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I am aware of a married man who is clearly cheating on his wife with a lady I know well. It disturbs me a lot cause I have feelings for the lady in question. Should I report to his wife or keep mute? I don't like women to be disrespected like this. The same lady doesn't care whether I am aware or not. Help a man with answers.

You dey mad?

Mind your business and live long.

You have feelings for a married woman?
Nawa ooo...... Na for front page we go read your news shaa

Report to the woman because you really care for her well being or because of jealousy that the man is getting what you think should be yours?

(It disturbs me a lot cause I HAVE FEELINGS FOR THE LADY IN QUESTION). OP please can u explain what u mean by this, or are u jealous of the husband and trying to cause misunderstanding between them so u can hatch ur long term selfish *feelings* as u out it...

Obalacam:
Report to the woman because you really care for her well being or because of jealousy that the man is getting what you think should be yours?

It's not about jealousy. The contemplations I have is about doing the right thing.

Oga you're jealous, better mind your business

Report him please.
I DNT support evil

MIND YOUR DAMN BUSINESS

Ebubeslym:
Mind your business and live long.

You have feelings for a married woman?
Nawa ooo...... Na for front page we go read your news shaa

The lady the man is cheating with not the married woman.

Tell the wife through a distant 3rd party in a way she won't know you are the one that hinted her about her husband.
It's difficult to advise or inform deeply inlove people about each others shortcomings

nero2face:
(It disturbs me a lot cause I HAVE FEELINGS FOR THE LADY IN QUESTION). OP please can u explain what u mean by this, or are u jealous of the husband and trying to cause misunderstanding between them so u can hatch ur long term selfish *feelings* as u out it...

I want her to be free because I like her, not so we will be together. But it would have been preferred if it was a random guy not married. Dating or sleeping with a married man is not an option. It's so demeaning for the lady and disrespectful to the husband's wife. I'm just concerned for her.

You don't even know if the wife knew the husband is a chronic cheater, so you going to report him is a waste of time. So mind your business.

The best you can do is, if you are a guy, you can lure the wife to have sex with you so that she can cheat on him too , if you're a lady, you can arrange a young hansom guy to knack the woman. I have been doing it to other ladies that I found out their husbands is cheating on them, at the end they're always appreciative.

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga you're jealous, better mind your business

We can't be together after all these I have seen. My friend is still young and has a lot of good things to enjoy in life. She might regret it. Forget about jealousy.

MadamVanessa:



You don't even know if the wife knew the husband is a chronic cheater, so you going to report him is a waste of time. So mind your business. Or the best you can do is, if you are a guy, you can lure the wife to have sex with you so that it the wife can cheat on him too , if you're a lady, you can arrange a young hansom guy to knack the woman. I have been doing it to other ladies that I found out their husbands is cheating on them, at the end they're always appreciative.

Why do you reason upside down?

MadamVanessa:



You don't even know if the wife knew the husband is a chronic cheater, so you going to report him is a waste of time. So mind your business. Or the best you can do is, if you are a guy, you can lure the wife to have sex with you so that it the wife can cheat on him too , if you're a lady, you can arrange a young hansom guy to knack the woman. I have been doing it to other ladies that I found out their husbands is cheating on them, at the end they're always appreciative.

I am not like that. Besides, I just want the best for my friend. It's a big concern for me.

Sayishalom:
I want her to be free because I like her, not so we will be together. But it would have been preferred if it was a random guy not married. Dating or sleeping with a married man is not an option. It's so demeaning for the lady and disrespectful to the husband's wife. I'm just concerned for her.

Who told you the wife is not aware her husband is cheating?

Everyone are just saying mind your business. SMH . That's why Nigeria is where it is now.

Someone is stealing and looting from your fellow citizen dry (politicians)... Mind your business
someone is planting bomb (terrorists).. Mind your business
someone is insulting your collective intelligence.. Mind your business...

@op do not tell her directly, just give her a clue, or a pointer and let her figure it out herself, if she is not able to find out on her own, then leave her alone.

As for me, a clue is enough for me to figure out what is wrong.

obyrich:
Who told you the wife is not aware her husband is cheating?

What if she is not aware?

Jennyclay:
Do you know, that's why Nigeria is where it is now.

Someone is stealing and looting from your fellow citizen.. Mind your business
someone is planting bomb (terrorists).. Mind your business
someone is insulting your collective intelligence.. Minda ya business...

@op do not tell her directly, just give her a clue, or a pointer and let her figure it out herself, if she is not able to find out on his own, leave her alone.

As for me, if you get

Thanks for the response. How do I get on with that? Can I call you?

Sayishalom:
I am aware of a married man who is clearly cheating on his wife with a lady I know well. It disturbs me a lot cause I have feelings for the lady in question. Should I report to his wife or keep mute? I don't like women to be disrespected like this. The same lady doesn't care whether I am aware or not. Help a man with answers.

Mind ya business

Trust me,for every cheating husband,the wife already knows.

Just watch how things is gonna play out

BigRocky:
Trust me,for every cheating husband,the wife already knows.

Just watch how things is gonna play out

Most likely. But what if she doesn't? The goal here is to set the lady free (not the wife) because I am concerned for her. She's my friend.

Sayishalom:
Most likely. But what if she doesn't? The goal here is to set the lady free because I am concerned for her. She's my friend.

Woman wey dey find married man to fuçk and enjoy his money na im you wan free. Simps no dey ever learn.

Cux of ur selfish interest ewu gambia ;DCux of ur selfish interest ewu gambia

Sayishalom:
What if she is not aware?

Most unlikely.

obyrich:
Most unlikely.

I hope you know the bone of contention for me here is not the wife but the lady?

To think you are a man acting like a b*tch, is nauseating. I'm outta here!.

Sayishalom:
I hope you know the bone of contention for me here is not the wife but the lady?

Then focus on the lady. Is she deliberately dating a married man?

Sayishalom:
I am aware of a married man who is clearly cheating on his wife with a lady I know well. It disturbs me a lot cause I have feelings for the lady in question. Should I report to his wife or keep mute? I don't like women to be disrespected like this. The same lady doesn't care whether I am aware or not. Help a man with answers.

You don't like to see women disrespected or are you trying to help yourself here?

Sayishalom:
It's not about jealousy. The contemplations I have is about doing the right thing.

. How can you be contemplating on doing the right thing when you clearly stated that you have feelings for the lady but she is not unto you. You are not thinking with your head but rather with your heart

Sayishalom:
Most likely. But what if she doesn't? The goal here is to set the lady free (not the wife) because I am concerned for her. She's my friend.

Does your friend wants to be setfree?

U mean she dun know the man is married?

Talk to your friend,not the wife.