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Is Knowing Your Partner's Phone Password A Big Deal In A Relationship? by Dazall: 11:34am On Mar 18, 2022
There is this 20yrs old girl dat always flaunt her boyfriend on her status,I told her you see this relationship with this boy, he nor go reach 1 year, she talked and talked that it's a lie,, behold she and the boy dor turn life enemy,

She asked me how did I knew, simple, I was speaking from experience,
(1) red flag, she and the boy were level mate

(2) she is just 20yrs, she never see anything, outside school you see that reason you like your partner, you will see people that has it x5

(3) She and the boy dey wear Supra and long socks, 17-25years old girls are the most confused set of persons on Earth,you don't take them serious because they don't knw what they want

The most important question I asked her then, that made me tell her, your relationship with this 21yr old boy won't work is

Does he know your phone password?? She said they both have understanding, that their phone are their privacy,
Me:: But una Dey Bleep abi?? Una private parts are not private??

When I told her she said am Been negative,

20yrs old girl in school, wey never see anything or enjoyment for life Dey talk about serious relationship

What confuses a 20-25yrs old girl is Options

They are in their prime, breast stand, everything intact, different men they talk to her, everywhere, so she will always have this mindset of, they are many, if you can't stay go, after all, options many, that's the problem, anyhow shall, what do I know,?? Nothing

You nor Dey take 20-25yrs old girl serious, mostly if she is in school, she belong to all of us, But you can choose to be one carrying the problems, but remember, she belong to all of us


Imagine now, as I Dey now, I go come get one serious girlfriend for school, let me laugh at me in advance,. Dey will shook shook her anyhow, na reminant I go collect.

If she is above 25years there is slight tendency she dor Dey get sense, but the school factor go still worry her, but if she Dey below 25years and she is a student, and you are in another state, you are following OUR WIFE.

If you doubt me, tell her in short notice you are coming to visit her in her school, when you get there, tell her you want to see her phone, she won't see it coming, Happy Breakfast in advance

I have said it before and I will say it again, Even if i do blood covenant with you, even if you take bullet for me, No phone password, no relationship, It's as simple as this, Some people will say it doesn't matter I hear you, but you see this generation, unless the person get another phone somewhere else, everything happens in the phone, they will delete messages, we know, they will delete call logs we know, but still, no phone password, No relationship, e get why

All those jobless Delsu, Uniport and Eziobodo Futo boys that have nothing doing, With Michail and two eggs, they will use cutleries while eating OUR WIFE


A friend of mine was making that mistake then, dating below 25 years student in another state university, we made sure he end that joke of a relationship.

What do you think, drop your reactions below

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Re: Is Knowing Your Partner's Phone Password A Big Deal In A Relationship? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 11:35am On Mar 18, 2022
Why on earth should you know your partner's password..you shouldn't even touch your partner's phone talkless of unlocking it.. undecided
It's very private.. unless he/she gives you willingly then you have no right whatsoever..


No one should have the password to your phone. ..i repeat no one..it's called personal property and space you have to respect that..

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Re: Is Knowing Your Partner's Phone Password A Big Deal In A Relationship? by paulolee(m): 11:41am On Mar 18, 2022
people get mind o, bt i think I CNT try such wen dating bcoz I respect privacy n wont allow her invade mine too.
but wen married, I'll try. allow her check mine if she gets any reason to lose trust in me bt still won't check hers bcoz I dnt want to make her feel asif I dnt trust her even if I dont n dey are many ways to kill a rat..
am not dt fan of going tru babes fone after the trauma n depression i faced after I went tru one of my ex fone..
knew she was cheating bt still want to clear my doubt, Wetin I see shock me...she saved guys names as females, saved mine as "lil" bro n were burst my head na see one chat wey she de tell one guy say am just like her pet, she needs me around to use cure boredom whenever she's home alone...
meaning I don turn ekuke for my serious banny o..

