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Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by YoungAncient1: 8:20pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
You are wrong Mr, you are not a direct child of your grand father, you are second generation. You only have right to that which belongs directly to your dad by inheritance. 1 Like |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by coolfredo(m): 8:22pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
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Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by frozen70(f): 8:22pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
TheOldGods: You are taking it too far It still remains that he must share it for his own peace and safety Which ever way and manner it will be done the formula will come out |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by shantti(m): 8:25pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
questionanswer: U just cap shit about the inheritance stuff. I assume u are Igbo. Let me educate u. Ur grandfather's lands and properties belongs to ur father and his siblings. It would be shred equally, ur dad as the first son only gets to inherit the obi to ensure its maintenance. Now that your father, the head of your grandfather's family is dead, the new head of this family is the second son. This second son automatically owns the obi since your dad did not pass it down to u, I even doubt if his siblings left the obi for him. This second son in now in charge of the lands and properties and not u. Assuming your grandfathers lands and properties have been shared between his sons, them u get to control your father's portion. 4 Likes |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by demoBaba: 8:25pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
questionanswer: Your father supposed to have shared the property accordingly before his death.......may be your father wanted to have it all which is very bad. You have to understand that the said property isn't your direct father property so allow your uncles to share they're father property and give you your father share that is all 2 Likes |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by LadiesForever(f): 8:26pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
questionanswer: In all this understand one thiing..... YOUR INHERITANCE AS FIRST SON WILL NEVER START UNTIL YOUR DAD IS BURIED. They don't want you having power and properties |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by Tochj(m): 8:29pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
questionanswer:It's the job of ur kingsman to share the family property Get them involved. 1 Like |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by obyrich(m): 8:30pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
questionanswer:Your father made a mistake. He should have shared those properties while alive since he knew what his siblings could do. |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by shantti(m): 8:31pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
yanabasee: He has no right to share those properties, they r not his, the leader of the family is the one who has this role. The leader was formally his father, now it is his father's immediate younger brother. Imagine a grandkid sharing his grandfather's properties to his grandfather's sons. That's an abomination. 2 Likes |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by Niom(m): 8:33pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
If you take them to court, it will delay the burial process as you won't be able to do the burial until court passes judgement. Since you have the backings of the chief and elders of you village, Ignore your uncles.... Fix a date, and get some Army to secure the compound from vigil till the burial is conducted. Also, meet the youth leader of your community and make sure they have whatever they need to make the burial a success. This was exactly what I did when my uncle & his usele$$ son (who has hand in my father's death) vowed I was not going to bury my late father in his own house he built ooo... That he would be buried in the bush. Yours is even better that your Chief supports you to go ahead with the burial. In my case, my community Chief objected to my late fathers burial and sent a message to me, that i should come and do some traditional nonsense before i can bury my father else he won't attend and I will face the repercussions. So the chief, my uncle and his son were against the burial...... I got angry and prepared for them... I ignored them and later fixed another date for the burial. I got army, and engaged the community youths who stood solidly by me throughout the burial because my face show for the community... The youths of my commilunity even passed a message that anyone who misbehaves will be treated accordingly. This was how o was able to do my father's burial without anyone coughing... Even my uncle was quiet throughout the burial and his troublesome son didn't come. My community chief didn't attend the burial also and he respected himself not to try any nonsense.... The burial of my late popsman since 2019 in my community in Ika LGA, of Akwa Ibom State, still remains the best till date... Because of the way everything was organized with army walking round the compound looking for whom to use as scapegoat, youths blazing their weed till down.... If them dey give award for burial, I for collect one.... |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by Ngorbungor(m): 8:33pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
frozen70: His right, in some part of Igbo land, the op has no say again as far as his father didn't share their fathers inheritance, infact his uncles are very nice, they are not the wicked type, the OP should please use his brain ooo, forget court and police for now please. 