Blupen:
change your mindset young girl

Dorwadora:
My work is just to take order, document sales and expenses. Literally I manage the business money.... I've only been there for 6 days and the man Is the owner. @the bolded.... I'll take my chances till they finish fasting.... He's fasting now and quite a devotee so I don't think anything will happen now but I'm on a look out for another job

Dorwadora:
but recently he has been giving me his home key to go and cook for him. The first time I was surprised because giving your house key to someone you barely know is a bit weird to me but since Monday that I've started the work, I've been to his house 4 times cooking stew or vegetable soup. I'm there right now frying meats.

I am seriously not comfortable with the arrangement but I can't say no because I really need to keep the job and save up. He's married but his wife is not staying with him and cooking and cleaning is the job of a wife not a staff.

Please house how can I stop this whole charade without losing the job?

flokii:


Hmmmn.. muslim men don't joke with t0to dept. whether fasting or not.
Just be careful out there and let people know your whereabouts. Goodluck securing a better job offer.

Dorwadora:
Boss crazy things are happening now and I have many reasons to be cautious. And naturally anyone familiar with Are-Ekiti axis will tell you that the place is a desolate area of many heaps.... I'm just been careful.

Kobojunkie:
Are you a woman? If yes, I suggest you let your boss know that you are not comfortable cooking for him at his place.

Suggest that he gives you money to instead cook at your place and deliver it to him at work or someplace else instead.

Bola146:
Free your mind, we still have good with good integrity no matter what they see or do, they will never cheat Focus on your job like an employee, he paid you for it, so do your work diligently and leave unless you want him to increase your salary. If he wants to act stupid, please kindly quit asap! Don't think twice of waiting

Kobojunkie:
Are you a woman? If yes, I suggest you let your boss know that you are not comfortable cooking for him at his place.

Suggest that he gives you money to instead cook at your place and deliver it to him at work or someplace else instead.

Blupen:
you are not been careful by thinking negatively..... You attract what you think

Dorwadora:
Yes.... I always make sure to send distress messages to people around me whenever I'm leaving work to his house.... Thanks for your concern and advice.... I'm grateful

Blupen:
you are not been careful by thinking negatively..... You attract what you think

Dorwadora:
Yes I am a woman....

Your suggestions is very considerable ma/sir.... I'm grateful cus the job means so much to me for now.... I'm grateful

22o62021:
Las Las na Bleep go end am

When you Don start to de thief him money
e go de sweet you and you go use Bleep settle him make you for no loose

Dorwadora:
Thank you sir.... I'll work on my mindset

Kobojunkie:
That is bullsheet, OK!

No rape victim ever thought to herself , "i want to be raped someday ". And no murder victim fantasized about being murdered in a vicious manner. Bad things happen to people every day, without them ever imagining it could happen to them.

Dorwadora:
Maybe you should read my post again sir.... I've only been there for 6 days.... I have and will never steal anybody money. I don't take what doesn't belong to me.... The only time I have access to the man's money is when I take order and every money either coming in or going out is always properly documented. He can not use fucck to settle anything with me cus I don't own him anything.

Blupen:
so what's your advice to her?

Kobojunkie:
In this life, one lesson I have learned in all my years, and this from observing self and everyone out there, it is always best to err on the side of caution.

He may be your boss, but as an employee and a human, you have a right to always protect yourself. Cooking at home and then delivering to him may seem inconvenient at first but you can maybe ask others for ideas on how to make it work so it works out for you. There are many people who do similar as a side business.

Dorwadora:
I'm very grateful for your post ma/sir.... I feel my emotions sorting themselves out because of this your post.

My numerous concerns and insecurities can not be put out here but you've saved me. I'm grateful.

Dorwadora:
Good evening my Romancelanders and Nairalanders. I hope y'all been having a good day?

Here's the thing.

