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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Nobody: 6:25pm On Apr 03, 2022
Heavensent01:



dont advise Jennyclay let her come and cheat on her bf with me, I bet her she no go return to the bf again


some of them have fish brain true true
Maybe you can explain why some girls even have as much as 7 bfs or side niggas and still keep her main guy. You can't tell me she doesn't have sex with all most but the main guy isn't aware. He 'd believe she s such an innocent and a virtuous woman.
Check that guy, it may be you.
Times have changed man.
Women play the game better.

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Thorondor: 6:33pm On Apr 03, 2022
My galfriend believes commenting on a gals post on Is cheating. Now she sneaked into my laptop and saw a friendly chat I had with Dolly Castro on onlyfans one year ago and voila. She has been accusing me of cheating day in day out.
Parked out of my house
Me I kukuma mind my business and say THANK GOD

oyibo woman na roller coaster .. too much fun too much headache
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Verysmart101: 6:33pm On Apr 03, 2022
Jennyclay:
But men have every right to cheat abi? because men are Polygamous in nature abi? Bull crap. See if you cheat on me, I will cheat on you too.
Cheat cheat cheat just dey hungry you since.Abeg shift
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Verysmart101: 6:36pm On Apr 03, 2022
Jennyclay:
I know two wrongs can't make a right but then you don't expect me to be loyal and faithful to you.. Then you go about sleeping with other ladies. It doesn't work for me.

I believe in Equality, go and ask my friends, they will tell you more about me.

I wanna ask u just one question.Can u put ur hand in fire and expect another man to feel the pain? Cheating back will make u no different from him and u both will suffer the same consequences
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by akaahs(m): 7:03pm On Apr 03, 2022
Lalami3232:
For men, I would say YES.
For women, I would say NO.
Before una go chop my head, make I analyze somethings. When it comes to man and woman eeh, the ball game dey different. Cry all you want, men are polygamous in nature. Right from Bible to our ancestors time, no be crime to marry more than one woman. That's why you go see a man wey get 3 babies with different women, and nobody go talk anything. But immediately a woman born just one or two, she don turn second hand material and almost abandoned project.
Same way a man no fit marry empty handed, he must work hard for money first. While a woman only needs toto and makeup before she's qualified for marriage. So both get advantages and disadvantages. Once again, if a man cheat, society no too dey frown about am like women.

Even in the Bible, there is a record of adultery only the woman was brought forward to be stone but the man is no where to be found.
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Nobody: 7:05pm On Apr 03, 2022
Kobojunkiee:
I suggest you count your teeth carefully next time the thought pops into your head to "advise" fellow adult. undecided
Na so una dey take fail exam. simple question you no fit answer but you dey say you fit Bleep all your husband friends and neighbors and still love am die! i know say you be woman, na only una fit reason from anus like this

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Connected1: 7:16pm On Apr 03, 2022
Palema007:
I don't know what part of the world you are but I think I should update you since you have been on hibernate.

Dragons have gone extinct
Two stones are no longer used to make fire
We now build houses with bricks.

The world evolved.
Some things do not evolve.

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Heavensent01(m): 7:28pm On Apr 03, 2022
Maryjane001:

Maybe you can explain why some girls even have as much as 7 bfs or side niggas and still keep her main guy. You can't tell me she doesn't have sex with all most but the main guy isn't aware. He 'd believe she s such an innocent and a virtuous woman.
Check that guy, it may be you.
Times have changed man.
Women play the game better.


no it can't be me, I married 30years old lady staying in a rugged area as virgin and tested her before and after marriage and she's still herself


some ladies have dignity, stop identifying all ladies with you generation of glorified olosho

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Connected1: 7:29pm On Apr 03, 2022
Simran94:


Actually I don’t blame those women.
The African culture has a lot of faults in it, it sees women as “objects of satisfaction and reproduction” nothing else. It has always been this way in Africa. They believe a woman who doesn’t have a head(husband) is nothing to the society. So that has instilled fear into the minds of these women.
You are funny.

It's very easy na.

Denounce African Citizenship and go to the Continent where they practice what you like.

You go just sit down dae type nonsense in order to defend something.

No Race of Men treat women better than the African Man, Nigeria to be Precise.

