Exkandayee:
Raise money, come to America,I swear you'll find decent women

Really?

Exkandayee:
Raise money, come to America,I swear you'll find decent women

LMAO. Is this some joke?

He no matter say you dis virgin your wife them go still Bleep am for church

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh

Choi I so much fear this generation. You see this 3 letter words called "SEX", just fear it !

Sometimes I wonder whether I will ever find a decent girl who won't be a slaves to all this sex related things I read on Nairaland. Like Dam can I find her?

Because the way things are going around eh, I can't just imagine how I will marry some one with all these. But God will help me, I believe him.


This kind of boys eh....are just not my type. Dude go and fix your loose nut.

God in heaven is not a man. When you keep your self you attract those who have kept themselves, that's exactly what I'm doing. I am not saying I must marry a virgin but God have seen my heart that a good-character virgin girl is all I desire.

theamazonguru:
Fear that genda called woman.

Na so my neighbor,my wife's very trusted friend go dey cut eye gee me.
She will be using style call me darling.
That one no mean abi
She will be using style press her bwest against me whenever she has the chance.
My wife will tell her am in my room dressing up, yet she will rush in without knocking.

I still didn't count all these until she told me, can your wife allow me borrow you for one day?

Very interesting people.

and Your wife sef dey allow am ... Make e no be like una go serve your wife breakfast laslas.

PointZerom:


There was a time they were having a burial ceremony, she warned me not to come. It was after that she told me her reasons. I have completely avoided her, I even blocked her everywhere in my phone. She might harm me to cover up.

I am glad you are even thinking of this possibility. It shows that your head is there.

PalmsInTheSky:


The guy in question is not even that rich, just a regular guy that's tho ready, this babe is just desperate to get married cos her friends are doing the same, she just wants the attention...She still act like she doesn't want the guy but the marriage....

Until the day I genuinely see a lady that loves me, I can never propose to a lady I love, if it takes eternity, I'd die single. With the most fulfilled life.

You've spoken well, comrade.

Back in school, I have this friend that broke up with his girlfriend and two weeks later the girl called my friend to inform him about het wedding. We were all shocked, but anyways, relationship doesn't mean much to most people anymore.

A week to her wedding, she notify my friend that she was coming to spend the weekend with him in school for them to have sex. According to her; I will be coming this weekend for you to roughhandle me. And friend quickly added that his friend ( me) is around and would want to do. She said since I am a good boy she would allow me to do. She said we can have party.

When my friend ended the call he asked for my opinion, I told him not to go back to his vomit, nothing special about that kpekus. We have plenty girls in school here. And the guy called her back and told her to delete his number and never to reach out to him again. Since then, I am scared of girls.

illicit:
Wether u like it or not

Someone is banging ur wife to be right now and dem no use condom

Does it matter if it's today or the day before ur wedding

The ones u fvcked who will marry dem if u can't marry the ones I fvcked

Thanks for reminding the dumb majority of an obvious fact that stares them in the face

illicit:


Who is looking for virgin

Done people are happily married to divorcees an widows

Where? Divorces and widows are damaged second hand goods. Who told you they can marry again?

DonroxyII:
and Your wife sef dey allow am ... Make e no be like una go serve your wife breakfast laslas.

I figured she is so gullible.
Trusts so easily.
I had to distance myself from the said friend.

Make e no even come be set up self.
Set up or not, I can't be found caught up in that messy web.

Am I tempted to try it out?
Yes I am.
Don't I like to get down with her if I have the chance.
No I would not do such.

How can I do such a thing and sin against God.
Heaven always on my mind.

PointZerom:

I was surprised that my girl friend's daughter resembled me, I now ask her how? she said "Hv you forgotten that we made love in your house two weeks before my trad".

Let me stop here.

Wahala no dey Finnish lol

PointZerom:


Her daughter resembled me.. I ask the mother how?.....I made love with the girl two weeks b4 her trad. Now her first daughter is my photo copy.

Wahala everywhere

Exkandayee:
Raise money, come to America,I swear you'll find decent women

U must be joking lol

PalmsInTheSky:


The guy in question is not even that rich, just a regular guy that's tho ready, this babe is just desperate to get married cos her friends are doing the same, she just wants the attention...She still act like she doesn't want the guy but the marriage....

Until the day I genuinely see a lady that loves me, I can never propose to a lady I love, if it takes eternity, I'd die single. With the most fulfilled life.

Sorry to hear. It happens. Just stay in your energy. You not doing bad.

I give up on girls already. Gist many

OKOATA:
Bros you don't really need to spend so much on DNA these days. I have this my spiritual man, he's good with these things, I noticed my GF that just delivered was acting strange, she collected money for antenatal, childbirth etc from my hand, even for naming. On a normal day I already told her I wasn't getting married but maybe a little intro in the future which she agreed not knowing the baby was for another married man. My spiritual man told me point blank the child wasn't mine after checking out. She was even surprised sef, at the end she said the married man wasn't interested in the child so she felt she could hang it on me.

Goodevening sir. I want to connect with ur spiritual man sir. Can we connect on WhatsApp

Irijosa777:



I tried so hard not to generalized it to all girls, but my experience with my female friends after they got married alone will make me not to trust girl especially when you are very nice to them... they don't mind if they are married. I was very careful with them, my philosophy is do to others what you want others to do to you.

This.


I am even suspecting her s.........

