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Re: I Am Married, But In Love With A Younger Married Man by fikayormi(m): 6:48pm On May 05, 2022

Re: I Am Married, But In Love With A Younger Married Man by Kobojunkie: 6:50pm On May 05, 2022

chioma213:
How do I get over this feeling, as it is killing me, should I divorce my husband, how about his wife, what will happen? You all are free to do insult me or say things that will hurt, but in all, I'll sieve and get appropriate recommendations.

You get over the feeling the same way you cultivated them to begin with. In order to develop those feelings for the fella, you first had to give your attention, and time and interest. To get rid of said feelings, begin by setting your goal, withdraw attention, interest and attention and redirect it to that which you would rather have it all one. That is how self-disciple really works. undecided

Should you divorce your husband? That's up to you. undecided

About the man's wife, living in Nigeria, what makes you think she is naive to what is probably going on around and with her husband. And I hope you don't firmly believe that you have a chance with this man if you abandon your own marriage. undecided

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Re: I Am Married, But In Love With A Younger Married Man by Uwaomaokey(m): 7:03pm On May 05, 2022

Thonia69:
Seems like a fake story to me....

Things are really happening, I don't doubt this story one bit, might be fake here, but things dae happen, wetin eye don see eh.

Re: I Am Married, But In Love With A Younger Married Man by LOVEGINO(m): 7:17pm On May 05, 2022

Thonia69:
Seems like a fake story to me....

if na d opposite gender now, u for don rant tire grin

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Re: I Am Married, But In Love With A Younger Married Man by Nobody: 7:21pm On May 05, 2022

Marry a banker at ur own peril. It has been proven over and over again... Imagine this old layer messing around with anther woman's husband to the point of getting her kids involved. I only pity ur husband for not listening to advice before making u his wife undecided

Re: I Am Married, But In Love With A Younger Married Man by Piptocoin: 7:22pm On May 05, 2022

Magnoliaa:
Na love you love. You no kee persin.

[color=indigo]Really, Magnolia? Where is loyalty? What is marriage without loyalty and commitment? Is it not friends with benefits? Then why marry in the first place when you can have all the benefits of marriage without commitment, responsibility, and more importantly, loyalty?[/color]

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Re: I Am Married, But In Love With A Younger Married Man by Magnoliaa(f): 7:25pm On May 05, 2022

Piptocoin:
[color=indigo]Really, Magnolia? Where is loyalty? What is marriage without loyalty and commitment? Is it not friends with benefits? Then why marry in the first place when you can have all the benefits of marriage without commitment, responsibility, and more importantly, loyalty?[/color]

Oya, I don dash you one share as you don tear provoke dey drop deep introspection phrases for me. grin

Happy?

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Re: I Am Married, But In Love With A Younger Married Man by kelspinall(m): 7:29pm On May 05, 2022

this generation of 30s 45-50 is just making marriage very negative for the young ones.how on Earth is a married woman and man with kids will be tripping for another man's home.this is pure lust.tufiakwa.madam better control urself than thinking of divorce.if you ever lose ur husband for another guy claiming to be nice.am sorry better ask his wife the type of man he is.not all that glitters are gold.cant imagine they're bicching around even with kids

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Re: I Am Married, But In Love With A Younger Married Man by 001spice: 7:30pm On May 05, 2022

The only help u need is a good dick to bang u hard so as to reset ur brain.

Re: I Am Married, But In Love With A Younger Married Man by Nobody: 7:31pm On May 05, 2022

LOVEGINO:
if na d opposite gender now, u for don rant tire

Nope

Re: I Am Married, But In Love With A Younger Married Man by Nobody: 7:42pm On May 05, 2022

Uwaomaokey:
Things are really happening, I don't doubt this story one bit, might be fake here, but things dae happen, wetin eye don see eh.

Ok. If the story isn't fake, she should get ready to be a single mum or a second wife. Killing the feeling is the only thing she can do to avoid this.

Re: I Am Married, But In Love With A Younger Married Man by Unzerious: 8:00pm On May 05, 2022

This is Weighty.
Not All things Sweet are Good, and All Dreams aren't meant to be Achieved.

Re: I Am Married, But In Love With A Younger Married Man by techWriter3: 8:13pm On May 05, 2022

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Re: I Am Married, But In Love With A Younger Married Man by Xscape1993(m): 8:25pm On May 05, 2022

chioma213:
Then why do I feel so much peace with him, I rarely sleep, but during those holiday and skeletal work period, I'll so sleep that he will be the one to wake me. It's not lust, sometimes I just want him to be around me

Why did he not marry you? He went ahead and married another woman because he knows you are married. So, where is the love you claimed he has for you? Madam, you are married that settles it. Build your home and family on God alone. Don't use your gifted hands to scatter your good family ooo.