Ask those black women in foreign lands whether one person send them message.
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Nobody: 7:37pm On Apr 03, 2022
[quote author=safarigirl post=111612963]

Even if he give her AIDs, people no go still understand. You will be hearing "for better or worse..."

Na why sometimes, when some men die, their wives don't even mourn them. They just keep it moving.

A lot of women are emotionally detached from their husbands. They have left the man already in their minds, the marriage is just for show and more often than not, they don't even have sexual relations[quote]

At the bold, even in the days of our foremothers, this right here has been in existence. That is why at old age, men suffer at the hands of their wives.

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Nobody: 7:42pm On Apr 03, 2022
Connected1:

You are funny.

It's very easy na.

Denounce African Citizenship and go to the Continent where they practice what you like.


No Race of Men treat women better than the African Man, Nigeria to be Precise.

Ask those black women in foreign lands whether one person send them message.

Really?
Is it the northern men that are according to their culture allowed to marry underaged girls who haven’t even reached the age of puberty yet and forcefully sleep with these girls while they groan in pains? And then these same underaged girls get pregnant for their “husbands” and become mothers at 13, 14 years old while their mates from other cultures are still in school?

Is it some of the eastern men, where widows are being ridiculed publicly immediately their husbands die, where widows have their hairs scrapped off by so-called in-laws after the death of their husbands and are made to parade the community under scotched sun dressed in black? Where widows are being thrown out of their husbands houses by their in-laws and loose everything they have once their husbands die?

Is it the southwest men where if a married woman doesn’t bare a child for her husband at the first year of their marriage would be sometimes thrown out of their husbands houses and another woman would be brought in as a substitute? Or if her husband dies, she and her children would be sent back to their parents homes so the in-laws can take over the husband’s properties?

A country that sees women as nothing if they aren’t married? Where men see hurting women(cheating on their wives) as their birthright?

You want to compare that to the western countries where no one stigmatizes your inability to get pregnant as a woman, or where women aren’t judged by the fact that they decided to remain single and not get married? Or a woman’s success isn’t tied to a man?
The African Culture treats women like OBJECTS of sexual satisfaction and reproduction, nothing else.

You go just sit down dae type nonsense in order to defend something.

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by SURElee(f): 7:47pm On Apr 03, 2022
No, it shouldn't be.
Let them stay o!
When the cheating partner knacks them HIV, they can then leave or remain and be chanting HIV isn't a death sentence blah blah blah stop the stigma...
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by elated177: 8:01pm On Apr 03, 2022
Call it what it is --- adultery.

Adultery is more than enough reason to send your wife away or separate from your husband. In fact, scripturally speaking, it is the only basis upon which divorce is to hold.

No one should condone adultery. No reason is enough for adultery.

Marriage is marriage. Is there anything like illegal marriage. Marriage is a union between a man and woman. Any other relationship or union, which anyone may refer to marriage, is null and void. So says my Scripture.

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Nobody: 8:03pm On Apr 03, 2022
Heavensent01:



no it can't be me, I married 30years old lady staying in a rugged area as virgin and tested her before and after marriage and she's still herself


some ladies have dignity, stop identifying all ladies with you generation of glorified olosho
Many ladies have their dignity intact and wouldn't resort to cheating as payback even when their partners is a cheat.
These days, women prefer to walk away from such marriages/r/ships with their sanity intact than turn to wailers in Shiloh.
Generation of glorified oloshos?. Well, seems you patronized a good number of them in the good old days. After all, olosho no go boom if customer no dey...

In all, cheating is cheating. Men shouldn't justify cheating to suit their ego. Let's learn to call a spade a spade.

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Nobody: 8:09pm On Apr 03, 2022
Valkrie:


Then you can never I repeat never keep a marriage except nah you carry money go buy the man and as soon as then finances pick anr able to stand on his own...he is out..no two ways round it...!! Dey there dey compare yourself with men...you go learn the hard way ...!! grin
Cheating is cheating irrespective of the gender involved. If a partner cheats, it's up to the other spouse to choose to forgive and forget or walk away. I don't support cheating as a payback. But what I see nowadays in marriages amazes me.
Oga would be having sidechick while keeping his marriage "intact" while madam gives him children that are not his....
Fire for fire generation.

