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Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by PericomaNwankwo: 11:33am On Mar 19, 2022
You two should go for a test. It's nothing abnormal. Yet he has to pay more attention to his health. Unprotected sex, whether with you or with a runsgirl, it's the same thing and it's risky , especially when you don't know the person's health status.
Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by Olayetan(m): 11:36am On Mar 19, 2022
Any relationship that makes you come to SM to rant doesn’t worth it. Let it go.
Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by EndRape2(f): 11:37am On Mar 19, 2022
You have a mental problem if the only thing your girls provide is sex, go for deliverance let them pray for you so you can have better girls around you, your curse head attracts round girls reason you thing all women offer is sex alone.



Your mother offers only sex, but not all women ,70percwnt if Nigeria women now take care of half of the finacial burdens at home .








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if only SIMPle men boys out there can have abundance mentality you will know girls ain't shit


This is the same thing those pussyyy people do whenever they are in sexrelationship, even before they break up with you they already have handful of 'toaster' on their DMs



What else do you offer in the sexrelationship even with his usual spending than your rotten punanl


cheer up girl, the dlck ain't yours it just your turn tongue[/quote]
Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by Emmanuel30a: 11:40am On Mar 19, 2022
Stay or keep quiet. U don't love him, u love his money. Mac, Iphone... The love of money is the root of all evil. Men, money&sex is probably the biggest, inimical & dangerous problem of women. I wonder why peoples' desire is to be sinning. U are not ready 4 marriage so don't date let alone fornicate- this is human nature &they always want pleasure of all nature. They can hardly or rarely overcome sexual urge, desire&pleasure... Apart from offering him uncountable & maranthon sex, what have u done to him & for him because u love him? What has he done 4 u too because he loves u, aside sexual intercourse, giving u money&gifts... Stop making thread about boyfriend& girlfriend when u obviously need GOD as friend. U keep making sinful, sinner & sexual predators as boyfriend... Kai u are not created 4 that not 4 premarital sex. My advice is that you should end dating&sexual relationship with all men until u are financially,mentally,morally,emotionally,spiritually... ready 2 marry.U dont love, u are lost in lust.

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Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by MeghaneMorgane(f): 11:40am On Mar 19, 2022
Run for your life and give yourself peace
Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by kwasoly(m): 11:43am On Mar 19, 2022
missimelda01:
So I made a post earlier about how my partner wasn't interested in growing emotionally, well we continued having issues because of his behaviors (complains a lot, petty, prefers to keep malice instead of communicating and so much more). I finally decided to break up with him.

The next day after the break up, he messaged me on Instagram (I blocked him on every other platform and forgot this), he started begging and promised to communicate better. I didn't pay attention to him until after two days, then we started calling on Instagram and it was as if things were getting better.

My birthday was two days ago, he came to my house with gifts, said he had made plans for them before we broke up...lol he ask me out again and I said yes (don't blame me, I find it difficult to detach from people I love).

I was at his place and was using his computer to work and messages kept coming in from one particular girl, I was ignoring it until it was too hard to ignore, opened it and saw the shock of my life (his mac is sync with his iPhone). This guy had unprotected sex with a girl he met on a dating app the same week we ‘broke up’

I'm angry, disappointed and confused.
What do men want? You meet a girl who's loyal, independent, cares for your family, plans with you and you still ruin everything.

P.S this guy was so in love with me, he's been so pressed about meeting my mum, he already knows my siblings...I’m beginning to think he has mental problems.


Both of you are in lust not love, love seeks for the good of the another.
Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by RIO1987(m): 11:46am On Mar 19, 2022
try to communicate with him, one on one again on the said issue, and see what comes next
Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by izubext007: 11:54am On Mar 19, 2022
Revenge
Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by Fourwinds: 11:55am On Mar 19, 2022
missimelda01:
So I made a post earlier about how my partner wasn't interested in growing emotionally, well we continued having issues because of his behaviors (complains a lot, petty, prefers to keep malice instead of communicating and so much more). I finally decided to break up with him.