Re: I Am Married, But In Love With A Younger Married Man by Nobody: 8:28pm On May 05, 2022

chioma213:
then why do I feel so much peace when I'm around him?

H'antie, gan shag him, and let us hear word jere.

Re: I Am Married, But In Love With A Younger Married Man by Nobody: 8:33pm On May 05, 2022

Your mind is already made up to destroy your home, just go ahead and do it.

That’s why it’s easier for a man to have a fling and still love his wife, but when it’s a woman, she falls in love and the husband begins to irritate her. Her next plan would either be to divorce her husband or kill her husband.

Later some people would argue that a man and woman are same. SMH

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Re: I Am Married, But In Love With A Younger Married Man by azammi(m): 8:38pm On May 05, 2022

This one no want help she just want go ahead , you can go and do as you like . God will punish you .

Re: I Am Married, But In Love With A Younger Married Man by oilmane(m): 8:38pm On May 05, 2022

chioma213:
Hi, my name is Chioma(definitely not my real name). I created this account just to get some advice on how I feel about a certain married young man.
I'm 39, married with 3 kids? (a boy and 2 girls), I am the CSM of the oldest bank in Nigeria, with a branch in Port-Harcourt.
How did it start? In 2020, I crossed paths with a young guy from Akwa Ibom State (let's call him K), he is 33 yrs old, good-looking, and caring, he represents an organization that is affiliated with the Federal Government. The organization sends him and his team to come to pick cash from my branch for their operations every Sunday or Monday early morning, one thing lead to another and we exchanged contacts. We started chatting and it got to the point that if I don't see his "hi" or "bae"( he usually calls me", I'll be so uncomfortable that my whole night will be moody, sometimes if my husband is around and wants sex, I'll just lay like a wood till he is done and sleeps off.
Sometimes, when he comes on Sunday, I'll wear one of my most revealing clothes so I can get his attention, as it makes me feel like having him. In 2021 March to be precise, he broke my heart and got married, God so bless his wife doesn't reside in Port-Harcourt and only comes during holidays, we have been having a really good chat, sometimes December last year(2021), my husband traveled to the village with the kids and since I occupy an important part of the bank, I cannot just leave without someone responsible taking over. My husband nearly caught me one day when he called in the middle of the night on video, I had to switch off my phone and block him immediately, I'm not proud of what I'm doing, but it gives me thrills whenever I'm with him. He understands and my kids are so fond of him, that whenever they are around him, I just have this peace over me, as he has this eagle eye that watches over them.
Recently I lost my father and my in-law, who was staying with us, no amount of consolation was enough except from K, He came around for a condolence visit, and he took his time to tell me about life and death and his smooth tone, I just melted into his hands, I just had to respect myself as they were people around us. He checks up on my morning and evening, if I have not eaten all day, he just has a way of making food for me (he is a very good cook and he bakes too) and sending one of his boys to bring it, if he is not at home, he will order the foods from one of my favorites online food vendor. How do I get over this feeling, as it is killing me, should I divorce my husband, how about his wife, what will happen? You all are free to do insult me or say things that will hurt, but in all, I'll sieve and get appropriate recommendations.

cc: lalasti.clala, farano, Rocktation, please help me

Chai, and her husband fit day use hand back chest and boast for people say e get faithful wife, it is well, madam enjoy it well while it last o cos it will surely end in tears that is if your home even still mean anything to you.

Re: I Am Married, But In Love With A Younger Married Man by Nyascobar1414: 8:42pm On May 05, 2022

Abi men una dey like marry...

Shaa na mumu dey marry...

For the ones wey wan marry, after you come and tell us the pains oo

Re: I Am Married, But In Love With A Younger Married Man by Paulianfa(m): 9:03pm On May 05, 2022

