faithfull18:
Some women need to start standing up for themselves.

Never let anyone talk down on you or go physical on you.

God abeg don't let anyone I know fall into the hands of these kind of men.

The irony is even the so-called spiritual brothers are the worst offenders.

Iyaebe:
Ladies if any man insults you in a relationship please dump him without looking back, don’t wait till he starts hitting you

michael77777:
thunder fire my dead mother left nyash[/b]


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Paulianfa:
thunder fire my father mouth.

Magnoliaa:


Okay... here are investigations that have been made, asking questions and then providing answers. If you truly believed so, have you made this research before coming here to type what you just typed? Why did you jump into conclusions and went ahead to pronounce a verdict when you wanted more investigation to be made?

- These are facts about how poverty of women and domestic violence go hand-in-hand:

https://www.safehousecenter.org/the-intersection-of-domestic-violence-and-poverty/

https://cpag.org.uk/news-blogs/news-listings/domestic-abuse-economic-issue-%E2%80%93-its-victims-and-society

- Testimonies shared by victims of domestic violence themselves: REALLY READ IT AND DIGEST and do not go off about something else with me. You asked for findings, right?

https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/true-survivor-stories

https://safelives.org.uk/news-views/real-life-stories

- The behaviours of abusers, since you claim no sane man can just lay a finger on his wife without cause:

https://ncadv.org/signs-of-abuse

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Did you know that the late Minister submitted her salary to her husband? Did you know that this husband controlled her account and was more or less her manager, wielding control over the shows and contracts she gets? Does that look like a woman who is bragging with the small money she has to you?

You also want to tell me that you've not seen people FOR NO REASON, who are wicked and always angry and always bully people? You have never seen an innocent person being assaulted before? You don't see kids get beaten when they've done no wrong... you don't literally see these things, since you claim these things do not happen without provocation?

Okay, okay, if a wife is verbally abusive to her husband, what did the husband do to provoke her to insulting him?

I know my gender, I can vouch for them here. No sensible woman with a correct head will start insulting a man if he didn't ask for it. Every man turns a woman into a beast of an emotional abuser. Check well, the man deserve it. Abi abi you want to tell me that domestic abuse against a woman is caused by a woman, but emotional abuse against a man is not caused by the man? You see how that sounds, yeah?

But if you believe women can be emotional and verbal abusers without a triggering factor, independently, why do you not believe men can be physical abusers without a triggering factor, independently too?

How about traditional, uneducated housewives who believe a man is the head and that divorce is not an option, who still get beaten on top?

These women are completely virtuous and submissive to their husbands and they don't make money, so they don't even raise their voices back at their husbands, yet they still get beaten? What will you say about that?

Oh, or perhaps you will justify the abuses Nigerians face in the hands of police, soldiers and SARS officials. Have you ever been a victim? Have you ever been harassed by someone bigger than you? Someone of a higher authority and you're helpless and defenseless? Boya, we should switch this on you and use you as a case study. I am anticipating your response. Let us see if you have ever deserved the injustice that has ever been meted out to you at one point or the other. Let's know if you're also responsible for it because of your mouth and your behaviour.

Oh, and don't come at me with you said, "some of these women." That's not going to fly with me. And what you will not do is have me believe there are c.r.a.z.y b.i.t.c.h.e.s who run their mouths and are bad, but that there aren't crazy niggas who use their hands.

BRATISLAVA:
Do you think these dumb guys care about evidence?

Absolutely not, Bratis. Absolutely not. I know that very well. That's just for my thrills and enjoyment. He's brought the cards, let's play it.

And for someone like that do, I very well can tell how painful it'll be getting embarrassed and floored, and by a woman.

Thankfully, he can do nada to me, but come screaming and claiming how I'm intentionally pushing him with my words. I am here for it.

Teddy96:



No responsible man will hit his wife. . Those that do hit are nt man . . They are frm marine spirit

Yewandequeen:
i dont support the curse but the dude uttered total rubbish. No amount of flaw the woman has must make a man to hit her. What happened to him walking away? Some men are just animals pls.

Iyaebe:
Every abuser once sang this line but acted differently

Teddy96:



. . So u actually sayin I'm an abuser?

Magnoliaa:

Absolutely not, Bratis. Absolutely not. I know that very well. That's just for my thrills and enjoyment. He's brought the cards, let's play it.

And for someone like that do, I very well can tell how painful it'll be getting embarrassed and floored, and by a woman.

Thankfully, he can do nada to me, but come screaming and claiming how I'm intentionally pushing him with my words. I am here for it.

Iyaebe:
That's just a response to your comment,I never said that

Paulianfa:
All these talk cannot solve any problem except one learned to understand what is happening in people's lives and home.
Some of these domestic violence are cause by women themselves cos they seems not to understand the ways of life.
I don't think a man with a right senses can lay a finger on his wife without something behind, u see all these women wen they have more than u, they wants rule over u, they want to control and becomes the head of the house, they will insult and abuse u the way they can.
And wen u stood ur ground, the whole world will be blaming you for defending ursef, they will now turn against u.


One needs to investigate and asked questions about domestic violence.

Iyaebe:
Ladies if any man insults you in a relationship please dump him without looking back, don’t wait till he starts hitting you

BRATISLAVA:
He will never admit being floored, rather turn it on you. Dunno how thrilling that will be. Lol. Cycle continues.

I am a turning stick myself.

Aystarz:
If everybody started walking away from their partners over insults, we all know what gender would experience a mass exodus.

I know it's how you all reason but it goes without saying that nobody should put up with abuse of any kind.

Iyaebe said women should walk away, did she ask men to stay?

Mass exodus? Because you have a proof that women insult men more? The 'verbal abuse' y'all are always wielding like some assault tool sef, it needs to be addressed. On every fking thread, every time on issues concerning women abuse.

