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Nyascobar1414:
Time gonn' come when the boy will be like mom, where is my Dad
I hope they keep the details of the random guy that will impregnate them and find the suitable father for his resemblance.. this life is going to another level..

quentin06:
HMM, is getting a child guarantee tht you will be looked after? Children grow and find their mates.

Any lady single in her 40s has herself to blame.

Hassanmaye:
Hahahhahahaha l just remembered my old university girl that is doing me shakara up till now no man show up

Kobojunkie:
2. Children are given to both the wicked and ungrateful by the same God so let's not pretend anything special about having of them. [b]The point here again is they are not meant as a replacement for a good retirement plan(savings, investments etc.,). [/b]And God said it is against Him to have children outside of wedlock so I am not certain why you suddenly want to drag God down into what again is a foolish suggestion on the part of the OP.

2braithe:
1. I'm more interested in your 2nd point.
2. Why then will I have children if I'm not to expect them to take care of me in old age?

3. The amount of money spent to raise them from cradle till maturity, wouldn't it pay me if I decide to use it on myself?

4. What exactly is the benefit of raising children by investing heavily in them with resources?

jazon:
What do you think?
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Bede Nnamdi Nwulu:
Dear Ladies, If you're clocking 40 years old and yet no husband is coming, Look for a guy and beg him to impregnate you.
You need a child that will look after you at old age.

Don't let anyone deceive you, Marriage is not an achievement, and it's not everybody that will get married.

You can still be single with your own child and still be happy and fulfill your purpose here on earth.

Stop waiting for something that may never happen. There's no marriage in heaven as I heard. I'm only trying to make common sense!

Kobojunkie:
Having and raising of kids is meant instead as a sacrifice made, not a business entered into for gains.

2braithe:
1. Are you saying there is no benefit in having kids?

2. A sacrifice is made for the sake of another thing.E.g Some people sacrifice their peace of mind for their marriage. If having children were to be a sacrifice,what are we sacrificing for?

Bignuell:
Please don't take this advice, you're a queen, you're meant to be worshipped. Take your time, relax, you'll find your TDAH. Don't settle for less, you're just 35

Oga op sharrap and stop being a simp,you must be a dundee for you to tell anyone when to get married.

emmanuelbrown26:
After doing nyanga and shakara with their youthful age, na when dem turn 40 na when their eyes go clear say man and woman no bi same.
Women dey expire, imagine @40 a woman dun dey fear while @40 na when life of a man start and a man go manage marry una, una no go allow d man to drink water and drop cup.

Holluwhakemmy:
We won't beg for bread God is on the throne He will surprise us in a big way

Generalwoodz:
When you get old as a spinster this message will become more clearer and vivid to you....

As one gets older, one gets more lonely and this fact gets quadrupled if one is all by herself. No husband to show love, No children to whine and call you up... there's no element of joy when one is alone.

To add, not all is destined for marriage and if Providence places you in bad side of the divide, do well to make the best part of it. It's more like making lemonades outta of lemon.

Take this from me if you're approaching the big 40: if you can't trap any guy down, spread your legs widely when next you're getting the D, and make sure you get knocked up.

This is a dicey situation. If you can't afford artificial insemination, then you must be twice as careful, selective and highly cautious whose sperm you're getting into you.

In other words, take your time and do your homework before spreading those legs widely.

When you're 60, with top notch vibrancy, enviable good health and wellness, but no children... You're fuccked up.

Get the D now!
Get the D now!
Spread the legs damn wide!
Spread the legs damn wide!

"So says the preacher as he briskly walks out of the thread, dressed in immaculate Cloak. White and adnored."

odimbannamdi:
How do I join?...

Nyascobar1414:
Averagely looking for that matter

Abeg dont tell her how females eveolve.. Let her learn the hard way, so that it will serve as a lesson to other girls...

She doesn't know age is her greatest enemy

yuping:
so, some one that keep herself as virgin upto that age should also follow this advice? This life common sense no dey work for everyone. She should beg, I don't understand, I can't even imaging my own blood begging one idiot to impregnate her. Nawaaooo doing the right thing is now evil in this world.
Women dey suffer, women are their own worst enemy.

BigBashiru:
There's another one and na dis one pain me pass. A 20 yo girl that recently turned 21.... I liked her(for marriage)....she bragged how her family had tried to introduce her to a guy in South Africa for marriage but she ran away.... she bragged how they has tried introducing her to another guy for marriage, she said she played along but ran away. She said relationships aren't really her thing and wants variety...... she boasts how guys are after her etc.... I think it's the failure of parents to quickly marry off their daughters that's causing all this....I hope she regrets it some day when she eventually wants to settle down.

Kobojunkie:
1. Benefits? You mean like business profits?

2. Same with having kids. You sacrifice for your kids in the name of love. Look at the animals for inspiration if you need to.

yuping:
so, some one that keep herself as virgin upto that age should also follow this advice? This life common sense no dey work for everyone. She should beg, I don't understand, I can't even imaging my own blood begging one idiot to impregnate her. Nawaaooo doing the right thing is now evil in this world.
Women dey suffer, women are their own worst enemy.

Dpaulie:
God will never let u as a lady or any of your relative to be in this shoe

Iyasaburi:
The truth is, we are in a faithless generation. God has been pushed to the back stage

Hamachi:

2braithe:
Let's not run around in circles.We know people don't give birth for the sake of love only.They do so for the sake of benefits mostly.

1. If people are not expecting benefits from children then,raising children will be useless.Nobody will want to raise kids.

2. Sacrificing heavy resources,a good portion of your time, possibly mental health(kids can make you mad) and you want to tell me you're expecting no benefits whatsoever from them?

yuping:
and you think hypocrite families will agree?

Maverick777:
What a senseless statement!
So you need to seek validation from 'family' to live your life?
Your post simply revealed your age...

teeshet:
your dick wasn't big enough thats why. If not she would have spread her legs for you

Cousin9999:
1. Intentionally being a single parent is gross unless you're adopting a child, or you're an exceptionally good parent.

2. There's no deadline for marriage. Don't be irrational and ignorant.