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Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by babythug(f): 5:12pm On Apr 03, 2022
Ticha:


Sent

Thank you very much
Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by rinzylee(m): 10:19pm On Apr 03, 2022
Please is anyone in North Walsham here? I have been trying to get an accommodation from Naija. E hard o. Can anyone help??
Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by Ticha: 10:43pm On Apr 03, 2022
rinzylee:
Please is anyone in North Walsham here? I have been trying to get an accommodation from Naija. E hard o. Can anyone help??

North Walsham in Norfolk? Are you there for work? You may need to look in Alysham and Norwich instead and travel to work in N. Walsham. It's a very small town and has a lot more older people than families which means people hardly move out. Not impossible, just a much more longer wait for a place.
Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by rinzylee(m): 9:24am On Apr 04, 2022
Ticha:


North Walsham in Norfolk? Are you there for work? You may need to look in Alysham and Norwich instead and travel to work in N. Walsham. It's a very small town and has a lot more older people than families which means people hardly move out. Not impossible, just a much more longer wait for a place.

Yeah I'm coming to work at the Hospital there. I'm a physiotherapist. It's been crazy searching i must say. I may look the Norwich way. 47 mins by train though.
Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by Ticha: 10:21am On Apr 04, 2022
rinzylee:


Yeah I'm coming to work at the Hospital there. I'm a physiotherapist. It's been crazy searching i must say. I may look the Norwich way. 47 mins by train though.

The train is very slow. It stops everywhere on it way to Cromer. You're better off using the bus then driving. In fact, if you can drive straight away. I'd advise you to do that. You'll be driving against traffic as well as most people will be heading into Norwich for work.

Norwich train station is also near the most expensive parts of the city (Golden Triangle). Whereas if you're driving, you'll just take the ring road and head out.
Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by rinzylee(m): 10:57am On Apr 04, 2022
Ticha:


The train is very slow. It stops everywhere on it way to Cromer. You're better off using the bus then driving. In fact, if you can drive straight away. I'd advise you to do that. You'll be driving against traffic as well as most people will be heading into Norwich for work.

Norwich train station is also near the most expensive parts of the city (Golden Triangle). Whereas if you're driving, you'll just take the ring road and head out.


Chai....Now you are getting me scared o. I hate traffic o. Good Lord. Please I'm sending you a private chat immediately. Hope you don't mind?
Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by Gloriouscrown: 9:17am On Apr 05, 2022
veleta:


Hi, is it number bond or just 1-20? I noticed that atimes some state schools are a bit laid back and some teachers, when you ask about general progress of your child, they usually give generic response that the child is where he should be. Try to listen to your gut feeling, go through the curriculum for that term and assess your child on that. Teaching here is individualised.

Hi Mama,

If I could add to this. My daughter is in reception and when she resumed first of March she found the whole curriculum routine very strange. The next week her teacher called to make some observations about her tights and that she struggles to follow instructions. I was very bothered and so I requested that she gives me weekly update on my daughter as she is new in this country and educational system.

Her teacher started a school+home diary where she writes what my daughter does in school and I get to see how she does. She also attached a copy of their timetable. When I saw it I was surprised! They have like 10-13 activities for the day, spend 10-15minutes per activity. Say they start with reading a book, maybe when the story is getting interesting they will now say its time for maths. My daughter will now say she doesn't want to do math she wants to continue with the story reading. And so on.

But I'm glad she has adjusted as that was her achievement for the term, 'A has really improved and now follows instructions very well'. I didn't know when I got here I will have to pay extra attention to her school work.

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Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by Mamatukwas: 11:28am On Apr 05, 2022
Gloriouscrown:


Hi Mama,

If I could add to this. My daughter is in reception and when she resumed first of March she found the whole curriculum routine very strange. The next week her teacher called to make some observations about her tights and that she struggles to follow instructions. I was very bothered and so I requested that she gives me weekly update on my daughter as she is new in this country and educational system.

Her teacher started a school+home diary where she writes what my daughter does in school and I get to see how she does. She also attached a copy of their timetable. When I saw it I was surprised! They have like 10-13 activities for the day, spend 10-15minutes per activity. Say they start with reading a book, maybe when the story is getting interesting they will now say its time for maths. My daughter will now say she doesn't want to do math she wants to continue with the story reading. And so on.

But I'm glad she has adjusted as that was her achievement for the term, 'A has really improved and now follows instructions very well'. I didn't know when I got here I will have to pay extra attention to her school work.


Most of us didn’t know. Until you get here and realize the system is very very different and mostly more laid back. The good thing is they learn sha, just that you have to keep a close eye.

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Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by Gloriouscrown: 1:29pm On Apr 05, 2022
Mamatukwas:
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Most of us didn’t know. Until you get here and realize the system is very very different and mostly more laid back. The good thing is they learn sha, just that you have to keep a close eye.

Yes we definitely have to keep a close eye on our children.
Thank you Mama for starting this thread...learning loads of good stuff from here.

