your profile. Christians don't create such nonsense articles. grin
Re: I Don't Regret Marrying But Am Not Happy At All by Kobojunkie: 12:00am On Mar 10, 2022
MP3GAGAdotCOM:

I don't have energy to waste.. First, go and delete the erotic articles you created on your profile. Christians don't create such nonsense articles. grin
Erotic articles? What do you mean by that? undecided

Why would I need to create a new profile for you? Do you fancy yourself a god or something?, undecided

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Re: I Don't Regret Marrying But Am Not Happy At All by Paramount01(m): 12:12am On Mar 10, 2022
hussey1149:
Getting married to a good man is very good.
We share everything together happiness joy pain secrets etc. But things keep getting worse by day it's getting to the point where am breaking down myself I feel his pain I supported him that is why I share his problem I find solutions on my own I hide all my pains just to comfort him and stop him from losing his mind and doing something we will forever regret but I can't bear it anymore what do I do?
We are losing our home because of 20k.

We planned business like POS business for him.
And a hair saloon for me but we were unable to start the business because of money what else can we do?



Who initiated the marriage? Him or you
Re: I Don't Regret Marrying But Am Not Happy At All by MP3GAGAdotCOM: 12:16am On Mar 10, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Erotic articles? What do you mean by that? undecided

Why would I need to create a new profile for you? Do you fancy yourself a god or something?, undecided
Mtcheeww

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Re: I Don't Regret Marrying But Am Not Happy At All by rickleye: 12:35am On Mar 10, 2022
hussey1149:
Getting married to a good man is very good.
We share everything together happiness joy pain secrets etc. But things keep getting worse by day it's getting to the point where am breaking down myself I feel his pain I supported him that is why I share his problem I find solutions on my own I hide all my pains just to comfort him and stop him from losing his mind and doing something we will forever regret but I can't bear it anymore what do I do?
We are losing our home because of 20k.

We planned business like POS business for him.
And a hair saloon for me but we were unable to start the business because of money what else can we do?

So the 20k is for hair saloon stuff or what ?
Re: I Don't Regret Marrying But Am Not Happy At All by luminouz(m): 1:08am On Mar 10, 2022
Paramount01:




Who initiated the marriage? Him or you
Na you!!!

What a lame ass question!!! undecided

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Re: I Don't Regret Marrying But Am Not Happy At All by Fiscus105(m): 4:32am On Mar 10, 2022
hussey1149:
Getting married to a good man is very good.
We share everything together happiness joy pain secrets etc. But things keep getting worse by day it's getting to the point where am breaking down myself I feel his pain I supported him that is why I share his problem I find solutions on my own I hide all my pains just to comfort him and stop him from losing his mind and doing something we will forever regret but I can't bear it anymore what do I do?
We are losing our home because of 20k.

We planned business like POS business for him.
And a hair saloon for me but we were unable to start the business because of money what else can we do?

I think some people here say jobless man can go for marriage.

Marriage takes whole lot of responsibilities, therefore marriage meant for guy (most especially), who is working and having income, thou its also good for lady to have income as well o.

If you don't sort that aspect out first before venturing into marriage, this is one of outcomes of such marriage.

No matter how you love ur man, if he is not bringing money home to power such marriage , the marriage will become toxic jare

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Re: I Don't Regret Marrying But Am Not Happy At All by November24(f): 6:04am On Mar 10, 2022
nickyj19:
The only solution to this is JESUS.
Is the prince of peace,both of you need to accept
jesus christ as your lord and your personal savour.

Stop that.. Did she say she was an unbeliever. Christians suffers because we don't help each other. Read ur Bible, the early church had Christ , yet still sold all they had and distributed the wwealth in the spirit of equity

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Re: I Don't Regret Marrying But Am Not Happy At All by toujurs: 6:11am On Mar 10, 2022
I knew the problem won't exceed financial crisis, the moment i saw that heading by a woman. Most of you women think marriage is to make you happy, and foe that reason the man should always do everything all alone just to make you happy, its a union, meaning you both would share each other's problems. Two heads are better than one.
Re: I Don't Regret Marrying But Am Not Happy At All by jaxxy(m): 7:25am On Mar 10, 2022
hussey1149:
Getting married to a good man is very good.
We share everything together happiness joy pain secrets etc. But things keep getting worse by day it's getting to the point where am breaking down myself I feel his pain I supported him that is why I share his problem I find solutions on my own I hide all my pains just to comfort him and stop him from losing his mind and doing something we will forever regret but I can't bear it anymore what do I do?
We are losing our home because of 20k.

We planned business like POS business for him.
And a hair saloon for me but we were unable to start the business because of money what else can we do?


Love doesn’t replace or substitute for planning ur life. Don’t carry sm1’s burden for him when he isn’t ready to carry it aswell.

He is trying to find solutions to his financial problems?? Then why isn’t it working?? Check the reasons for this and make some adjustments.

It’s not easy and might even be dangerous to carry ur burden along with Sm1 else’s burden for so long so make sure u rest and take a break so u don’t breakdown.

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