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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by princefrank76(m): 8:21pm On Apr 02
Kobojunkiee:
2 wrongs don't make a right,yes, but what are we humans but evolving creatures. undecided

Men claim nature, which birthed them from the very same loins and womb as women, conclude they are by birth polygamy animals, conveniently ignoring the fact that women are also capable of a polyandrous existence. undecided

So when a man resorts to pursing his so-called polygamous, why is it wrong or revenge for the women to equally pursue her polyandrous side? undecided
i'm not an advocate of cheating by any gender.

but then i put it to you that any relationship in which both partners start cheating for revenge will never last.
what happened to walking away when u can no longer take it from your partner.

lastly, never allows someone actions/inactions to change u to what you are not.

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by placeofallure(f): 8:32pm On Apr 02
Lalami3232:
For men, I would say YES.
For women, I would say NO.
Before una go chop my head, make I analyze somethings. When it comes to man and woman eeh, the ball game dey different. Cry all you want, men are polygamous in nature. Right from Bible to our ancestors time, no be crime to marry more than one woman. That's why you go see a man wey get 3 babies with different women, and nobody go talk anything. But immediately a woman born just one or two, she don turn second hand material and almost abandoned project.
Same way a man no fit marry empty handed, he must work hard for money first. While a woman only needs toto and makeup before she's qualified for marriage. So both get advantages and disadvantages. Once again, if a man cheat, society no too dey frown about am like women.


Your opinion is unpopular. You're still living in the stone age. This your analysis is off. The world has gone beyond that. Some women are sole or joint bread winners in their homes. Don't f**king tell me they're only about toto and make up. See women who are heads of conglomerates and tell me there's nothing in their heads.

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by greatiyk4u(m): 8:51pm On Apr 02
placeofallure:


Your opinion is unpopular. You're still living in the stone age. This your analysis is off. The world has gone beyond that. Some women are sole or joint bread winners in their homes. Don't f**king tell me they're only about toto and make up. See women who are heads of conglomerates and tell me there's nothing in their heads.


Lalasticlala
Your attention is needed here to move to front page
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Kobojunkiee: 8:51pm On Apr 02
princefrank76:
i'm not an advocate of cheating by any gender but then i put it to you that any relationship in which both partners start cheating for revenge will never last.
what happened to walking away when u can no longer take it from your partner.

lastly, never allows someone actions/inactions to change u to what you are not.
I am neither an advocate for cheating myself since I see the line is clearly drawn as far as what constitutes cheating. But in a relationship where the male believes nature allows him to chest, what reason is there to label the female's choice in a relationship cheating or revenge. Shouldn't what is good for the goose be also good for the other goose in that case? undecided

According to some, when a man cheats is polygamy, so why clam that when a woman does it, it isn't her polyandrous nature manifesting itself? undecided

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by placeofallure(f): 8:53pm On Apr 02
greatiyk4u:



Lalasticlala
Your attention is needed here

Cry me a river embarassed embarassed embarassed

Wailing wailers!

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by greatiyk4u(m): 9:08pm On Apr 02
placeofallure:


Cry me a river embarassed embarassed embarassed

Wailing wailers!

Wasn't reporting you but calling for front page.

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by princefrank76(m): 9:11pm On Apr 02
Kobojunkiee:
I am neither an advocate for cheating myself since I see the line is clearly drawn as far as what constitutes cheating. But in a relationship where the male believes nature allows him to chest, what reason is there to label the female's choice in a relationship cheating or revenge. Shouldn't what is good for the goose be also good for the other goose in that case? undecided

According to some, when a man cheats is polygamy, so why clam that when a woman does it, it isn't her polyandrous nature manifesting itself? undecided
in that context, a man has an edge over a woman. The day a woman start paying a man's bride price she'll will have every right to practice her polyandria. U can't stay under my roof and practice such. Na ya papa house u go stay practice that one.

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Kobojunkiee: 9:56pm On Apr 02
princefrank7w6:
in that context, a man has an edge over a woman. The day a woman start paying a man's bride price she'll will have every right to practice her polyandria. U can't stay under my roof and practice such. Na ya papa house u go stay practice that one.
First of all, that bride price thing only applies as far as those of you who are fooled by it. Millions of Nigerians get married each decade with that bride price nonsense over their heads. undecided

Polyandry has been happening in Nigeria and even in Nigeria since before you and I were born, so don't fool yourself into believing it's existence somehow depends on your mental there. Now more than before women are becoming more Polyandrous in their engagements. Where men once believed it in their nature to take the waters outside of marriage, more and more women in marriage now seek additional partners outside of their marriage. undecided

If a man can practice his poly lifestyle under his marital roof, i see no reason why the woman shouldn't be able to practice her own poly lifestyle under the same roof as her husband. undecided

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by kingemaker(m): 9:57pm On Apr 02
Lol at those saying they'd cheat because their partners also cheated. Deep down, you all have just been waiting for a valid justification to cheat. In real life, most people who don't cheat remain faithful due to their personal discipline and not because of their partner or one imaginary 'love'.