1 Like |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by makson007: 8:34pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Your dad suppose to share everything among his brothers in the first place, but he refused to do the right thing at the right time. because of outdated culture and you as grandson also claiming what belong to everybody. This is my judgment.... Your dad have enjoyed his own inheritance while he was alive, pls back off or you will pay with your life. That is the bitter truth. Because they will attack you spiritually. |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by Iamntasaint: 8:34pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Ndi! Blood is thicker than water! Where una dey. Hw they sleep knowing their blood is not resting in peace baffles me. Men immediately u gt married n start having kids try as much as possible to secure all that belongs to u with a big demarcation n try as possible to put ur immediate family first in all u do. E gt y quote author=questionanswer post=112228469]Hi everyone, My father happened to be the first son of my grandfather who automatically inherit his lands and other properties. My father just died and since I'm the first son of my father. Which means I'm automatically inherit and in charge of those inheritance. Now my uncles are all ganging up against me. These guys not allowing me to do the burial of my father who passed away for a while now. They keep giving different excuses on why the burial will not hold. They gang up and cancel the burial i fixed previously and I lost everything. All what I spent for the burial arrangements was wasted. I really want to charge them for this. They are using the influence that if they are not in support the burial will not hold. These uncles has really fustrate me and I keep spending money and wasting my precious time traveling back to the village for series of meetings just to please them. Yet they're not approving my burying my father. Not like they are giving me any money for the burial. I'm the one handling it yet they no gree. They said i cannot inherit the grandfather and my father's properties..so I cannot do my father burial. And these are for their own selfish motives. The Kingsman and the king supports me and has cautious the uncles to desease from such. But yet they still persist. I have tried to make peace and peace with them as family concern but yet they are all still ganging up. And wow to fustrate me. Now my patience has ruined out. I'm in mood for actions now. I want to take matter higher than the community level with them now. I'm thinking taking them to court now. But I don't know the process. I'm seeking for the right direction i can take to solve such issue. Thank you so much �[/quote] |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by Antyxx: 8:34pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
questionanswer:You and your THIEF culture. You are a THIEF and your FATHER was a THIEF, and your great-grandfather was a THIEF. All the useless people supporting you to inherit all your father,great-grandfather properties are THIEFS It will not bee better for the idiot that made those unreasonable ancient, trouble causing cultural laws Your great-grandfather gave birth to children, many, bring people in heaven to earth without their permission,after he died, he gave all his property to just one person. Why didn't he just give birth to just one child? I mean he should have given birth to only your father alone now, so he can inherit all hiss properties in PEACE, but NAH, he went ahead to have sex and brought innocent children to the world, only to accuse them of not being a first son and thus not sharing properties. What if your uncle's were females? Means they can't even dream of having a single thing of their father that brought them to this world without permission All of you are USELESS |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by akpunda86: 8:36pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
questionanswer: Nwokem is a pity u lost Ur Dad,by actions u are taking u might join him. Nwokem in my family we are 5 boys and my father have 6 brothers,well when my Grandpa died,his brothers shared it among themselves and is my own father's share we shared among ourselves which my Dad did. I'm sorry Ur dad might be a greedy man,it all happens.please u dad did wrong,don't follow his path,do the right thing and I believe u no dey go villa wen he was alive Ur Dad is urs maybe in town but any not inherited but from Grandpa not urs,allow his brodas to share it among themselves including Ur dad,then u take his share 1 Like |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by Iamntasaint: 8:38pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Ndi! Blood is thicker than water! Where una dey. Hw they sleep knowing their blood is not resting in peace baffles me. Men immediately u gt married n start having kids ,try as much as possible to secure all that belongs to u with a big demarcation, mk we no share property, mk we do together until everybody go dey independent, no dey always end well E gt y quote author=questionanswer post=112228469]Hi everyone, My father happened to be the first son of my grandfather who automatically inherit his lands and other properties. My father just died and since I'm the first son of my father. Which means I'm automatically inherit and in charge of those inheritance. Now my uncles are all ganging up against me. These guys not allowing me to do the burial of my father who passed away for a while now. They keep giving different excuses on why the burial will not hold. They gang up and cancel the burial i fixed previously and I lost everything. All what I spent for the burial arrangements was wasted. I really want to charge them for this. They are using the influence that if they are not in support the burial will not hold. These uncles has really fustrate me and I keep spending money and wasting my precious time traveling back to the village for series of meetings just to please them. Yet they're not approving my burying my father. Not like they are giving me any money for the burial. I'm the one handling it yet they no gree. They said i cannot inherit the grandfather and my father's properties..so I cannot do my father burial. And these are for their own selfish motives. The Kingsman and the king supports me and has cautious the uncles to desease from such. But yet they still persist. I have tried to make peace and peace with them as family concern but yet they are all still ganging up. And wow to fustrate me. Now my patience has ruined out. I'm in mood for actions now. I want to take matter higher than the community level with them now. I'm thinking taking them to court now. But I don't know the process. I'm seeking for the right direction i can take to solve such issue. Thank you so much �[/quote] |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by Princepioneer(m): 8:38pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
JONNYSPUTE:Nice Advice...Those evil minded village uncles can frustrate eeehhh... Goshhh..!!! |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by Aringon(m): 8:38pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Bro, fix the date and arrange with the King and your kinsmen in collaboration with some Mopol to station around the burial or secretly arrest them one by one and after the burial then release then questionanswer: |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by haggai247: 8:40pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
