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Re: How Can I Stop Being Soft Hearted As A Guy by Sebastine1994(m): 12:14pm On Apr 14, 2022
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Re: How Can I Stop Being Soft Hearted As A Guy by victorazy(m): 12:15pm On Apr 14, 2022
Solofresh2:
There is something bothering me about my kind hearted and soft behavior and I am not happy with it.

Some people have taken of me for this and I noticed that people don't deserve my soft love for humanity but would rather take advantage of it.

Please how can I help it

Dey drink cup of paper water every morning.

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Re: How Can I Stop Being Soft Hearted As A Guy by Brian47(m): 12:15pm On Apr 14, 2022
Go to the romance section and look for The Gidredpiller

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Re: How Can I Stop Being Soft Hearted As A Guy by wiseone28: 12:16pm On Apr 14, 2022
Na so i be thou at the rate of 70%
Re: How Can I Stop Being Soft Hearted As A Guy by aribisala0(m): 12:17pm On Apr 14, 2022
Solofresh2:
There is something bothering me about my kind hearted and soft behavior and I am not happy with it.

Some people have taken of me for this and I noticed that people don't deserve my soft love for humanity but would rather take advantage of it.

Please how can I help it
Go to Oyo and get their tribal marks called Abaja or
Ogbomosho called Gombo
People with those tribal marks have no mercy

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Re: How Can I Stop Being Soft Hearted As A Guy by PointZerom: 12:17pm On Apr 14, 2022
Solofresh2:
There is something bothering me about my kind hearted and soft behavior and I am not happy with it.

Some people have taken of me for this and I noticed that people don't deserve my soft love for humanity but would rather take advantage of it.

Please how can I help it

God made you that way but what you should develop is the ability to say no and stand by it. Hope you understand what I mean?
Re: How Can I Stop Being Soft Hearted As A Guy by 9ty4our: 12:17pm On Apr 14, 2022
*As a guy, how can I stop being soft hearted?

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Re: How Can I Stop Being Soft Hearted As A Guy by AFONJAPIG(m): 12:18pm On Apr 14, 2022
You are soft hearted because you are poor undecided

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Re: How Can I Stop Being Soft Hearted As A Guy by lomprico(m): 12:19pm On Apr 14, 2022
Be drinking Agbo jedi morning, afternoon and night.
Re: How Can I Stop Being Soft Hearted As A Guy by Skinkerjnr(m): 12:19pm On Apr 14, 2022
BigRocky:
Bro soft hrt will only get you used and dump.

I promise you,e no dey pay.

Myself I have soft hrt and I hate it .

Looking for ways to change too but is hard
My conscience na supreme Court judge,e no dey let me rest
Story of my life..... sometimes i think if I Change i might turn out to be a terrible Human being

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Re: How Can I Stop Being Soft Hearted As A Guy by Angrygoat: 12:20pm On Apr 14, 2022
Man up bro. I used to be a soft heart ,well maybe only towards my mother. But turned a full time gangstar 2016. If u like call me,faint in front of me,jump on my car. I won't get moved. The only thing I will move,is my car and its gonna be on top speed.

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Re: How Can I Stop Being Soft Hearted As A Guy by Nobody: 12:20pm On Apr 14, 2022
Constantly read 48 laws of power and back I up with actions, you will become so dangerous

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Re: How Can I Stop Being Soft Hearted As A Guy by NamelessOGBENI(m): 12:20pm On Apr 14, 2022
BigRocky:


I started working on mine Sha.
Been too emotional as a man is not advisable.
Re: How Can I Stop Being Soft Hearted As A Guy by Donpacco147: 12:21pm On Apr 14, 2022
a SIMP
Re: How Can I Stop Being Soft Hearted As A Guy by SLOVFO(m): 12:21pm On Apr 14, 2022
Solofresh2:
There is something bothering me about my kind hearted and soft behavior and I am not happy with it.

Some people have taken of me for this and I noticed that people don't deserve my soft love for humanity but would rather take advantage of it.

Please how can I help it
Go and ask our politicians grin
Joke apart, you don't need to change because of people. Someday, you will get rewarded for your kind actions. God rewards.

