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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by apatheticme(f): 8:59pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Winters23: You're the chief slave!! I'm sure you brought your "app", your phone and your laptop from heaven, you didn't learn it from the west!! Mr conservationist. Hypocritical confused black male who ass kisses the west but continues to seek ways to subjugate his own female kind!! If the west whom you learnt tech from and probably transact with were like you, and subjugated their women, I'm pretty sure you won't be here capping nonsense! Deal with it, equal opportunities for women are here to stay! You can only type your miserable opinion online and whine in one corner of your room, Life has left you behind. If e too pain you, pack your bags and go live in the middle East where people with stone age mindset like you are welcome! Mumu!! 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Winters23: 9:01pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
[s] apatheticme:[/s] The code is a universal language, it belongs to no country... 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by apatheticme(f): 9:02pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by apatheticme(f): 9:12pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Winters23: 9:15pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by apatheticme(f): 9:53pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
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Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Slurity(m): 10:07pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:If all servants are to get equality, how then do you explain the preaching of people getting different crown of honour in heaven? Are you saying the thieves on the cross that got save will be on the same level with Paul or any of the apostles? |
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by orumba(m): 10:42pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Not easy paying bills, |
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Kobojunkie: 10:55pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Slurity:The teaching that you will get different crowns of honor was not taught by Jesus Christ, so I can't speak to the truth of that. What I do know of Jesus Christ is what is written in the Gospels instead. 2. Jesus Christ never told the thief of the cross anything about the Kingdom of God or Heaven. Your first cluse ought to be the fact that Jesus Christ wwsnt in Heaven on day in question. Instead, the thief was saved according to God's Old Covenant declaration in Ezekiel 33 vs 9 - 20 which only promised those saved Life according to Deuteronomy 30 vs 15 - 20, and not salvation from God's curse nor a reward in Heaven. . |
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Gamesmart: 5:44am On Apr 24, 2022 |
odinson1: Very well said! |
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Gamesmart: 5:48am On Apr 24, 2022 |
toujurs: This is either stuuuupid or just poor grammar. "On average, women can never be equal to men" is the right grammar. Claiming a woman can never be equal to (or even better than) a/any man is pure moronic. |
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Gamesmart: 6:00am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Gee64: Nonsense! In an ideal union of marriage (or any intimate relationship between men and women), the man should be the leader. In non-ideal ones, where the woman is more competent, then it is okay for the woman to lead or be equal. If a women is leading a relationship, like apatheticme does in her house, then she definitely settled and is in not a great relationship. Such relationships are less harmonious, on average, than relationships where the man is a leader. A man being the leader does not mean a woman should not be allowed to have her own opinion, freedom or freewill. |
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by naijadrivablog: 8:15am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Its ungodly. |
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by IMASTEX: 8:41am On Apr 24, 2022 |
odinson1:This is rather the reality. The creator has already designed a unique role for each person which is even the reality in your mention. The example will be like a person going to contest for the tallest & shortest person in the same show at the same time. And he is expecting to win both. Though, many don't understand what giving a woman sense of belonging is, why even turn it into a gender fight of superiority especially in an African contest. |
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by davedoe: 9:09am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Women are so funny u want authority yet wen problem comes up you expect the man to stand up and fight for you knowing full well u want equality.You want to be a man and a woman and also have both privileges then what happens to the man he becomes and object of ridicule or shame to himself and children come on you women are just too selfish and am sure u would have even fought for the position of a God if possible |
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by apatheticme(f): 10:51am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Gamesmart: You must be in my relationship for you to know that I'm the one leading, and that it is less harmonious. Your obsession with this moniker is your preoccupation right now. Keep running kiti kiti kata kata online on my matter while I actually live my own fulfilled life offline! I'm sure I occupy 99.9% of your brain for you to be tagging me and seeking my attention online every single day! Whose now the simp? You of course!! You're the biggest SIMP ever liveth, for you to be mentioning me upandan, even though I ignored your frequent mentions, you never gave up. You kept tagging me. Keep it up, it's a thing of delight that you still kept me in your brain all along. Forming Alfa mail online, sliding into my mentions behind the scene to seek attention!! Ha ha ha ha ha ha. Your heart now beats for my notice, if I don't notice you your day is not complete. Is our God not great?? Now run along SIMP, I've noticed you today! Joke's on you SIMP! |
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Gamesmart: 12:50pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
apatheticme: Jeez! Nothing you wrote here makes sense. |
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by JoshuaSG: 4:01pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
The trend towards independent parenting and the high divorce rate it causes is a major issue in Africa, raised by the west's ideology of gender equality. |
