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| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Murphyenemuwe: 8:09pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Some people won't be judged for the things they did but for the wrong judgement they passed on issues they know nothing about. Some will just open mouth and say it's a lie. I experienced it first hand and it's not something I will ever forget Psady: 15 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Jaqenhghar: 8:10pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Slynation:S Make I hear word. You didnt need the sex tape to ascertain anything. People already told you the contents which should be enough unless of course you also enjoy watching little girls. You are lucky you are not in one western country. Material like that on your device can get you a very lengthy jail sentence and your na.e on the registered sex offenders list. That's child pronography. You can explain to the judge that you are the lead investigator and wanted to know if the girl's mother was lying 6 Likes |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by theamazonguru(m): 8:11pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
yanabasee: Oh so you have this kind of experience as in the story you told and yet you started by kind of doubting the OP, with your age limit ish. I believe the OP,he has no reason to lie. He is not under any pressure to appear good to unknown faces on Nairaland. He is not here to clear his name. Rather, pouring out his hearts after reminiscing on the event. Imagine how much his image was battered when that event happened. Fear that genda. Either she is a girl/lady/woman. 28 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Nobody: 8:12pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
tarantino1: Jesus! This is very very very bad. Omo! Not all will let go like that ooo. Some would do all they can to ensure the woman and the daughter live out their lives in complete pain. See as this thing pain me now  7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by mccloud224(m): 8:13pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
I have never been accused of sexual assault but I have been locked up a few times based on false accusations from WOMEN! Just imagine someone you have a disagreement with getting you picked up,then heaping tales upon tales on your head @ the police station and she sheds an ocean of crocodile tears as a stamp of truth. I can't describe how I felt...it oscillated between surprise, shock,confusion and rage....lots of intense RAGE!!! Unfortunately, this is the world we now live in. I can't blame the legal system though after all many men all over the world have had their lives destroyed based on the lies of women. Ask Mike Tyson how casual sex with a fan transformed into a rape scandal back in the '90s and he went from heavy weight champion of the world to prison inmate for many years. 26 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by BrickDevo: 8:14pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
dominique:you are right sha |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Kaytixy: 8:14pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Fear girls A lady traveled to Canada leaving her two girls behind with their father. Upon returning from Canada, she found out that these girls have become rude to their father and when she asked the man, he told her they are only angry because he disallowed them from going out with friends and parties. And any time she asked the girls what was going on, they tell her to ask her husband which is their father. So finally, before she traveled, she had a long talk with them and they told their mother that their father has been having sex with them. The woman became confused and when she confronted her husband he told her it was all lies and there was nothing like that. The woman went ahead and reported to her pastor but the husband still denied it. The woman found it very difficult to believe so she took her children and traveled to Canada leaving the man behind. After three years, the she heard her husband is getting married to another woman and she became devastated it was then her two girls now told her they lied to her about their father having sex with them and that they said so simply because they want to travel abroad couple with the fact that their father won't allow them mingle. The woman doesn't know how to go back to her husband she is just there. People need to be very careful especially with ladies. 28 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Jaqenhghar: 8:14pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Aboguede:Not as pathetic as the man who gets it off by molesting children. If you are not a paedophile yourself my words shouldnt cause you any grief |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by fykes(m): 8:14pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
I still regard this as the greatest Mistake I ever made in my life so far. So I was young then and working with a multinational, lived alone Inna 3 bedroom flat, a car and enough money but no time. I I only came home once in a month for 6 working days. Had this neighbors a young mother of 3 who according to them, I her husband eloped and her mom pays their rent. So the girls, started getting close... They weren't going to school, no money, there mom I don't know what she does and didn't care as at then. They always want to watch cartoons when I was around... I just lost someone then to death and was given extender break from work. As I was at-home... The last girl became my favorite she was smart, I outspoken for her age etc. I wished to have a child like her... I started paying their fees, put all three back to school, bought them a govt to watch whenever I go back to work, I gave them one of my TV and also gave their mom 120k to start okirika biz. I weekends I drive them to parks and sometimes their mom brings me food... I was young and felt I could save the world until I overheard their mom on d phone one night when I returned with them to eat night food telling someone that she's gonna marry me whether I want it or not... She's found a man and will do anything to tie him down. I started keeping my distance and left for work, I didn't come back nor pick her calls again, for like 2-3 months. When I did , they had packed out with my properties including my mattress I gave them. The lady that sells food told me that the mother was telling them that she's scared of me molesting her daughters because I asked her out and she refused. So she feels I will want to molest her daughters instead that's y I was being nice. That period I was hurt but when I really found out that she was a runs girl and had no husband, I knew I dodged a bullet, I that's when I started hearing the real gist abt her... She was really dropping off her kids in my house so she can use their apartment to hustle. 