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Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by Mamatukwas: 4:49pm On Apr 05, 2022
Gloriouscrown:


Yes we definitely have to keep a close eye on our children.
Thank you Mama for starting this thread...learning loads of good stuff from here.
Xx
Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by gratefulme40: 11:15am On Apr 06, 2022
Mamatukwas:

Hello Everyone.

This is a space to talk about parenting, navigating cultural differences, knowing your rights and other general issues related to being a parent in the UK as a Nigerian Immigrant.

For general immigration information and tips on living in the UK, visit the thread below:

https://www.nairaland.com/6719932/living-uk-life-immigrant-part-2

For questions on studying in the UK, please refer to the student thread: https://www.nairaland.com/6712649/uk-student-visa-tier-4#105017249.

Here’s to raising strong families.



Ah ah
How is it I am just seeing this now when I have 2 under 3s in this Uk.

Na search for mamatukwas to look for her post on obtaining passport for kids land me here oo.

Ok, let me start reading from the beginning.

But firstly, if this has already been addressed, my apologies in advance.
I am completing application for citizenship for my 2kids born before I got ILR
Now, it’s asking for ID document, can I use just birth certificate as an ID document for them? If not, biko, can someone break down the process of getting Nigerian passport for kids again that wouldn’t take forever.


I was hoping to submit the applications this month end

Thanks in advance
Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by Mamatukwas: 12:26pm On Apr 06, 2022
gratefulme40:




Ah ah
How is it I am just seeing this now when I have 2 under 3s in this Uk.

Na search for mamatukwas to look for her post on obtaining passport for kids land me here oo.

Ok, let me start reading from the beginning.

But firstly, if this has already been addressed, my apologies in advance.
I am completing application for citizenship for my 2kids born before I got ILR
Now, it’s asking for ID document, can I use just birth certificate as an ID document for them? If not, biko, can someone break down the process of getting Nigerian passport for kids again that wouldn’t take forever.


I was hoping to submit the applications this month end

Thanks in advance

Hey Mama. If you’ve never added them to your application as dependents (hence negating the need for a resident card/BRP) then you should be able to use their birth certificate.

I’ve always applied for my kids passports when we visit Naija but I hear applying here is straightforward as well. Have you checked the website and are having trouble with anything?

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Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by gratefulme40: 12:52pm On Apr 06, 2022
Mamatukwas:


Hey Mama. If you’ve never added them to your application as dependents (hence negating the need for a resident card/BRP) then you should be able to use their birth certificate.

I’ve always applied for my kids passports when we visit Naija but I hear applying here is straightforward as well. Have you checked the website and are having trouble with anything?


No, never added them as dependants so they don’t have BRP

See the attached. It already listed birth certificate and there is this as well which is why I am concerned if birth certificate is enough or not

I have looked at the requirements for Naija passport online, not really a lot but it’s just the waiting time that I am worried about.

Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by Mamatukwas: 6:04pm On Apr 06, 2022
gratefulme40:



No, never added them as dependants so they don’t have BRP

See the attached. It already listed birth certificate and there is this as well which is why I am concerned if birth certificate is enough or not

I have looked at the requirements for Naija passport online, not really a lot but it’s just the waiting time that I am worried about.

I think you have to do passport for them. The earlier you start, the better smiley
Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by LagosismyHome(f): 6:56pm On Apr 06, 2022
gratefulme40:




Ah ah
How is it I am just seeing this now when I have 2 under 3s in this Uk.

Na search for mamatukwas to look for her post on obtaining passport for kids land me here oo.

Ok, let me start reading from the beginning.

But firstly, if this has already been addressed, my apologies in advance.
I am completing application for citizenship for my 2kids born before I got ILR
Now, it’s asking for ID document, can I use just birth certificate as an ID document for them? If not, biko, can someone break down the process of getting Nigerian passport for kids again that wouldn’t take forever.


I was hoping to submit the applications this month end

Thanks in advance

Are they British born or abroad born
Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by gratefulme40: 8:00pm On Apr 06, 2022
LagosismyHome:


Are they British born or abroad born

They were both born here while I was on tier 2. In fact, my son was born September, I got ILR December
Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by gratefulme40: 8:34pm On Apr 06, 2022
nnennachiji:
I live in the USA but am enjoying the parenting advice . I have a 3 year old and he will be starting prekindergarten 3 in August , please which prekindergarten is better Montessori , classical education or regular prekindergarten. He got offer from Alief Montessori community school in Houston, KIPP sharp college prep charter school, westchase classical academy and Harvard elementary all in Houston. I am confused the one to choose , am a new immigrant and almost all have good ratings.


Small world. My sis kids used to attend kipp. They lived at wil crest drive but they moved recently and kids changed school. I live in uk but have visited a few times so I know the area.