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by kingjis: 10:28pm On Apr 02
[quote author=greatiyk4u post=111592387]


Take it easy Oga, I know life is threatening you [/quote


Keep laughing at your stupidity
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by placeofallure(f): 8:01am On Apr 03
greatiyk4u:


Wasn't reporting you but calling for front page.

Sorry I misunderstood you. Am I forgiven? Please.

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by greatiyk4u(m): 8:08am On Apr 03
placeofallure:


Sorry I misunderstood you. Am I forgiven? Please.

You are dear.
Thanks for understanding.

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Deltatoto: 12:38pm On Apr 03
greatiyk4u:
This is referencing legally married persons not two fornicators deceiving themselves with the non Afrjcan word "fiancee"......You are either married or single QED


What Is Infidelity?
Infidelity, or cheating, is the act of being unfaithful to a spouse or other partner. It typically means engaging in sexual or romantic relations with a person other than one's significant partner, breaking a commitment or promise in the act.

If u have ever been the victim of infidelity, the first question you probably asked was, "why?" The consequences of infidelity are numerous, and it is only natural to want to know why your partner chose to cheat, even if knowing why doesn't bring you any relief. There could be any number of reasons, and there are many types of infidelity and cheating that could shed a little light on those reasons.


Not every act of infidelity is premeditated and driven by dissatisfaction with a current relationship…Maybe they were drinking or in some other way thrown into an opportunity they didn't anticipate.


Infidelity is not enough reason to leave a legal Marriage since it is a situation that can be amended.
no ooo.even pastors cheat just Dey live Dey go.
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by holyidol(m): 12:38pm On Apr 03
No
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Drastick(m): 12:38pm On Apr 03
I'm tired with life.

No family, no parent, no siblings, no job, no money, no friends, no helper, no food. I am hungry and starving. I've done my best
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by olusam4: 12:39pm On Apr 03
Have ye not read?
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by ziondaughter247: 12:40pm On Apr 03
Fahdiga:
Not applicable to women but a man can dump any woman that cheated on him. African men doesn't cheat. It is our God given right

See this one!

@poster, yes it is! Before one useless man gives you disease..It is biblical to separate on the grounds of adultery!
African men only know sex, nothing else is in their skull! They cannot produce anything... only sex...mtcheww!

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Deltatoto: 12:40pm On Apr 03
Favfables1:
OP....
Even if I see my spouse "just kissing" another man, we're done, there's no two ways about that undecided...

If you're gonna be with me, you will have ABSOLUTELY NOTHING sexual to do with other men, if you do, you're out undecided...
if ur wife stl die mortuary attendant go use hand sama her Toto.I stopped thinking all this nonsense when doctors gathered my wife to help her deliver our first child.Nthg Dey this life.

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Hamzaaaaaaaa(m): 12:42pm On Apr 03
Drastick:
I'm tired with life. Goodbye!
Don't enter BRT,u might not get to where you are going o
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Legendoo: 12:43pm On Apr 03
If it's lengthy you can be sure it's stupid.

What a moronic post.

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Fahdiga(m): 12:46pm On Apr 03
ziondaughter247:


See this one!

@poster, yes it is! Before one useless man gives you disease..It is biblical to separate on the grounds of adultery!
African men only know sex, nothing else is in their skull! They cannot produce anything... only sex...mtcheww!
Our forefathers married more than one wife and have many concubines
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by EmmaLege: 12:48pm On Apr 03
STD is real o hmm
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Handsnigga: 12:48pm On Apr 03
Jennyclay:
But men have every right to cheat abi? because men are Polygamous in nature abi? Bull crap. See if you cheat on me, I will cheat on you too.
Lol...my babe uses that threat too grin
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Midas01: 12:52pm On Apr 03
Why are you pained and crying? The only ode here is you.

If cheating is so good for you to do to someone's daughter, why do you not want it to be done to you?