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Re: Is Knowing Your Partner's Phone Password A Big Deal In A Relationship? by rickpat(m): 11:51am On Mar 18, 2022
phone wahala Sha...for married people...if you partner has no cockroach in his/her phone and both of you are living happily...phone password is no big deal.... if you two are happy,then one day your partner wants to use your phone and you start panicking,you partner will get very curious and start to lose trust...the thing is just be free and clean...cus I personally don't see anything that someone with be having in his or her phone that's very private..if not cockroaches..let people name the stuffs they can have in their phone that their partner shouldn't see... please name it...i love to know


PLEASE NOTE THIS IS FOR MARRIED COUPLES ONLY...

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Re: Is Knowing Your Partner's Phone Password A Big Deal In A Relationship? by Totilopussylick(m): 12:18pm On Mar 18, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
Why on earth should you know your partner's password..you shouldn't even touch your partner's phone talkless of unlocking it.. undecided
It's very private.. unless he/she gives you willingly then you have no right whatsoever..


No one should have the password to your phone. ..i repeat no one..it's called personal property and space you have to respect that..
But to live and be happy with your spouse, your phone shouldn't has to have password nor some stuff that can twist the joy of living together.

Free mind is a goal to rest of mind sad tongue undecided

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Re: Is Knowing Your Partner's Phone Password A Big Deal In A Relationship? by HopeNeverDies: 12:22pm On Mar 18, 2022
Damnnnn!!!!

No Password; No relationship.


I think I love that.

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Re: Is Knowing Your Partner's Phone Password A Big Deal In A Relationship? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 12:22pm On Mar 18, 2022
Totilopussylick:
But to live and be happy with your spouse, your phone shouldn't has to have password nor some stuff that can twist the joy of living together.

Free mind is a goal to rest of mind sad tongue undecided
How does not having a password on your phone relate to having and living a happy life with your partner?

Your phone is something personal... it’s not meant to be shared or made so that anyone has access to it... simple.

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Re: Is Knowing Your Partner's Phone Password A Big Deal In A Relationship? by Totilopussylick(m): 12:26pm On Mar 18, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

How does not having a password on your phone relate to having and living a happy life with your partner?

Your phone is something personal... it’s not meant to be shared or made so that anyone has access to it... simple.
I've been using phone for God knows how long, but I have never fancy 'password' and the ladies i have spent some yrs with were ok with my choice.

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Re: Is Knowing Your Partner's Phone Password A Big Deal In A Relationship? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 12:28pm On Mar 18, 2022
Totilopussylick:
I've been using phone for God knows how long, but I have never fancy 'password' and the ladies i have spent some yrs with were ok with my choice.
And that does not prove me wrong..I hope you do understand my point perfectly well..
Thanks..

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Re: Is Knowing Your Partner's Phone Password A Big Deal In A Relationship? by HumanoidX: 12:33pm On Mar 18, 2022
Your phone is private property from your spouse or your significant other, but your private parts are not. This generation of people who can't tell the difference between privacy and secrecy. In a healthy marriage or relationship, it takes two transparent people to make it work.
My wife and I have access to each other's phones. Her fingerprint is registered on mine and mine on hers. We don't need to go through eachother's phones...your marriage will thrive in the atmosphere you create.

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Re: Is Knowing Your Partner's Phone Password A Big Deal In A Relationship? by hollah123: 12:34pm On Mar 18, 2022
No matter how much I love someone I believe in privacy n mutual respect,y must u know my password n y must I know yours?

Y do people have relationship with people they are skeptical about,if I can't trust u that u are faithful then what's d need for d relationship in d first place.

I hate that shit n d most annoying part is "give d phone to d person beside u".......that thing can off my brain

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Re: Is Knowing Your Partner's Phone Password A Big Deal In A Relationship? by Olayinka0439: 12:34pm On Mar 18, 2022
hmm, big question cry
Re: Is Knowing Your Partner's Phone Password A Big Deal In A Relationship? by Danielle09: 12:35pm On Mar 18, 2022
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Re: Is Knowing Your Partner's Phone Password A Big Deal In A Relationship? by allahIsAnIDOL: 12:35pm On Mar 18, 2022
Re: Is Knowing Your Partner's Phone Password A Big Deal In A Relationship? by Sundaypaul12345: 12:35pm On Mar 18, 2022
You shouldn't, for your own mental health
Re: Is Knowing Your Partner's Phone Password A Big Deal In A Relationship? by FireUpNow(m): 12:35pm On Mar 18, 2022
No but of he or she don't want you to know just respect his or her privacy
Re: Is Knowing Your Partner's Phone Password A Big Deal In A Relationship? by Nobody: 12:36pm On Mar 18, 2022
Thank God. My phone password don spoil.
Re: Is Knowing Your Partner's Phone Password A Big Deal In A Relationship? by Animegirl(f): 12:36pm On Mar 18, 2022
angry

