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Re: My Father Dragging My Mom's Property With Me, how the Issue Was Resolved by GraciousGod190: 3:33pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Mariangeles:Offcus yes Are you nigeria or Chinese? You don't see people owing property's in some families but bears entirely different surname of that family? It's their right, as long they have related blood ties same with their future kids. The blood ties are there, the link is there..it's not always about the surname. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Father Dragging My Mom's Property With Me, how the Issue Was Resolved by Mariangeles(f): 3:36pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
[s] KiNg0G:[/s] Just say you're too dumb to understand them. 1 Like |
Re: My Father Dragging My Mom's Property With Me, how the Issue Was Resolved by Mariangeles(f): 3:39pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
GraciousGod190: The reason why I'm asking is 'cause in Igbo culture, things are done differently. A married woman cannot keep an ancestral property from her father's family. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: My Father Dragging My Mom's Property With Me, how the Issue Was Resolved by GraciousGod190: 3:43pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Mariangeles:Well am not igbo, custom's and traditions varies. southerners don't behave that way..... you can inherit property as far your great grand mother's side through your mother. 7 Likes |
Re: My Father Dragging My Mom's Property With Me, how the Issue Was Resolved by Kobojunkie: 3:44pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Mariangeles:What? Your women are being ripped off by these traditions you cling to then. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Father Dragging My Mom's Property With Me, how the Issue Was Resolved by Efewestern: 3:44pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
princeeze1: The property belongs to the entire Family and are typically registered under it's name... a part was given to everyone including OP's mother and since she is resting in the lord, her inheritance falls to her offsprings which the entire family acknowledge as their own. In the absence of no kids, the family redistribute the properties to other blood relatives. Infact, you can't tussle things out without fighting the entire family. There is no legal way you can argue this. Family property belongs to the family. 6 Likes |
Re: My Father Dragging My Mom's Property With Me, how the Issue Was Resolved by Spherical77(m): 3:48pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
immortalcrown:you lack comprehension. This simple piece you couldn't digest. 2 Likes |
Re: My Father Dragging My Mom's Property With Me, how the Issue Was Resolved by Mariangeles(f): 3:49pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: In Igbo land, we try to avoid confusion like the one op and his father are caught up in. Everything is done orderly. A man's inheritance belong to his wife as well. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Father Dragging My Mom's Property With Me, how the Issue Was Resolved by immortalcrown(m): 3:49pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Spherical77:Point out how I lack comprehension. I am not perfect. I will take correction if you prove your claim. But if you do not prove it, you are the one that lacks comprehension. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Father Dragging My Mom's Property With Me, how the Issue Was Resolved by Kobojunkie: 3:50pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Re: My Father Dragging My Mom's Property With Me, how the Issue Was Resolved by Efewestern: 3:52pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
bukatyne: Yes. It's obtainable for all ancestral lands. Wether male or female, Lands are distributed equally to all offsprings. It passes down from a Father/Mother to his/her Sons/Daughters and so on. Culturally, you can't even cheat a woman when it comes to ancestral properties, her interest and that of her children is very well protected. 5 Likes |
Re: My Father Dragging My Mom's Property With Me, how the Issue Was Resolved by Kobojunkie: 3:52pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Mariangeles:Yet in the vast majority of cases in the same Igboland, the husband's relatives are known to take possession of husband's property even before his body is cold in the ground?. 6 Likes |
Re: My Father Dragging My Mom's Property With Me, how the Issue Was Resolved by Mariangeles(f): 3:55pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Those who do that, do them out of greed. The properties rightfully belong to the widow and her children. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Father Dragging My Mom's Property With Me, how the Issue Was Resolved by Efewestern: 3:56pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Mariangeles: You are automatically a member of your mom's family the moment she gave birth to you and everything accrued to that family must be shared to you. You don't need to change your surname. Once the family knows you are a child of their sister, they give you what's due to you. No one, I repeat, no one can cheat you out. Urhobo culture is beautiful. 9 Likes |
Re: My Father Dragging My Mom's Property With Me, how the Issue Was Resolved by Kobojunkie: 3:58pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Mariangeles:I still think women are stiffed by those traditions since they fail to protect in way too many cases of what you call greed. Even as I kid, I heard way too many stories of widows being thrown out on the streets by relatives abeg, and only a handful ever resolved at the end of the day. 3 Likes |
Re: My Father Dragging My Mom's Property With Me, how the Issue Was Resolved by Nobody: 4:00pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Efewestern:It means you did not read what Op said. He said ”my mom’s properties pass down to her by her parents and even grand parents”. He never in any way insinuated it was family properties. He even in the original thread stated that his mother’s family initially tried to encroach but backed out because he was in the fray. We have ancestral or family lands belonging to all extended family. It is different from what a parent particularly acquired and passed down to his child, male/female. 4 Likes |
Re: My Father Dragging My Mom's Property With Me, how the Issue Was Resolved by KingOfAllIgbos: 4:05pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