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by socialmediaman: 4:18pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Gee64: A man will hardly write this. Does being employed by a boss mean that you’re a less equal gender from your boss? You still have your rights as a human being In a marriage relationship, a man is the the “boss” of his wife in their home. This doesn’t in anyway mean the woman is a less equal gender. Even a child who is being led by their parents is not a less equal gender than the parents. Everyone still has rights as a human being no matter if they’re a man, woman or a child. In marriage, a woman can still go to school, go to work, be a business, social or political leader etc There is authority in every institution despite that everyone is equal, including in marriage. A man was designed since the beginning of time by most cultures and religions to be the leader in marriage. It’s as simple as that 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Kobojunkie: 4:27pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
JoshuaSG:Gender equality isn't western but commonsense. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by jkuvira: 10:54pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: I hope gender equality doesn't leave the kitchen when the heat is much. You want gender equality, go find someone who agrees with your ideology and be with such a person. I wonder why you guys can't fathom the fact that a person can treat you with mutual respect without being equals. It's not the fault of the world you didn't witness an environment where women gave their opinions in the home. And you were asking about who put this strata in place? Simply God, and before the knowledge of God got introduced to Nigeria, the ways of our forefathers. Take it or leave it a man as the head of things is going to stay because it has always been and it is what God deemed right and set as a standard. One movement that vies for equality between the genders is not going to indoctrinate the whole wide world, at least not me. Also, take it or leave it, his standards have always been proven right, time and time again. |
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Kobojunkie: 11:04pm On Apr 24, 2022 |
jkuvira:You accuse God of putting some strata in place but where or when exactly did this happen?? |
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by addictiv(m): 12:25am On Apr 25, 2022 |
Because men and women re not the same, so we can't be equals. Men have their strengths and women have theirs too. The fact that male strengths cannot be compared with female strengths already makes us unequal. |
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by jkuvira: 2:06am On Apr 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: First, it's not an accusation. It's an allusion based on clear facts. 2. This is not a thread on religion or faith but I'll draw my answers from there. Do you really want to go there. Moving forward, it's not like the standard is faulty, ' I'm sure you are familiar with the saying - Two cannot captain a ship', so clearly there's a need for a head of the house (feel free to cite the case of co-ceos and heads in the professional world but it's not marriage, nor is it a home). And the role is designated to the man . We have seen countless men, or even know this men who misuse their God given rights, but that doesn't make the standard less standard, less effective. |
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Kobojunkie: 2:08am On Apr 25, 2022 |
jkuvira:It's not a religious thread but you freely level false accusations against God in it?, 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by dalass(f): 2:39am On Apr 25, 2022 |
Gee64: Even in Naija society, the woman has no equality, not to speak of marriage |
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Cromagnon: 6:11am On Apr 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:the one true God |
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by jkuvira: 6:26am On Apr 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: I've reread my initial comments. And I do not find anything there labelling false accusations against God. If you are of the opinion that he did not set the standard, fine. But to label a statement of fact as false, a standard God himself set, you should be ready to decry a good number of the postulates and laws and sayings we've known so far - Newton, Faraday, Boyle, Charles, Aristotle, Socrates, Plato, Archimedes etc. |
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Acidosis(m): 7:55am On Apr 25, 2022 |
Another gender equality nonsense. Abeg what is gender equality? Why do you want to make people equal on the basis of their gender? Don't males have female bosses at work? Do they earn the same wage or respect, both internally and externally? You don achieve career equality? Or why are doctors more respected and trusted than nurses in certain workplaces? Why do organizations give better attention to university graduates and less to colleges of education? Didn't they all spend 3-4 years in school and contribute positively to the economy? Have you achieved racial, economic, or tribal equality? Why are blacks in the West relegated to certain low wage jobs? Why do state workers earn lower wages and allowances than federal government workers in many countries? Is Aisha Buhari not being served by men and people's husbands in Aso rock? Why can't a man become the "Queen of England"? These and more are reasons I consider gender equality the world's most stup!d idea. No wrong with calling for more opportunities for the most deprived in the society but to do that on the basis of "gender or sex equality" is id!otic. Men are being oppressed everyday by fellow men. Military men consider themselves more powerful. Same trend plays out everywhere. Inequalities ought to be our concern but even that cannot be achieved by anyone. Even God has His favourite people and He didn't create the earth with equal or same resources. If you cannot convert your desert land to tourist centre, then that's your business. If you cannot train your daughter to become another Okonjo Iweala, please blame yourself. People have done it, and you can do it too. If it was that easy for men, na Aso rock I suppose dey now. I have no comment about gender equality in marriages. Too early to engage in meaningless discussions. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Kobojunkie: 1:55pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
Cromagnon:You have to be more specific since almost 4000 religions out there each have their own . |
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Kobojunkie: 1:57pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
jkuvira:Again,You accuse God of putting some strata in place but where or when exactly did this happen?? |
Re: Why Is Gender Equality Not Respected In Marriage? by Cromagnon: 2:11pm On Apr 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:all pray to the same God Mr atheist |
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