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Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by Drsnives(m): 12:31pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
lecturer50: No be for where i dea.. I fo follow manhandle the woman like say tomorrow no dea.. women dea disgust me cos na fake life dem dea live 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by Omotosho1090905(m): 12:32pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Plus Men are quick to confide in women than in any other man 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by AbosedeFalade(f): 12:32pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
ok 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by marsup: 12:33pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
That's because you don't have breasts and a vagina. It's a normal thing all over the world. Sorry for the beatings you collected. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by NaijaCuzin: 12:34pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Iyaebe:should I send aza? |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by pansophist(m): 12:36pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Rubbish. Your writeup is nothing more than confirmation bias. Men help fellow men than they will ever help women. Lots of men are crashing on their male friends couch now. Go to Ladipo market, oshodi, infact all markets, business, it's men helping other men. The uber drivers are cars owned by other men. Where should I even start from sef? 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by Nobody: 12:36pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
OP it is what it is.. Just Man Up. There are severally occasions where the women are underrated too.. you dont want to talk about that abi. Stop playing the victim cards. To me na women them dey ride most for this world self. Look at the national assembly matter too? Oga Be a Man.. stop Ranting . 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by XDaBOSS(m): 12:36pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Nairaland this days, if no be man matter na woman matter. Una no de tire? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by Blue86(m): 12:36pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
That's a characteristic of simps. |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by ictplotter(m): 12:37pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
I don't help females and i will never help them because of this receivers entitlement and mentality in them. Helping ur fellow man in need, mine not giv you immediately result but its a generational investment. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by Angelfrost(m): 12:38pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
I honestly don't understand this thread... Seriously now! |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by NOETHNICITY(m): 12:39pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
I help more men than women 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by HitSong: 12:39pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
lecturer50:You are probably a girl disguising as a male or a girl in a boy's skin. |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by CSTRR: 12:41pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
I hate such men with a passion. The woman wrapper kind of men. When I was in school, those men are the type of men will pack all the girls besides the road on a rainy day with the car and leave the guys in the rain. Those girls won't even say anything on our behalf. It happened to me many times as a student and now that I have my own car, I no dey carry women for road. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by Timoleon(m): 12:42pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Is this not contradictory to the topic? If men always run to men for help,( and many do get help if not they won’t keep running to men) why then is the topic saying men don’t help men? From the original posts itself, you claimed you had misunderstandings with agberos and they teamed up to beat you up. This itself is contradictory to the topic too. If the story is true, you most likely had a misunderstanding with one agbero and his guys who of course are men came to help him and they all beat you up. In this instance, the fact that you were not the one receiving help did not mean that men did not help each other. The men helped each other to beat you up and you probably deserved it. This is the same fate Ukraine is facing waiting for others to come and help when they could have avoided a fight all along. Clear road abeg! lecturer50: 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by Lonewolf2010(f): 12:42pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
It’s Simple and direct. They low key don’t like the progress of their gender. Guys know how to cover up these things. |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by cococandy(f): 12:43pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Because they are not really helping the ladies for help’s sake, they are positioning themselves in a place where they can gain trust and then get something in return. That’s just generally speaking not necessarily for the narrative the OP described. Before you quote me to argue, ask yourself why y’all blame ladies for accepting “help” from guys if they are not ready to pay back in kind. That’s because you know the so called help wasn’t sincere to begin with. 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by cococandy(f): 12:44pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
So men do help other men or not? Be clear lecturer50: |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by frowland(m): 12:44pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
lecturer50: Your choice of words is quite funny. |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by Crafteck1: 12:44pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
What insentive is there? In most cases theres nothing visibly in sight to get back, also this question is usually from men who have nothing to offer but will table their wants for someone, they are ususally ungrateful people, if you are there for a friend or you are known not to be tight fisted other men would help. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by diogo23: 12:46pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
lecturer50:When you have do you help others? |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by RaymondEasyLife(m): 12:46pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
lecturer50:. You made a point Sir, Very Ironical 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by cococandy(f): 12:47pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Omotosho1090905: Maybe they confided in their significant others? If you’re in an intimate relationship with someone of the opposite gender (as most people are), chances are you’ll confide in them before outsiders. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by Timoleon(m): 12:47pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Why would a responsible person be fighting agbero? What point does he want to prove? Slynation: |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by Tomilola360: 12:49pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
heya, sorry ehn. As for me, weda u b man or woman, I would just walk by. |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by Grandmeister(m): 12:50pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
lecturer50:I must be from mars. Most financial helps I’ve rendered are to guys..and my guys have always been there to bail me out and I’m grateful for the friends I have. |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by digitite: 12:50pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Only God can help anyone. |
Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by moneyissweet(m): 12:50pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Op, it depends on your birth element and who you are. All my life , woman has been the one watering and softing groud for me. I have never got any help from any man, even when I am in danger woman will be the one to help me out. Some say because I am handsome, but this is beyond ordinary. It becomes so clear when A woman I met once at airport in UAE came to Dubai for shopping and asked my useless male friends about me and they mockingly told her that I am languishing in Prison in Abu Dhabi Maragat jail. She came to the Prison and give me $500. Her name is Grace and She is from Imo state and lives in Owerri. Mrs Grace, If you are on Nairaland, May you continue to soar higher and higher. As for my envious classmates, Useless male friends. Middle finger for all of you. 5 Likes
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Re: Why Do Men Have Problem With Helping A Fellow Man? My Experience. by Onlinebar: 12:52pm On Mar 12, 2022 |
Stop spreading baseless lies. Most guys are willing to help their fellow guys as long as they know the value of hardwork. 2 Likes |
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