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oga HARDDON , abeg there's dis female frnd that i've known 4 more than 5yrs. no sex , no kiss , sometimes we hug each other. we are not dating. we gist , visit each other, sometimes i sleep over in her place. d last time(august las yr) i visited her, i was in d bathroom. i no dey put password 4 ma phone. she collect ma phone, started checking whatsapp mesg. she saw a lady, she said "u wey be gay dey toast woman, wonders shall never end" i told her i'm not gay biko. we slept off in d same bed. in d morning she said i shld massage her leg. she wore a "pink tight" me raising one leg up wit my hand, d eyes will b staring @ d shape of her veejay. ma dickson nearly disgraced me.

so ysdy , around 7:30am she called 2 wish me a happy valentine. we were talking wen a male neigbor knocked on my door. i opened d door , greeted him told d lady caller that i'll call her bak asap. d guy left, i called her. she said " all dis ur gay frnds, so girls no dey ur lodge"?

i've decided to shine her congo asap. however , she has a boyfriend! distance relationship boyfriend. she told me abt her sexual history, how she broke up wit her 1st bf. i feel like if i chop her kpekus , the friendship go die. she will like to take it to d next level. I no sabi do relationship. I get bored easily & start keeping distance or seeing other girls. HARDDON abeg ur advice is needed.

post delated

but ma no lie approach part dey give me wahala ooo
from working d courage to approach to knowing d right thing to say ( openers) na wahala make ona help me
give me practical ways from on seeing d girl to d opener stuff

Jewelprince41:
but ma no lie approach part dey give me wahala ooo
from working d courage to approach to knowing d right thing to say ( openers) na wahala make ona help me
give me practical ways from on seeing d girl to d opener stuff

Just as with everything you are good at now, you must learn.

the only innate things we were born with are; sucking of breasts as tender babes and getting attracted to the opposite gender. We learned ever other thing.

HARDDON:


Just as with everything you are good at now, you must learn.

the only innate things we were born with are; sucking of breasts as tender babes and getting attracted to the opposite gender. We learned ever other thing.

so how do I learn it na

Jewelprince41:

so how do I learn it na

You are sitting on a great starting point resource; this thread.

HARDDON:


You are sitting on a great starting point resource; this thread.

so I should learn it my reading this thread huh....ok after then wat again
btw Harddon lemme ask a question is doing pua a good stuff am asking cos I just started reading dre stuff wanna know which one to follow – your or dem

HARDDON:


You are sitting on a great starting point resource; this thread.

Oga harddon I respect your consistency... I have been to this thread for more than a year now. I logged in and still see you commenting here... Baba CONSISTENCY.... Respect! You have a heart to help struggling folks, this thread back in the days changed my game for good and used it with wisdom for good.

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SOLARPOWER1:
@HARDDON

I have a question, why would a girl I am trying to corner for a date be inviting to a group discussion with other members of the hostel...I just moved to s new apartment with several other students living in shared flats. This is what she wrote below, when I asked her how she spends her free time, I just wanted her to talk before telling her to come along if she is free to an outing I am planning for myself.

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But some nights we get together with some people from your flat. Maybe you can join us the next time.

I'll let you know the next time we were gathering
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That is what she wrote above, I was just angry, did I tell her I want to join crowd discussion? This is a bad signal to me, like she is not really giving me the green light as I expected.... What's your interpretation on this ?

Maybe she's trying to tell you that you can find the kind of people you want in my gathering or come see the kind of friendship I want from u..
Tell her you will come then when it gets to that time,tell her a new chick wants to chill with u in an eatery..

I wanna start reading the thread from the start again but before dat Harddon did u delete any of the post in the thread I wanna know before I start reading

Jewelprince41:
I wanna start reading the thread from the start again but before dat Harddon did u delete any of the post in the thread I wanna know before I start reading

Not atall

HARDDON:


You are sitting on a great starting point resource; this thread.

Thanks to you I just got my former self back.