The next day after the break up, he messaged me on Instagram (I blocked him on every other platform and forgot this), he started begging and promised to communicate better. I didn't pay attention to him until after two days, then we started calling on Instagram and it was as if things were getting better.

My birthday was two days ago, he came to my house with gifts, said he had made plans for them before we broke up...lol he ask me out again and I said yes (don't blame me, I find it difficult to detach from people I love).

I was at his place and was using his computer to work and messages kept coming in from one particular girl, I was ignoring it until it was too hard to ignore, opened it and saw the shock of my life (his mac is sync with his iPhone). This guy had unprotected sex with a girl he met on a dating app the same week we ‘broke up’

I'm angry, disappointed and confused.
What do men want? You meet a girl who's loyal, independent, cares for your family, plans with you and you still ruin everything.

P.S this guy was so in love with me, he's been so pressed about meeting my mum, he already knows my siblings...I’m beginning to think he has mental problems.

Hmmmm...the moment he saw a vagina, he forgot his brain in a basket.
Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by Nobody: 11:57am On Mar 19, 2022
Don't fall in love. That would solve all your relationship problems.

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Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by Emmanuel30a: 11:57am On Mar 19, 2022
It is difficult and almost impossible to say that people are getting married because they love each other... Love is probably the last thing why people are getting married... As much as there were Adam and Eve... You would always see male and female coming together or close to each other... If you consider me interesting or if I interest you, I can be your Godly internet friend.
Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by JustPowerApps(m): 12:02pm On Mar 19, 2022
cheesy cheesy cheesy His mac is synched with his Iphone cool I guess that's what is enticing you. Material driven girls will continue to know no peace cool

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Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by SmellingAnus(m): 12:06pm On Mar 19, 2022
missimelda01:

It feels wrong...why am I this hurt?
Truth is, whenever there is a prolonged misunderstanding, it gives room for another strange man or woman... That's why I love relationships where issues are settled within 24 hours.... Just console yourself that he didn't chestt while you guys were still together but he probably needed a company to help his mood since the one he loves is emotionally trying to disconnect from him...
Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by Gkemz: 12:09pm On Mar 19, 2022
He doesn't have any mental problem. The problem is that you failed to understand that men no matter how much we love, we are polygamous in nature. That's the hard truth most ladies shy away from. My nigga that's planning his marriage just yesterday had a short time with a runs girl and that doesn't make him bad because he loves his woman.


By the way, why should a woman monopolize a dick that should be shared so that every other girl will get hers.

So Op, don't be selfish.
Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by Exot: 12:12pm On Mar 19, 2022
Yall missing the point.

She isn't angry he slept with someone. She mad cus he didn't use a condom.

missimelda01 hates STIs like that
Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by XDaBOSS(m): 12:23pm On Mar 19, 2022
You guys need to take a chill...this una gender attack no suppose be everyday stuff na.

As for you @OP, he had a fling with her after you two broke up.

You may be hurt and disturbed. Talk to him (maturely), hear his side, and then you can decide on your next step.

No be every thing u need vex for....sometimes u need use your 99
Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by ManIzHot: 12:25pm On Mar 19, 2022
missimelda01:
So I made a post earlier about how my partner wasn't interested in growing emotionally, well we continued having issues because of his behaviors (complains a lot, petty, prefers to keep malice instead of communicating and so much more). I finally decided to break up with him.

The next day after the break up, he messaged me on Instagram (I blocked him on every other platform and forgot this), he started begging and promised to communicate better. I didn't pay attention to him until after two days, then we started calling on Instagram and it was as if things were getting better.

My birthday was two days ago, he came to my house with gifts, said he had made plans for them before we broke up...lol he ask me out again and I said yes (don't blame me, I find it difficult to detach from people I love).

I was at his place and was using his computer to work and messages kept coming in from one particular girl, I was ignoring it until it was too hard to ignore, opened it and saw the shock of my life (his mac is sync with his iPhone). This guy had unprotected sex with a girl he met on a dating app the same week we ‘broke up’

I'm angry, disappointed and confused.
What do men want? You meet a girl who's loyal, independent, cares for your family, plans with you and you still ruin everything.

