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| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Abdogood(m): 12:09am On Apr 23, 2022 |
janejjjjj5000:This one dey whine me ni. See excuse. Madam leave now. Go n look for what you did not lost. Omo see excuses faa. Go n be single ooo. Ur hubby n kids will be fine without you. You said ur hubby is a good man abi. 7 mature vargins are available to take your place. Please when you leave come back n tell us ooo. This madam dey whine us sha... |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by DoctorOlasDesk: 12:24am On Apr 23, 2022 |
NoToPile:It's our society for you |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Nobody: 12:53am On Apr 23, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:It's her mental health or four kids. You can only care for others when you care for yourself. PS: she can go with the kids. |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by efficiencie(m): 12:54am On Apr 23, 2022 |
janejjjjj5000:You feel like pouring what? Abeg divorce the divorce wey you wan divorce na make we hear word. |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Kobojunkie: 12:55am On Apr 23, 2022 |
nenyewrites:Thankfully, what the woman wants instead is to leave with her children, she ain't a selfish mother. ![]() |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by efficiencie(m): 12:55am On Apr 23, 2022 |
janejjjjj5000:Divorce and give yourself the peace you want...let him too also go and find his peace somewhere else! |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by efficiencie(m): 12:58am On Apr 23, 2022 |
janejjjjj5000:...begging you? No amount of begging will bring you the peace you seek. No need for counselling. It is better you leave now before you come back here to tell us he has beaten you...if I could see your hubby I'd tell him to give you some space for like 6 months and if you still hate his guts he should file for a divorce if you won't! |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by efficiencie(m): 1:15am On Apr 23, 2022 |
Sanchez01:And she cannot live that life with the man she had amazing chemistry with at 21? She wants to live life? Is she dead? Doesn't her husband also want to live life? And by live life what does she want to do that she cannot do with her husband? No she wants to live a reckless life. A life without boundaries. A life with rules. A life of fantasy...by the time she wakes up at 40 and realizes the mess she has made of her life suicide will be the next exciting thing! |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by adetem(m): 2:23am On Apr 23, 2022 |
You already get the point, someone dey give her good sex than her husband. She never say the truth Nuelzi: |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by TheNiceGuy(m): 2:58am On Apr 23, 2022 |
Don't mind her, Very very selfish. Op If you still don't want him to get angry that thrice a year, DONT DO WHAT WILL MAKE HIM ANGRY. .Between you're very very selfish and please come straight, leave that good man alone. He needs a better woman than you OlawaleBammie: |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by xamodans: 3:45am On Apr 23, 2022 |
You don't know what you have until you loose it. "He gets angry 3 times in a year" Yet you are not ok with such. Madam, you have another agenda. Maybe when you start paying the bills all alone you will know his worth. Why don't you seat him down and tell him how you feel and what you don't want? You claim you are fighting for the children, is leaving an healthy marriage a solution? Please set your mind aright janejjjjj5000: |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by MadamOk(f): 3:54am On Apr 23, 2022 |
Na wa ooo It is well |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by MadamOk(f): 4:01am On Apr 23, 2022 |
Especially on the internet, especially now people are advocating about walking out of marriage if you know you don't feel comfortable, this woman need counseling libertyfather: |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by MadamOk(f): 4:06am On Apr 23, 2022 |
Omo you dey vex ooo well you said it all Sha OlawaleBammie: |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by wales4real(m): 5:17am On Apr 23, 2022 |
May God bless you abundantly this girl. Your wisdom will keep increasing and you will always know peace in your life. I wonder what kind of message some churches pas across or is it the way we decide the messages. Has this woman herself not even argued with her kids she's claiming she love before? Madam join your husband to build your home, work on him just as he's working on you and the kids. You yourself cannot be perfect. For your info, no court anywhere in the world will give you custody of your children with this kind of flimsy excuses because I sense that is part of what you want in addition to your personal goals. This man devoted, worked and toiled for all of you and this is how you reward him? Please don't take a wrong step, remember the laws of Karma. JovialJune: |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Munzy14(m): 5:20am On Apr 23, 2022 |
janejjjjj5000:You are simply a user...So You didn't dropout until you have 3girls and a boy? ![]() You want to create a dysfunctional home and upbringing for those little girls? So you deny them of father figure which is extremely important in a girl child life to put her in check..Hehehehehe get ready to have at least one or two coded harlorts as daughters..Because boys will use materials things to deceive them. Don't take them to this dangerous path..You will regret it. Even ladies from decent homes with cool parents don dey old for house, not to talk of the one from a divorced home with problems. Don't make those kids regret having you as a mother. Life is short, make sacrifices with your SO and give the kids the best foundation you can. You are manipulating and blackmailing him emotionally..And it is the reason he flare up ones in a while. Na so domestic violence dey start...All this marrying of younger ladies is a recipe for disaster most times in the long run.. A lady should have a huge sense of maturity and responsibility before going into her Matrimonial home.. |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by shege45: 6:15am On Apr 23, 2022 |
janejjjjj5000:Just talk say single life dey hungry you again. You wan dey free Cus I don’t see a serious issue her |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by OlawaleBammie: 6:23am On Apr 23, 2022 |
