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9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

And why are you barking like a dog...

SirMichael1:
Carry this nonsense 'talk to her and get the fûck out!'. They were both smooching, you sot! Talk to her about what? Oh, pleeeaaaaasssssseeeeeee!

@OP You mean you saw a stranger placing hand on your woman's butt and you kept mute?.. walahi the guy is fvcking her.
Infact carry the baby for DNA test.. that lady is a cheat.

jogsman01:
I'm sorry but you should talk to her about it. This kind of scene is seen in different workplace and open marts. She might not have anything to do with the man but talk to her and put an end to the bullshit.

A man that can place his hand on her butt in public not minding her marital status will insert his third leg inside her in private.. It's usually drivers or okada riders with those female shop owners. be it single or married.
The lady might not be into the OP sef.. I'm suspecting she got married to him cos of her pregnancy which might not even be his.

Forgive her if you still love her

Cha E!

Nothing No Go See ooooo

Forget about women...live your life

Let her go and meet him. God just reveal your death to you ..
Dont be a SIMP by listening to all zhese forgiveness and take it back people o

Cheap loose women everywhere.

Long story short- DNA alert. She won't change. Get another lady.

premierlead:
She was mum's favourite girl in the neighbourhood, pretty and respectful. She will always kneel down while greeting her parents and elders outside even at 24 and already done with OND in one of the southwest polytechnic. Mum and her mother worked together in the same company while growing before they both married though her mum is a bit younger. After a long time which they have separated, they discovered that their hubbies built house in the same area, three streets to each other.

It all started when I was running a postgraduate program and was busy with research, thesis writing and a lot of practices for presentation and seminars indoor. Sometimes it took me three weeks to see the sky outside as I was always inside the house and our tenants didn't know someone is in when everyone left the house. I was just in my 30ls and my fiancee was no more serious as a result of what she always referred to as "academic stuborness" then.

Each time I was in the room busy with my papers, mum would call on this girl that she's going out and that she should helped in preparing the raw food she bought while coming from the office and after preparing the meal, she should serve me and herself, then she would go for long time before returning. Lo and behold each time this babe served me my food, something always entered something that it became a custom that two rounds must happen, first immediately mum left and second after the succulent meal.

Finally she was pregnant and mumsy took every responsibility to the extent that she bought new dresses for her and her average beauty turned to full pretty. We did a little traditional wedding, few people from her family and mine were in attendance. She gave birth to a bouncing baby boy under our roof in the heat of covid19 and the baby was like my half. Now I am done with the program and managing with a private polytechnic. I gathered money with the one mum gave her to start a provision business and she opened the business inside one big fish depot not too close to the house.

To cut the long story short, I travelled back home from where I was working unannounced last week and headed straight to her business place and what I saw really baffled me. I was in her shop for complete more than 10 minutes watching her displaying love with a guy who I later learnt was a bus driver that fish sellers always hire to carry their wares from the depot to their various selling points. She put her two hands around the guy and the guy placed one hand on top of her butts and the other at the back of her head. The old women were carousing and shouting, "ah, husband and wife, won't you give her feeding money" they were like that was not their first time and they have been doing like that since long ago, it was truly as if they are dating and banging each other. It took the noise of her son carried by one of the strangers (fish seller) for her to be released by this driver guy. She almost collapsed when she saw me inside her shop as she collected her baby from the stranger.

She did not come home straight that day as she first called mum if she was back. Though I haven't inform anybody since that day because I am still boiling inside of me till now and she has been reading it on me

I just need to share it to relieve me a bit

Akintunde Olaniyii

Only you fit chop your wife finish? Abeg chill jo

Sometimes i wonder if these stories are real or made up .
You caught you wife im that position imstead of you to involve both families you carry am come nairaland is sickening.



This clout chasing trend has to stop .Its getting annoying

Sorry bro he is having an affair outside it may not be only the bus driver.

premierlead:
Problem share is half solved, I believe we can be our brother's keeper here. As I share it here I am of the belief that the burden is partially shed from my chest. My chest is heavy before now and I am not the type who raise hand on women

With this I'm not so sure if the child belongs to you.. Go for DNA test

Chaii imagine even with a kid

jogsman01:
I'm sorry but you should talk to her about it. This kind of scene is seen in different workplace and open marts. She might not have anything to do with the man but talk to her and put an end to the bullshit.

This is a married woman for God's sake.. Imagine a man putting his hand on the buttocks of your wife.. Guy man reason na.

Bros your matter weak me oo. Call elders council to delebrate on your issue.

premierlead:
Problem share is half solved, I believe we can be our brother's keeper here. As I share it here I am of the belief that the burden is partially shed from my chest. My chest is heavy before now and I am not the type who raise hand on women

Didn't you consider just having her as a baby mama instead of marrying her?

True forgiveness only comes after thorough punishment

You must make her suffer a slow painful punishment before you consider forgiving her

She's a flirt no doubt, and the only way to tame a flirt is to make her understand every of her actions would have severe consequences

Punishments

1: Lock up the shop you opened for her indefinitely without any reason... Just demand your keys (minimum 2weeks)

2: give her the silent treatment till you notice true remorse (atleast a month)

3: Never eat her food or deliberately waste it and go out to eat more at cafes or your mum's place (2 weeks)

4: Yell and Scold her for almost all simple mistake she over look

5: Buy a big bottle of Vodka and bring it home to drink always, get a pack of cigarettes and completely act very reckless and irresponsible for a week




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biggie73:
Long story short- DNA alert. She won't change. Get another lady.

What if another lady is same or worse?
Men should know when to rest.

