kkins25:
Save up and quit!!

When i worked as a waiter, i noticed something. A guy would give his money to the lady to pay to me.

I know the money is not hers, but I'm confident that it's a kind of power play. Something to let the guard of the lady down. You know to give her this pseudo feeling of power (wife to be) when in reality the guy is just toying with her mind.

when i read the post first, i thought it was your job to cook. Until i read some clarification made by you. To me, i think some advances would come. He is probably waiting for you to soften up. The moment he gets the slightest hint of "Na me dey cook for this house" vibe from you.. Booom!!!!!!

Either that or the man dey use you as house help for free.

Dorwadora:
He can't get that kind of vibes from me cus naturally I'm scared.... I'm doing the whole thing because I was desperate to have a job and now that I've gotten it I don't wanna lose it... Believe me sir cooking is the least of my fear.... I'm always looking around in fear.... Jumping at every shadow

blaise26abj:


And this advice is why some girls end up killed or raped . Op please tell him you cannot do that for him again . It is better to lose the job than lose your life, peace of mind or getting scarred for life .

Bola146:
Free your mind, we still have good with good integrity no matter what they see or do, they will never cheat Focus on your job like an employee, he paid you for it, so do your work diligently and leave unless you want him to increase your salary. If he wants to act stupid, please kindly quit asap! Don't think twice of waiting

Modified: Even if he is living with his family 24/7, if he will kill you, he can easily do that, anything in this life is a risk! Going to office and coming back everyday is about risk. It's a matter of the mind and choice, go to overseas and see how people are making money doing this job. If your mind is doubting, kindly quit! I know there are many people willing to accept that job.

Dorwadora:
Good evening my Romancelanders and Nairalanders. I hope y'all been having a good day?

Here's the thing.

Due to the ASUU strike I decided to get a job around my school instead of going home because Ekiti has become home for me. I resumed work on Monday, that's 6 days ago. I and my boss have not been having any issue. He gives the command and I get the work done but recently he has been giving me his home key to go and cook for him. The first time I was surprised because giving your house key to someone you barely know is a bit weird to me but since Monday that I've started the work, I've been to his house 4 times cooking stew or vegetable soup. I'm there right now frying meats.

I am seriously not comfortable with the arrangement but I can't say no because I really need to keep the job and save up. He's married but his wife is not staying with him and cooking and cleaning is the job of a wife not a staff.

Please house how can I stop this whole charade without losing the job?

Lalasticala
Myndd44
Dominique

Dorwadora:
My work is just to take order, document sales and expenses. Literally I manage the business money.... I've only been there for 6 days and the man Is the owner. @the bolded.... I'll take my chances till they finish fasting.... He's fasting now and quite a devotee so I don't think anything will happen now but I'm on a look out for another job

Dorwadora:
Good evening my Romancelanders and Nairalanders. I hope y'all been having a good day?

Here's the thing.

Due to the ASUU strike I decided to get a job around my school instead of going home because Ekiti has become home for me. I resumed work on Monday, that's 6 days ago. I and my boss have not been having any issue. He gives the command and I get the work done but recently he has been giving me his home key to go and cook for him. The first time I was surprised because giving your house key to someone you barely know is a bit weird to me but since Monday that I've started the work, I've been to his house 4 times cooking stew or vegetable soup. I'm there right now frying meats.

I am seriously not comfortable with the arrangement but I can't say no because I really need to keep the job and save up. He's married but his wife is not staying with him and cooking and cleaning is the job of a wife not a staff.

Please house how can I stop this whole charade without losing the job?

Dorwadora:
Of course my instincts are against the whole thing, that's why I want people's opinion. And also a way to stop the whole cooking thing without losing the job.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar

We already know how it is gonna end

Happy ending for you boss....

As a real niggar I can tell where the journey is going to end

You will soon become part of the menu baby girl

YoungLionken:
See my dear lady..

The way to a man's heart is through..

Sooner or later, you both will start developing feelings for each other and it is normal..

Even if he makes sexual advances towards you, accept it. That way, you have trapped him for your financial and promotional gains..

Sex is overrated here in Africa, that's why it is seen as something huge..

Dorwadora:
How's it gonna end?....

Dorwadora:
Good evening my Romancelanders and Nairalanders. I hope y'all been having a good day?

Here's the thing.

Due to the ASUU strike I decided to get a job around my school instead of going home because Ekiti has become home for me. I resumed work on Monday, that's 6 days ago. I and my boss have not been having any issue. He gives the command and I get the work done but recently he has been giving me his home key to go and cook for him. The first time I was surprised because giving your house key to someone you barely know is a bit weird to me but since Monday that I've started the work, I've been to his house 4 times cooking stew or vegetable soup. I'm there right now frying meats.

I am seriously not comfortable with the arrangement but I can't say no because I really need to keep the job and save up. He's married but his wife is not staying with him and cooking and cleaning is the job of a wife not a staff.

Please house how can I stop this whole charade without losing the job?
I will tell you for free, your boss will demand for more than cooking and house keep.
Tell him you are not comfortable with going to his house to do all that. He can eat at eateries, or cook himself. Don't get entangled in his domestic duties. How do you think the wife would react if she gets to meet you in his house, during unexpected visitation.