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then I bumped into this thread since around 2020...it didnt strike me then till I'm seeing it almost7 years apart and the man HARDDON is still replying

HARDDON:


You are sitting on a great starting point resource; this thread.

....

Gabe427:
then I bumped into this thread since around 2020...it didnt strike me then till I'm seeing it almost7 years apart and the man HARDDON is still replying

I made a promise at the very beginning....

and a man's word should be his bond.

HARDDON:


I made a promise at the very beginning....

and a man's word should be his bond.

Mad o

lakesidepapa:


Good morning HARDDON BABA, Pls how do i get across to you? do you run special courses or have an ebook, stuffs like that?

My heart bleeds everytime I think about this; the fact that I had to put all my one-on-one, 20-to-1, realtime sessions on hold though I haven't reached my set target number of guys yet.
Moments I not only impacted nutty knowledge but learned also from guys from all works of life!

As much as I try to, my table keeps getting full by the day and I can't organise special sessions again.

Hopefully, this thread and my blog, that has been crying for fresh juice even with all the funds we've been paying to keep it alive, can suffice for now.

I am cooking something though....

HARDDON:


My heart bleeds everytime I think about this; the fact that I had to put all my one-on-one, 20-to-1, realtime sessions on hold though I haven't reached my set target number of guys yet.
Moments I not only impacted nutty knowledge but learned also from guys from all works of life!

As much as I try to, my table keeps getting full by the day and I can't organise special sessions again.

Hopefully, this thread and my blog, that has been crying for fresh juice even with all the funds we've been paying to keep it alive, can suffice for now.

I am cooking something though....

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Good day Harddon.
I collected a girl's number from a friend.
And here is our chat.
I need a witty response to her last statement

lakesidepapa:


Okay Boss, I want to win someone's daughter heart for marriage, and I find it hard to read from the beginning of this thread due to my busy schedule.. man is due for marriage, much pressure from left, right and center and I got no good vibe to win woman heart, I want to up my game..

Win someones daughter heart for marriage? Man that's crap actually. If you have the resources to get that married, that automatically makes you the prize! What you should be focused on is getting as much ladies as possible then consider the one who impresses you the most for marriage. Build up your money and confidence first, you will see that women aren't as difficult as you think.

Bottom line is, women should be the one trying to win you over for marriage not the other way around.

Craigbrown4076:


Win someones daughter heart for marriage? Man that's crap actually. If you have the resources to get that married, that automatically makes you the prize! What you should be focused on is getting as much ladies as possible then consider the one who impresses you the most for marriage. Build up your money and confidence first, you will see that women aren't as difficult as you think.

Bottom line is, women should be the one trying to win you over for marriage not the other way around.

Wise word, Thank you sir. Pls how can I contact you?

PeterWilly:
Good day Harddon.
I collected a girl's number from a friend.
And here is our chat.
I need a witty response to her last statement

you started messaging her on the wrong foot, you gave her too much power and she realized it and now put you in a corner with that question

so now you have to work hard to win her over

[quote author=HARDDON post=45035607]DRILL NUGGET 2:
Mr hardon

I’ve been half alpha especially when I started this dating thing u got any girl I wanted, I was well sorted after, aside being cute, dark , tall, brilliant boy stuffing civil engineering I was witty and practice atleast half of the things you said... I find out I wasn’t genuinely interested in this girls anymore after some time , reason being I feel I got them by psychological unbalancing them and I feel they ain’t genuinely interested in me.. I think they are just crazy
Fast forward to years after uni I began to be a nice guy coz I want to marry.. most times I pray and it’s been really hard to get a girl... it’s either the ones I got are only here cause I’m a cutie or most of them are the ones that toast me and I only accept because of companionship. I did want to meet someone and settle but it’s been hell of a journey
Here is the mess I’m in and I need help brother

