Graceihotu:
My question is "what do guys really want"
I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am surely the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 31���


Had issues with my boyfriend since last year April bkos of a particular girl he posted on Facebook addressing her as the mother of his house. I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question bkos same lady posted him too calling him her first love.


He told me the lady was his cousin sister and ofcourse I believed him bkos she bares same surname with his cousin brother whoose wedding we attended together, He addressed me as his wife to be throughout the occasion so I had everything to believe in him

Just five days ago I saw his wedding notification on Facebook with that same lady. My heart has never been this broken B4 in my life. I have cried out my soul to the extent that I barely see clearly this days. I tried not to cry but I just can't. I am seriously weeping as I am typing this.

I have tried to encourage myself but I just can't stop crying and WAILING.

Who have I ever offended and what exactly do guys want?

I have searched all through the 5 yrs of relationship and aswear with my life that I never stressed him but I only requested Love not Money from him

My heart is bleeding.
I only sent him his pre-wedding pics and congratulated him then he replied "thanks''

He feels I don't deserve an explanation �����

This would definitely touch anyone with conscience.... Wipe off ur tears and keep being U or better still, Keep working to be a better version of yourself. My prayer for U is that; You will never see ur ex boyfriend and hide in the nearest future. Life will Favour U and the universe will assist U. Get up from that spot and go chill with ur friends.

franchasng:
Na wa oh.


Like Iyaebe will say, sometimes give men trouble, dont be too docile in your relationship. Ladies try and be keeping side boyfriends, let him know he has competitors ready to snatch u from him, this sometimes keep some guys wanting you the more.


Some guys don't like docile girlfriend, they need fire fire girl that never give them rest lol


Not by demanding money oh but being too hot for him to handle.


Its a pity, if truly you are as good as you painted here, cry no more your time will come.


Hope you get work and you aren't neglecting your physical looks? Most men condier physical beauty and hotness first before other qualities so as a single or married lady, your physical beauty (tummy, etc) must be in check.



I really feel for you and thinking if i would take a second or 3rd wives to cushion this heartbreak

Dear, I've noticed that it's we that have lots of healthy drama(lol) to bring that always attract the best of men, most guys don't appreciate good women, I'm very good and kindhearted ooo but you'll somehow realize why they crowned me "IYAEBE" and you'll always miss my absence kikikiki.All in all sha it's good to be good but not at the detriment of your own happiness.Also as a lady you should know exactly when you became the other girl,the signs are always there but my good sisters will overlook and want to be matured,me no get that kind patient, someone will immediately fill your space because a smart and wise lady will work with time in her relationship life,time does not favour women and as such you must not waste it on an unserious man. What was she looking for spending such years with a man and no permanent commitment(like marriage and payment of dowry) I've said it here that I won't ever stay in a relationship more than six months without any positive moves of permanently claiming me.Relationship life is all games,the smartest one goes home smiling.

Mercychen:
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**Yinmu**


I'm good. Hope you're good too.
Thank you.

Stop to yinmu....You are doing like an old friend

I am fine o.........

Hope the kids are not disturbing you too much

Iyaebe:
Dear, I've noticed that it's we that have lots of healthy drama(lol) to bring that always attract the best of men, most guys don't appreciate good women, I'm very good and kindhearted ooo but you'll somehow realize why they crowned me "IYAEBE" and you'll always miss my absence kikikiki.All in all sha it's good to be good but not at the detriment of your own happiness.Also as a lady you should know exactly when you became the other girl,the signs are always there but my good sisters will overlook and want to be matured,me no get that kind patient, someone will immediately fill your space because a smart and wise lady will work with time in her relationship life,time does not favour women and as such you must not waste it on an unserious man. What was she looking for spending such years with a man and no permanent commitment(like marriage and payment of dowry) I've said it here that I won't ever stay in a relationship more than six months without any positive moves of permanently claiming me.Relationship life is all games,the smartest one goes home smiling.

Hahahahaha



Kikikiki

NorthernersSuck:

You sure say you dey see well?

Holly Gram

Yes my Gee..

y u ask?

WTF MAN!

Don't say dat to her naaa... She is going Tru a lot.. Be kind abeg

Where's slowmirr, the damn nigga guy
It's been long I saw his msg

My own gf broke up with me because i told her not to join my staff bus....

DryMouth:

Exactly bro. My own cheated on me and broke up with me. Bow she is back to me and hoping i would marry her. I will graciously waste her time cos am obviously not in love with her anymore and marry another person.

Badt guy

DryMouth:
Lol!
The guy is a real niggar!

Send me location and date of the wedding make i go present am with very chilled red wine.

Am sure you did worse to guys when "time" was still on your side. Now you dey find emotional support for nairaland at your old age.

Shut up!

