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Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by Klass99(f): 12:02pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by TroubleMaker47(m): 12:05pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
cj1900:Here i how i see it 1=> You've know your cousin for some years hence you have a slight idea what he is cappable of right? If he is stable, chances of your cousin f**king your nursing wife is less than 2% 2=> With your cousin there, the chances of another nigga coming to your house to nack your wife is less than 1% but without him there is jumps to 25%. So the choice is yours.. have your cousin nack your wife(which is very unlikey) or have a stranger nack your wife in your home(very probable) 1 Like |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by Richy4(m): 12:05pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Klass99: You are correct...even this time around he might not leave his cloth and run away just as our dear Joseph did... men of nowadays, leaving our cloths is no longer an option...some will even give her the cloths to keep 1 Like |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by GloriousGbola: 12:06pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Klass99: Also as an aside Is it The same Nigerian women aggressively cockblocking thier husbands that will change stance and start dropping knickers for one cousin staying in the house? |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by emerged01(m): 12:06pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Just tell him to leave. Let him know that he should understand the way women behave, that you wont want him to lose his value and respect before your wife. You will advice to leave that he is always welcome whenever you are around. |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by ayenika1: 12:08pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
frozen70: Op. best advise |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by Kokaine(m): 12:08pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
cj1900:Sorry to intrude your privacy with the question I'm about to ask. I have always beennof the opinion that people living in Nigeria and raising kids here are doing so because that's the only choice they have. Personally, that's my case. Recently I pondered on the fact that I know many rich people with the capacity to live abroad, but remain in this country despite the broken infrastructure and insecurities. I have just never been opportuned to ask anyone this question. Please sir, what exactly are the reasons you rather raise your kids in Nigeria than overseas? Do the shortcomings of culture outweigh the opportunities outside? |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by oodua1stson: 12:09pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
limcar:lol no! She actually hated me because I didn't. How man go suffer build house for you then you betray am like that. 1 Like |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by Klass99(f): 12:10pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
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Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by mjbaba: 12:12pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
cj1900: Be smart in breaking the news to him. Call him aside and say Bro...you know women can be funny. No matter how good they are. I don't want issues of disrespect to start arising between you and this woman when I'm not around. And I won't be happy. I think it's best we have an alternative for you so that you will leave the house as soon as I go or before I go. My suggestion is...... Or Do you have a better suggestion? At this stage you can now offer to pay all or part of the rent for an alternative place. You need to do it fast so he can start searching before you go 1 Like |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by Lamasta(m): 12:13pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
You are the problem and not your cousin, since you don't trust anybody including your wife and cousin that's why you will continue to feel insecure 1 Like |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by Nobody: 12:17pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Onyeziokwu: My brother Abeg help a brother too, I wan Japka comot for Nigeria just like you. |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by Jennifer89(f): 12:18pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Tell him to move out before you start accusing her |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by ufotunang: 12:28pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Richy4:....I know if the cousin is not a skirt chaser... but that temptations especially when he is alone with the lady... anything can happen.... even many pastors that preach against adultery but also falls into temptations and cheat on their wife and commits adultery....so everything is about having self discipline and self control with that one cannot fall into temptations of commitng adultery 2 Likes |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by silibaba: 12:29pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
cj1900:YES |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by erjo: 12:30pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Georgekyrian: Best option so far. Op, listen to this! |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by Ertugrul: 12:35pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Brother-in-law and wife play different when husband is away |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by farem: 12:42pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
cj1900: Leaving rape out of the equation, the rest is entirely depends on your wife! |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by Nobody: 12:47pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
