Any quarrel that has no mentions in marriage is sex related, if am wrong ask the OP.

Datikwerreboi:

Op isn't the reason for your frustration and lack of man,besides he said they dated for 2 years. Why are u pained and crying . The whites marry and divorce also, it's normal part of life

You had to quote me twice

Why

brosom:
smile , u re lucky you've already seen the signs already.

The only way to be lucky is to not be desperate.
Once you allow people to pressure you, forget it, you'll NEVER see those signs...
People think I'm crazy I don't envisage getting married for the next 10years even at 34.
Once I'm approaching 40 and these bitches still acting crazy, I go just find one give belle, and confirm myself as a certified bachelor for life.
Marriage no be by force abeg. See Genevieve wey even be woman, everybody respect her die, let alone me wey I cum be man. Why would I allow desperation lead me astray.
Better stay single for life than divorced...

Candidlady:


Y'all will drop a post then end it will "no insult only mature minds please"...


You the op are you acting maturely yourself ?

Leave the shop for her get your divorce and move on.... The rent will expire!!!
°°°°reason ifind it hard to collect anything from this gender... Call it me being proud your business °°°°°


Una go dey run go marry only to end erthing again...


You meet a guy/girl today four months after you get married... Rubbish..


°°°°you just ruined my smoke this early morning°°°°

Kpele

Daboomb:


Which Court employed you, and as What?
Thank God you did not claim to be a Judge or Lawyer, l for laugh die.

BTW: A lot of women still retain and bear their father's name after marriage.
They just add the husband's name at the back

it doesn't change anything

Nacoss25:
I and my wife just settled our fight.
Thanks all for contribution and suggestion

Una go still fight again. Lol

torqque7:

Shut up.. which Nigerian men?It's same thing all over the world,when people breakup some will want to take back all they bought for the other person so don't come here and talk rubbish forming woke when clearly you are just being emotional.

Poverty of the mind gang, take your miserable backward life and be collecting gifts back when you quarrel with people you gifted it to. Tufiakwa! How can Nigeria make any progress when the bulk of you think like this. Animals.

queenfav:
Now i see why you guys are getting divorced! It's immaturity taking back gifts given during a relationship.No matter what happened along the way, you can't deny the fact that you once shared a deep bond with that person.Move the F on! Which one is collect shop?I smh at how some men reason.Rubbish like this is why i made sure i got married only after i started making good money.Working as a divorce attorney showed mw first hand how men use money as a weapon of control over women.Oga man up! You don't want to marry her again,fine!Walk away like a Boss.

Don’t stress yourself. The lady in question fled for her life, leaving the shop and everything he has to offer.

TayusKilzEasyjay:


You're still coming back here. Marriage is overrated

Na so

It's like na dating b4 marriage dey cause all this.if I may ask if u don't fall in love won't marry or is it possible to fall in love b4 marriage?if the case may be why will people find it difficult in marriage even though u dey together for 2years b4 marriage?

If you want to live long, avoid women.

sweetonugbu:
Leave the shop for her.

Simple. Leave it for her.

Brian47:
All these marriage wahala I read on Narialand everyday, I'm scared for marriage.

Guy..... Just pray May God give us our choicest spouse and Fruitful affairs/marriage.
No perfect marriage anywhere, people are covering theirs imperfections in marriage.

Op, What exactly did your wife do? What changes has she made that made you want to divorce her? Changes correlate changes that is for you to have seen changes you too has changed. I don't know what happened but in marriage you have to enforced positive change no matter how shit the other partners is. By the way the strength of love/friendship/loyalty/duty/marriage/character or whatever, is not when things are rosy but when things are rough and yet still stand in the mix of uncertainty to steady the tide against all odd except threat to life. Marriage nah for people wey them train well.

collect every penny of yours from her

Nacoss25:
I bring greetings to you all. I want to make this brief as possible.

I and my wife are married for a year now and since incception of the marriage it looks like the person I married is not the person I dated for two years, now due to series of issues that shows clearly that we are not compatible for marriage, and I have decided to end the marriage.

While the marriage was going on I set up a shop for her and I want to retrieve it from her but my problem is. She is with the shop receipt which I gave her after paying for it.

My name is Mike osundu and my wife name is Theresa though not real name. On the receipt it was written Theresa Mike Osundu.
I want to ask is it possible for my wife to lay claim on the shop.

No insult pls, only matured responds. Thanks

have you not entered her ? If yes forget about it

Candidlady:


You had to quote me twice

Why

BC you've a thick coconut head that needs to broken twice .

Irishrena1:
This guy again? With all your inhumane treatment towards your ex(es) and your wife.





Anybody advising him should try and read up his previous posts. This guy is mean!

I read how he locked his wife outside their house, that she slept on a bench outside.Omo,women dey marry o!

Do whatever makes you happy. If there's no child between you then you should take whatever belongs to you without pity

SocialJustice:
Poverty of the mind gang, take your miserable backward life and be collecting gifts back when you quarrel with people you gifted it to. Tufiakwa! How can Nigeria make any progress when the bulk of you think like this. Animals.