Ishilove:

Hold up... Wait... Are you saying a 31 year old woman does not "market value" or whatever the fvck you Nairaland males mean?

I'm speechless.

I'm a nairaland male remember.

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram I COMPRISUN ur CAPRISUN!


So SORRY MAN!


U have to hold tight and be strong..


E fit be sey God de TRY save u from something!


BETTER days ahead bro...


D PESIN u want might NOT really be for U!


I believe God is trying to SAVE u from something!


I have dat STRONG BELIEVE!


We humans don't really UNDERSTAND de ways of God or d wayz of d SPIRITUAL!


make I no too CAPRISUN MUCH..


just take HEART and be strong.. MAN wey deserve U, go JAZZ in ur Life..


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

wowww!! Wonderful Yan's! So Mr. Holy Gram can be this awesome?? God bless you for this master piece

Johel:



Who's this maggot?...what's your business?...face your life pls.

Ur a clown

Graceihotu:
My question is "what do guys really want"
I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am surely the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 31���


Had issues with my boyfriend since last year April bkos of a particular girl he posted on Facebook addressing her as the mother of his house. I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question bkos same lady posted him too calling him her first love.


He told me the lady was his cousin sister and ofcourse I believed him bkos she bares same surname with his cousin brother whoose wedding we attended together, He addressed me as his wife to be throughout the occasion so I had everything to believe in him

Just five days ago I saw his wedding notification on Facebook with that same lady. My heart has never been this broken B4 in my life. I have cried out my soul to the extent that I barely see clearly this days. I tried not to cry but I just can't. I am seriously weeping as I am typing this.

I have tried to encourage myself but I just can't stop crying and WAILING.

Who have I ever offended and what exactly do guys want?

I have searched all through the 5 yrs of relationship and aswear with my life that I never stressed him but I only requested Love not Money from him

My heart is bleeding.
I only sent him his pre-wedding pics and congratulated him then he replied "thanks''

He feels I don't deserve an explanation �����

my dear, live your life to the fullest. Life is not all about marriage. Not even to someone who does not appreciate you. I know this bc I have been married for 8 years and happy with my spouse. It is better to wait that to enter a wrong marriage, you will regret it. Wipe your tears and be calm. A good man who values you will definitely come around. Don't be desperate as this has killed many ladies. Mix up and make friends with like minds. If you are Christian attend singles programs (in your church and outside your church), coordinate the singles in your church, be active in a department. If you're a muslim do the same in your Islamic/qur'anic school or mosque. You will be fine. Cheer up.

It's really heartbreaking, and for all the bad comments on Nairaland, not all Ladies are bad and as a lady or guy, you can't have it all, even that one he intends to marry has her own blemishes, most Nairaland men are too bias when It comes to dishing out comments. It is well with you Op.

maasoap:


And that's defined as a crime in your dictionary, right?

crime or no crime my brother...she is desperate be say she is desperate

Graceihotu:
My question is "what do guys really want"
I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am surely the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 31���


Had issues with my boyfriend since last year April bkos of a particular girl he posted on Facebook addressing her as the mother of his house. I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question bkos same lady posted him too calling him her first love.


He told me the lady was his cousin sister and ofcourse I believed him bkos she bares same surname with his cousin brother whoose wedding we attended together, He addressed me as his wife to be throughout the occasion so I had everything to believe in him

Just five days ago I saw his wedding notification on Facebook with that same lady. My heart has never been this broken B4 in my life. I have cried out my soul to the extent that I barely see clearly this days. I tried not to cry but I just can't. I am seriously weeping as I am typing this.

I have tried to encourage myself but I just can't stop crying and WAILING.

Who have I ever offended and what exactly do guys want?

I have searched all through the 5 yrs of relationship and aswear with my life that I never stressed him but I only requested Love not Money from him

My heart is bleeding.
I only sent him his pre-wedding pics and congratulated him then he replied "thanks''

He feels I don't deserve an explanation �����

The bone of contention now is your past, when you were still the hottest babe in town age(19-25years)... Trust me when I say NO good lady in both character and learning will ever experience this, Perhaps he was only your karma...!!

Eastcaostboy:
Babies, u most not say everything at once be a man and wait for some other time. Even if she is consider her situation now. Be a reserve guy

reserve fire.....e don reach woman turn e don turn be a reserve guy...abeg forget that yarning.... heartbreak na two way thing...make she enjoy am

Graceihotu:
My question is "what do guys really want"
I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am surely the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 31���


Had issues with my boyfriend since last year April bkos of a particular girl he posted on Facebook addressing her as the mother of his house. I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question bkos same lady posted him too calling him her first love.


