Seredebe:


Ebubu must hear this

Skidee:
You're just a mad man..
May every bad thing in life happen to you. Oloriburuku somebody.

Lightorder:
using the fist is not an option. The rate at which marriages crash these days is just alarming. I called a senior friend just last night and to my amazement, the first thing he told me is that he is breaking up with his wife. I was shocked because he is the last person I expected that from. Marriage of over 17 years. Reason is that the wife would never admit any wrong doing and very wasteful. Though I need to hear her own side of the story. He told the wife that her choice to remain in the marriage or leave is entirely her decision to make. I think she is considering to leave. No physical abuse reported so far but SOME women are not ready to make any sacrifice In their marriages these days. They love freedom to leave as singles while married . Before my very eyes, three marriages had crashed in less than a year. It would have been four but one decided to make sacrifices and they saved theirs. Today , they love themselves like Romeo and Juliet. Many single mothers and women from broken marriages are now up in different medium, preaching breakup in the name of equal right and women liberation and those will tiny brains are buying to it. No single marriage has same formula. You use what works for you.

Remag666:

I know you're joking
The guy go collect him money complete one shishi no go miss
Who calls off wedding and doesn't pay back the bride price

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:

Physical abuse is wrong! Verbal abuse is wrong! Which one is "the only thing a woman has is her tongue"? There is just no way you can justify it. I am happy the lady left though. We can't prove the lady is bad mouthed, but even if she is, chasing her with a cutlsss or beating her with stick is strange.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
Nice...I hate domestic violence

I hate domestic violence with passion


First of all ....smoking weed makes you have a good sense of reasoning...
And secondly I can't beat a woman because I have lived with women almost all my life...I am the only male child among six children...
There are different ways to reprimand a woman for any wrong doing...don't beat them

Tracka:
You have made the right choice for yourself

immortalcrown:
ADDED:
I have gotten 21 quotes and have no time to reply to the quotes one after another. Fools attack me because of my last paragraph where I addressed the lady's publicity of the case. The stupid attackers ignored where I say a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. My last paragraph implies that she herself should not be abusive in her marriage since she left an abusive man. If she becomes abusive in her own marriage, this publicity will work against her. Tonto is an example. Tonto left her marriage and made the world see her estranged husband as a beast. The man has been living peacefully with another woman and Tonto has failed in her second marriage. This does not mean Churchil is innocent of her accusation. She might have said the truth against Churchil. She might have lied against Churchil. I was not there to know the truth. But whether she lied or not, her failed second marriage went viral because of her publicity against Churchil. So, if you publicize the weakness of your ex, be careful in handling your next partner, be you a man or a woman. The stupid attackers who accept only one-sided judgment and hate a balanced judgment should hug live energy transformers.

"If he gets another woman or gets richer, you will begin to regret leaving him." If this bolded part is more reason the stupid attackers are angry, I can justify the bolded part. If not for material benefits or for getting an orgasm, what will make such a lady date the highly abusive man for more than a year? We can see the man's picture. We can see he is not all that physically attractive. So, what kept her in the relationship for more than a year? Any lady that decides to date a highly abusive man for up to a year does it either for material benefits or for sexual satisfaction, and such a lady will have interest in the man for a long time even after a breakup. If not that common sense is not common, those attacking me would have asked themselves why she dated him for more than a year.

I was one of the fulls that quoted you, so I will still respond to this ADDED again.

I was never an attacker, though. Just for the records. I don't know why you felt the need to categorise me together with everybody but that's fine.

You have made sense. Like you're absolutely right. In addition to what I said too, I believe it is very possible for her to not become an abusive partner. I believe she can find a beautiful and caring and compatible and respectful, non-violent partner and this publicity will be a great thing. It means we'll come to celebrate her tomorrow for a decision well made. Remember we're saying the same thing. 9ice is a classic example. Of a publicity gone wrong and working against him. Oga made claims and gave hints and recorded songs, all insinuating a cheating on the part of Toni Payne and many people 'til today still demonise that lady. Now look at him running from pillar to post and cannot keep a marriage stable. He himself was recently embroiled in a cheating drama where he had to shamelessly come on social media to come and be asking us to help us beg his wife. And like eight or seven years later, the same guy debunked the rumours of Toni Payne cheating on him. I bet many people till this day do not know about his press release clearing Toni Payne's name of every cheating rumours.
Babe's been forever branded for something she didn't do in Nigerians' eyes.