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by DEMZEE(m): 8:23pm On Apr 03, 2022
Maryjane001:

Pls did you come from the Stone age?.
Things have evolved now, nowadays some women cheat as much as their male counterparts and still keep their r/ship or marriage intact without the other party noticing a thing.

I hope your spouse isn't doing so to you due to your ignorance.

That's why most men are miserable in their marriages and they don't understand why

Once a woman cheats, it's the end

She will start weaponizing sex for compliance from u and she will make u pass through hoops to gain her sexual access

Women are born followers and can't serve two masters

It's called evolutionary biology

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Kobojunkiee: 8:30pm On Apr 03, 2022
makavell7:
Na so una dey take fail exam. simple question you no fit answer but you dey say you fit Bleep all your husband friends and neighbors and still love am die! i know say you be woman, na only una fit reason from anus like this
Your rambling makes absolutely no sense to me. undecided

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Mjpem23(m): 8:36pm On Apr 03, 2022
Kobojunkiee:
Open your eyes to reality as opposed to the silly ideas thrown about you. undecided


We are both expressing our views and perceptions on this issue sister, why’re you using styles to disgrace yourself?
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by DEMZEE(m): 8:42pm On Apr 03, 2022
olabrinks:
nothing can give you happiness in this world . Happiness is a very temporary emotion, one minute you’re happy then next your sad. But you can have peace of mind, and that truly comes with within. No man, no woman, no job can give that to you, because these things will always give you problems and stress.

TRUE

FEMALES ARE MORE FULFILLED HAVING CHILDREN, GETTING AND STAYING MARRIED RATHER THAN MAKING MONEY AND HAVING A CAREER OR BUSINESS
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by DEMZEE(m): 8:43pm On Apr 03, 2022
Simran94:


Sorry to disappoint you but that was then, not anymore.
A lot of women are detaching from that useless African culture and believing they can be anything they want to be without being married. A lot women are no longer marriage freaks like before, you can work and have sources of income, you can get married IF YOU WANT TO and IF YOU DON’T WANT TO, you can move on with other great things in life like adopting a child or going for IVF and live happily ever after!!!

THE MISERABLE FEMALES ON EARTH ARE FEMALES WHO ARE IN THEIR 40s, SINGLE AND CHILDLESS

MEN AND WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT

WOMEN SEXUAL AGENCY ISNT EVERGREEN, ITS PERISHABLE
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by DEMZEE(m): 8:44pm On Apr 03, 2022
Simran94:


Sorry to disappoint you but that was then, not anymore.
A lot of women are detaching from that useless African culture and believing they can be anything they want to be without being married. A lot women are no longer marriage freaks like before, you can work and have sources of income, you can get married IF YOU WANT TO and IF YOU DON’T WANT TO, you can move on with other great things in life like adopting a child or going for IVF and live happily ever after!!!

THE MISERABLE FEMALES ON EARTH ARE FEMALES WHO ARE IN THEIR 40s, SINGLE AND CHILDLESS HAVING A BUSINESS OR A CAREER

MEN AND WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT

WOMEN SEXUAL AGENCY ISNT EVERGREEN, ITS PERISHABLE
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Nobody: 8:49pm On Apr 03, 2022
DEMZEE:


THE MISERABLE FEMALES ON EARTH ARE FEMALES WHO ARE IN THEIR 40s, SINGLE AND CHILDLESS

MEN AND WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT

WOMEN SEXUAL AGENCY ISNT EVERGREEN, ITS PERISHABLE

So according to you, a woman in her 40s who is single and childless is Miserable?

No wonder…

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Kobojunkiee: 9:12pm On Apr 03, 2022
Simran94:
So according to you, a woman in her 40s who is single and childless is Miserable?

No wonder…
Some of these folks think the world is defined by their delusions. undecided

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Nobody: 9:14pm On Apr 03, 2022
Kobojunkiee:
Some of these folks think the world is defined by their delusions. undecided
Lol, the reason I said No wonder
grin grin

They will be fine

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Connected1: 9:28pm On Apr 03, 2022
Simran94:


Really?
Is it the northern men that are according to their culture allowed to marry underaged girls who haven’t even reached the age of puberty yet and forcefully sleep with these girls while they groan in pains? And then these same underaged girls get pregnant for their “husbands” and become mothers at 13, 14 years old while their mates from other cultures are still in school?