Back to your question. My sis loved kipp, she had such a hard time moving het kids out of there. In fact, she considered taking them back after she got them
Into a new school

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Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by LagosismyHome(f): 12:27am On Apr 07, 2022
gratefulme40:


They were both born here while I was on tier 2. In fact, my son was born September, I got ILR December

If they are born in UK then I am 100 percent sure you don't need a naija passport for them because I have a friend who didn't put her kids until they got ILR and till date they don't have a naija passport ( I just asked her), only British she did ... so you might need to recheck google or maybe the birth certificate is sufficient for a British born

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Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by Ticha: 4:51am On Apr 07, 2022
gratefulme40:


I am completing application for citizenship for my 2kids born before I got ILR
Now, it’s asking for ID document, can I use just birth certificate as an ID document for them? If not, biko, can someone break down the process of getting Nigerian passport for kids again that wouldn’t take forever.


I was hoping to submit the applications this month end

Thanks in advance

Their long form birth certificate is all you need as their form of ID

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Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by mumzt: 12:18pm On Apr 07, 2022
LagosismyHome:


If they are born in UK then I am 100 percent sure you don't need a naija passport for them because I have a friend who didn't put her kids until they got ILR and till date they don't have a naija passport ( I just asked her), only British she did ... so you might need to recheck google or maybe the birth certificate is sufficient for a British born

Please, my first was born here. Though we've gone in and out of the UK as visitors.
We're back now under student visa. Does this mean I don't have to add him when we're renewing? Or ut will affect us because he's gone out before?
Can we renew without him and just wait till we get ilr and apply for citizenship for him?
Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by LagosismyHome(f): 12:40pm On Apr 07, 2022
mumzt:


Please, my first was born here. Though we've gone in and out of the UK as visitors.
We're back now under student visa. Does this mean I don't have to add him when we're renewing? Or ut will affect us because he's gone out before?
Can we renew without him and just wait till we get ilr and apply for citizenship for him?

How long were you out for?... but typically it allowed
Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by nnennachiji(f): 9:36pm On Apr 07, 2022
gratefulme40:



Small world. My sis kids used to attend kipp. They lived at wil crest drive but they moved recently and kids changed school. I live in uk but have visited a few times so I know the area.

Back to your question. My sis loved kipp, she had such a hard time moving het kids out of there. In fact, she considered taking them back after she got them
Into a new school



Thank you I appreciate your input. I have registered him with KIPP just that since he is 3 years old he will be in prekindergarten 3 and the hours is just 7:30 am to 11 am . Officially, prekindergarten is usually by 4 years and schools hours for prekindergarten 4 is 7.30 am to 3.45pm but I believe it will still help him even if it’s only for 3 and half hours. I live near wilcrest at Richmond Avenue.
Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by Ticha: 10:48pm On Apr 07, 2022
For the school holidays - places where kids eat free.

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Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by Ticha: 10:51pm On Apr 07, 2022
mumzt:


Please, my first was born here. Though we've gone in and out of the UK as visitors.
We're back now under student visa. Does this mean I don't have to add him when we're renewing? Or ut will affect us because he's gone out before?
Can we renew without him and just wait till we get ilr and apply for citizenship for him?

If I'm not mistaken, to do that, the child must not have an existing visa linked into an existing passport. Once they have the passport of another country even if they haven't travelled out of the UK, that automatically means the visa restrictions of that country applies to them. That's my understanding so you'll need to clarify.
Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by hopefuliam: 9:00am On Apr 08, 2022
Hi Mamatukwas
Please i have been trying to reach you. I need ti send a couple of baby clothes to my family in Nigeria from uk..
Please respond plssssssssss
Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by Mamatukwas: 10:56am On Apr 08, 2022
hopefuliam:
Hi Mamatukwas
Please i have been trying to reach you. I need ti send a couple of baby clothes to my family in Nigeria from uk..
Please respond plssssssssss

Did you send a message? Haven’t seen it. Kindly resend.
Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by hopefuliam: 11:08am On Apr 08, 2022
I tried to follow you . And sent on another chat.
Maybe i am not doing it right.
Sorry
Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by Mamatukwas: 11:09am On Apr 08, 2022
hopefuliam:
I tried to follow you . And sent on another chat.
Maybe i am not doing it right.
Sorry

Okay. I’ve told you what to do on the other thread. X
Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by mumzt: 7:55pm On Apr 08, 2022
LagosismyHome:


How long were you out for?... but typically it allowed

He's 8 now. Used to be resident here, so I already had nhs number and co. Came to have him with visit visa, paid and went back. But we've been coming to the uk for holidays every year since he was born, except during covid, and now we're back as residents (student visa)
Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by mumzt: 7:56pm On Apr 08, 2022
LagosismyHome:


How long were you out for?... but typically it allowed

It will be nice if its allowed o. That's over a thousand pounds savings each time we renew
Re: Parenting In The UK As A Nigerian Migrant. by mumzt: 7:58pm On Apr 08, 2022
Ticha:


If I'm not mistaken, to do that, the child must not have an existing visa linked into an existing passport. Once they have the passport of another country even if they haven't travelled out of the UK, that automatically means the visa restrictions of that country applies to them. That's my understanding so you'll need to clarify.

Oh okay. I'll dig deeper. Thank you

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