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MadamVanessa:

Birds of same feathers

Is there anyone both male and female that doesn't have a reckless past? personally, if I love , I love, I don't believe in the philosophy of digging one's past before settling down with the person; because to be very candid, there's nobody past that's palatable.

Na sex she had no be say she kill person, or no be say she give you disease. Na knack she knack, u been de knack too before u even meet am. The abortion she committed, even house wives of today , commit abortion too. So It's an old story.

Meeting you , means starting afresh with a new chapter. people with trust issue have the time of going back to dig at one's past and if look closely their past too may even be more messy.




Look for more justifiable reason to jappa after knacking the poor girl, don't come up with this childish and RECKLESS excuse.

advanceDNA:
If my married neighbor that went to Ijebu Igbo to sleep with just one OOU student was exposed when the same girl came to for ushering at job at his daughter’s birthday bash....imagine how easy one can be exposed ....there’s no secret under this cloud and above it..

NaijaOlosho:
You are even worse than that girl

Pretender

Iyaebe:
Haven't you also been sleeping around? what makes yours better than hers? if you don't love her then let her go,a fornicator cannot be condemning another fornicator,lailai.

MadamVanessa:




Is there anyone both male and female that doesn't have a reckless past? personally, if I love , I love, I don't believe in the philosophy of digging one's past before settling down with the person; because to be very candid, there's nobody past that's palatable.

Na sex she had no be say she kill person, or no be say she give you disease. Na knack she knack, u been de knack too before u even meet am. The abortion she committed, even house wives of today , commit abortion too. So It's an old story.

Meeting you , means starting afresh with a new chapter. people with trust issue have the time of going back to dig at one's past and if look closely their past too may even be more messy.




Look for more justifiable reason to jappa after knacking the poor girl, don't come up with this childish and RECKLESS excuse.

Officiallyme:
Hello guys, met this girl some time around January this year and asked her out and we started dating ever since

So recently, I got to know about her past. Her past was so reckless that it is giving me a second thought about everything, started having s*x at the age of 15 while in secondary school and travelling to see a lot of men whom she claimed was asking after her hand in marriage. This girl has slept with so many guys that it's freaking me out, funny thing is, she's been lying and hiding some things but as a smart guy, I've always had my way around her to tell me the truth.

She told me she did a "mistake" abortion for one of her boyfriends then and just last year December, she had s*x with a married man and she knew very well he was married. These are just few of the stuffs I recently found out about, I know it's all in the past and she claims she's changed and want a real relationship with me but I don't believe at all, she claims to love me so much and cannot do without me and honestly, I love her too but I'm scared this may just change a lot about everything.

I don't know what to do, I'm hurt and disappointed and I don't know what to do now. I just need someone to talk to me, please don't insult me, I just need some pieces of advise.

Thanks

Contekbbc:
Seriously, everyone is not perfect.
If she has genuinely left her old way,why can't you forget the past and love her perfectly well.
Las Las,all those things won't matter when USA finally go offensive against RUSSIA.

Contekbbc:
Seriously, everyone is not perfect.
If she has genuinely left her old way,why can't you forget the past and love her perfectly well.
Las Las,all those things won't matter when USA finally go offensive against RUSSIA.

Iyaebe:
Haven't you also been sleeping around? what makes yours better than hers? if you don't love her then let her go,a fornicator cannot be condemning another fornicator,lailai.

2ndchildhood:
The situation am in ATM.. because with a girl having multiple sexual relationship in the past and high body count, they is a high possibility of her cheating in marriage.. they are not use to one man

Exkandayee:
A lady told me years back that, Even if she gets married she'll still bang the guy that disvirgined her on a steady,I was shocked and I'm the guy,,,, that shit is crazy though

Candidlady:
@bolded

That line always get me pissed! Met Jan said yes Jan had sex same Jan

Abeg where una dey meet em this girls...

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have you had sex with her?

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you shouldn't be scared people actually CHANGE!!! But if you can't handle it iwill advice you to end the relationship

advanceDNA:
She give you the fact...
Some women no dey forget who lash them well well in the past even though their current man dey lash them well...

Zonefree:
To have sex with a Nigerian girl is not rocket science...chill please.

ibkonekt:
Dude, go and understand female nature and redpill truth. Its your choice to marry a retired WH0RE, the past matters very much.
https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know

Mcslize:
For date, you are free to date her but don't make the mistake of getting commited to her or anything marriage along the line.

I met one online too. I know she has been into runs in the past. But she is forming a good girl to me and pretending to be a good girl. She has been finding a way to get me committed to her. But I am not that gullible na. Am not here to defend them, but what makes you think the virgins ones would not behave when they settle down also? Olosho or not it takes the Grace of God to find a good spouse not perfect one. They perfect ones are in heaven. If you truly love a lady mould her to your standard if she not willing let go of her simple as ABC but in a mature and polite manner.

What pains me most is the whole pretense. How can a girl who has been into runs in the past tells you she doesn't know what BJ means. She doesn't know I know she has runs past history. I haven't told her to her very face cuz she is still thinking I will be gullible to get committed to her, even going as far as telling me about when I will settle down.

If you make the mistake of marrying any lady like that, you are on your own. They will never ever change. Marriage will be like prison to them within 1-2 years of the marriage. You better look for a decent girl with no past terrible history to settle down with. They are completely damaged. Don't make that mistake.

Officiallyme:
Hello guys, met this girl some time around January this year and asked her out and we started dating ever since

So recently, I got to know about her past. Her past was so reckless that it is giving me a second thought about everything, started having s*x at the age of 15 while in secondary school and travelling to see a lot of men whom she claimed was asking after her hand in marriage. This girl has slept with so many guys that it's freaking me out, funny thing is, she's been lying and hiding some things but as a smart guy, I've always had my way around her to tell me the truth.

She told me she did a "mistake" abortion for one of her boyfriends then and just last year December, she had s*x with a married man and she knew very well he was married. These are just few of the stuffs I recently found out about, I know it's all in the past and she claims she's changed and want a real relationship with me but I don't believe at all, she claims to love me so much and cannot do without me and honestly, I love her too but I'm scared this may just change a lot about everything.

I don't know what to do, I'm hurt and disappointed and I don't know what to do now. I just need someone to talk to me, please don't insult me, I just need some pieces of advise.

Thanks