I met this girl a year ago got the number called. But she don’t pick I keep doing the nice guy thing until I got tired and ignored her met some dates and broke up, inside the relationship she called me and I ignored her , btw we spoke rarely she call and I do too( nice guys convo though) December 2021 I had control I was being nice and bad she was almost certainly in love I could see it..... the thing is I want her cause she hawt and man she a dream to get married to and I set a time frame. so I began to act desperate so I spoke to a frnd of hers to help me find out if it was genuine,she did and told me that the girl response was” why Im not the one speaking to her bout love and relationship ... the frnd now pest me to tell her i love her which I did via letter
Her reply was she just came out from relationship of 3 years she want to take a break and find herself. I said no wahala we could be frnds I might help her if she want
The problem.. she stop taking my calls
She stop calling like before

After reading your drills

I came up with this text I want to send to her
“ hey!! Things haven’t been really rosy with us , I know I am cute but I didn’t think it took you off balance that it’s getting you scared you might forget your family and follow me if you keep conversing with me... regardless what ever it is call me on 20/04/2022 by 6pm I guess you’d be old enough to not be scared of living in my web forever!!!

That date is her birthday though
Please drill me

Mr hardon

I’ve been half alpha especially when I started this dating thing u got any girl I wanted, I was well sorted after, aside being cute, dark , tall, brilliant boy studying civil engineering I was witty and practice atleast half of the things you said... I find out I wasn’t genuinely interested in this girls anymore after some time , reason being I feel I got them by psychological unbalancing them and I feel they ain’t genuinely interested in me.. I think they are just crazy
Fast forward to years after uni I began to be a nice guy coz I want to marry.. most times I pray and it’s been really hard to get a girl... it’s either the ones I got are only here cause I’m a cutie or most of them are the ones that toast me and I only accept because of companionship. I did want to meet someone and settle but it’s been hell of a journey
Here is the mess I’m in and I need help brother

I met this girl a year ago got the number called. But she don’t pick I keep doing the nice guy thing until I got tired and ignored her met some dates and broke up, inside the relationship she called me and I ignored her , btw we spoke rarely she call and I do too( nice guys convo though) December 2021 I had control I was being nice and bad she was almost certainly in love I could see it..... the thing is I want her cause she hawt and man she a dream to get married to and I set a time frame. so I began to act desperate so I spoke to a frnd of hers to help me find out if it was genuine,she did and told me that the girl response was” why Im not the one speaking to her bout love and relationship ... the frnd now pest me to tell her i love her which I did via letter
Her reply was she just came out from relationship of 3 years she want to take a break and find herself. I said no wahala we could be frnds I might help her if she want
The problem.. she stop taking my calls
She stop calling like before

After reading your drills

I came up with this text I want to send to her
“ hey!! Things haven’t been really rosy with us , I know I am cute but I didn’t think it took you off balance that it’s getting you scared you might forget your family and follow me if you keep conversing with me... regardless what ever it is call me on 20/04/2022 by 6pm I guess you’d be old enough to not be scared of living in my web forever!!!

That date is her birthday though
Please drill me

PeterWilly:
Good day Harddon.
I collected a girl's number from a friend.
And here is our chat.
I need a witty response to her last statement

A witty response

You: Now, I have your number, soon i'll have your full attention. Who knows? If you vibe well, then I'mma have your hands... in marriage.

When she replies.

You: (Ignore whatever she replies and spin in another witty line, something like) A big idea? Yea, don't know if 'em sparkles (you can replace this with whatever unique facial feature she has) on you are actually bright, but ermm... I've got my big eye there (idea).

(If she's online, she will be replyin' swiftly to those lines but still formin' hard. Now you can say)

You: She replies before I even blink an eye, (laugh emoji), now I have her full attention. Let's see if I will have her hand... in marriage.

You: First of all, introduction. I'm bla bla bla bla, you?

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I don't expect her to play to script, but hopefully, you get to hold your forte when she comes howling. You started the convo with you below and her up high. But with this, tables just turned.

Really need to see if I've still got it in me but still wouldn't want to waste resources goin' fishing. Anyone got convo they need a crazy response for? Post 'em, let's see what song forms when the D is struck with the G string.