Is it some of the eastern men, where widows are being ridiculed publicly immediately their husbands die, where widows have their hairs scrapped off by so-called in-laws after the death of their husbands and are made to parade the community under scotched sun dressed in black? Where widows are being thrown out of their husbands houses by their in-laws and loose everything they have once their husbands die?

Is it the southwest men where if a married woman doesn’t bare a child for her husband at the first year of their marriage would be sometimes thrown out of their husbands houses and another woman would be brought in as a substitute? Or if her husband dies, she and her children would be sent back to their parents homes so the in-laws can take over the husband’s properties?

A country that sees women as nothing if they aren’t married? Where men see hurting women(cheating on their wives) as their birthright?

You want to compare that to the western countries where no one stigmatizes your inability to get pregnant as a woman, or where women aren’t judged by the fact that they decided to remain single and not get married? Or a woman’s success isn’t tied to a man?
The African Culture treats women like OBJECTS of sexual satisfaction and reproduction, nothing else.

You go just sit down dae type nonsense in order to defend something.

I understand you are a woman and it's evident

You talk too much.

All the same, Nigerian/African Women aren't restricted from going to other countries/continents to live.

So I don't understand these rants of yours, the society isn't a bed of roses, If I should list the stigma men face in this country you will just keep quiet.

I don't have time for that and I don't have time to explain to you that everything can't go the way you want it.
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by BigBashiru: 9:32pm On Apr 03, 2022
Maryjane001:

Pls did you come from the Stone age?.
Things have evolved now, nowadays some women cheat as much as their male counterparts and still keep their r/ship or marriage intact without the other party noticing a thing.

I hope your spouse isn't doing so to you due to your ignorance.

Only men are allowed to hv multiple partners.... any woman who cheats must be sent packing and she has to go live with those partners and leave my house.....

@iyaebe any comment??
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by BigBashiru: 9:38pm On Apr 03, 2022
Simran94:


So according to you, a woman in her 40s who is single and childless is Miserable?

No wonder…

Don't mind that person. He doesn't know dat not every woman wants to get married....
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by BigBashiru: 9:40pm On Apr 03, 2022
DEMZEE:


THE MISERABLE FEMALES ON EARTH ARE FEMALES WHO ARE IN THEIR 40s, SINGLE AND CHILDLESS HAVING A BUSINESS OR A CAREER

MEN AND WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT

WOMEN SEXUAL AGENCY ISNT EVERGREEN, ITS PERISHABLE

Men's sexual agency perishes too.... it just only lasts SLIGHTLY longer. Which girl wants to sleep with buhari His sexual agency don finish.....
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Kobojunkiee: 9:55pm On Apr 03, 2022
Mjpem23:
We are both expressing our views and perceptions on this issue sister, why’re you using styles to disgrace yourself?
You've Segwayed into something else now. undecided

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Nobody: 10:24pm On Apr 03, 2022
Kobojunkiee:
Your rambling makes absolutely no sense to me. undecided
you dont sound too bright so ill just ignore!
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by nedekid: 11:10pm On Apr 03, 2022
Jennyclay:
I know two wrongs can't make a right but then you don't expect me to be loyal and faithful to you.. Then you go about sleeping with other ladies. It doesn't work for me.

I believe in Equality, go and ask my friends, they will tell you more about me.
Then it's likely you will have a failed marriage, so do not bother the venture.
On the other hand, ladies like you might even be the most tolerant when faced with actual reality.
Nobody says cheating in a marriage is right, but fact is it is more palatable if it is heard a man did it compared to a woman. Unfair as it may seem, that is the reality.
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by MrNipplesLover(m): 11:50pm On Apr 03, 2022
Kobojunkiee:
Glad you acknowledge the fact in the same breath, d1cks also full ground too for women so all is like nothing change for anyone. grin

Na so ooh, my brother... cool

No time for bullshiit...

Make we dey cruise on with one another...


Stay blessed, bro.

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