P.S this guy was so in love with me, he's been so pressed about meeting my mum, he already knows my siblings...I’m beginning to think he has mental problems.


You??
Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by harsysky(m): 12:30pm On Mar 19, 2022
Jennyclay:


SMH, Nairaland still have a long way to go. Just listen to the advice being dished out up there, just because it was a guy who cheated. If the reverse was the case. Infact it will be on front page by now because of the traffic. Bunch of biased people and the moderators aren't doing anything about it.

@op, As a lady, you shouldn't have bring your relationship issues here. This platform does not favor women, My advice is that you should open a reddit account and take your relationship issues to that platform.

You will later know the difference between heaven and hell. You gonna be reading mature and first class advice, people there are Angels from heaven while people here are demons from hell.

I take my relationship advice to that platform not here, abi do want me to be a laughing stock? Just take a look at czarr, GooodHardDick, Uzomacharles, Moeman and co advice. SMH.. My dear please, Avoid those Slowpokes up there advice and wait for the wise ones to come. Okay! Because Me, I'm very raw. If I give you my advice about this issue, you will just hate men for life.

Mtchhheeewwww.. Bush!!

This is the best advice, OP. Nairaland was better, maybe, 8 - 15 yrs ago. The majority now are nothing to write home about. The sad thing is they enjoy dishing out wrong advice upon advice like the person who is involved is a robot.

Do what this person just said.
Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by LOVEGINO(m): 12:30pm On Mar 19, 2022
GooodHardDick:
Which one is You meet a girl who's loyal, independent, cares for your family, plans with you and you still ruin everything

What exactly have you done for that young man in that relationship? What exactly have you offered him in the relationship other than your pussy? Do you think we're kids here? You better stop this your Jezebelic manipulations.
Chai! Dis one touch me oooo
Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by Laxy009(m): 12:31pm On Mar 19, 2022
missimelda01:
So I made a post earlier about how my partner wasn't interested in growing emotionally, well we continued having issues because of his behaviors (complains a lot, petty, prefers to keep malice instead of communicating and so much more). I finally decided to break up with him.

The next day after the break up, he messaged me on Instagram (I blocked him on every other platform and forgot this), he started begging and promised to communicate better. I didn't pay attention to him until after two days, then we started calling on Instagram and it was as if things were getting better.

My birthday was two days ago, he came to my house with gifts, said he had made plans for them before we broke up...lol he ask me out again and I said yes (don't blame me, I find it difficult to detach from people I love).

I was at his place and was using his computer to work and messages kept coming in from one particular girl, I was ignoring it until it was too hard to ignore, opened it and saw the shock of my life (his mac is sync with his iPhone). This guy had unprotected sex with a girl he met on a dating app the same week we ‘broke up’

I'm angry, disappointed and confused.
What do men want? You meet a girl who's loyal, independent, cares for your family, plans with you and you still ruin everything.

P.S this guy was so in love with me, he's been so pressed about meeting my mum, he already knows my siblings...I’m beginning to think he has mental problems.

This guy is still a teen and how long will you guys keep doing this ? So whenever you guys have a short or little argument he gets out and get laid by random girls ? Have you considered the negative effects of this ? Like stds and the rest that he might pass down to you through his shady deals ?

I guess it’s time you call it off ,such people won’t change but they will only be more smarter next time blocking and deleting all evidence.

You can’t stop a guy bad habit. He can only stop it by himself if he only he loves you enough to do so and he’s truthful to himself .

The ball is in your court and you decide what you want with your life .

If a lady could give me rest of mind and what else did I want . Though some guys love adventure so it’ll be difficult to keep such guys no matter how much you tried.

Shalom !