chioma213:
Hi, my name is Chioma(definitely not my real name). I created this account just to get some advice on how I feel about a certain married young man.
I'm 39, married with 3 kids? (a boy and 2 girls), I am the CSM of the oldest bank in Nigeria, with a branch in Port-Harcourt.
How did it start? In 2020, I crossed paths with a young guy from Akwa Ibom State (let's call him K), he is 33 yrs old, good-looking, and caring, he represents an organization that is affiliated with the Federal Government. The organization sends him and his team to come to pick cash from my branch for their operations every Sunday or Monday early morning, one thing lead to another and we exchanged contacts. We started chatting and it got to the point that if I don't see his "hi" or "bae"( he usually calls me", I'll be so uncomfortable that my whole night will be moody, sometimes if my husband is around and wants sex, I'll just lay like a wood till he is done and sleeps off.
Sometimes, when he comes on Sunday, I'll wear one of my most revealing clothes so I can get his attention, as it makes me feel like having him. In 2021 March to be precise, he broke my heart and got married, God so bless his wife doesn't reside in Port-Harcourt and only comes during holidays, we have been having a really good chat, sometimes December last year(2021), my husband traveled to the village with the kids and since I occupy an important part of the bank, I cannot just leave without someone responsible taking over. My husband nearly caught me one day when he called in the middle of the night on video, I had to switch off my phone and block him immediately, I'm not proud of what I'm doing, but it gives me thrills whenever I'm with him. He understands and my kids are so fond of him, that whenever they are around him, I just have this peace over me, as he has this eagle eye that watches over them.
Recently I lost my father and my in-law, who was staying with us, no amount of consolation was enough except from K, He came around for a condolence visit, and he took his time to tell me about life and death and his smooth tone, I just melted into his hands, I just had to respect myself as they were people around us. He checks up on my morning and evening, if I have not eaten all day, he just has a way of making food for me (he is a very good cook and he bakes too) and sending one of his boys to bring it, if he is not at home, he will order the foods from one of my favorites online food vendor. How do I get over this feeling, as it is killing me, should I divorce my husband, how about his wife, what will happen? You all are free to do insult me or say things that will hurt, but in all, I'll sieve and get appropriate recommendations.

cc: lalasti.clala, farano, Rocktation, please help me

Hmmmmmmmmm this is another pusssy stuff...
Satan wants to jubilate over ur near breaking home... Oh see grammar!.
Sister, pls rebuke the temptations now before it's too late.
U both are married, concentrate on ur home stop deceiving ur sef pls it's will brings agony upon ur life and ur family.

If no be to cure my congee, I for no near woman.

Re: I Am Married, But In Love With A Younger Married Man by Piptocoin: 9:05pm On May 05, 2022

Magnoliaa:
Oya, I don dash you one share as you don tear provoke dey drop deep introspection phrases for me.

Happy?

[color=indigo]As you no argue I don dash you one like.[/color]

Re: I Am Married, But In Love With A Younger Married Man by Sisora(m): 9:13pm On May 05, 2022

Ask yourself, is he doing all he's doing to you to his wife?

Please be guided. You won't know the value of the husband you have until you lose him. You are married. Stay committed

Re: I Am Married, But In Love With A Younger Married Man by Petoski7: 9:15pm On May 05, 2022

chioma213:
Hi, my name is Chioma(definitely not my real name). I created this account just to get some advice on how I feel about a certain married young man.
I'm 39, married with 3 kids? (a boy and 2 girls), I am the CSM of the oldest bank in Nigeria, with a branch in Port-Harcourt.
How did it start? In 2020, I crossed paths with a young guy from Akwa Ibom State (let's call him K), he is 33 yrs old, good-looking, and caring, he represents an organization that is affiliated with the Federal Government. The organization sends him and his team to come to pick cash from my branch for their operations every Sunday or Monday early morning, one thing lead to another and we exchanged contacts. We started chatting and it got to the point that if I don't see his "hi" or "bae"( he usually calls me", I'll be so uncomfortable that my whole night will be moody, sometimes if my husband is around and wants sex, I'll just lay like a wood till he is done and sleeps off.
Sometimes, when he comes on Sunday, I'll wear one of my most revealing clothes so I can get his attention, as it makes me feel like having him. In 2021 March to be precise, he broke my heart and got married, God so bless his wife doesn't reside in Port-Harcourt and only comes during holidays, we have been having a really good chat, sometimes December last year(2021), my husband traveled to the village with the kids and since I occupy an important part of the bank, I cannot just leave without someone responsible taking over. My husband nearly caught me one day when he called in the middle of the night on video, I had to switch off my phone and block him immediately, I'm not proud of what I'm doing, but it gives me thrills whenever I'm with him. He understands and my kids are so fond of him, that whenever they are around him, I just have this peace over me, as he has this eagle eye that watches over them.
Recently I lost my father and my in-law, who was staying with us, no amount of consolation was enough except from K, He came around for a condolence visit, and he took his time to tell me about life and death and his smooth tone, I just melted into his hands, I just had to respect myself as they were people around us. He checks up on my morning and evening, if I have not eaten all day, he just has a way of making food for me (he is a very good cook and he bakes too) and sending one of his boys to bring it, if he is not at home, he will order the foods from one of my favorites online food vendor. How do I get over this feeling, as it is killing me, should I divorce my husband, how about his wife, what will happen? You all are free to do insult me or say things that will hurt, but in all, I'll sieve and get appropriate recommendations.

cc: lalasti.clala, farano, Rocktation, please help me

Madam look at me..you sure say you well at all?

Re: I Am Married, But In Love With A Younger Married Man by freddie009(m): 9:16pm On May 05, 2022

The story isn't real, when you talk about being a good cook and ordering food from your favorite online vendor that was when I knew this was fiction.

