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"I have tried to overlook some certain behaviours of my wife.. though am not the complaining type, but sometimes I see things from different prospectives and think deep towards it but not quick to arrive on conclusion, but this particular issues gives me lots of concerns even though I try to overlook them .

Am the type that is always proud of my wife, that I post her pictures on my Facebook Story, WhatsApp and other platforms even when she is not celebrating her birthday, just to show her how much I loved and cherished her and also proud of her. Since I met my wife 10 years ago I have been celebrating her birthdays, with her pictures on my DP for couple of days after her birthday.. Honestly when it comes to my birthday my wife has never uploaded my pictures once on any platform to celebrate me even when she is always online doing what I don't know. the most shocking one is she doesn't put her children's pictures either but she will be quick to put her sisters or brothers pictures on what'app or Facebook..

Does it mean that she is not proud of me being her husband or she doesn't love me? Am a very handsome man with nice built up..it's giving me worries because am about to confront her on this issue".

Overthinking no fit solve problem










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She's for the street

Stop carrying bags of cement for someone that can't carry a loaf of bread for you. Stop crossing express for someone that can't cross a gutter for you. Out of all your family members, it's only your wife that is not your relation. Be wise.

Entitlement mentality


The condition of entitlement is your own problem

Stop posting her own. Her reaction will reveal what is hidden.

@OP

You wife is trying to protect you from the public prey.
Seems she is trying to keep away her family life away from the social media. Showing you and the children off on the social media isn’t love.

In as much as she performs her matrimonial responsibilities perfectly with you and the children and no history or perception of infidelity from the woman, social media love stunt is a trivial issue.

She's protecting the marriage Odogwu

Kriss216:
Stop carrying bags of cement for someone that can't carry a loaf of bread for you. Stop crossing express for someone that can't cross a gutter for you. Out of all your family members, it's only your wife that is not your relation. Be wise.

At bolded. Deep

Your parents, sisters, brothers and even your children are all blood relations, except your wife/spouse.
That's something most people don't pay attention to.

That is why it's impossible to 'divorce'/change your parents, siblings, children but people change spouse like garment every now and then.

She doesn’t want her Akunakuna friends to snatch you from her


She know say your toools na shameless tools , any small thing e don stand go up

Kriss216:
Stop carrying bags of cement for someone that can't carry a loaf of bread for you. Stop crossing express for someone that can't cross a gutter for you. Out of all your family members, it's only your wife that is not your relation. Be wise.

Seems like you had a terrible childhood, it has really robbed off on you negatively.

Biglittlelois:
Seems like you had a terrible childhood, it has really robbed off on you negatively.

Is that all

Tony4988:
Overthinking no fit solve problem

Better days are coming ma wo be


So far she is not cheating, continue to smash her p*** and STOP being insecure.

DoctorOlasDesk:
She's protecting the marriage Odogwu

Someone said up there that the op has entitlement mentality and I'm wondering what that means in this context. You also talking about her protecting the marriage and I'm wondering what that means too

She is protecting the marriage but not protecting her brothers and sisters right? From everything up there she doesn't look like someone who is a private person not to talk of protecting anything, she is most likely living a different life online.

Kriss216:
Is that all

You really should stop, it is not healthy, if this is your way of getting attention, why not comment positively instead of negatively? You are everywhere spreading bile against women, what you don't know is that ones outlook on things, whether real or fake, can unconsciously affect ones life, change.

Biglittlelois:
You really should stop, it is not healthy, if this is your way of getting attention, why not comment positively instead of negatively?

You want me to comment positively to massage your ego?

Kriss216:
Stop carrying bags of cement for someone that can't carry a loaf of bread for you. Stop crossing express for someone that can't cross a gutter for you. Out of all your family members, it's only your wife that is not your relation. Be wise.

Your mum isn't your dad's relation neither is mine, so if his wife is his relative then it is an incestuous relationship assuming he is not from a culture that is okay with cousins marrying each other.

Your wife/babymama/surrogate is NOT going to be your relative

Kriss216:
You want me to comment positively to massage your ego?

You have females in your family right? Or your mom? None of them has been a source of joy and inspiration at any point in time in your life?

Biglittlelois:
You have females in your family right? Or your mom? None of them has been a source of joy and inspiration at any point in time in your life?

My source of joy and inspiration shouldn't be your business, Lois.

Why should my source of joy comes from human when I have God who is the author and finisher of my faith?

Kriss216:
My source of joy and inspiration shouldn't be your business, Lois.

Why should my source of joy comes from human when I have God who is the author and finisher of my faith?

David, if your source of joy comes from God, you will not constantly degrade his creation for your satisfaction and to be accepted by your ilks here, you are not smarter than God that knows the importance and significance of the female gender, you would not have been born without the female gender, whatever terrible experience you had or have, that makes you see females as your constant nightmare, is bordering on a mental disorder, it is not normal, you should check yourself into a psychiatric hospital, I'll always pray for you for eternal peace, you really need divine peace in your life, very obvious.

Take care.

Biglittlelois:
David, if your source of joy comes from God, you will not constantly degrade his creation for your satisfaction and to be accepted by your ilks here, you are not smarter than God that knows the importance and significance of the female gender, you would not have been born without the female gender, whatever terrible experience you had or have, that makes you see females as your constant nightmare, is bordering on a mental disorder, it is not normal, you should check yourself into a psychiatric hospital, I'll always pray for you for eternal peace, you really need divine peace in your life, very obvious.

Take care.

People rarely check themselves into a psychiatric hospital, majority are dragged to get there.

Biglittlelois:
David, if your source of joy comes from God, you will not constantly degrade his creation for your satisfaction and to be accepted by your ilks here, you are not smarter than God that knows the importance and significance of the female gender, you would not have been born without the female gender, whatever terrible experience you had or have, that makes you see females as your constant nightmare, is bordering on a mental disorder, it is not normal, you should check yourself into a psychiatric hospital, I'll always pray for you for eternal peace, you really need divine peace in your life, very obvious.

Take care.

It's all in your head, Lois. I love women, abeg. I no dey use bress and nyash play

@Op stop making a mountain out of a mole hill. Some people are just private about their matters and don't want to flaunt things on social media. What you should be concerned about is how she treats you and the children. If she is loving and caring, I don't think there is anything to worry about.

Threesha:
From DM

some people and irrelevancies sha! Of all the problems of marriage! The fact is that we post our family's pix, not for them but for us. The cute pictures we display of our kids, and the comments we receive, do our children view them? We do it for ourselves. It gives us joy. So if your wife does not even publish her own kids pix, it simply means she is content with enjoying her kids without public approval. Same reason she doesn't publish her husband's. Simple! People are different jare!

Mindlog:
People rarely check themselves into a psychiatric hospital, majority are dragged to get there.

It will be good for him if he goes there to check things out for himself, he is not normal imho, I won't be surprised if his negativity rubs off on him offline.

decatalyst:
Better days are coming ma wo be


So far she is not cheating, continue to smash her p*** and STOP being insecure.

Egg zat Italy

immortalcrown:
Stop posting her own. Her reaction will reveal what is hidden.

You are a wise man

Tony4988:
Overthinking no fit solve problem

better days are coming ma wo be

My brother,until u realised that not all women wahala should be taken seriously,then u are sure to live long.

But if u worry over all this,depression will set in.