cj1900: Rent a 2 BD apartment for your Cousin, very far from where you live, and I mean uncomfortable far location, and I want to emphasize, not as cool as your present neoighbour, and importantly, pay a runs girl to toast him and get his dick in her constantly as a spy to know his moves towards your home. Then Travel. Addendum: Intuition from the Subconscious system is not always wrong, even with a probability of 1% of event occurring, I am determined to be unreasonably careful. Trust CAN NOT exist in an IMPERFECT world simulation. If you can not afford a 2bd, a man in need can not afford a choice of gifts. Rent him a common one room, somewhere away from your nucleus of love. Protect the electrons and provide for the protons, but put a firewall around the Nucleus of Love. |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by Iamnorth: 12:52pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
OP if you are already being suspicious then you have your answers right! |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by Heavensent01(m): 12:52pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
is Slawomirr or Smellingsperm your cousin? if is not these two gurus worry less joke apart your thought of not leaving both is true but that doesn't mean your wife won't still feel for guy outside if she really want to leaving a man with your wife is not emotionally safe |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by Nobody: 12:53pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
farem: True! With constant unsupervised exposure to all forms of social and televisual media, 'morals-wall' begins to crack and sight sensor activates mentally controlling hormones that shuts down values benchmark through cerebral programming. As men, we are very good to our wives, and we can not ever want to lose our wives, if the women are just perfectly 'ours only'. While we just could hide and Bleep some premium beauties.-------- And we fear if women are wired the same way, hence the excessive control and protection. Gender Equality says we all can be Jada and Will Smith, but we wanna be Jonathan and Mama Peace. |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by jmaxjohn(m): 1:00pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
My guy don't listen to all these toxic ppl online oooo. It is safer to leave your wife with your cousin, if u have trust in both of them, than to leave your wife ALONE. In fact, to be safer, bring in a younger relative of your wife to help around. REASON AM WELL O YOUR COUSIN WILL HELP KEEP A NEUTRAL EYE ON THINGS, WHILE HER RELATIVE WILL HELP AROUND THE HOUSE (IF YOU TRUST THEM) cj1900: |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by litaninja(m): 1:02pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Lmao. How may men are you gonna arrange self con for? You're talking of your cousin, that you know about, all the other guys you don't know of nko? You can have abroad life with wife in the lions' den or you can have same location as your wife without abroad life. |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by jmaxjohn(m): 1:09pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
akinsmyk: cj1900 you hear the wisdom wey this guy talk? No go listen to the foolishness of men o. |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by Dearlord(m): 1:11pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Favfables1: Nice � one , I agree with you 1 Like |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by biggie73(m): 1:20pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Trusting someone is not enough. If you think of any negativity, it's definitely happening. |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by Qpid5(m): 1:24pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
We4all:tbh I don't have problem oo but my problem is that some of you are so good in bringing out positivity at the very wrong time and at the end of the day, you find yourself in ignorance.. this is not about trust, we all know this things, once you are in the mood, you will do it if u have the chance with anybody at all then later the devil get the blames.. wife whom her husband is not always around can't be trusted when it comes to sex starve abeggg jarre 1 Like |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by GodisFirst: 1:25pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
There is nothing wrong in him staying with your wife in your absence. You wife will definitely need someone to help her run around on some errands, like going to refill the gas, buy fuel for the generator, even drive her to the hospital or market if she has the need. If he stays away and you are not there, your wife can invite him or he can on his own come uninvitedly and that which you are afraid of may still happen. It could be between your wife and any other man or boy if your wife is that kind of woman. What you should worry about is 'the type of woman you are married to'. Is she a faithful woman that can wait for you till you are back? If she is a good woman, she will resist any temptation and even inform you as soon as any man starts making advances to her. So in conclusion, tell you wife your fears and let her know the dangers so that she wouldn't be carried away by youthful ignorance as you said she is too young, but to alert you as soon as she senses danger. So it is left for her. Don't forget that even while you are with them in the house, if she is a bad girl, she can do that which you are afraid of, right under your nose without your knowledge. Do your best and hand her over to God. Good luck. |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by na2016: 1:25pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
OP: Get your cousin to go live with another relative. You can be assisting him from there. As for your wife, you too have to make a decision to be together in the same country (Nigeria or UK) and also get some relative from her end to be with her and discuss your fears frankly with her. |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by seyz91(m): 1:33pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
You said all Mooh247: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help-is It OK To Leave Wife And Cousin Alone In One House? by ModelLook(m): 1:38pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
You already know the answer. |
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