Yewandequeen:
i dont support the curse but the dude uttered total rubbish. No amount of flaw the woman has must make a man to hit her. What happened to him walking away? Some men are just animals pls.

Magnoliaa:

Absolutely not, Bratis. Absolutely not. I know that very well. That's just for my thrills and enjoyment. He's brought the cards, let's play it.

And for someone like that do, I very well can tell how painful it'll be getting embarrassed and floored, and by a woman.

Thankfully, he can do nada to me, but come screaming and claiming how I'm intentionally pushing him with my words. I am here for it.

emmaodet:
I guess women are the only beings we need to protect in this world.
Only if they know how many men are passing through emotional and psychological abuses in their marriages, they will be surprise but since it is men, they need to man-up and absorb all those bullshits.
Within this same 5 months, have seen more men killed by their wives but since it is men, it is okay. Nobody opened thread or a campaign against marriage.
Believe me, if all men are encouraged to pull out swiftly from marriages with emotional and psychological abuses, we won't have up to 20% marriages left and since emotional and psychological abuses are not physical but rather invincible, nobody pays attention.

Datikwerreboi:
That's exactly how you will invite your man who lives with u,then he kills u,your rest feministic dolls will now come here to mourn you

You def know I am a feminist and you should know the kind of men I roll with by now if you fastidiously follow me. Emasculated, feminised, and 'controllable' men who can't even hurt a flower or a fly. So I got no problem there; I gat me covered.

Brian47:
That gospel singer died because of religion.
Sometimes religion causes these cause "God hates divorce"

Magnoliaa:


What is the point of this? Why una too like suffering olympics and victimhood maranthon like this? Why? Why?? Why??

Get the fk out of abusive marriages and speak for men! Stop trying to say because men put up with shit, women should too. Ehn, o n dun mo yin ni naw. If e no sweet una, una go pack comot. Why do you care about upholding a thing that does not serve nor suit you??

But I hope if you encourage 80% of men to leave their abusive marriages, you will blame redpill for that? Because it's only right, my friend. You cannot demonise feminism for poisoning young women in marriages and sabotaging their happiness and putting the skyrocketing divorce rates on feminism, but not apportion equal blame of equal measure with the same effect to redpill. So encourageeee away. Do. But this ain't the thread for you to do that, okay? This isn't it.

Infact, for all it's worth, it is the WOKE AND FENINIST AND MODERN social media people that trended ideas such as "boys can cry too." It NEVER rose out of alt-right conservative spaces. It is woke people that are saying boys can be anything and be anyhow and like pink and whatnot. But when you hear things like that, you say they want to emasculate you. Like what the fk do you want now? #ProjectManDown is a fairly popular movement and contrary to erroneous beliefs too, it is not trying to demoralise men, but rather to egg them away from the idea that a man has to always man up and shut up. IF it is not on a thread about women's issues and if it is not invalidating women's issues, feminist women are the most caring and sympathetic women who are open to men's plights that I know, but then that's just my opinion.

It is always men like YOURSELF, conservative and traditional people like YOU who are always telling you to man up. Am I right or right? So don't try to put this on women speaking up for women's abuses. I mean, people even 'insult' feminists with wanting simps who are soft-hearted and quiet-spoken and aren't macho and whatnot, yet people think it is those kind of women that want men to bottle up.

You said you've seen 5 men killed by their wives? Mention me on another thread and post the links to those stories. I am interested in reading them. Have you ever talked about those five men somehow? Ohhh, nobody opened thread. You mean even YOU yourself didn't. Okay, I get it. How about domestic shelters for men, do you know of any? You would do well to provide me with the details of all these too on that thread. Maybe create one. You know me, I like to know something about everything, so I'll be looking forward to you doing that.

faithfull18:
Some women need to start standing up for themselves.

Never let anyone talk down on you or go physical on you.

God abeg don't let anyone I know fall into the hands of these kind of men.

Excober08:
All the women in these pictures are dead! All within a space of 5 months.

They were all victims of domestic abuse and they all suffered extreme physical violence in the hands of their husbands up until their deaths.

Growing up, I was told the reason many women stay in abusive marriages is because they don’t have their own money and they can’t run back to their fathers house….

Let me shock you!!!

All the women in these pictures were the breadwinners; they were all independently and financially well to do. They all had their own money and they were all richer than their husbands. They were all equally educated and relatively exposed; everything you know about domestic violence, they knew much more!
But yet! Yet! Their lives were ended by the dead-beat men they chose to love!

Dear Women,
If he hits you once, he will definitely do it again and again and again. And if you make excuses for him the first time, you will see yourself making excuses for him, over and over and over again.
Maybe one day he will change, but until then, leave! Because he won’t change if keeps seeing you to punch. He can only change when you leave him! So, leave now! Carry you bag and go. Just go! And don’t come back!

Under the flyover is better than a inside the casket.

We can blame society, we can blame religion, we can blame the church! But the truth is, you always have a choice and the choice is always yours to make.

Religion cannot go, tradition cannot go, society cannot go… only you can go!

If you love yourself, leave! If you love your children, leave! If you love your friends, leave! If you love your partner, leave!

The rate at which women are dying in the hands of their partners these days is alarming. It’s seems like the right question to ask is….Who Is Next?

SocialJustice:
You have come here to display the foolishness Jollz was displaying on twitter. Go and fight your abusive boyfriend na, it will be instant death for you.

faithfull18:

Are you okay Where did I write ladies should fight abusive men. There are ways in dealing with such people without lifting a finger. Use your tongue to count your teeth.

Shadysen:
shut up,can u walk away everyday?

Iyaebe:
Ladies if any man insults you in a relationship please dump him without looking back, don’t wait till he starts hitting you