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Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by missimelda01(f): 12:34pm On Mar 19, 2022
ManIzHot:



You??
If I wanted my picture here, I would have posted it. Now be reasonable enough to remove it.
Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by sugarbeesmith(m): 12:36pm On Mar 19, 2022
missimelda01:

Oh shut up your stupid mouth! You think every girl has nothing to offer, you have no idea at all.
can we talk @priv8?
Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by Lastborn0074: 12:40pm On Mar 19, 2022
Like you said, it happened when u guys broke up, so he might have done it as a way of trying to get off his emotional trauma at the time. As a result, he threw caution to the wind. If he's truly sorry, forgive and move forward, seeing that you love him.

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Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by Nobody: 12:44pm On Mar 19, 2022
missimelda01:

Oh shut up your stupid mouth! You think every girl has nothing to offer, you have no idea at all.
Lol... take it easy. I thought u were already married. Anyways he did what he did while u weren't together so let it slide. It's painful but the did has already been done. Hopefully he wouldn't miss her punna enough to want one more bite cheesy
Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by Zealag(m): 12:46pm On Mar 19, 2022
You broke up with ur man and you don't want him to have sex with another girl like you?
My ex got married last yr with a baby girl but still calls me on phone,I bet you don't wanna hear the rubbish she's capping, someone in a marriage not up till 2yrs.i tire for naija women
Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by Richvibes1997: 12:47pm On Mar 19, 2022
Descottes:
na this thing about you nairaland men folks wey make me dislike una. Y'all Bloody Hypocrites .
If it was a man who came here with same story about his girlfriend you lot would call him a fool/simp and also judge and slut shame Nigerian women to pieces.
You guys really need to grow up else all the ladies go leave romance section for una.
They are not much here again sef.
thunder fire you serpent undecided
Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by stanliwise(m): 12:49pm On Mar 19, 2022
LIGHTHEARTED0:





if only SIMPle men boys out there can have abundance mentality you will know girls ain't shit


This is the same thing those pussyyy people do whenever they are in sexrelationship, even before they break up with you they already have handful of 'toaster' on their DMs



What else do you offer in the sexrelationship even with his usual spending than your rotten punanl


cheer up girl, the dlck ain't yours it just your turn tongue
Your comment is incoherent and you ended up saying exactly nothing
Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by geezynoni: 12:50pm On Mar 19, 2022
You seem like the type that loves love and finds it difficult to detach from someone you love. It's a bittersweet trait, however, I wish you the best.
Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by yomi531(m): 12:57pm On Mar 19, 2022
missimelda01:
So I made a post earlier about how my partner wasn't interested in growing emotionally, well we continued having issues because of his behaviors (complains a lot, petty, prefers to keep malice instead of communicating and so much more). I finally decided to break up with him.

The next day after the break up, he messaged me on Instagram (I blocked him on every other platform and forgot this), he started begging and promised to communicate better. I didn't pay attention to him until after two days, then we started calling on Instagram and it was as if things were getting better.

My birthday was two days ago, he came to my house with gifts, said he had made plans for them before we broke up...lol he ask me out again and I said yes (don't blame me, I find it difficult to detach from people I love).

I was at his place and was using his computer to work and messages kept coming in from one particular girl, I was ignoring it until it was too hard to ignore, opened it and saw the shock of my life (his mac is sync with his iPhone). This guy had unprotected sex with a girl he met on a dating app the same week we ‘broke up’

I'm angry, disappointed and confused.
What do men want? You meet a girl who's loyal, independent, cares for your family, plans with you and you still ruin everything.

P.S this guy was so in love with me, he's been so pressed about meeting my mum, he already knows my siblings...I’m beginning to think he has mental problems.
U are his number 1 babe. Other girls are just for quenching konji. Why is it so difficult for girls to know dis. A guy can have like 5 different girls for quenching konji but u see his main babe, he no dey use her play at all. When time for marriage comes, the side chics are never in consideration
Re: He Cheated On Me, I'm Confused by stanliwise(m): 12:57pm On Mar 19, 2022
missimelda01:

It feels wrong...why am I this hurt?
But you will still go back to him. What else do you want us to advice you on?

You have to look into yourself and make up your mind on what you want. Else nothing would make sense

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