| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Bobloco: 11:06am On Mar 25, 2022 |
"I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very SIMPle guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat."
guys please tell this niggar the truth 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by BluntTheApostle(m): 11:07am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,
I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.
Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.
However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.
I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.
I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.
Thanks. She may not be cheating on you. But your suspicion is understandable. If you have the time, do your investigation personally. Trail her, and find out the truth. OR Hire a private detective!!! |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Nobody: 11:07am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Install mobile tracker on her phone then |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by emmabest2000(m): 11:07am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,
I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.
Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.
However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.
I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.
I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.
Thanks. 5 Likes 1 Share 
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| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by VladimirPutiin(m): 11:08am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,
I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.
Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.
However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.
I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.
I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.
Thanks. Don’t be a SIMple guy again. Ladies takes advantage of SIMple and nice guys. 
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| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by speak2bella(f): 11:09am On Mar 25, 2022 |
You should be able to tell cos you know if she has self control and discipline or not. However, it might even be the banker guy disturbing her but she's not succumbing or even trying to succumb already.
What I want you to do is this, have a chat with her, telling her that if you discover she's cheating on you, you won't continue with the relationship as you will let her go and move on. Tell her how faithful you are and if she's unfaithful in return, karma will serve her well. |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by ken090693: 11:10am On Mar 25, 2022 |
bro investigate more, and pls stop her from following that man on his vehicle and see her reaction. |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by infofta(m): 11:10am On Mar 25, 2022 |
You don't give a dog meat to look after. It will eventually eat the meat it's just a matter of time. |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by MansoryMX(m): 11:10am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,
I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.
Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.
However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.
I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.
I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.
Thanks. You created the room for another man to take away your woman from you. First of all allowing her to be picked every morning when you sef get car! Wtf dude!! That guy don collect your woman from you. Secondly! Them nor dey teach woman you wan marry how to fish! She will definitely leave the boat!! Person wey you for open shop for! If you truly wants to marry her. My wife wanted a bank job after we got married I refused and opened a shop for her. Today she is doing well in her shop and we have no issues. Especially trust issues like this because it is bound to happen the moment you allowed your wife work in a bank! Let alone a fiancée. NEXT TIME! DONT ALLOW YOUR NEXT WOMAN BE FRIENDS WITH FELLOW MAN 4 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Noviagro(m): 11:10am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,
I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.
Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.
However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.
I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.
I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.
Thanks. Tell her you want her to cut every tie with that guy.if she truly loves you she will do your bidding.let me tell you bros,woman would go to any length to safe their relationship if is truly in love. |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by BluntTheApostle(m): 11:10am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Bigredmachine:
No mind am... You carry yam give goat make he keep for you... Take it easy on the OP. |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Ternistacle(m): 11:10am On Mar 25, 2022 |
I don't know how long ur babe and that guy have been friends.... But give them time... Don't rush over anything... What will be will be....
The walls have hears.... No rush, when time reach u go know wetin dey really sup..
No go fall hands whereas nothing dey sup... |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by CsRockefeller(m): 11:11am On Mar 25, 2022 |
kingyakos:
Bankers Bleep themselves alot irrespective of being married or not.
My neighbor who's a regional manager with Airtel caught his wife of three kids and who's also a branch manager of Zenith Bank with his fellow staff but I will forever respect the Man the way he handled the whole situation. How did he handle it? |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Born2Breed(f): 11:11am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,
I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.
Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.
However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.
I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.
I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.
Thanks. They are having an affair. |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by kurlz(f): 11:11am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Uncle96:
Why would you allow another man to be dropping your woman off at work everyday ? There's is nothing wrong in it sir, if the woman is disciplined and has self control. |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Mvena(f): 11:11am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Una wey dey do relationship thing dey try oo 
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| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by latieph(m): 11:11am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Microwhy:
Downgrade the relationship to the lowest level in your heart, smash her like a side chic which i bet will last longer and more enjoyable.
Stop fiancé/fiancee stuff right from your heart and treat her like an object without attaching anything to the relationship.
I bet, if she truly loves you, the truth will come out.
Use a mind game on yourself by telling your mind that she's nothing but a cheap girl in your neighbourhood.
Don't quarrel,don't argue and don't bother yourself about it. Turn her to side chic and continue your normal doings with her.
Don't hurry for main chic but you already know that she's a side chic awaiting main chic.