Listen everyone ...... To get a woman you have to be a celibate for some time let’s say 6 months , God will direct you to the right woman. Mind you sex is very important in a relationship , not too much sex. The reason why most women cheat is that their husband/boyfriend are so weak in bed . You have to be strong in bed , at least go more than 45 minutes , make sure she surrenders to you in bed if not she will never trust you !.Always be better , be better everyday , with women you don’t rest on your laurels , it’s a constant war everyday with women , only a strong man (Energy)can a woman surrender to

Eat healthy , avoid sugar ,do the road work , hit the gym always . Be loving , when she complains don’t run away face her squarely with your loving arms .

Don’t waste your semen on every , Funke , elenu and Childera, your semen is too priceless to waste every woman! The best gift any real man can give to his wife / girlfriend is your body ! . Materials shit does not mean shit to women at all all , simp thinks is all about the money

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Something when I read messages like this everyday is really hurt me and make me ready to live like there is no she gender. Ex is the reason behind mess up in marriage making them have 2 options in mind. Ex date can only make you have opportunity to failed marriage or relationship. I bet you can hardly find a girl without ex company

Irijosa777:
https://www.nairaland.com/7081206/fiancee-got-pregnant-ex-during#111992137

The above thread remind me of the discussion I had with my friend last week about what happened with my elder brother and his girlfriend back then in 2014 in benin.
I told my friend that if I go into a relationship I must find out about my girlfriend past relationship with her ex, I also told her that I'm in support of DNA test for children especially for first child.

The reason is this, when I was staying with my brother at Ogida mobile barrack Benin City. My brother had a girlfriend that normally come and visit us once in a while though my brother is married, he had 4 children but his family is in Delta state.

To cut the long story short, this girl brought her marriage invitation card to my brother, but could you believe that a week before her wedding this girl came to our house and had sex with my brother... I guessed that was farewell sex. I couldn't believe it, ur wedding is next week and you are here sleeping with another man, unbelievable.

That time I'm not as wise as this, God knows I would have lick her secret life to her husband to be and that would have stop him from marrying her.

Since then, I just lost confidence on girls' faithfulness especially those who are connected with their ex.

If na by this, No think am, Unless you don't want to marry...

Many married women are banging their Ex currently..

The worst is that, In this situation, A man gives the consent, and you know the saying " A man is always ready".

It takes a principled guy not to fvck up...Women just want that immediate satisfaction, most times they don't care about the consequences.

luminouz:
I'm waiting for the simps to defend rubbish.

Nice one OP

okafors law,there is a strong possibility that marriage will not stop the occasional fvck whenever the girl is close by,I have an ex years back that said I will swore oath that I will keep on fvcking her even when she is married,hmmm

AshiwajuFoward:
Some women don't see sex as a big deal (in or out of marriage), just like many if not most men. It is what it is, I guess.

last week I was servicing my car in the mechanic workshop and a woman, clearly a married woman with 4 kids was selling rice,so I bought and complimented her that the food is sweet,she said she has other sweet things in her body,that if I can come back to the workshop at 7pm that she lives nearby and will come out,I thought nothing of it until after 7 the woman started calling me to come that she is waiting for me to fvck her in mechanic workshop!!

Women are scum!

Same thing almost happened to me.

We didn’t break up but she avoided me and refused to responds to my calls and texts for over a year only for her to resurface and spent the night with me. She wanted sex but I wasn’t just comfortable with it. She got really upset and left first thing in the morning. Next thing I saw were wedding photos not long after. I didn’t even know she was engaged.

Honestfrend:


My brother... Is like this generation is caused, I hope its not. ..
But trust me this upcoming generation, it won't be funny at all.. Ladies give sex like it's nothing. They are walking almost naked.

I just pity any man yet to get married because they have a lot of underground work to do. Getting a decent girl now for marriage no be here ooo.
A friend of mine now is seriously nacking a girl that's about to wed. The funny thing is that he just met this girl last month and the girl didn't even tell him that she's wedding soon.

Irijosa777:



I tried so hard not to generalized it to all girls, but my experience with my female friends after they got married alone will make me not to trust girl especially when you are very nice to them... they don't mind if they are married. I was very careful with them, my philosophy is do to others what you want others to do to you.

People do things to you regardless of if you wanted them to do such or not.

theamazonguru:


I figured she is so gullible.
Trusts so easily.
I had to distance myself from the said friend.

Make e no even come be set up self.
Set up or not, I can't be found caught up in that messy web.

Am I tempted to try it out?
Yes I am.
Don't I like to get down with her if I have the chance.
No I would not do such.

How can I do such a thing and sin against God.
Heaven always on my mind.

That's good bro but You also need to train Your Wife on how she needs to Protect You from such advances. She is too Opened like that trying to show the woman she ain't a jealousy husband wrapper. I think she is trying not to offend the woman

Jocularly ask her why would she be allowing her friend to barge into You like that doesn't she know the implications abi you a trying to set us up for Konkobelow
Her reaction will show you how she has been feeling about it too then she will Protect You next time.

Becareful with your choice of words and how you weaponise your wife because if pepper happen between the two women Your wife will use your words against the woman (My opposite gender)


Only God can help against temptation via solid Discipline but best is to create Buffer. E no easy sha.

PalmsInTheSky:
My girlfriend asked "When are we getting married?". I responded "Do you really think we should get married now?, We still have some time on our side". I thought that was all until this madam bought me her IV and told me she's getting married in two months time, I just shock but knowing I have nothing to lose, I shook it off and faced my hustle. At the onset of Ramadan, she forwarded related messages to me to forgive her and at least be a friend all of which I denied, I denied even farewell sex after telling her we can never be friends. I don't do slave shit to pussy, you either be with me or buzz off.

You be man.

She never let go of Her ex and I won’t be surprised if She sleeps with Him again after Her wedding.