2 useless grown men fighting over a woman's properties. Maybe you both should work harder to acquire yours instead of reporting & disgracing yourselves. Like Father... Like Son. " I took my son to court over my wife's father's buildings" " I reported and disgraced my dad over my mother's father's property. " 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Father Dragging My Mom's Property With Me, how the Issue Was Resolved by Trojan8(m): 4:08pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
immortalcrown: You would have thought Op came with any legal backing to prove it belongs to him. Nothing! Just normal reprimand that centers on human sentiments. 2 Likes |
Re: My Father Dragging My Mom's Property With Me, how the Issue Was Resolved by COdeGenesis: 4:10pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Last last you and your papa go lose the land to your family members 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Father Dragging My Mom's Property With Me, how the Issue Was Resolved by loadedvibes: 4:10pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
You are in the right op.. your dad doesn't have rights to any inherited property by your mother.. if she built when she was alive then he could maybe have a say not inherited.. you did good but I suspect things with him won't be smooth hence forth 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Father Dragging My Mom's Property With Me, how the Issue Was Resolved by Nobody: 4:11pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
GraciousGod190: Read your original story, nice to see that you have sorted it out. But oga, please...get it on document that it is now your property. Get it on document. 1 Like |
Re: My Father Dragging My Mom's Property With Me, how the Issue Was Resolved by Efewestern: 4:11pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
princeeze1: The OP has always said ancestral land in involved. Didn't you read the part he said his uncle can't even sell his portion because it was inherited? These lands were inherited from their forebears, making it a family property only accessible to blood relatives. 6 Likes |
Re: My Father Dragging My Mom's Property With Me, how the Issue Was Resolved by nedekid: 4:11pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
ibechris:Well said. |
Re: My Father Dragging My Mom's Property With Me, how the Issue Was Resolved by Ayoleeboy007: 4:12pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
What's the purpose of having or inheriting property without using or selling it 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Father Dragging My Mom's Property With Me, how the Issue Was Resolved by Spherical77(m): 4:12pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
immortalcrown:Here is part of his comments where he explicitly clarify the issue on ground "That our trybe don't sell family lands, house.. inherited property.. that what even gave him the right to think about doing something like that in law for that matter... while my mom has a son...they even said I as the son can't even sell those lands talkless my father." At bolded indicate that the Son has right to his mother's inherited properties but can't sell it. The word "Talkmore" had somewhat sideline the father out of the equation The father might proceed to court, no doubt about that. However, he had been duly informed by his in-laws that he has no property from them, this was deduced from what Op said. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Father Dragging My Mom's Property With Me, how the Issue Was Resolved by MASTAkiLLAh(m): 4:12pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
GraciousGod190:good one, like I advised you, get a lawyer for those properties and grant him agency to collect rent and other things on your behalf. Also keep all documents with him though I suspect your dad will want to keep you out of his own will after this but that doesn't mean I'll openly support nonsense 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Father Dragging My Mom's Property With Me, how the Issue Was Resolved by maticar: 4:13pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
ibechris:Nairaland is filled with sick weird depraved individuals 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Father Dragging My Mom's Property With Me, how the Issue Was Resolved by Spherical77(m): 4:13pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Ayoleeboy007:Did you see where he said he cannot make use of it later in future? |
Re: My Father Dragging My Mom's Property With Me, how the Issue Was Resolved by AfroKnight: 4:14pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
GraciousGod190: If your mom didn’t have a will before she died, that property belongs to her spouse, who is your father. You are just creating problems for nothing. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Father Dragging My Mom's Property With Me, how the Issue Was Resolved by flokii: 4:14pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Some tribes and their weird cultures tho.. @OP I feel it's something you should settle amicably with your dad.. a man that brought you up and trained you in school isn't someone you should ridicule in front of strangers from your mother side. . except he didn't take care of you. If that man carry juju swear for you, walahi you go run enter market, that's if you don't die sef. I've seen real life cases like that so it's not fiction or hearsay. Common land that none of you will take when you both die is what is causing rift. smh. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Father Dragging My Mom's Property With Me, how the Issue Was Resolved by Omotosho1090905(m): 4:15pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
A deal you and your father should have see through and let peace reign now I bet none of you would have a say about the property now |
Re: My Father Dragging My Mom's Property With Me, how the Issue Was Resolved by Biglittlelois(f): 4:15pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
immortalcrown: Can't you read? Is it hard to comprehend? They said the father does not have the right to sell it, that even Op being the son who has right more than the dad, can't sell it cos it is ancestral property, so even if it wasn't, Op is still entitled to sell it cos it is property from his mother's side, accept that you were wrong in your initial comment, nobody will beat you. 6 Likes |
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