So even though cheating and physical abuse are two different matters, both Tonto Dikeh and 9ice have both made people believed unpalatable things about their exes, and now both of them still can't keep a stable relationship. Now that is me being balanced, just like you expected, right? Do I get a cookie now? Or points? Or a badge? Pleaseeee. (Mind you though, 9ice cheating ass has been opened; let's pray that Churchill and his beau will not come to regale us with stories of abuse tomorrow, IJN).

And for the bolded, you are so on point. Like, that is the whole reasonable conclusion to this matter. I mean, since we're being scales of balance here, I find it pertinent to add that the man stayed with the woman too for some benefits and will lose them as the lady has decided to leave. I can defend that. If not for material benefits or mind-blowing sex, what will make a man remain in a relationship with a woman he doesn't value enough?

I mean, it's common sense. People will not want to manhandle things they respect and cherish, and instead of the man walking away from a woman he sees no dignity in, he stayed to continue abusing her and to psychologically manipulate and keep clipped under his influence. Men like to be where they are valued and respected and looked up to, not as a personification of terror. But this guy obviously do not care about all that. Because he's benefitting from the woman he is abusing. I expect you too to ask yourself, what will make a man continue in being with a woman he obviously doesn't respect nor value nor cherish? A self-interest and sinister motive.

TheGift:


Can you swear with your life that it is a lie? Or you are just jumping to conclusions because of your assumptions and preconceived notions?

FutureIsFemale:
Nice move.
If I have my way I'd stay single forever.
These animals don't worth it.

He should be arrested and no refund of the bride price unless he has not had sex with you.

Aonkuuse:
I think this young lady have made the best choice for herself. She called off her wedding that supposed to hold on Saturday over her boyfriend's constant beatings

Read her story below:



https://www.facebook.com/100023344715047/posts/1125662428221904/?app=fbl

FutureIsFemale:
Nice move.
If I have my way I'd stay single forever.
These animals don't worth it.

He should be arrested and no refund of the bride price unless he has not had sex with you.

Palema007:
You are pained, soon enough you all women beaters will have no women to flex your muscles on..

Gnosticstudent:


Is there a justification or legally accepted grounds for assault and battery in the part of the cosmos you come from?

Glamouzpeter:
Men who constantly beats their wives can stand a punch from their folks
But seems to show off when it's comes to women

scarchiji:

No make me laugh... So u mean to say if them jam their fellow man, them go turn cold!

Glamouzpeter:

Sure

scarchiji:

See as your eyes dey para! You go sabi find trouble well..

Glamouzpeter:

Nop
Am cool

Kingcalls:
Women always think they are right ... what did u do?? Men don't show emotions when they are abused , they can't cry , so they rather will hit, its in our nature ...so y do women think they can just insult men and get away with it... as long as the world dont preach that women should also respect men and dont insult men, men will continue to hit women... they wise women will dodge confrontation to avoid violence , the foolish ones will think they can insult men and expect no reaction....

Domestic violence against women has increased since feminists started preaching that a woman should not be hit even if she abuses the man to the point where he is pushed to the wall... just look at the last 2 big brothers... look at how those women insulted those guys to the point that one of the guys started crying... women like that will easily get hit by a man cis men respond with violence when angry....its in a man's nature and women should understand it... this is y most men don't wanna even get married again...

scarchiji:

You'd be put to test soon�

Kingzchinedum:
bross no matter what a lady does to you.. that does not give u any right to touch her..

FutureIsFemale:
Will he pay for the damages? Well, he will collect his money in prison.

BluntTheApostle:

You have spewed rubbish.
Patriarchy is different from misogyny.
Patriarchy is different from toxic masculinity.
The Bible supports patriarchy, but not misogyny.

How a man is raised has nothing to do with the African view about women. A Christian may be raised to believe that a man is the head of the family, but no true believer in God will raise their male children to hate women.

In the case of the man in the OP, his problem is not misogyny. The fact that he beats his fiancee doesn't automatically make him misogynistic. He is evidently a violent person, and one with a short temper too. A bad combination.

Kobojunkie:
"The Bible" does not support patriarchy instead patriarchy resulted from God's curse on mankind right after the fall of man - Genesis 3 vs 16.