It was okay when you were committing fornication with her twice daily till she became pregnant.
Did you deflower her?
She has been used to collecting crankshaft from different guys. You're just one of them.
The kind energy some of these poor uneducated drivers or plumbers or bricklayers use to handle women most educated,refined and polished men don't have such energy.
Your wife is only continuing what she was doing before she met you.
If you refuse to be saved, and also marry an unsaved spouse, whatever you meet in such ungodly union endure it.
Shalom.

Iyawo Isonu

I don't know why I find this story so amusing

That's your fucking problem

RedMac:
Another Coc.k and Bull story...

Hahaha, your gif cracked me up

premierlead:
Problem share is half solved, I believe we can be our brother's keeper here. As I share it here I am of the belief that the burden is partially shed from my chest. My chest is heavy before now and I am not the type who raise hand on women

you don't need to explain yourself to little kids who unfortunately have access here too

premierlead:
She was mum's favourite girl in the neighbourhood, pretty and respectful. She will always kneel down while greeting her parents and elders outside even at 24 and already done with OND in one of the southwest polytechnic. Mum and her mother worked together in the same company while growing before they both married though her mum is a bit younger. After a long time which they have separated, they discovered that their hubbies built house in the same area, three streets to each other.

It all started when I was running a postgraduate program and was busy with research, thesis writing and a lot of practices for presentation and seminars indoor. Sometimes it took me three weeks to see the sky outside as I was always inside the house and our tenants didn't know someone is in when everyone left the house. I was just in my 30ls and my fiancee was no more serious as a result of what she always referred to as "academic stuborness" then.

Each time I was in the room busy with my papers, mum would call on this girl that she's going out and that she should helped in preparing the raw food she bought while coming from the office and after preparing the meal, she should serve me and herself, then she would go for long time before returning. Lo and behold each time this babe served me my food, something always entered something that it became a custom that two rounds must happen, first immediately mum left and second after the succulent meal.

Finally she was pregnant and mumsy took every responsibility to the extent that she bought new dresses for her and her average beauty turned to full pretty. We did a little traditional wedding, few people from her family and mine were in attendance. She gave birth to a bouncing baby boy under our roof in the heat of covid19 and the baby was like my half. Now I am done with the program and managing with a private polytechnic. I gathered money with the one mum gave her to start a provision business and she opened the business inside one big fish depot not too close to the house.

To cut the long story short, I travelled back home from where I was working unannounced last week and headed straight to her business place and what I saw really baffled me. I was in her shop for complete more than 10 minutes watching her displaying love with a guy who I later learnt was a bus driver that fish sellers always hire to carry their wares from the depot to their various selling points. She put her two hands around the guy and the guy placed one hand on top of her butts and the other at the back of her head. The old women were carousing and shouting, "ah, husband and wife, won't you give her feeding money" they were like that was not their first time and they have been doing like that since long ago, it was truly as if they are dating and banging each other. It took the noise of her son carried by one of the strangers (fish seller) for her to be released by this driver guy. She almost collapsed when she saw me inside her shop as she collected her baby from the stranger.

She did not come home straight that day as she first called mum if she was back. Though I haven't inform anybody since that day because I am still boiling inside of me till now and she has been reading it on me

I just need to share it to relieve me a bit

Ok.

premierlead:
She was mum's favourite girl in the neighbourhood, pretty and respectful. She will always kneel down while greeting her parents and elders outside even at 24 and already done with OND in one of the southwest polytechnic. Mum and her mother worked together in the same company while growing before they both married though her mum is a bit younger. After a long time which they have separated, they discovered that their hubbies built house in the same area, three streets to each other.

It all started when I was running a postgraduate program and was busy with research, thesis writing and a lot of practices for presentation and seminars indoor. Sometimes it took me three weeks to see the sky outside as I was always inside the house and our tenants didn't know someone is in when everyone left the house. I was just in my 30ls and my fiancee was no more serious as a result of what she always referred to as "academic stuborness" then.

Each time I was in the room busy with my papers, mum would call on this girl that she's going out and that she should helped in preparing the raw food she bought while coming from the office and after preparing the meal, she should serve me and herself, then she would go for long time before returning. Lo and behold each time this babe served me my food, something always entered something that it became a custom that two rounds must happen, first immediately mum left and second after the succulent meal.

Finally she was pregnant and mumsy took every responsibility to the extent that she bought new dresses for her and her average beauty turned to full pretty. We did a little traditional wedding, few people from her family and mine were in attendance. She gave birth to a bouncing baby boy under our roof in the heat of covid19 and the baby was like my half. Now I am done with the program and managing with a private polytechnic. I gathered money with the one mum gave her to start a provision business and she opened the business inside one big fish depot not too close to the house.

To cut the long story short, I travelled back home from where I was working unannounced last week and headed straight to her business place and what I saw really baffled me. I was in her shop for complete more than 10 minutes watching her displaying love with a guy who I later learnt was a bus driver that fish sellers always hire to carry their wares from the depot to their various selling points. She put her two hands around the guy and the guy placed one hand on top of her butts and the other at the back of her head. The old women were carousing and shouting, "ah, husband and wife, won't you give her feeding money" they were like that was not their first time and they have been doing like that since long ago, it was truly as if they are dating and banging each other. It took the noise of her son carried by one of the strangers (fish seller) for her to be released by this driver guy. She almost collapsed when she saw me inside her shop as she collected her baby from the stranger.

She did not come home straight that day as she first called mum if she was back. Though I haven't inform anybody since that day because I am still boiling inside of me till now and she has been reading it on me

I just need to share it to relieve me a bit

Nawa ooo. Have u had a discussion about with her? When it started and how far it has gone? Check her fone and all that to confirm the extent of this amorous relationship. Then u can hold a family meeting and decide what will be done.