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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by sylve11: 12:14pm On Apr 23, 2022
Hmmm cool
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by sammirano: 12:16pm On Apr 23, 2022
Can a woman fight a man in physical combat. If no then a woman is a subman. One man is equal to 10 women. The proponents of gender equality have a very deep understanding of the term but it was misinterpreted along the line. It was simply created to protect women.

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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by BrickDevo: 12:16pm On Apr 23, 2022
Gee64:
I observed that the woman for whatever reasons always play the underdog in marriage. She is often regarded as a 'helper' playing almost a docile role in decision-making in the home.

Most people use religious precepts to relegate the rights of a woman to the background: as being the house-keeper and 'child-bearer'. But in modern times, many women play the role of 'provider' in the home, therefore forcing the man to also assist with household chores.

In modern times, Even in civilised climes, women now seek to either being independent parents or share same authority as the man in the home. But where the man does not feel comfortably with this, the result is divorce. I want to assume that this is the major cause of domestic violence in majority of homes.

Most women feel more comfortable being single parents than to submit to the egocentric excesses of the male folk.

What is your stand on this issue. I personally speak as a male.
The Bolded is not true

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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by sylve11: 12:17pm On Apr 23, 2022
Gee64:
I laugh at you in vernacular!

I'm a man in his late 50s and a retired Public Servant.

I speak without prejudice to sex.

Then you're probably a gayyyyy.y.

They are fond of doing the feminists thing . embarassed cool
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Moneyboyz: 12:18pm On Apr 23, 2022
You mean after feeding and clothing you, taking care of virtually all responsibilities, you expect me to respect gender equality?

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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Hotzone(m): 12:18pm On Apr 23, 2022
Terrorists topic
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by NofiuFade(m): 12:19pm On Apr 23, 2022
SmartPolician:
I always say that marriage is not for everyone. If a woman feels too big to be under a man, she is free to become a single mom.

After all, men and women have equal opportunities nowadays. There can never be two captains in one ship.

OP, you are free to make your wife the head of your home - just don't shove it down our throats. One of the best things that life gave us was freewill.

Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by alizma: 12:20pm On Apr 23, 2022
Gee64:
I observed that the woman for whatever reasons always play the underdog in marriage. She is often regarded as a 'helper' playing almost a docile role in decision-making in the home.

Most people use religious precepts to relegate the rights of a woman to the background: as being the house-keeper and 'child-bearer'. But in modern times, many women play the role of 'provider' in the home, therefore forcing the man to also assist with household chores.

In modern times, Even in civilised climes, women now seek to either being independent parents or share same authority as the man in the home. But where the man does not feel comfortably with this, the result is divorce. I want to assume that this is the major cause of domestic violence in majority of homes.

Most women feel more comfortable being single parents than to submit to the egocentric excesses of the male folk.

What is your stand on this issue. I personally speak as a male.
When women start taking their family members to men's compound to ask for men's hand in marriage, we would address your issue. Since you get sense, you for ask why God no create woman first.

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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by OlawaleBammie: 12:20pm On Apr 23, 2022
Gee64:
I observed that the woman for whatever reasons always play the underdog in marriage. She is often regarded as a 'helper' playing almost a docile role in decision-making in the home.

Most people use religious precepts to relegate the rights of a woman to the background: as being the house-keeper and 'child-bearer'. But in modern times, many women play the role of 'provider' in the home, therefore forcing the man to also assist with household chores.

In modern times, Even in civilised climes, women now seek to either being independent parents or share same authority as the man in the home. But where the man does not feel comfortably with this, the result is divorce. I want to assume that this is the major cause of domestic violence in majority of homes.

Most women feel more comfortable being single parents than to submit to the egocentric excesses of the male folk.

What is your stand on this issue. I personally speak as a male.
Op, answer this man below

Odinson1
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by eddynaira125: 12:21pm On Apr 23, 2022
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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by jaxxy(m): 12:21pm On Apr 23, 2022
There is gender equality bt the man must lead. Marry sm1 u can trust his leadership to a good extent.

Don't marry a questionable character or sm1 u can't respect and be causing problems for everybody.

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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by IamV: 12:22pm On Apr 23, 2022
Gee64:
I observed that the woman for whatever reasons always play the underdog in marriage. She is often regarded as a 'helper' playing almost a docile role in decision-making in the home.

Most people use religious precepts to relegate the rights of a woman to the background: as being the house-keeper and 'child-bearer'. But in modern times, many women play the role of 'provider' in the home, therefore forcing the man to also assist with household chores.

