Uncle96:
Why would you allow another man to be dropping your woman off at work everyday ?

jimmychang:



See ehhh,when woman and man dey together something must trigger and he drops her off omo..hmm

And bro do your investigations well...she don dey up her guard as you don ask am direct. And since you have started suspecting her hmmm bro ..Take your time behave like mumu around her make she looseguard but you self no looseguard.

It is cold world bro.Just take your L and move.

Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,

I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.

Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.

However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.

I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.

I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.

Thanks.

Tboymessiah:



Is not always easy as you have typed here, they are both in love before, do you want the guy to commit murder ni,.mostly the guy love her, is not easy the best thing is too leave the girl to go her away, cus presently na the girl dey control the relationship.....

otipoju:


Exactly. Unless you have hard undeniable proof, she will deny and be more careful.

A marrief woman recently contacted my married friend that she wants to start sleeping with him because the were old lovers as teenagers. That she will get a second phone dedicated to them and it will be always in her desk at work so the husband will never ever find out.

Shukusheka:
Why do sane people still come to Nairaland to ask for relationship advice? I just browsed through the first page, all the comments there are completely stupid and not one was addressing the Op's problem. Such a waste of time.

aikyg:
If you want to die young, start monitoring your partner. Anyway there are a few things you can do:

1. Move to another neighbourhood so that the guy will not be able to give her lifts.
2. Ask your wife to invite the man and his wife to the house so you can entertain and thank him for dropping off your wife. That'll give you the opportunity of knowing him up close.
3. Accept your fate and allow them to continue with their platonic relationship, while you hope for the best.

dippleee1:
My colleague at work is still banging his ex that is going to marry few weeks to this time, inshort he was banging her last saturday when her fiance called her ontop of his rod, he told me....This is a guy that left her over 1year, treated her like trash, doesnt send her. they just connected on facebook and started chatting, long story short, they are back to just banging themselves things. she is about to get married to a guy who constantly spend on her, take care of her,her family and recently saved her mum from death, the girl's family have already accepted the girl..She even invited the guy to her wedding, he told me that both of us will attend the wedding and he will dance well on that day and spray money....Only God can help someone this days when it comes to selection of a life partner

otipoju:


Exactly. Unless you have hard undeniable proof, she will deny and be more careful.

A marrief woman recently contacted my married friend that she wants to start sleeping with him because the were old lovers as teenagers. That she will get a second phone dedicated to them and it will be always in her desk at work so the husband will never ever find out.

ZooCountry45:
The fucking can still continue after una marry. Save your self stress and get another woman.
Nigeria Women are very stressful to date

Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,

I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.

Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.

However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.

I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.

I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.

Thanks.

koolaid87:
As you dey change your engine oil, dem dey help you change her oil too


She deleted her chat

She ended the call

But you need our opinion.

Aii, wait there.

Next person!

Latakia:
� Some people will just be giving themselves unnecessary pressure for what they don't have control over.

Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,

I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.

Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.

However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.

I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.

I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.

Thanks.

Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,

I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.

Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.

However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.

I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.

I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.

Thanks.

wiseone28:
If it was you he would have gotten tired of picking you..


Your instincts is right but if you doubt it keep calm you will catch her with a good evidence one day.

Funkyswagzz:


You killed that relationship the moment u let that guy pick ur fiance... Obviously theres something goin on between them.. u beta confronted that dude to leave ur fiance alone if not u might end up loosing her

dippleee1:
My colleague at work is still banging his ex that is going to marry few weeks to this time, inshort he was banging her last saturday when her fiance called her ontop of his rod, he told me....This is a guy that left her over 1year, treated her like trash, doesnt send her. they just connected on facebook and started chatting, long story short, they are back to just banging themselves things. she is about to get married to a guy who constantly spend on her, take care of her,her family and recently saved her mum from death, the girl's family have already accepted the girl..She even invited the guy to her wedding, he told me that both of us will attend the wedding and he will dance well on that day and spray money....Only God can help someone this days when it comes to selection of a life partner

Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,

I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.

Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.

However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.

I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.

I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.

Thanks.

FuckDModz:


This is how they will fvck your wife later today. If you like don’t confront the guyman.