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Re: How Can I Stop Being Soft Hearted As A Guy by TenQ: 12:21pm On Apr 14, 2022
Solofresh2:
There is something bothering me about my kind hearted and soft behavior and I am not happy with it.

Some people have taken of me for this and I noticed that people don't deserve my soft love for humanity but would rather take advantage of it.

Please how can I help it
So you want to exchange your good nature to evil one!?
Re: How Can I Stop Being Soft Hearted As A Guy by Nobody: 12:22pm On Apr 14, 2022
Candidlady:



My dad is sick, my mum is sick, my aunt just gave birth, my brother needs school fees, my dog needs to see the vet, can you please help with 100 thou ?

Don't forget you are on a public forum where the whole world might see this and criticize you if you turn me down!

I love you and at the same time you scare me but you smart. So I'll overlook the love I have for you smiley
Re: How Can I Stop Being Soft Hearted As A Guy by Btruth: 12:23pm On Apr 14, 2022
Solofresh2:
There is something bothering me about my kind hearted and soft behavior and I am not happy with it.

Some people have taken of me for this and I noticed that people don't deserve my soft love for humanity but would rather take advantage of it.

Please how can I help it
same here too...just because we are sons & daughters of Christ, people just think they can be giving us trash. I'm honestly tired. The things that even worry me most is that most good hearted people don't last. I want to be hard small abeg.

Re: How Can I Stop Being Soft Hearted As A Guy by Nobody: 12:23pm On Apr 14, 2022
posty56:
if like no man up ,come they ask, na so wan of my guy ,wey they very soft ,them they use am any how still they make jest for in back ,na. until I sit down am talk sense ,in learn by force , if is one thing I learn , Nigerians don't respect soft treatment , that's why soldiers are unfortunately hard on citizens ,they no if they act soft naija. go take them for granted

You didn't answer his question.

I was expecting you to give guides, strategies and practical steps to follow in order not to
be soft.

Example, first step, start seeing people as they are, act fearlessly like no one is watching, live everyday like your last and if you can, smoke or eat green weed if possible etc.

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Re: How Can I Stop Being Soft Hearted As A Guy by Theunbothered: 12:24pm On Apr 14, 2022
Drink stout so you become stout hearted
Re: How Can I Stop Being Soft Hearted As A Guy by RightToReject(m): 12:24pm On Apr 14, 2022
Your problem isn't softheartedness because there's nothing wrong in being one; your problem lies in your inability to hate nonsense and your indiscriminate love for validation.

Summarily, eschew posturing and embrace justness.

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Re: How Can I Stop Being Soft Hearted As A Guy by gift2xl: 12:24pm On Apr 14, 2022
That's how your created.

Peace.
Re: How Can I Stop Being Soft Hearted As A Guy by spawnx: 12:25pm On Apr 14, 2022
Being kind hearted is not bad but you need to draw the line. I worked on myself a decade ago, by putting sticky paper on my wardrobe with"learn to say NO".

I had a guy at my former workplace, who would call every month telling me sob stories and I obliged. I woke up when I realised the dude could be calling 10 different people with same stories and would make good buck without working.

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Re: How Can I Stop Being Soft Hearted As A Guy by Navalsadiq(m): 12:25pm On Apr 14, 2022
When dealing with Nigerians set boundaries and be a hard liner that is the only language they understand

Plot your graph very well.help those you can help but be mindful of the kind of people you help because some of them will block where that income comes from

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Re: How Can I Stop Being Soft Hearted As A Guy by Donchyke007(m): 12:25pm On Apr 14, 2022
Don't allow people change who you are bro. Being kind and soft hearted is a very good trait. Just be careful who you run these emotions with because there are alot of selfish and toxic people waiting to take advantage of you. Sometimes you need to toughen up to those set of people because not everyone deserves to have you around. Cheers bro.

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Re: How Can I Stop Being Soft Hearted As A Guy by NamelessOGBENI(m): 12:26pm On Apr 14, 2022
BigRocky:


I started working on mine Sha.
Been too emotional as a man is not advisable.
Na death, abduction story, financial lost here and there and many break up stories make man no deh too reason emotions laikdat.

Normally area rough, so emotions deh hard for niggas wey deh trenches.

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