In modern times, Even in civilised climes, women now seek to either being independent parents or share same authority as the man in the home. But where the man does not feel comfortably with this, the result is divorce. I want to assume that this is the major cause of domestic violence in majority of homes.

Most women feel more comfortable being single parents than to submit to the egocentric excesses of the male folk.

What is your stand on this issue. I personally speak as a male.

The reality is that ,there's nothing like "gender equality".
It's not even achievable.
Those who believe in "gender equality" are simply idealists that don't want to come to term with the reality of our world.
The strongest,the smartest,the most adaptive & the most manipulative will always dominate others, irrespective of whatever ideology people out there are trying to create to limit that.
That's reality,make peace with it.

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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Nobody: 12:22pm On Apr 23, 2022
Financial equality is also not respected
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Alexgeneration(m): 12:22pm On Apr 23, 2022
Gee64:
I observed that the woman for whatever reasons always play the underdog in marriage. She is often regarded as a 'helper' playing almost a docile role in decision-making in the home.

Most people use religious precepts to relegate the rights of a woman to the background: as being the house-keeper and 'child-bearer'. But in modern times, many women play the role of 'provider' in the home, therefore forcing the man to also assist with household chores.

In modern times, Even in civilised climes, women now seek to either being independent parents or share same authority as the man in the home. But where the man does not feel comfortably with this, the result is divorce. I want to assume that this is the major cause of domestic violence in majority of homes.

Most women feel more comfortable being single parents than to submit to the egocentric excesses of the male folk.

What is your stand on this issue. I personally speak as a male.
How many women are fighting in Ukraine?

How many fought for the independence of this country?

How many are risking their lives to protect this country in the North East?


Men and women are not equals and there's nothing you can do about it.

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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by depure(m): 12:23pm On Apr 23, 2022
Gee64:
I observed that the woman for whatever reasons always play the underdog in marriage. She is often regarded as a 'helper' playing almost a docile role in decision-making in the home.

Most people use religious precepts to relegate the rights of a woman to the background: as being the house-keeper and 'child-bearer'. But in modern times, many women play the role of 'provider' in the home, therefore forcing the man to also assist with household chores.

In modern times, Even in civilised climes, women now seek to either being independent parents or share same authority as the man in the home. But where the man does not feel comfortably with this, the result is divorce. I want to assume that this is the major cause of domestic violence in majority of homes.

Most women feel more comfortable being single parents than to submit to the egocentric excesses of the male folk.

What is your stand on this issue. I personally speak as a male.

Marriage is not open football field

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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by phemmyfour: 12:23pm On Apr 23, 2022
Gee64:
I observed that the woman for whatever reasons always play the underdog in marriage. She is often regarded as a 'helper' playing almost a docile role in decision-making in the home.

Most people use religious precepts to relegate the rights of a woman to the background: as being the house-keeper and 'child-bearer'. But in modern times, many women play the role of 'provider' in the home, therefore forcing the man to also assist with household chores.

In modern times, Even in civilised climes, women now seek to either being independent parents or share same authority as the man in the home. But where the man does not feel comfortably with this, the result is divorce. I want to assume that this is the major cause of domestic violence in majority of homes.

Most women feel more comfortable being single parents than to submit to the egocentric excesses of the male folk.

What is your stand on this issue. I personally speak as a male.
The concept of a marriage does not support gender equality

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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Nnefada: 12:24pm On Apr 23, 2022
Gender equality for me is a no but yes to mutual respect.

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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Awkabigboy: 12:25pm On Apr 23, 2022
SmartPolician:
I always say that marriage is not for everyone. If a woman feels too big to be under a man, she is free to become a single mom.

After all, men and women have equal opportunities nowadays. There can never be two captains in one ship.

OP, you are free to make your wife the head of your home - just don't shove it down our throats. One of the best things that life gave us was freewill.

Well said
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Awkabigboy: 12:25pm On Apr 23, 2022
Op what you're saying doesn't work that way.
Have you ever wondered why we have leaders in any organisation or establishment, its for smooth running . Marriage itself is a mini set up like an organisation and deserves a leader. Its theoretical to say men and women should be coheads but in practice it doesn't follow.

Imagine I have a female colleague here who's waiting for her husband to come from another far away city before she can purchase a generator, another female colleague too needed me to help her with her car AC bc her husband isn't around. Why can't these women do these for themselves. It doesn't make sense that men serve you and you will still want them to be under u.