He told me the lady was his cousin sister and ofcourse I believed him bkos she bares same surname with his cousin brother whoose wedding we attended together, He addressed me as his wife to be throughout the occasion so I had everything to believe in him

Just five days ago I saw his wedding notification on Facebook with that same lady. My heart has never been this broken B4 in my life. I have cried out my soul to the extent that I barely see clearly this days. I tried not to cry but I just can't. I am seriously weeping as I am typing this.

I have tried to encourage myself but I just can't stop crying and WAILING.

Who have I ever offended and what exactly do guys want?

I have searched all through the 5 yrs of relationship and aswear with my life that I never stressed him but I only requested Love not Money from him

My heart is bleeding.
I only sent him his pre-wedding pics and congratulated him then he replied "thanks''

He feels I don't deserve an explanation �����

girl let's chat in private, where are you from, what's your qualification, which church do you worship, Are you ready to start a home, if yes pls dm me

DMCY:


Bro, I can relate to what you said up there, imagine doing all sort of things to make her better and she still left with a serving corper.. like can be so shitty sometimes..

@OP, sorry for this thing we both going through right now although I’m 2yrs younger. Life continues, a better man is out there for you

exactly bro.... afterall they say a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage....a lot of them are never faithful...can she the op swear to the fact that she has never cheated on the guy before?...my brother forget women abeg

ShaqFu:
I'm a nairaland male remember.

Ehn, I was specific na. I said 'you Nairaland males'....

Oh shoot. That came out wrong

MARS1:


Stop to yinmu....You are doing like an old friend

I am fine o.........

Hope the kids are not disturbing you too much

Lol... Is it only old women that do that? Anyways I'm old now. 40yrs going 41 is not a joke. .

The kids know better than to disturb me.

Im heading to the class for the next period.
Break period, over.

Catch ya.

Nackzy:
girl let's chat in private, where are you from, what's your qualification, which church do you worship, Are you ready to start a home, if yes pls dm me

Allow her heal first because whoever she dates now will be a rebound guy, and trust me, you don't want to be the rebound guy.

Take heart dear, I pray that this experience will not turn you to a monster against intending suitors or men.

Just concentrate more on what gives you joy. Sinner than later, you ll get over it. Hopefully, you ll come out better and stronger.

Check your email.

ImaIma1:


Resist the urge to shalaye. Did she ask you for all this stories? Or she told you in private that he sacrificed for her and she left? Please focus! Stop adding other stories. You should have stopped at "Op kpele ooo"

madam I will shalaye ooo...she could as well keep the heartbreak to herself...why bring it to the media and making it public, she should know that not everyone will console her...I wizywiz will not console her ooo....make she pack well swallow am

Ishilove:

Ehn, I was specific na. I said 'you Nairaland males'....

Oh shoot. That came out wrong

Oya now continue oh. Lol

Ishilove:

Ehn, I was specific na. I said 'you Nairaland males'....

Oh shoot. That came out wrong

my crush I greet you

Ishilove:

Allow her heal first because whoever she dates now will be a rebound guy, and trust me, you don't want to be the rebound guy.

you're very right but don't want to rush into a relationship with her, want to have a word for word talk with her, no one is perfect and i know there's a lacuna somewhere

JoeyBlue72:
wowww!! Wonderful Yan's! So Mr. Holy Gram can be this awesome?? God bless you for this master piece

Holly Gram amen my Gee..


and bless u too


WTF MAN!

Date a strong believer and such thing won't happen to you.

Sorry o.

We4all:


Shut up!

Come and shut me up

Mugu!!

Graceihotu:
My question is "what do guys really want"
I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am surely the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 31���


Had issues with my boyfriend since last year April bkos of a particular girl he posted on Facebook addressing her as the mother of his house. I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question bkos same lady posted him too calling him her first love.


He told me the lady was his cousin sister and ofcourse I believed him bkos she bares same surname with his cousin brother whoose wedding we attended together, He addressed me as his wife to be throughout the occasion so I had everything to believe in him

Just five days ago I saw his wedding notification on Facebook with that same lady. My heart has never been this broken B4 in my life. I have cried out my soul to the extent that I barely see clearly this days. I tried not to cry but I just can't. I am seriously weeping as I am typing this.

I have tried to encourage myself but I just can't stop crying and WAILING.

Who have I ever offended and what exactly do guys want?

I have searched all through the 5 yrs of relationship and aswear with my life that I never stressed him but I only requested Love not Money from him

My heart is bleeding.
I only sent him his pre-wedding pics and congratulated him then he replied "thanks''

He feels I don't deserve an explanation �����

I am deeply sorry for what happened to you, is not meant to happen like this take heart and move on.
Keep working on yourself
As a man I will tell you that picking a wife is not a straightforward affair
You see a girl very sexy polished modern, but her attitude is so bad and they just want easy life
You see the good ones well behaved hard working non good diggers, but family background is so skewed, so many part of their background won’t go well when you start the fact finding.
Sometimes is even Genotype that will end it