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Unrelated but I need your advice.

I have already signed an offer letter and passed the pre-employment medical checkup. How soon can I get the actual employment contract?

Can someone please advise

Ok

Better shut up before you loose a good girl over your past


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You were not ready to father a child and you did not use condom.just tell her before shit get serious

Was so difficult in telling someone that you have a love child?

Did you father the child in the course of your relationship with her?

Humans makes things difficult for themselves

Hmmm

Don't hide anything go straight to the point let her know now

What's so difficult there? Tell her joor. After all you started as sex mate. What ever it means.

You know you don't have kobo and are irresponsible at the age of 30+. Yet, you are sleeping with and pregnanting small small girls.

Goat Ra...

What's really hard here, just tell her.
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Mtchewww, deception is a true reason for divorce

let her know the real you

Women are so evil and manipulative... they only get pregnant for who they wanna get pregnant for ...and they force it on ur head

Kingsley123456:
I will be brief...

I dated a lady in 2009, despite that she knows I wasn't ready to father a child, she got pregnant and hid it for about 5-6months before she came to my patents through my elder sister....now I hardly sleep,

Well, I started dating another girl (23yr old) early last yr, obviously we started as a sex mate thinking the relationship was heading nowhere so I thought there was no point of being straightforward about having a child before meeting her....

Now I've seen other qualities that I like in her, we love each other and the relationship has taken another face, I don't want to lose her Care and love. I ought to have told her before, now I'm scared, I know she will be heartbroken, I don't know what she could do when I finally tell her, but what I know is that, she will leave me once she found out elsewhere....

We spoke last night and I asked her what can make her break up with me, her reply was, if her mother should reject me or if she herself should find out any of my secrets from another person...how do I tell her Honestly I'm afraid of loosing her...I'm 31yrs old, she's serving rn.

She’s not your wife yet, so it’s the perfect time to tell her

EugeneLeeJnr:
Unrelated but I need your advice.

I have already signed an offer letter and passed the pre-employment medical checkup. How soon can I get the actual employment contract?

Can someone please advise

It depends on the coy's policy. Of course you would start working soon enough, but for some firm you would have to work three or six months on probation before getting access to all the benefits accrued to you.

Who never bleeped up, hands in the air, no hands.

Bro you need to tell her before she find out from someone else.

Just tell her before she find out by herself

OP just go and tell her, either she will stay or leave you can't keep wasting time on it.

Man up and tell her you're only waiting for the right time before you tell her.

Kingsley123456:
I will be brief...

I dated a lady in 2009, despite that she knows I wasn't ready to father a child, she got pregnant and hid it for about 5-6months before she came to my patents through my elder sister....now I hardly sleep,

Well, I started dating another girl (23yr old) early last yr, obviously we started as a sex mate thinking the relationship was heading nowhere so I thought there was no point of being straightforward about having a child before meeting her....

Now I've seen other qualities that I like in her, we love each other and the relationship has taken another face, I don't want to lose her Care and love. I ought to have told her before, now I'm scared, I know she will be heartbroken, I don't know what she could do when I finally tell her, but what I know is that, she will leave me once she found out elsewhere....

We spoke last night and I asked her what can make her break up with me, her reply was, if her mother should reject me or if she herself should find out any of my secrets from another person...how do I tell her Honestly I'm afraid of loosing her...I'm 31yrs old, she's serving rn.

just consult Yul Edochie

Abeg tell her. Just prepare for the worst case scenario that she will react badly to it.

Surprisingly, she might shock you she has been aware right from time.

Also, she may tell you she too has kids before getting to you.

BE PREPARED EVEN IF YOU ARE NOT A MEMBER OF THE BOYS SCOUT.

Yul Edochie In Trouble | Third Wife Knocking by Shalayetv: 6:38pm
Yul Chibuike Daniel Edochie professionally known as Yul Edochie is a Nigerian actor, named after popular Russian actor Yul Brynner.
He is from Anambra State Nigeria and the son of veteran Nollywood actor, Pete Edochie.
He was born on 7th January 1982 in Lagos, Nigeria into a well-grounded Christian family with six children.
The movie icon spent his growing years in Lagos and Enugu and got married at 22. He attended the University of Port Harcourt, where he received a Bachelor's degree in Dramatic Arts.

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Open your mouth. Let the words come out. That’s how.

Tell her u had a child when you were still into fornication

Mikirolex:
The child outside is your first fruit, your blood, your pride and as such, you can't hide him or her.
Tell her openly that you never knew you would fall in love considering what you have been through in relationship.Hence, you never told her initially,but now you really want to settle down with her, therefore,the issue must be cleared.
Please if possible bring your child inside your house before the marriage, otherwise,she will become a stranger in her father's house.
Thank you for sharing

Really? Na so e easy? You want to play emotional card? Awwwn!

*Pours water on your head. Wake up!


You are the one I love but she's the one I bleep nansense.

How can you lash a woman without condom? Dem swear for una?

Kingsley123456:
I will be brief...

I dated a lady in 2009, despite that she knows I wasn't ready to father a child, she got pregnant and hid it for about 5-6months before she came to my patents through my elder sister....now I hardly sleep,

Well, I started dating another girl (23yr old) early last yr, obviously we started as a sex mate thinking the relationship was heading nowhere so I thought there was no point of being straightforward about having a child before meeting her....

Now I've seen other qualities that I like in her, we love each other and the relationship has taken another face, I don't want to lose her Care and love. I ought to have told her before, now I'm scared, I know she will be heartbroken, I don't know what she could do when I finally tell her, but what I know is that, she will leave me once she found out elsewhere....

We spoke last night and I asked her what can make her break up with me, her reply was, if her mother should reject me or if she herself should find out any of my secrets from another person...how do I tell her Honestly I'm afraid of loosing her...I'm 31yrs old, she's serving rn.

You need to MAN UP guy.
I have a 17 years old boy before I got married.
The dya I proposed to my wife was the same day and time I told her this. She felt bad but after one week she called me and accepted my proposal and we're happily married with children.

How do you tell her ? Use NTA.

This is not a big deal now, tell her straight, you can't keep hiding it from her, if she stays fine if she doesn't no problem, next time you meet a lady let it be the first thing you will say self, children are blessing and gift from God