MadamOk:maami the tin vex me ni, if a young and vibrant, but sensitive young man see this he would surely be discouraged to marry. |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Papichulostunne(m): 6:52am On Apr 23, 2022 |
janejjjjj5000:Say that smallboy wey dey gist you naim dey put this nonsense for your head.. You want to be single and free so that when u am him start konackoing nobody will say you are committing adultry.. Well whether you say or leave before you konacl your smallboy.. Adultry is adultry.. |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by 1870event: 7:07am On Apr 23, 2022 |
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| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by 1870ev: 7:09am On Apr 23, 2022 |
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| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by adeememman(m): 7:09am On Apr 23, 2022 |
I'm enjoying the advise/comments from under 18s here. I like the Op sha for her truthfulness. Let me make something clear to you @Op and I'm sure married men can relate well. Since the economy has been the way it is, life has not been the way it used to be, married men are going through a lot just to make sure they cater for their home, income is not increasing while expenses are now in multiples of what it used to be. Someone already asked if you bother to inquire why he's angry to that extent. His actions may be as a result of stress. What you need is Wisdom not divorce. The effect of divorce will be more on the kids. |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Peacefulgold(m): 7:12am On Apr 23, 2022 |
I really understand people like you at this stage ...from calculations ,you got married at 19 , probably you missed out catching fun and playing around before marriage ,child bearing and nursing of your kids has held you down for d past decade,your last kids are almost 2yrs,so now you are done with child bearing and you want to explore d life you missed between 19-27,well all I have to say to you is that *all that glitters is not gold* ,that you guy praising your beauty and promising you eternal love and exploration,once you become his responsibility,my dear he will get tired of you and dump you ..if you want d best for your kids ,perish that idea of divorce and thank God for giving you such a nice man in dis era of scarce good men ,your husband is just 39,so you guys should still b able to vibe well romantically ...pls retrace your steps while there is still time .. |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by METTLESUM: 7:13am On Apr 23, 2022 |
This one don dey eye one dick outside. E go soon clear for your eye. You go collect wotowoto. |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by galantjoe(m): 7:15am On Apr 23, 2022 |
Probably your intention abnitio was to divorce him after you people finished having kids Now you want to materialize your plan. Nobody can force to stay in a marriage you don't want. It is either you kill him one day in order to escape from the union. If you don't really want to divorce him have heart to heart discussion with him. At least you people will chart a new course. However where you re head bent in freeing yourself from the marriage, go to court and divorce him. But remember that action has equal and opposite reactions. He may reacted very harsh such that your intentions to train your children alone may be dammed Tread carefully |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by 1870ba: 7:31am On Apr 23, 2022 |
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| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Mcwin: 7:32am On Apr 23, 2022 |
janejjjjj5000: |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Mcwin: 7:34am On Apr 23, 2022 |
You will use you leg and come back by yourself. You must regret this move.just leave first. janejjjjj5000: |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Poleski: 7:41am On Apr 23, 2022 |
janejjjjj5000:This is not something that should make you end your marriage! Sit your man down and have a candid discussion with him about this issue. Let him know how it makes you feel. You'll definitely regret it if you go ahead with your rash decision. Unless you don't love him anymore. Every marriage has its ups and downs. No marriage is perfect. I'm married, and my marriage is not perfect either. If you compare your marriage to what most women are going through in theirs nowadays, you'll be thankful that you have a good husband. And you already confessed that he's good. As I advised earlier, have a heart-to-heart conversation with him. I believe he'll change. |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by brandmix: 7:49am On Apr 23, 2022 |
advanceDNA:Spot on. She married too early, she is also religious and and seem to normalize her desire to experiment and find something exciting |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by brandmix: 7:52am On Apr 23, 2022 |
DoctorOlasDesk:And you were there, under their nose for 25 years ba. Disappointed in you small for this fallacy |
| Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by elmagnifico411(m): 8:06am On Apr 23, 2022 |
janejjjjj5000:your complains are very little, and yet u are tired like he's been doing alot. Woman, just tell us there's something outside u want to go and pick. You keep saying "my children" like you gave birth to them alone. You want to go away with kids and leave him alone like he means nothing, and your kids are everything. I think there's something you're not saying here. I think you're the problem. Someone that rarely gets angry, yet you're soooo tired. Have tried to ask what triggers his anger‽ Have u even spoken to him concerning the anger maybe there's a way your getting him worked up. With what you've written, I think you're just looking problem where there's none. You live abroad abi? And from the look of things, your so sure all your kids would be given to u in court. You Don't deserve that man. You'll be so shocked that you won't have all your kids to yourself and your world would begin to crumble. I Don't even know, what do u people want? Maybe what's affecting u is that you people started way too early, and you feel there's some fun you're missing out there. Believe me, you'll regret your actions and 'im sorry' wouldn't cut it when you finally realise how stupid you've been. |
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