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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Proton99: 12:26pm On Apr 23, 2022
Man and woman are both equal in the sense that they are both living being created in God's image. They are only different functionally. They ought to complement each other and not try to function as the other. No matter how great a man is, he can never function as a woman. The position of women as mothers wife and help is a dignified one. Sad the society is being subverted. Women are to be respected in their being mothers and home keepers and not in their doomed attempts at becoming man.

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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by vikinatius(m): 12:26pm On Apr 23, 2022
odinson1:
Women Basically want 3 things
1. the Power and Authority of a man
2. The Privileges of Being a Woman
3. The Accountability of A child.

I pity those ignorant, naive men who are fighting for Equality for women. Those idiots don't realize that they are being cheated,the woman you are fighting for,is trying to overthrow your power. She will expect you to man up and fight for her,or Provide when times are hard. But when times are good,they will drag equality with you. Take the Russian/Ukraine war as a case study. The women are allowed to leave,but the men are mandated to stay. Not a single feminist came out to say women were being Relegated (because they are weak,which is true).
You know why? It is because times are hard,it is war,so they don't have the luxury to be fighting for equality now.

NICE AND TRUTHFUL!

Gender equality in marriage is a scam that is enthroned to dethrone men.
And if care is not taken, our cultural beliefs will go extinct.

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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by koyyess: 12:26pm On Apr 23, 2022
Gee64:
I observed that the woman for whatever reasons always play the underdog in marriage. She is often regarded as a 'helper' playing almost a docile role in decision-making in the home.

Most people use religious precepts to relegate the rights of a woman to the background: as being the house-keeper and 'child-bearer'. But in modern times, many women play the role of 'provider' in the home, therefore forcing the man to also assist with household chores.

In modern times, Even in civilised climes, women now seek to either being independent parents or share same authority as the man in the home. But where the man does not feel comfortably with this, the result is divorce. I want to assume that this is the major cause of domestic violence in majority of homes.

Most women feel more comfortable being single parents than to submit to the egocentric excesses of the male folk.

What is your stand on this issue. I personally speak as a male.

Because people don't understand what marriage is especially afrizoorians.

They always introduce slavery to everything. That's why they will forever be at the bottom of the food chain world wide.

It's a curse really that God himself has allowed since the brain of an average Afrizoorian is underdeveloped.

We thank feminists who will continue to spread their propaganda. Let foot mats and male apologists continue to be beaten, r@ped and killed in their own homes since they have low IQ. We don't need females with low IQ.

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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by SwayG: 12:27pm On Apr 23, 2022
odinson1:
Women Basically want 3 things
1. the Power and Authority of a man
2. The Privileges of Being a Woman
3. The Accountability of A child.

I pity those ignorant, naive men who are fighting for Equality for women. Those idiots don't realize that they are being cheated,the woman you are fighting for,is trying to overthrow your power. She will expect you to man up and fight for her,or Provide when times are hard. But when times are good,they will drag equality with you. Take the Russian/Ukraine war as a case study. The women are allowed to leave,but the men are mandated to stay. Not a single feminist came out to say women were being Relegated (because they are weak,which is true).
You know why? It is because times are hard,it is war,so they don't have the luxury to be fighting for equality now.


This is the whole truth.
You nailed it.

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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by BIGBANNNG411: 12:27pm On Apr 23, 2022
Because a man pays the bride price. The one who pays the price is superior.

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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Visasolution048: 12:27pm On Apr 23, 2022
odinson1:
Women Basically want 3 things
1. the Power and Authority of a man
2. The Privileges of Being a Woman
3. The Accountability of A child.

I pity those ignorant, naive men who are fighting for Equality for women. Those idiots don't realize that they are being cheated,the woman you are fighting for,is trying to overthrow your power. She will expect you to man up and fight for her,or Provide when times are hard. But when times are good,they will drag equality with you. Take the Russian/Ukraine war as a case study. The women are allowed to leave,but the men are mandated to stay. Not a single feminist came out to say women were being Relegated (because they are weak,which is true).
You know why? It is because times are hard,it is war,so they don't have the luxury to be fighting for equality now.

God will bless you for being reasonable...God will tremendously bless you...Some men are cowards... The fact remains Women can never be men..Men can never be women...

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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by michael1508: 12:27pm On Apr 23, 2022
Rubbish topic,the question should be why are women forming the weaker gender and running away from responsibilities?

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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by 12345baba(m): 12:27pm On Apr 23, 2022
We can't and will never be equal

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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by PrinceOfLagos: 12:28pm On Apr 23, 2022
Gender equality my ass

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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Prenonjebose: 12:29pm On Apr 23, 2022
The dynamics of marriage is not the same for different couples. Shared responsibilities, mutual respect and understanding is key, not equality.

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