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pocohantas:
Funny how simps have happy homes and redpillers are cursing their mothers on frontpage.

eyinjuege:
Wonders shall never end.
Anyway, you've overplayed your hand
She will sooner or later show you her cards

Didn't you know she likes wearing skimpy dresses b4 u married her?

I'm sure it's her skimpy dressing that attracted you

Meanwhile, locking her out was very FOOLISH of you. You didn't care about her safety.
You exposed her to armed robbers, kidnappers, rapists, ritual killers. You risked her life "because of skimpy dress."

You are NOT fit to be a husband. SHAME ON YOU!!!

Nacoss25:
Good day my people. Ignore my wrong sentences please.
It all started like this.
On Sunday my wife wore a dress am uncomfortable with and which is unexpected of a married woman(I mean the gown was too short), when we came back from church I told her never to where such dress again to church she then picked offence that I always complain about her dress being too short, (My wife love skimpy dresses alot which I don't like) I was still talking she walked out on me went and stayed outside like someone who was chased out of the house, she stayed outside for about an hour and later came in and started dressing up to go for an evening program in church, I then told her not to go to anywhere in need us to talk, why I told her not to go is so we can settle the issues. She insisted that she must go that I can't stop her, I repeated my statement telling her not to go that I want us to talk she insisted on going. While she was about to leave I forcefully siezed the house keys from her and let her go, this happened around 5.30pm.
I love seeing my woman in short dresses but not wearing them to church.
On reaching the time she is expected to come back home around 7.30pm I left the house without dropping the house keys anywhere to a hotel and lodged there, she waited outside still around 10pm and sent me a text that do I want to sleep outside I did not reply her, she now called Me i picked and told her to go and sleep where she went to since she has the guts to disrespect mess her husband that am in a hotel at the moment to pass the night there and ended the call she called till 11pm and also sent text messages begging for forgiveness, she then called my younger brother who then called me too begging me to go back home I never picked her call and I switched off my phone.
I came back home around 5am only to discover that she slept on a bench in the veranda.
My people I want ask a question.
Don't I as a husband have the right to tell my wife not to dress certain way or don't I have the right to tell her not to go out, mind you am not the authoritative kind of husband but on this one I need to stamp my authority as the head of my family.
My wife is a good woman and I love so so much, I just needed to discipline her.
Our marriage is two months old.

Nacoss25:
Good day my people. Ignore my wrong sentences please.
It all started like this.
On Sunday my wife wore a dress am uncomfortable with and which is unexpected of a married woman(I mean the gown was too short), when we came back from church I told her never to where such dress again to church she then picked offence that I always complain about her dress being too short, (My wife love skimpy dresses alot which I don't like) I was still talking she walked out on me went and stayed outside like someone who was chased out of the house, she stayed outside for about an hour and later came in and started dressing up to go for an evening program in church, I then told her not to go to anywhere in need us to talk, why I told her not to go is so we can settle the issues. She insisted that she must go that I can't stop her, I repeated my statement telling her not to go that I want us to talk she insisted on going. While she was about to leave I forcefully siezed the house keys from her and let her go, this happened around 5.30pm.
I love seeing my woman in short dresses but not wearing them to church.
On reaching the time she is expected to come back home around 7.30pm I left the house without dropping the house keys anywhere to a hotel and lodged there, she waited outside still around 10pm and sent me a text that do I want to sleep outside I did not reply her, she now called Me i picked and told her to go and sleep where she went to since she has the guts to disrespect mess her husband that am in a hotel at the moment to pass the night there and ended the call she called till 11pm and also sent text messages begging for forgiveness, she then called my younger brother who then called me too begging me to go back home I never picked her call and I switched off my phone.
I came back home around 5am only to discover that she slept on a bench in the veranda.
My people I want ask a question.
Don't I as a husband have the right to tell my wife not to dress certain way or don't I have the right to tell her not to go out, mind you am not the authoritative kind of husband but on this one I need to stamp my authority as the head of my family.
My wife is a good woman and I love so so much, I just needed to discipline her.
Our marriage is two months old.