A guy will cheat with reckless abandon and you'll keep cheering him on but when a girl does a quarter she is an ode and an olosho.

Better go and marry a bush girl that you'll cage at home cuz in today's world , women will cheat right back. Highest thing you can do is divorce and keep divorcing.
NewSoul:

Mumu talk... Two wrongs do not make a right undecided

Just say you are looking for opportunity to bang your cultist ex undecided

Ode undecided

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Lexusgs430: 12:53pm On Apr 03
greatiyk4u:
This is referencing legally married persons not two fornicators deceiving themselves with the non Afrjcan word "fiancee"......You are either married or single QED


What Is Infidelity?
Infidelity, or cheating, is the act of being unfaithful to a spouse or other partner. It typically means engaging in sexual or romantic relations with a person other than one's significant partner, breaking a commitment or promise in the act.

If u have ever been the victim of infidelity, the first question you probably asked was, "why?" The consequences of infidelity are numerous, and it is only natural to want to know why your partner chose to cheat, even if knowing why doesn't bring you any relief. There could be any number of reasons, and there are many types of infidelity and cheating that could shed a little light on those reasons.


Not every act of infidelity is premeditated and driven by dissatisfaction with a current relationship…Maybe they were drinking or in some other way thrown into an opportunity they didn't anticipate.


Infidelity is not enough reason to leave a legal Marriage since it is a situation that can be amended.


The only amendment, is allowing the other cheat too .......... wink

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Boss13: 12:54pm On Apr 03
Jennyclay:
I know two wrongs can't make a right but then you don't expect me to be loyal and faithful to you.. Then you go about sleeping with other ladies. It doesn't work for me.

I believe in Equality, go and ask my friends, they will tell you more about me. I don't take rubbish from anyone.

Here goes the sayings of a masculine woman. Avoid this one. Let her be. She will learn from experience.

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Midas01: 12:54pm On Apr 03
Bla bla bla.... please save this advice for men. It's always when a women cheats that preaching starts.

Let your wife keep cheating so you can help tame her excesses okay?
princefrank76:
jane, i totally understand your point of view. But then, how would you handle the gilt after you and your hubby might have work things out?

i know no gender have the monopoly of cheating. You shouldn't let your spouse actions influence/makes u go against your vow of fidelity..

i will advice that, in such scenario u only try to tame him of his excesses. But if he's not ready to change and u reach your breaking point. U can always go with the option divorce..

personally, if i cheat on u and u cheat back. Hmmm. I think that will be the end of the relationship coz two imperfect people can nt make a relatnshp work. That's tit for tat

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by WealthyChidi(m): 12:57pm On Apr 03
Jennyclay:
But men have every right to cheat abi? because men are Polygamous in nature abi? Bull crap. See if you cheat on me, I will cheat on you too.
.

You no feat!
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by fredoooooo: 12:57pm On Apr 03
Favfables1:
OP....
Even if I see my spouse "just kissing" another man, we're done, there's no two ways about that undecided...

If you're gonna be with me, you will have ABSOLUTELY NOTHING sexual to do with other men, if you do, you're out undecided...
You know yiur worth and value

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Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by Akinbahm(m): 12:58pm On Apr 03
Exkandayee:
Just woke up few minutes and This is the first shit I'm seeing, what kinda question is, you know what op, cheating is not enough, just forgive her she just wanna explore more dicks

Pls, make sure you marry a beautiful woman cause am allergic to ugly ones (am ugly also cool), and don’t forget to share her contact and location here for we broke ass Niggas to help her explore more dvcks.
Re: Is Cheating Enough Reason To Leave A Legal Marriage ? by PeaceJoyLove: 12:59pm On Apr 03
Lalami3232:
For men, I would say YES.
For women, I would say NO.
Before una go chop my head, make I analyze somethings. When it comes to man and woman eeh, the ball game dey different. Cry all you want, men are polygamous in nature. Right from Bible to our ancestors time, no be crime to marry more than one woman. That's why you go see a man wey get 3 babies with different women, and nobody go talk anything. But immediately a woman born just one or two, she don turn second hand material and almost abandoned project.
Same way a man no fit marry empty handed, he must work hard for money first. While a woman only needs toto and makeup before she's qualified for marriage. So both get advantages and disadvantages. Once again, if a man cheat, society no too dey frown about am like women.

The highlighted part shows you are a local Naija man. Go out and try that rubbish, then you will know the society understands it that women are allowed to cheat.
Rubbish way of thinking. Una go just post rubbish.

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