questionanswer: Call the king or chief of your community to give you his blessing if he does arrest all the uncle who are stumbling blocks on Trump charges threat to your life. And fix the burial before they get out of custody. never ever ever take then to court they will poison you I'm dead sure of it. But if you can't just leave everything for them put ask your dad to fight your battle. |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by shantti(m): 8:40pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Hychineson: Asi ocha, he can never ever be the first son of his grandfather's family, it doesn't work that way in igboland. The oldest son of his grandfather is the leader of the family. Forget Nollywood, kingship is not inherited, it is rotated among clans that make up a community 1 Like |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by Ngorbungor(m): 8:44pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Niom: Don't miss inform the OP please, the matter on the table is related to inheritance, OP once again please start looking for the black goat now when its day time, it might be impossible to find it at night ooooo, speaking from experience, Army will come and go, youth will come and go after the burial the battle will still continue in full force. 1 Like |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by Nobody: 8:47pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
questionanswer: A big mistake your Old man did... My old man was about doing that, he claimed they are family. I personally went and warned him to go divide what so ever is left of their grandfather accordingly and let it be on record. Since the mess have been done, young man no put your hands for watin Elder involve. It doesn't cost them anything to waste you and get you buried close to your dad. Leave everything and let them give you if they feel it's right. If i am non judgemental all waiting until dey fight for no go pass 200million. Leave it for them ,work and gain more than that. |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by Ngorbungor(m): 8:48pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
shantti: God will bless you and your family for been truthful. 1 Like |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by Ngorbungor(m): 8:51pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
stinflame: I suspect the OP is as greedy as his father, am sorry to say this. 1 Like |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by sirblend: 8:51pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
chatinent: Wow! Your hatred for Igbos. You must be from the Southwest. |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by emyrald91(m): 8:51pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
questionanswer: As what now!!! Do not be unfortunate. So others are not humans because your father was born first? Like he defeated them in a battle or what? This is totally wrong. Infact no body deserve to be told this not to talk of trying to implement it. questionanswer: Yes na. Why will you inherit it. Wait wait wait!!! Put your younger brothers in their shoes. If anyone is selfish here, it's you. And of course whosoever set you on this path. Oh I remember, you are as greedy as your late father. You are not even planning to give anything to your younger brothers Let them share their properties. It's their father's own. Your and your brothers will in turn share your father's portion questionanswer: Please do. Maybe they court will even give.them justice because this is #justiceForYourUncles 1 Like |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by Pelia1234: 8:51pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Oga probably your Dad was not the first son of your grandfather,his elderly ones have pass on too and their kids didn't claim your grandfather properties........please bury your dad and do your personal hustling.quote author=questionanswer post=112228469]Hi everyone, My father happened to be the first son of my grandfather who automatically inherit his lands and other properties. My father just died and since I'm the first son of my father. Which means I'm automatically inherit and in charge of those inheritance. Now my uncles are all ganging up against me. These guys not allowing me to do the burial of my father who passed away for a while now. They keep giving different excuses on why the burial will not hold. They gang up and cancel the burial i fixed previously and I lost everything. All what I spent for the burial arrangements was wasted. I really want to charge them for this. They are using the influence that if they are not in support the burial will not hold. These uncles has really fustrate me and I keep spending money and wasting my precious time traveling back to the village for series of meetings just to please them. Yet they're not approving my burying my father. Not like they are giving me any money for the burial. I'm the one handling it yet they no gree. They said i cannot inherit the grandfather and my father's properties..so I cannot do my father burial. And these are for their own selfish motives. The Kingsman and the king supports me and has cautious the uncles to desease from such. But yet they still persist. I have tried to make peace and peace with them as family concern but yet they are all still ganging up. And wow to fustrate me. Now my patience has ruined out. I'm in mood for actions now. I want to take matter higher than the community level with them now. I'm thinking taking them to court now. But I don't know the process. I'm seeking for the right direction i can take to solve such issue. Thank you so much �[/quote] 1 Like |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by sirblend: 8:51pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
chatinent:Wow! Your hatred for Igbos You must be from the Southwest. |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by shantti(m): 8:55pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
grandstar: Bro, I am Igbo and what the picture the op is painting is false. T The only right he has is the right to bury his dad. As for his grandfathers properties, his uncles have a very big upper hand over him. The properties would be shared equally and he gets to control the one given to his father. 1 Like |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by Nobody: 8:56pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Comrade please with all due Respect, I use God name beg you, No vex for me for this I want to advice you... Let there be Vawulence E be like say Mortuary nor dey cost for East. E be like say you be the Gentleman type... Show some promise of Vawulence I swear na them go help you bury the Man. |
Re: Family Depriving My Right: Is It Possible To Charge Them To Court? by Trojan8(m): 9:00pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
You want to inherit all your grandfather's properties. Meanwhile your grandfather has male children (your uncles) that are alive, and haven't received a pin from same properties. You must be a big clown. Why would they allow you bury your father when the properties that your father stole have not been shared? It is obvious that you don't like the life that you are living at the moment. 1 Like |
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