Romanoff:
I wonder how she disciplines you when you misbehave.

Or only you have a monopoly of being the disciplinarian in the marriage?

I see immaturity all over your post and if you continue like this, you will run out of ways to "discipline" your wife.

What is wrong with waiting till she's in a saner mood to talk? If she had even spoken to you in that mood and it escalated to a quarrel, only God knows what you'd have come here to say.

You knew she loved skimpy dresses before you married her, now you want to force her to change to suit your idea of a "married woman".

Una no go follow una spec, you'll marry a woman and frustrate her into what she's not because you're the "husband".

When that woman begin show you pepper now, you won't tell us how you've forced her to be what she's not.

We dey wait for you for front. Continue o.

pocohantas:
Funny how simps have happy homes and redpillers are cursing their mothers on frontpage.

spartan117:
Redpillers and toxic feminists end up in unhappy relationships.

It takes a couple who love and respects each other and also recognise as well as adhere to the God ordained marital roles for a marriage to work.

pocohantas:
I don’t know of your God and his design, but yes, it takes two respectful mumus to have a good marriage.

Blunttruth:
You did well. It's better than beating her. But next time don't lock her out. You can leave the house ,come home to change and go out. Don't eat her food or the other food. That's enough.

Didn't you know she likes wearing skimpy dresses b4 u married her?

I'm sure it's her skimpy dressing that attracted you

Meanwhile, locking her out was very FOOLISH of you. You didn't care about her safety.
You exposed her to armed robbers, kidnappers, rapists, ritual killers. You risked her life "because of skimpy dress."

You are NOT fit to be a husband. SHAME ON YOU!!!

Nacoss25:
Good day my people. Ignore my wrong sentences please.
It all started like this.
On Sunday my wife wore a dress am uncomfortable with and which is unexpected of a married woman(I mean the gown was too short), when we came back from church I told her never to where such dress again to church she then picked offence that I always complain about her dress being too short, (My wife love skimpy dresses alot which I don't like) I was still talking she walked out on me went and stayed outside like someone who was chased out of the house, she stayed outside for about an hour and later came in and started dressing up to go for an evening program in church, I then told her not to go to anywhere in need us to talk, why I told her not to go is so we can settle the issues. She insisted that she must go that I can't stop her, I repeated my statement telling her not to go that I want us to talk she insisted on going. While she was about to leave I forcefully siezed the house keys from her and let her go, this happened around 5.30pm.
I love seeing my woman in short dresses but not wearing them to church.
On reaching the time she is expected to come back home around 7.30pm I left the house without dropping the house keys anywhere to a hotel and lodged there, she waited outside still around 10pm and sent me a text that do I want to sleep outside I did not reply her, she now called Me i picked and told her to go and sleep where she went to since she has the guts to disrespect mess her husband that am in a hotel at the moment to pass the night there and ended the call she called till 11pm and also sent text messages begging for forgiveness, she then called my younger brother who then called me too begging me to go back home I never picked her call and I switched off my phone.
I came back home around 5am only to discover that she slept on a bench in the veranda.
My people I want ask a question.
Don't I as a husband have the right to tell my wife not to dress certain way or don't I have the right to tell her not to go out, mind you am not the authoritative kind of husband but on this one I need to stamp my authority as the head of my family.
My wife is a good woman and I love so so much, I just needed to discipline her.
Our marriage is two months old.

Mokason288:
If a man keeps repeating

I’m the MAN IN THE HOUSE

I’m the MAN OF THIS HOUSE

seriously he is NOT

Romanoff:
See advice o.

Advising a married man to not eat food bought with his money over a disagreement in 2022.

Women, should we tell them?

This format no dey work again na.