54 Likes 7 Shares |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by nedekid: 8:14pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Mummytoo:Forgive the little witch? For where?  2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Karleb(m): 8:14pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
No be today. Let's just be careful. If you think this kind of case too much, you'd never have a girlfriend. It's best to just have people on your side. People that can vouch for you no matter what. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by thinkmoney(m): 8:14pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Lamanii22:That's was a society that looked after each other. Not the society we have formed now that is going about saying "it's not your business. Mind your business ". 7 Likes |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Jaqenhghar: 8:15pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
LtChisom:Dont get ahead of yourself. Practice self control 1 Like |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Jaqenhghar: 8:16pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
JoyousFurnitire:Paedophile. Get some help nigger 1 Like |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Jaqenhghar: 8:18pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Richy4:Same way so.e men are very good in molesting children. Tell me do you still jèrk off to that 'sex tape' on your phone? 1 Like |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Jaqenhghar: 8:18pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
reubenobi: So the young man that molested her was posessed by the holy spirit abi 1 Like |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by maxist2020(m): 8:18pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Bro you are not alone in this Saga. Mine happened in 2014 the year I got admission into the university, I was staying with my elder brother who is married and his wife also had 2 of her niece staying in the house a boy of about 10 and a girl of 7 then. I had returned home from school after my first semester 100level exam and I was hoping to have enough rest when my brother summoned me in his room the following day, note my brother is a force man, to ask me what I have been doing with the girl, he said that they caught the girl 7 and the boy 10 having sex and when they were about beating her she said that I was the one that taught her and that I have been doing it to her for a very long time, I was suprised and the same time I was dumb founded but he called his wife, his wife's aunty who came visiting and they little girl to repeat what she said earlier and to my disbelief this girl opened her mouth and said that I have been fucking her. I saw my self in shambles, nobody wants to hear my part, no body wants to believe that I have never ever thought of such before at this point I was alone in the whole world, my brother's wife was suggesting that they should get me arrested immediately, her Aunty said no that they should rather use family to deal with the issue, my brother abandoned me because he said he doesn't know who to believe, the only angle he seems to have defended me is that since all of us are in the same house at least someone should have noticed it the day I deflowered her. For 3 days I couldn't eat food and I could not sleep, I prayed and God answered on the third day I called the small girl to the sitting room and started laying courses upon courses on her and who ever instigated her with such idea and that was when later in the day my brother's wife called another meeting and the topic was that she took the girl in for another questioning and she confessed that she lied, that she only called my name to save herself from the beating she would have received that day that they where caught having sex. But even with their shabby confession the did has already been done I was depressed already and I packed my bag after 2day later, my brother wanted to stop me with threat that he would seize to pay my school fees if I live his house in that manner but I didn't listen, a threat he later carried out but God made me strong and gave me the right Connections and by God grace I was able to train myself in the university. Secondly sometime around 2017 that was my 400level though I thank God I that I was not alone in the room that particular day as my girlfriend and one of my lodge mate were in my room watching movie, There is this little girl of about 2 years whom her mother lives next door to mine, the small girl was learning how to talk then, So that day she came into my room and was making troubles and I sent her out to my greatest surprise this little girl cried to her mother called my name and said that " I did her one Conner" pointing to her private part and raising one leg up, that was when one Conner song was a heat in town. Her mother laughed and every other person laughed but I know that it would have been terrible if others were not there because of her accurate description. Since then I can never allow any girl who is not 20 years and above to be alone with me in a secluded place because I discovered that the devil want to use them and ruin my life. 83 Likes 10 Shares |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Kaytixy: 8:19pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