Comprehension is far from you..There was no where in my response to you that I encouraged taking back stuff from anyone..I was only responding to your dumb comment trying to belittle Nigerian men. And just so you know,females also collect gifts from the male exes..

Now go back and read my response to you again but slowly this time so you can understand it cos you seem slow.

Lol, BUHARI do fast and go.

Collect what, this naira land boys , making most men to behave like foools,

Collect what back, hope she can break your head with bottle when you come for it, can you replace all the stress she has done for you in that marraige , if you are to pay her for all she did for a year can that shop replace it,

Just go and sleep
Mumu man, give me her number ,let me advice her to bring army and break your big head.



Can't you make your marriage work?












uote author=Nacoss25 post=110462179]I bring greetings to you all. I want to make this brief as possible.

I and my wife are married for a year now and since incception of the marriage it looks like the person I married is not the person I dated for two years, now due to series of issues that shows clearly that we are not compatible for marriage, and I have decided to end the marriage.

While the marriage was going on I set up a shop for her and I want to retrieve it from her but my problem is. She is with the shop receipt which I gave her after paying for it.

My name is Mike osundu and my wife name is Theresa though not real name. On the receipt it was written Theresa Mike Osundu.
I want to ask is it possible for my wife to lay claim on the shop.

No insult pls, only matured responds. Thanks[/quote]

Datikwerreboi:

BC you've a thick coconut head that needs to broken twice .

Okay


Do have a lovely weekend

SocialJustice:
Leave the shop for her, Nigerian primitive men. Always wanting to starve your women when there's issue. This barbaric attitude must stop.

does it means nigeria women are actually a liability to their men? I think Any woman that is 80% dependent on a man should fix her life first and not see marriage as a source of poverty elevation scheme.

Nacoss25:
I bring greetings to you all. I want to make this brief as possible.

I and my wife are married for a year now and since incception of the marriage it looks like the person I married is not the person I dated for two years, now due to series of issues that shows clearly that we are not compatible for marriage, and I have decided to end the marriage.

While the marriage was going on I set up a shop for her and I want to retrieve it from her but my problem is. She is with the shop receipt which I gave her after paying for it.

My name is Mike osundu and my wife name is Theresa though not real name. On the receipt it was written Theresa Mike Osundu.
I want to ask is it possible for my wife to lay claim on the shop.

No insult pls, only matured responds. Thanks

You should have seen the red flags why you people were dating for two years maybe you ignore the red flags or maybe the knacking enter your brain you couldn't reason properly to know she is not your woman or not compatible , compatibility should be the first time people should look out first before character self , you didn't tell us if you had child with her and about the shop you can retrieve your shop since it's you that open the shop

babadee1:


Why must you collect the shop back? Let her have something doing even if you can't reconcile with her. No need to act out of bitterness.

Who else will act out of BITTERNESS, if not an estranged Husband?

You think say Na Joke, when Wise people said "Hell has No Fury, like a Woman Scorned".

Don't miss out on this one

Nacoss25:
I and my wife just settled our fight.
Thanks all for contribution and suggestion

I just pity your wife that ended up with a man like you. That's why they say that men are scum . So you don wash your oblogos for outside finish come now dey tell us say Una don settle. I just pity the poor girl cos she don make mistake end up with you

My simple advise is this, please leave the shop for her....at least, it will be on record that you did "something" for her, no matter how she proves ungrateful (it will be an insignia that she once bore your name). God will help you to heal and find peace.
I've often said whatever will make me breakup with a wife, I won't even pick the car key if we use one car. I will leave EVERYTHING for her. Pick only my bag, and go and start a new life and I will never mention it. That's something she will truly miss.

Nacoss25:
I bring greetings to you all. I want to make this brief as possible.

I and my wife are married for a year now and since incception of the marriage it looks like the person I married is not the person I dated for two years, now due to series of issues that shows clearly that we are not compatible for marriage, and I have decided to end the marriage.

While the marriage was going on I set up a shop for her and I want to retrieve it from her but my problem is. She is with the shop receipt which I gave her after paying for it.

My name is Mike osundu and my wife name is Theresa though not real name. On the receipt it was written Theresa Mike Osundu.
I want to ask is it possible for my wife to lay claim on the shop.

No insult pls, only matured responds. Thanks

Do you have a child together or is she expecting? If yes to any of the questions then in my opinion you can leave it for her so at least you are sure she has the means to take care of your child. Others all if fair in war.

She is still your wife. Don't take it from her why so you want to provoke God?

When you were dating for 2 years, you never knew that both of you were not compatible until after marriage.
I wonder what you both were thinking?
Do you think marriage is game you can go in and opt out anytime you like?
You guys need marriage counseling.
The greatest marriage counselor is the Bible, it says let your Yes mean Yes and your No, No.
You took a vow and swear never to leave each other only for you to break the vow just after 1 year.
You guys need to tolerate each other and love each other.
Love forgives
Love endures
No one is perfect but with love, you can be happy and enjoy your marriage