Respect your partner phone, there is a reason.
Re: Is Knowing Your Partner's Phone Password A Big Deal In A Relationship? by DryMouth: 12:36pm On Mar 18, 2022
If your partner denies you the password to his or her cellphone that person is cheating or abt to cheat.

Forget that privacy rubbish pple will talk. When we were kissing and exchanging saliva you dnt knw baa. Now to tell me your password, you are telling me privacy

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Re: Is Knowing Your Partner's Phone Password A Big Deal In A Relationship? by Danielle09: 12:37pm On Mar 18, 2022
Wahala
Re: Is Knowing Your Partner's Phone Password A Big Deal In A Relationship? by Nobody: 12:37pm On Mar 18, 2022
Yes. Relationships should be free of secrets.

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Re: Is Knowing Your Partner's Phone Password A Big Deal In A Relationship? by ugosilva: 12:37pm On Mar 18, 2022
Wetin I dey find in her phone ni
Re: Is Knowing Your Partner's Phone Password A Big Deal In A Relationship? by Tallesty1(m): 12:37pm On Mar 18, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:
Why on earth should you know your partner's password..you shouldn't even touch your partner's phone talkless of unlocking it.. undecided
It's very private.. unless he/she gives you willingly then you have no right whatsoever..


No one should have the password to your phone. ..i repeat no one..it's called personal property and space you have to respect that..
Have you ever been in a healthy relationship? I don't mean the type where you guys chat, hang out and meet to fvck but where you play important roles in each other's life? Where he can take decisions on your behalf and it will be just what you would have done? The type that he's so into you that he knows virtually every detail or your life and you know his? If so then what's your phone's password that you can't give to this person?


Unless one is working with CIA, FBI DSS CID or similar top security organizations in his country, he or she has no justifiable reason to keep his phone password secret from his or her partner.

Your private parts are available to him/her 24/7 but your phone isn't?

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Re: Is Knowing Your Partner's Phone Password A Big Deal In A Relationship? by ERCROSS(m): 12:39pm On Mar 18, 2022
It depends on the kind of relationship. If it's a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship, it's not a big deal if he/she knows/doesn't know your password. But in a marriage where transparency, trustworthiness, and openness are important, then it's a big deal.

hollah123:
this is the main reason y many people have problem in their marriage,they use openness to ruin themselves.

That's how u will send money to your mum n u will tell your wife n 3rd world war will start,this is how u will assist someone n your wife will also present another member of her family or start fighting d person n u will b here creating thread about your wife.

See sometimes d best words are d words left unsaid, u will ruin things for yourself with the tell it all mindset

Well, it depends on how weak the man is. Once you realise that marriage favors women the most, you'll know how to enforce your stand as a man

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Re: Is Knowing Your Partner's Phone Password A Big Deal In A Relationship? by Kingpele(m): 12:39pm On Mar 18, 2022
Your wife or husband is ok, married couples, should not be hiding anything from their partners ,I know my wife password and she knows mine for more than a decade we got married..it all about trust and fidelity..but if is girl friend boyfriend relationship is different cos the partnership is immoral and trust can not be established in such union

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Re: Is Knowing Your Partner's Phone Password A Big Deal In A Relationship? by airsaylongcome: 12:40pm On Mar 18, 2022
For women it is
Re: Is Knowing Your Partner's Phone Password A Big Deal In A Relationship? by illuminutty: 12:40pm On Mar 18, 2022
I won't ask for hers, so she should not ask for mine. Things are not always the way they appear, I don't have the energy for plenty of explanation. If I am hiding something, it is for her protection and should respect my choice of not wanting to share. If she insists, then she should pack tissue paper to wipe her tears.

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Re: Is Knowing Your Partner's Phone Password A Big Deal In A Relationship? by Huytey: 12:40pm On Mar 18, 2022
Interesting

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