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Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Dorwadora(f): 10:39pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Blupen:Boss crazy things are happening now and I have many reasons to be cautious. And naturally anyone familiar with Are-Ekiti axis will tell you that the place is a desolate area of many heaps.... I'm just been careful. 2 Likes |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by flokii: 10:40pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Dorwadora: Hmmmn.. muslim men don't joke with t0to dept. whether fasting or not. Just be careful out there and let people know your whereabouts. Goodluck securing a better job offer. 5 Likes |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Kobojunkie: 10:44pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Dorwadora:Are you a woman? If yes, I suggest you let your boss know that you are not comfortable cooking for him at his place. Suggest that he gives you money to instead cook at your place and deliver it to him at work or someplace else instead. 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Dorwadora(f): 10:45pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
flokii:Yes.... I always make sure to send distress messages to people around me whenever I'm leaving work to his house.... Thanks for your concern and advice.... I'm grateful 2 Likes |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Blupen(m): 10:47pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Dorwadora:you are not been careful by thinking negatively..... You attract what you think 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Dorwadora(f): 10:47pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Yes I am a woman.... Your suggestions is very considerable ma/sir.... I'm grateful cus the job means so much to me for now.... I'm grateful 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Kobojunkie: 10:47pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Bola146:Even the open-minded have no reason to ignore caution. She is uncomfortable doing his cooking for him in his space, and in a country like Nigeria, every woman still has to remain cautious around the men. If he wants to act stupid? She is in his house, and and is dangerous place to be since that is his territory, not hers. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by 22o62021: 10:48pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Las Las na Bleep go end am When you Don start to de thief him money e go de sweet you and you go use Bleep settle him make you for no loose |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Blupen(m): 10:49pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:nice signature.... |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Dorwadora(f): 10:49pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Blupen:Thank you sir.... I'll work on my mindset 3 Likes |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by flokii: 10:50pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Dorwadora: You're much welcome.. I'm glad we still have smart ladies like you who don't throw caution to the wind when they see luxury or comfort. 2 Likes |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Kobojunkie: 10:50pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Blupen:That is bullsheet, OK! No rape victim ever thought to herself , "i want to be raped someday ". And no murder victim fantasized about being murdered in a vicious manner. Bad things happen to people every day, without them ever imagining it could happen to them. 12 Likes |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Kobojunkie: 10:52pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Dorwadora:In this life, one lesson I have learned in all my years, and this from observing self and everyone out there, it is always best to err on the side of caution. He may be your boss, but as an employee and a human, you have a right to always protect yourself. Cooking at home and then delivering to him may seem inconvenient at first but you can maybe ask others for ideas on how to make it work so it works out for you. There are many people who do similar as a side business. 11 Likes |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Dorwadora(f): 10:53pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
22o62021:Maybe you should read my post again sir.... I've only been there for 6 days.... I have and will never steal anybody money. I don't take what doesn't belong to me.... The only time I have access to the man's money is when I take order and every money either coming in or going out is always properly documented. He can not use fucck to settle anything with me cus I don't own him anything. 3 Likes |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Blupen(m): 10:53pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Dorwadora:what's up with the "Sir" am still a young guy ooh |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Blupen(m): 10:55pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:so what's your advice to her? |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by 22o62021: 10:58pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Dorwadora: OK just be careful and observant of his doings Run an Intel on him to know more Make him wife no burst you on 00 :00 hour 1 Like |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Kobojunkie: 10:58pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Blupen:She can talk him instead into letting her do the cooking in her own comfort zone, her own place, and then she can deliver it to him afterwards or at work the next day. Growing up in Nigeria, I heard enough of tales to make me know not to advice any individual to try it at all. 7 Likes |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Dorwadora(f): 10:59pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:I'm very grateful for your post ma/sir.... I feel my emotions sorting themselves out because of this your post. My numerous concerns and insecurities can not be put out here but you've saved me. I'm grateful. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Kobojunkie: 11:00pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Dorwadora:Part of work life is being cautious abeg. You don't say because na your boss so you should not cover your own self. |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Truvelisback(m): 11:02pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
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Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Truvelisback(m): 11:05pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Dorwadora:If u feel he doesn't have bad motive towards u, continue ur job. |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by DontBullshitMe: 11:11pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Go home to your parents. Which type of parents is even comfortable with their child staying back in school when academic activities is on suspension? Anyways, nah you Sabi. Next thing nah for you to dey spread him bed for am. 5 Likes |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Dorwadora(f): 11:15pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
YoungLionken:To be sincere with you I'm in a serious, happy relationship.... I and my boyfriend will be 4 years together by May... Contentment has always been my watchword and it's this contentment is the reason I'm always happy.... One of the reason I made this post out is because I don't want anything that will hurt my relationship and the trust we've built in eachother.... I don't like to gain wealth through means that I can't be proud of.... I made a post on my deactivated account about how I saved up to start a cybercafe business... I was very proud of the business.... That's the kind of life I want for myself..... Thanks for your advice and concern sir... 3 Likes |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Dorwadora(f): 11:17pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
DontBullshitMe:I am an indigene of Ekiti State, I'm a student here in Ekiti State, my grandparents stay here in Ekiti State, I have a very long line of relatives watching out for me here in Ekiti.... My parent have every reason to feel at ease with my stay here.... Ekiti state is my home 2 Likes |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by DontBullshitMe: 11:37pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Dorwadora:Why can't your "long line of relatives" find/offer you a job in Ekiti? Like I typed earlier, only irresponsible parents will allow for their child to stay back in school after the suspension of academic activities for as long as a month and a few weeks. 4 Likes |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Dorwadora(f): 11:46pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
DontBullshitMe:I don't leech on people.... It's not my way.... My parent understand that I'm an young adult with an insatiable thirst for freedom.... My parent trust my maturity, sense of security and responsibility so naturally my parent is at ease with my stay at Ekiti. 4 Likes |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by blaise26abj(m): 11:55pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
Bola146: And this advice is why some girls end up killed or raped . Op please tell him you cannot do that for him again . It is better to lose the job than lose your life, peace of mind or getting scarred for life . 4 Likes |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Kobojunkie: 12:03am On Apr 10, 2022 |
Dorwadora:All this kain stories dey always form like that. "He was a nice man , but suddenly he became a monster...."... You better not let people's niceness get you into letting your guard down abeg! So long as you are dealing with/contracting with a fellow human being, always be about your guard. 8 Likes |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by lilachiever(m): 12:03am On Apr 10, 2022 |
Dorwadora: Let him know you aren't comfortable cooking in his kitchen. Ask him to allow you do it in your own house and pack it to the office for him if you think you still need to continue doing the cooking to do your job. I for one feel it's dangerous going to cook in his house. 1 Like |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by Dorwadora(f): 12:09am On Apr 10, 2022 |
lilachiever:Thanks so much sir... I'm grateful for your contribution... Your post is synonymous to that of @kobojunkie.... The guage of warnings and solutions put my mind at rest.... Thanks so much sir... |
Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by kkins25(m): 12:12am On Apr 10, 2022 |
Save up and quit!! When i worked as a waiter, i noticed something. A guy would give his money to the lady to pay to me. I know the money is not hers, but I'm confident that it's a kind of power play. Something to let the guard of the lady down. You know to give her this pseudo feeling of power (wife to be) when in reality the guy is just toying with her mind. when i read the post first, i thought it was your job to cook. Until i read some clarification made by you. To me, i think some advances would come. He is probably waiting for you to soften up. The moment he gets the slightest hint of "Na me dey cook for this house" vibe from you.. Booom!!!!!! Either that or the man dey use you as house help for free. 4 Likes 1 Share |
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