https://www.nairaland.com/7081206/fiancee-got-pregnant-ex-during#111992137

The above thread remind me of the discussion I had with my friend last week about what happened with my elder brother and his girlfriend back then in 2014 in benin.
I told my friend that if I go into a relationship I must find out about my girlfriend past relationship with her ex, I also told her that I'm in support of DNA test for children especially for first child.

The reason is this, when I was staying with my brother at Ogida mobile barrack Benin City. My brother had a girlfriend that normally come and visit us once in a while though my brother is married, he had 4 children but his family is in Delta state.

To cut the long story short, this girl brought her marriage invitation card to my brother, but could you believe that a week before her wedding this girl came to our house and had sex with my brother... I guessed that was farewell sex. I couldn't believe it, ur wedding is next week and you are here sleeping with another man, unbelievable.

That time I'm not as wise as this, God knows I would have lick her secret life to her husband to be and that would have stop him from marrying her.

Since then, I just lost confidence on girls' faithfulness especially those who are connected with their ex.

I'm waiting for the simps to defend rubbish.

Nice one OP

I was surprised that my girl friend's daughter resembled me, I now ask her how? she said "Hv you forgotten that we made love in your house two weeks before my trad".

Let me stop here.

Arrrrrrrh

Choi I so much fear this generation. You see this 3 letter words called "SEX", just fear it !

Sometimes I wonder whether I will ever find a decent girl who won't be a slaves to all this sex related things I read on Nairaland. Like Dam can I find her?

Because the way things are going around eh, I can't just imagine how I will marry some one with all these. But God will help me, I believe him.

Deltatoto:
God cannot help u.we go don lash ur wife.

This kind of boys eh....are just not my type. Dude go and fix your loose nut.

God in heaven is not a man. When you keep your self you attract those who have kept themselves, that's exactly what I'm doing. I am not saying I must marry a virgin but God have seen my heart that a good-character virgin girl is all I desire.

PointZerom:

I was surprised that the girl resembled me, I now ask her how? she said "Hv you forgotten that we made love in your house two weeks before my trad".

Let me stop here.

Resembled or remembered

Or recognized

WAHALA EVERY DAY...

My girlfriend asked "When are we getting married?". I responded "Do you really think we should get married now?, We still have some time on our side". I thought that was all until this madam bought me her IV and told me she's getting married in two months time, I just shock but knowing I have nothing to lose, I shook it off and faced my hustle. At the onset of Ramadan, she forwarded related messages to me to forgive her and at least be a friend all of which I denied, I denied even farewell sex after telling her we can never be friends. I don't do slave shit to pussy, you either be with me or buzz off.

See ba if na girls matter 4get am,
Now adays girls dey remove pant for everywhere

luminouz:

Resembled or remembered

Or recognized

Her daughter resembled me.. I ask the mother how?.....I made love with the girl two weeks b4 her trad. Now her first daughter is my photo copy.

Jeremani:
See ba if na girls matter 4get am,
Now adays girls dey remove pant for everywhere

I tried so hard not to generalized it to all girls, but my experience with my female friends after they got married alone will make me not to trust girl especially when you are very nice to them... they don't mind if they are married. I was very careful with them, my philosophy is do to others what you want others to do to you.

PointZerom:


Her daughter resembled me.. I ask the mother how?.....I made love with the girl two weeks b4 her trad. Now her first daughter is my photo copy.

Jesus!!!

Her husband didn't suspect?

PalmsInTheSky:
My girlfriend asked "When are we getting married?". I responded "Do you really think we should get married now?, We still have some time on our side". I thought that was all until this madam bought me her IV and told me she's getting married in two months time, I just shock but knowing I have nothing to lose, I shook it off and faced my hustle. At the onset of Ramadan, she forwarded related messages to me to forgive her and at least be a friend all of which I denied, I denied even farewell sex after telling her we can never be friends. I don't do slave shit to pussy, you either be with me or buzz off.

Nice response. She already has another guy in her life and just chose him when it seemed you weren't ready and the other dude is rich enough to carry marriage. Most girls are like that. That she even wanted farewell sex and friendship told me that her soon to be husband is in hot soup

Exkandayee:
Raise money, come to America,I swear you'll find decent women

Should I send you a DM?