Bro, this camrade don give you the best advise ever and you dont really need to look elsewhere for more. just follow this write up and i bet you will have a total freedom of HEART BEAT. 2 Likes |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by blkmum700: 11:11am On Mar 25, 2022 |
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| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by BleedTears: 11:11am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Netmuch:
I allow her because then I don't have a car, and like I said ,our residence is very far away to our workplace,I once follow the guy too in his car as he drop both of us at work but most of the time my fiancee follow the guy because the guy always left home very early and the guys place of work is along the same route with my fiancee .it is very difficult to get a bike at our street then that's why I tuned to relax to allow my fiancee to follow her every morning Na you do yourself. Better quite now |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Joetttimua1811(m): 11:12am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Hmmmmm I can't leave my woman with another man like that ooo bro the earlier you look for way the better, which earlier am I even talking sef you're even late because I'm sure they've gone far. |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Nobody: 11:12am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Netmuch:
I allow her because then I don't have a car, and like I said ,our residence is very far away to our workplace,I once follow the guy too in his car as he drop both of us at work but most of the time my fiancee follow the guy because the guy always left home very early and the guys place of work is along the same route with my fiancee .it is very difficult to get a bike at our street then that's why I tuned to relax to allow my fiancee to follow her every morning Bro, any guy dropping off your woman daily is bound to develop feelings for her. Women too are naturally drawn to comfort, so I won't be surprised if your babe is cheating... Once girls see a guy driving a car, even if it's borrow-pose, they throw common sense out of the window. My guy, open your eyes o... If I were you, I would carry on like nothing happened. One day, you will catch her red handed. 2 Likes |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by lomprico(m): 11:12am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,
I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.
Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.
However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.
I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.
I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.
Thanks. You have car now abi? Start dropping n picking her up. Women n car eh! If you can't do it release her for the guy n move on. She is not for you. 1 Like |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by BabaIbo: 11:12am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Focus on yourself and stop worrying over it.
Such things happen, but don't let it affect you because that won't be healthy for you.
Just listen to your instinct, it's prolly telling you the truth.
Since you have started suspecting her, relax you will catch her red-handed one day if truly she's cheating because you are now cautious unlike when you are relaxed.
It would have been better had it been you didn't rush in accusing her or voicing out, you should have stayed calm and get solid evidence, but now she will be a bit careful.
Going into a relationship with some people is really draining, so be strong and wise. 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by iLoveYouToo(m): 11:12am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,
I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.
Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.
However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.
I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.
I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.
Thanks. You too dey rush, you for stay calm gather ‘air tight’ evidence. Cheaters think they’re smart but they always leave traces. If really she’s cheating 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by VladimirPutiin(m): 11:12am On Mar 25, 2022 |
wiseone28:
Relationship matter don tire me with everyday complain especially with women not faithful the most..
The earlier guys should realize girls can never be faithful the good for us.
Have money or no money girls will never be faithful. That is why the Redpill is Golden. 2 Likes 2 Shares 
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| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Firstcitizen: 11:13am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Guy look elsewhere. That babe ain't yours 100%. This is already emotional cheating. Bad foundations like this are a recipe for a problematic marriage 1 Like |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by malel1: 11:13am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,
I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.
Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.
However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.
I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.
I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.
Thanks. Dude my 4 months marriage crashed because of this , pls watch it, if possible rent a shop for ur girl , bank is a no no unless the girl foundation solid . Most bankers are sleeping with them self 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by MansoryMX(m): 11:13am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Noviagro:
Tell her you want her to cut every tie with that guy.if she truly loves you she will do your bidding.let me tell you bros,woman would go to any length to safe their relationship if is truly in love. Cut ke! Person wey dem don dey hang her leg and give her correct doggy. The signs are just too obvious na  3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Mvena(f): 11:14am On Mar 25, 2022 |
BabaIbo:
Focus on yourself and stop worrying over it.
Such things happen, but don't let it affect you because that won't be healthy for you.
Just listen to your instinct, it's prolly telling you the truth.
Early this week, I ended it with the lady I was planning to make a wife due to a very silly and selfish reasons she gave.
You know some ladies and thinking one-way.
Her reasons were silly, of which she later realized and has been looking for makeup ever since I opened up to her what the true situation is.
Maybe it was due to the fact that it was a long distance relationship, so she couldn't know or find out whatsup with me to have a clearer and better understanding. Na wa oo 
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| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Nobody: 11:14am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Don't kill yourself over nothing , if a woman wants to cheat on you she do cheat on you, but right now what I see is bonding between her and him. I don't understand this Africa mentality ,that a woman shouldn't talk to a man just because she is dating you or married to you. Learn to take your eyes away, I wonder what you would do if you travelled and he came visiting. Shebi you want to be eavesdropping continue. |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Demigod22: 11:14am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Since she is a banker, her bestie is banking her. Dating these ladies is really stressful. Apart from their unproductivity, entitlement mentality, they can't still keep their kpekus for the one that deserves it.
OP, no long story, just break up with her before she break you. She is as useless as the Nigerian government. Girls are just weird.
Whenever I am with a girl, I don't get attached so that I won't be asking this your question. |
| Re: I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker by Thandiubani(m): 11:15am On Mar 25, 2022 |
Oga, from personal experience, something is already going on between them. Take it or leave it. 1 Like |