360degreess:
Typical feminists way of thinking, that's why most of you are suffering in marriages.The husband is the head of the house, accept this reality and have peace of mind.. What he did was absolutely right.Infact, she can get worst treatment from other men.

raymondhillmimi:
Right Abi, you are among the red pillars that helped him crash the marriage. Now that he is crying and seeking for a way to reunite with his wife una don run leave am. Red Mumu Association.

Kobojunkiee:
Reunite ke?

raymondhillmimi:
Ah.. you haven't seen his new post .. My question are where are those idiots backing him up. They typically encouraged him till she left him, what the OP didn't know was he was being encouraged by 19-year-old kids.

DaniDani:
Why are you Yoruba people mentioning me all the time? Pls what does danidani mean in Yoruba language?

Romanoff:
Leave him alone. He's waiting for Nairaland children to hail him and award him a redpill certificate.

After he has ruined his marriage, he will still come back here and we go dey wait.

MODIFIED

Like say I be prophet.

Op done ruin him marriage and as usual, he came back here to tell us and we are here reading about it.

Simran94:
Well well well

His wife has finally left him to go to her parents house but your fellow “redpiller” has turned to a SIMP looking for her.

FreeSpirited:
Good riddance to bad rubbish

Nacoss25:
Good day my people. Ignore my wrong sentences please.
It all started like this.
On Sunday my wife wore a dress am uncomfortable with and which is unexpected of a married woman(I mean the gown was too short), when we came back from church I told her never to where such dress again to church she then picked offence that I always complain about her dress being too short, (My wife love skimpy dresses alot which I don't like) I was still talking she walked out on me went and stayed outside like someone who was chased out of the house, she stayed outside for about an hour and later came in and started dressing up to go for an evening program in church, I then told her not to go to anywhere in need us to talk, why I told her not to go is so we can settle the issues. She insisted that she must go that I can't stop her, I repeated my statement telling her not to go that I want us to talk she insisted on going. While she was about to leave I forcefully siezed the house keys from her and let her go, this happened around 5.30pm.
I love seeing my woman in short dresses but not wearing them to church.
On reaching the time she is expected to come back home around 7.30pm I left the house without dropping the house keys anywhere to a hotel and lodged there, she waited outside still around 10pm and sent me a text that do I want to sleep outside I did not reply her, she now called Me i picked and told her to go and sleep where she went to since she has the guts to disrespect mess her husband that am in a hotel at the moment to pass the night there and ended the call she called till 11pm and also sent text messages begging for forgiveness, she then called my younger brother who then called me too begging me to go back home I never picked her call and I switched off my phone.
I came back home around 5am only to discover that she slept on a bench in the veranda.
My people I want ask a question.
Don't I as a husband have the right to tell my wife not to dress certain way or don't I have the right to tell her not to go out, mind you am not the authoritative kind of husband but on this one I need to stamp my authority as the head of my family.
My wife is a good woman and I love so so much, I just needed to discipline her.
Our marriage is two months old.

Skullano:
My friend shut up there, she was comfortable disrespecting him all in the name of going to church but he can't be comfortable to take the decisions.

yorubarere:
It was a little bit extreme accepted. But he did right by discipling her nonetheless. Women that can't look their pastors in the eyes will now start disrespecting their men at home. Only foolish men will take that bullshits.

webosky:
You are fool young man, you'll ruin your marriage if you continue like this, so you where comfortably in a hotel room while your newly wedded wife slept in the veranda and you have the guts to post it here, always remember that women don't forget.

newdawn2017:
u re a Rabid animal, full of urself. I married a slave. U "forcefully seized d house key from her" u proud coward. Who do u think u re to dish out orders like that to a fellow adult? Re u d owner of d church? Did they complain to u? Is she d only lady that wears such skimpy clothes to church? I will deal with u d street way if I was that woman love will immediately end in my heart for u. U demonic narcissistic sociopathic entity!