qtguru:even the ones related to u sef na wahala 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Richy4(m): 8:19pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Jaqenhghar:I can't stoop to your level dear.. Have a good day 13 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Antyxx: 8:22pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Hmm It's true that children can lie, everyone knows that. It's Oyinbo people that started the Children are plain innocent rubbish, some children were born devil I remember when I was 3years old, each time I go to learning place, there are this children that would use her fingernails to wound my neck, without doing anything to her. And she would deny it to the last, infact,children deny things the most Then in my primary school, I'm primary 2, many of my classmates have sex with each other,and press their boobs. Infact, everyone knows them as onisekuse Then I have known about sex since primary one, sometimes I used to wonder if adults used to forget their childhood, at 5-10 years, all children know about boyfriend's and sex from their peers, it's not just the main core of their plays But also, many of my classmates that have sex, would have been probably abused by a man at home, because each time I think about why Bose, Aina, Cathrine were having sex at primary 2, that's the only excuse I can give. This is in in early 1980s. Most of them are grand mother now and great grandmother Also, the males understood butts,breast etc as early as primary 2. I remember how Yusuf will slap some girls butts and everyone would laugh,we all knew the meaning About Lies One girl lives in my street, she's around 5years old, this girl can behave like witch, always fighting,and have blade mouth,abuse anyone,where did she learn it from? I will say from her mother but the truth is her mother doesn't do as much as she does,from her sisters? Her sisters are naturally quiet and cool headed Hereditary is real, some people were born wicked and this they need training to become better Me myself,since childhood,I don't forgive people,and till now, I still don't. I have intense hatred for anyone that hurts me right from childhood,no matter how small. My mum would wonder why I get so unforgiving,right from Childhood,age 3.My sister would forgive immediately,but quarrel often. Infact, all my behaviour right now,are same things I exhibited during childhood,as well as my siblings Meanwhile, my brotherss are very quiet right from baby. My nieces are quiet and mom troublesome right from baby, they hardly cry and laugh often, they exhibit the same behaviour after age 5, and I have one niece that behaves just like me. If you offend her,till next year,she go remember,she no dey forget The work of parent is to learn who your child is, and mould her to something better. Some children like sex right from childhood,and they will like it till adulthood. Meanwhile,some like sex due to abuse 24 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by dalass(f): 8:22pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
dominique: You'll live long  1 Like |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Nobody: 8:24pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
lindseykibler: Omo! What am I reading?  5 Likes |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by aidameoryou: 8:27pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
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| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by okoroemeka(m): 8:28pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
DoctorOlasDesk:that is why a woman scorned is dangerous,a teenager scorned is even more deadly and lethal,diplomacy and mature adult intelligence is to be used if they are becoming too cutely cuddley with you,outright rejection with Stern words can be counterproductive 8 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by mccloud224(m): 8:31pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Karleb: The last two sentences is the best advice (and defense) a man has in this wicked world where the lies of one female surpasses the truth of ten men., 2 Likes |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by haabidah666: 8:32pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
GloriousGbola: 1 Like |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Omeizadean(m): 8:33pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
You all that have this sordid experience are still very lucky Ever witness where a little urchin get pregnant and blame a random guy she like out of the bunch? I know of a guy it happens to back then. Their case was taken to the district association call ODA for settlement. It takes several caning and stripping naked under serious harmattan period before the lil devil finally confessed that it was another boy that she didn't like that got her pregnant but being that she naturally prefered the accused one and that one never got to ask her out she flamed him. The matter was solved but after the guy have been stripped and punished severely alongside the girl. 22 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Mystery9(m): 8:35pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
yanabasee:You don't know what you are saying. Many little children are possessed with strange evil spirit of lies. They can say the unthinkable. 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by okoroemeka(m): 8:35pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
DaveDGreat:come on man,that cannot possibly be true,how can you remember what happened when you are 3 years old or press boobs of a primary 2 child,it is not possible,how can a 5-6 year old in primary 2 have a pressable boobs,I have not seen that,maybe in your place 9 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Kriss216: 8:35pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
annisy:I must commend your intelligence. I love kids alot but I always maintain distance with them. To give kids money or buy them something now is wahala. Everybody will be suspecting you, thinking you're a ritualist or something. The world has gone mad. 25 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by kelspinall(m): 8:35pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
I don't even try going close to kids apart from my blood sis..I don't 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Mystery9(m): 8:40pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
yanabasee:Kia..... Na God save that security man. 5 Likes 1 Share |
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