Wether u like it or not

Someone is banging ur wife to be right now and dem no use condom

Does it matter if it's today or the day before ur wedding

The ones u fvcked who will marry dem if u can't marry the ones I fvcked

luminouz:


Jesus!!!

Her husband didn't suspect?

Not yet...

It happens for real. I blame the guyz to who want chop another guyz babe. We keep blaming the gals what about us guyz who like putting our hard inside every wet hole. See as a guy set an example here how he rejected his babe who was about to marry someone else

luminouz:


Nice response. She already has another guy in her life and just chose him when it seemed you weren't ready and the other dude is rich enough to carry marriage. Most girls are like that. That she even wanted farewell sex and friendship told me that her soon to be husband is in hot soup

The guy in question is not even that rich, just a regular guy that's tho ready, this babe is just desperate to get married cos her friends are doing the same, she just wants the attention...She still act like she doesn't want the guy but the marriage....

Until the day I genuinely see a lady that loves me, I can never propose to a lady I love, if it takes eternity, I'd die single. With the most fulfilled life.

PalmsInTheSky:


The guy in question is not even that rich, just a regular guy that's tho ready, this babe is just desperate to get married cos her friends are doing the same, she just wants the attention...She still act like she doesn't want the guy but the marriage....

Until the day I genuinely see a lady that loves me, I can never propose to a lady I love, if it takes eternity, I'd die single. With the most fulfilled life.

Lolzzz

Farewell knack make sense when both party agreed.. over seriousness and rough handling what's not yours is almost perfect 10/10


You won't want to let go even that last minute cum ( you will want to hold it )

blackboy:
It happens for real. I blame the guyz to who want chop another guyz babe. We keep blaming the gals what about us guyz who like putting our hard inside every wet hole. See as a guy set an example here how he rejected his babe who was about to marry someone else

Yes the girls are blame because they are the ones that is mostly affected, again from the guy you even used as an example it is even the lady that asking for it, now tell me why won't they blame the ladies
The guy did the right thing though kodus to him

blackboy:
It happens for real. I blame the guyz to who want chop another guyz babe. We keep blaming the gals what about us guyz who like putting our hard inside every wet hole. See as a guy set an example here how he rejected his babe who was about to marry someone else

Yes the girls are to be blame because they are the ones that is mostly affected, again from the guy you even used as an example, it is even the lady that is asking for it, now tell me why won't they blame the ladies
The guy did the right thing though, kodus to him

PalmsInTheSky:
My girlfriend asked "When are we getting married?". I responded "Do you really think we should get married now?, We still have some time on our side". I thought that was all until this madam bought me her IV and told me she's getting married in two months time, I just shock but knowing I have nothing to lose, I shook it off and faced my hustle. At the onset of Ramadan, she forwarded related messages to me to forgive her and at least be a friend all of which I denied, I denied even farewell sex after telling her we can never be friends. I don't do slave shit to pussy, you either be with me or buzz off.

Na man u be!

PointZerom:


Not yet...

Damnnnnnnn

PalmsInTheSky:


The guy in question is not even that rich, just a regular guy that's tho ready, this babe is just desperate to get married cos her friends are doing the same, she just wants the attention...She still act like she doesn't want the guy but the marriage....

Until the day I genuinely see a lady that loves me, I can never propose to a lady I love, if it takes eternity, I'd die single. With the most fulfilled life.

That's what's up. Be chosen!! That's when it is sweet.

illicit:
Wether u like it or not

Someone is banging ur wife to be right now and dem no use condom

Does it matter if it's today or the day before ur wedding

The ones u fvcked who will marry dem if u can't marry the ones I fvcked

Bia...be kiaful...

No dey use strong teeth tear those girls

luminouz:


Bia...be kiaful...

No dey use strong teeth tear those girls

lol this generation nd sex ehn most especially we at this side we start giving sex different tag....


That's the only thing we are contributing to the world....

The op's brother was committing adultery, yet he was worried about the single woman.

Some women don't see sex as a big deal (in or out of marriage), just like many if not most men. It is what it is, I guess.

Lol. Wahala too much for this country