Due to the ASUU strike I decided to get a job around my school instead of going home because Ekiti has become home for me. I resumed work on Monday, that's 6 days ago. I and my boss have not been having any issue. He gives the command and I get the work done but recently he has been giving me his home key to go and cook for him. The first time I was surprised because giving your house key to someone you barely know is a bit weird to me but since Monday that I've started the work, I've been to his house 4 times cooking stew or vegetable soup. I'm there right now frying meats.

I am seriously not comfortable with the arrangement but I can't say no because I really need to keep the job and save up. He's married but his wife is not staying with him and cooking and cleaning is the job of a wife not a staff.

Please house how can I stop this whole charade without losing the job?

Lalasticala
Myndd44
Dominique

Dorwadora:
Good evening my Romancelanders and Nairalanders. I hope y'all been having a good day?

Here's the thing.

Due to the ASUU strike I decided to get a job around my school instead of going home because Ekiti has become home for me. I resumed work on Monday, that's 6 days ago. I and my boss have not been having any issue. He gives the command and I get the work done but recently he has been giving me his home key to go and cook for him. The first time I was surprised because giving your house key to someone you barely know is a bit weird to me but since Monday that I've started the work, I've been to his house 4 times cooking stew or vegetable soup. I'm there right now frying meats.

I am seriously not comfortable with the arrangement but I can't say no because I really need to keep the job and save up. He's married but his wife is not staying with him and cooking and cleaning is the job of a wife not a staff.

Please house how can I stop this whole charade without losing the job?

Lalasticala
Myndd44
Dominique

YoungLionken:
See my dear lady..

The way to a man's heart is through..

Sooner or later, you both will start developing feelings for each other and it is normal..

Even if he makes sexual advances towards you, accept it. That way, you have trapped him for your financial and promotional gains..

Sex is overrated here in Africa, that's why it is seen as something huge..

DontBullshitMe:
Go home to your parents.

Which type of parents is even comfortable with their child staying back in school when academic activities is on suspension?

Anyways, nah you Sabi.

Next thing nah for you to dey spread him bed for am.

Dorwadora:
I am an indigene of Ekiti State, I'm a student here in Ekiti State, my grandparents stay here in Ekiti State, I have a very long line of relatives watching out for me here in Ekiti.... My parent have every reason to deep at ease with my stay here.... Ekiti state is my home

DontBullshitMe:

Why can't your "long line of relatives" find/offer you a job in Ekiti?

Like I typed earlier, only irresponsible parents will allow for their child to stay back in school after the suspension of academic activities for as long as a month and a few weeks.

Bola146:
Free your mind, we still have good with good integrity no matter what they see or do, they will never cheat Focus on your job like an employee, he paid you for it, so do your work diligently and leave unless you want him to increase your salary. If he wants to act stupid, please kindly quit asap! Don't think twice of waiting

Dorwadora:
To be sincere the man is not making any form of sexual advances to me.... The working environment is good and the pay is lovely.... Naturally I'm not comfortable with the whole arrangement of cooking.... It's not in my job description but I just want to hold on to the job for as long as I can....

Thanks for your advice sir

Dorwadora:
Good evening my Romancelanders and Nairalanders. I hope y'all been having a good day?

Here's the thing.

Due to the ASUU strike I decided to get a job around my school instead of going home because Ekiti has become home for me. I resumed work on Monday, that's 6 days ago. I and my boss have not been having any issue. He gives the command and I get the work done but recently he has been giving me his home key to go and cook for him. The first time I was surprised because giving your house key to someone you barely know is a bit weird to me but since Monday that I've started the work, I've been to his house 4 times cooking stew or vegetable soup. I'm there right now frying meats.

I am seriously not comfortable with the arrangement but I can't say no because I really need to keep the job and save up. He's married but his wife is not staying with him and cooking and cleaning is the job of a wife not a staff.

Please house how can I stop this whole charade without losing the job?

Lalasticala
Myndd44
Dominique

lilachiever:


Let him know you aren't comfortable cooking in his kitchen.

Ask him to allow you do it in your own house and pack it to the office for him if you think you still need to continue doing the cooking to do your job.

I for one feel it's dangerous going to cook in his house.