Re: I Am Married, But In Love With A Younger Married Man by Loveisnotenough: 9:27pm On May 05, 2022

I told everyone.

Get married to only a lady that really really loves you. If not, yo In deep sheet

Re: I Am Married, But In Love With A Younger Married Man by thorpido(m): 10:23pm On May 05, 2022*

chioma213:
Yes he does

Attention!
i know that's what you lack and you're getting much of it from this man.
Nevertheless,see ways you can improve communication with your hubby.If he doesn't call,you do the calling.Find ways you can see each other more.Build that intimacy.

Start cutting yourself from this man.You can.

Re: I Am Married, But In Love With A Younger Married Man by eventainment(m): 11:28pm On May 05, 2022

Get laid and it will make your eyes clearer than it is.. it's a bad advice though but it will solve all your issues. Excepts he happens to be better in many manner in bed than your husband

Re: I Am Married, But In Love With A Younger Married Man by Nobody: 11:47pm On May 05, 2022

chioma213:
Hi, my name is Chioma(definitely not my real name). I created this account just to get some advice on how I feel about a certain married young man.
I'm 39, married with 3 kids? (a boy and 2 girls), I am the CSM of the oldest bank in Nigeria, with a branch in Port-Harcourt.
How did it start? In 2020, I crossed paths with a young guy from Akwa Ibom State (let's call him K), he is 33 yrs old, good-looking, and caring, he represents an organization that is affiliated with the Federal Government. The organization sends him and his team to come to pick cash from my branch for their operations every Sunday or Monday early morning, one thing lead to another and we exchanged contacts. We started chatting and it got to the point that if I don't see his "hi" or "bae"( he usually calls me", I'll be so uncomfortable that my whole night will be moody, sometimes if my husband is around and wants sex, I'll just lay like a wood till he is done and sleeps off.
Sometimes, when he comes on Sunday, I'll wear one of my most revealing clothes so I can get his attention, as it makes me feel like having him. In 2021 March to be precise, he broke my heart and got married, God so bless his wife doesn't reside in Port-Harcourt and only comes during holidays, we have been having a really good chat, sometimes December last year(2021), my husband traveled to the village with the kids and since I occupy an important part of the bank, I cannot just leave without someone responsible taking over. My husband nearly caught me one day when he called in the middle of the night on video, I had to switch off my phone and block him immediately, I'm not proud of what I'm doing, but it gives me thrills whenever I'm with him. He understands and my kids are so fond of him, that whenever they are around him, I just have this peace over me, as he has this eagle eye that watches over them.
Recently I lost my father and my in-law, who was staying with us, no amount of consolation was enough except from K, He came around for a condolence visit, and he took his time to tell me about life and death and his smooth tone, I just melted into his hands, I just had to respect myself as they were people around us. He checks up on my morning and evening, if I have not eaten all day, he just has a way of making food for me (he is a very good cook and he bakes too) and sending one of his boys to bring it, if he is not at home, he will order the foods from one of my favorites online food vendor. How do I get over this feeling, as it is killing me, should I divorce my husband, how about his wife, what will happen? You all are free to do insult me or say things that will hurt, but in all, I'll sieve and get appropriate recommendations.

cc: lalasti.clala, farano, Rocktation, please help me

"Some" women and stupidity.

Your type is one of the reasons why some guys don't want to marry, you don't deserve to be given a surname initially. You don't deserve your husband.

During divorce proceedings, you will raise all sort of unsayable lies against your husband just to gain public sympathy.

Spits

Re: I Am Married, But In Love With A Younger Married Man by Biafranodogwu55: 1:35am On May 06, 2022

Tufiakwa!!!How can i unread what it i just read huh

You are nothing but a hoe...na your innocent husband i pity sha huh

Re: I Am Married, But In Love With A Younger Married Man by Alabihaskillus: 1:54am On May 06, 2022

What sort of fuckery is this? Sluts and cunts everywhere! I swear there's no reason to take these daughters of eve seriously. Just treat them like trash, screw them, cheat on them and dump them so u can keep ur sanity undecided

Re: I Am Married, But In Love With A Younger Married Man by Fiscus105(m): 3:24am On May 06, 2022

Even though the story is fake, but women can still learn one or two lessons from it, and what is the lesson.

Women don't make male ur close friends, it has devastating consequences if you have married or having committed relationships.

Re: I Am Married, But In Love With A Younger Married Man by Fiscus105(m): 3:29am On May 06, 2022

Sisora:
Ask yourself, is he doing all he's doing to you to his wife?

Please be guided. You won't know the value of the husband you have until you lose him. You are married. Stay committed

Just like one man said,.." that he doesn't use to pity all these women that are selling roasted plantain on the road side, that many of them that husbands are doing all sorts of works to please them and their kids, but still not giving husband rest until they were pushed out from matrimonial house.

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