Hello nairalanders; I hope you all see this, I need help.

I am 19 years old. I've been having this problem since I was 14.

I started masturbating at that age. Since then I have been withdrawn from people and every other thing. I no longer have interest or feelings for anything. It's bothering me so much, I'm not an introvert. And, I also stopped wanking 2 weeks ago.

I have some friends but, I'd always ignore them. I turned off my active status on all my social media accounts. I don't post, call or even text anyone. I lose interest in people and activities quickly.
It's just as if I don't want anyone to disturb me, but deep down I want to be amongst people, I love it. But, the other part of me is just cold.

The only thing that gets me going is just laying on the bed or being at home or pressing my phone. I have no interest outside. I'm always angry, and a snub. Maybe, the fact that, I'm not living the kinda life lived I'd wish to.

Also, I was at a church, and a lady seated in front of me said, there's something blocking me from getting good opportunities. I don't know if it was because I masturbated alot. But, I knew she was right because; my life is a mess, and I have missed three job possibilities.

I just want your advice. Nothing is moving in my life. I have been stagnant all these years.

Since you know your problem, why not sort it out yourself?.... acording to you, masturbation is responsible for what is wrong with you, so just stop the masturbation and solve the problem already..

You started masturbation at 14...you are just 19 and have seen it all already..

Children of this days. .

You can send me a message on WhatsApp if you truly need help.
I masturbated from the age of 10years till I was 23years. That's 13damn years. It got to a point I wasn't even feeling the guilt anymore. I was damn broke, bad social skills, spent 24/7 on my phone, preferred to be alone, had no friends, had sucidal tendencies. I tried various methods to break free but it didn't work for me. Trust me, I was very spiritual. Funny enough, I was setting others free but I was still in bondage, it was that bad. But one thing got me going, I knew one day I would be free. Everytime I fell, I told myself I would rise again. I became completely free after the age of 23years, my life turned around completely. Now I am doing well by God's grace.

Don't let anyone decieve you that masturbating is okay. The disadvantages far outweighs the advantages. It's a very deadly and dangerous addiction. If you truly desire freedom, I can lend you a helping hand. I can't wait for you to start living your best life now

Mast.urbation isn't the cause of your frustrations.
Keyword is to have control over your addictions.

Damnnn niggar

All these are not caused by Masturbation...
I don't know how many times I will say this....stop seeing Masturbation as a bad thing or cause of your problem
What is wrong with Africans

Ever8090:
Since you know your problem, why not sort it out yourself?.... acording to you, masturbation is responsible for what is wrong with you, so just stop the masturbation and solve the problem already..

You started masturbation at 14...you are just 19 and have seen it all already..

Children of this days. .

It's not that easy to stop.
Trust me, you can even know the solution and still be bound by it. Masturbation na ment....

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar

All these are not caused by Masturbation

You may or may not be right. But one thing is certain, masturbation has its own bad consequences if not people will not come out and be complaining about it. Those who say that nothing is wrong with it have already made it a part of their lives and believed that they can never be saved from it.

Ur case is half settled since u're able to identify one of the causes and mind u abstinence for 2 weeks doesn't mean u've stopped the act u are just on holiday
Ur sure plug is to start doing new tins, tins that ordinarily u don't want to engage in them, tins that u feel are unattractive to you so long that u get the opportunity to mingle with people
Most importantly, don't underestimate the power of prayer it still works wonders

Hungrychicken:
Hello nairalanders; I hope you all see this, I need help.

I am 19 years old. I've been having this problem since I was 14.

I started masturbating at that age. Since then I have been withdrawn from people and every other thing. I no longer have interest or feelings for anything. It's bothering me so much, I'm not an introvert. And, I also stopped wanking 2 weeks ago.

I have some friends but, I'd always ignore them. I turned off my active status on all my social media accounts. I don't post, call or even text anyone. I lose interest in people and activities quickly.
It's just as if I don't want anyone to disturb me, but deep down I want to be amongst people, I love it. But, the other part of me is just cold.

The only thing that gets me going is just laying on the bed or being at home or pressing my phone. I have no interest outside. I'm always angry, and a snub. Maybe, the fact that, I'm not living the kinda life lived I'd wish to.

Also, I was at a church, and a lady seated in front of me said, there's something blocking me from getting good opportunities. I don't know if it was because I masturbated alot. But, I knew she was right because; my life is a mess, and I have missed three job possibilities.

I just want your advice. Nothing is moving in my life. I have been stagnant all these years.

Masturbation is what has blocked your way.
The demon that made you do it want you to be alone so that you can have opportunity to do it .

Your mind is under manipulation my friend .
Those feeling are manipulation .

Click this page below and read that story

https://www.nairaland.com/7089772/testimony-freed-man-two-kingdoms

It talks about getting free from such things .
Read to the end .

Give yourself to prayer and meditating God's word .

Practice waiting on the lord by sitting down where you pray alone so that the glory of God can rest upon you .

God led me to write that to help many people get free from bondage .

Masturbation is really a healthy thing.

But mindset and too much of everything is the problem

dontrulee:
You can send me a message on WhatsApp if you truly need help.
I masturbated from the age of 10years till I was 23years. That's 13damn years. It got to a point I wasn't even feeling the guilt anymore. I was damn broke, bad social skills, spent 24/7 on my phone, preferred to be alone, had no friends, had sucidal tendencies. I tried various methods to break free but it didn't work for me. Trust me, I was very spiritual. Funny enough, I was setting others free but I was still in bondage, it was that bad. But one thing got me going, I knew one day I would be free. Everytime I fell, I told myself I would rise again. I became completely free after the age of 23years, my life turned around completely. Now I am doing well by God's grace.

Don't let anyone decieve you that masturbating is okay. The disadvantages far outweighs the advantages. It's a very deadly and dangerous addiction. If you truly desire freedom, I can lend you a helping hand. I can't wait for you to start living your best life now

What's your WhatsApp digits?

Ever8090:
Since you know your problem, why not sort it out yourself?.... acording to you, masturbation is responsible for what is wrong with you, so just stop the masturbation and solve the problem already..

You started masturbation at 14...you are just 19 and have seen it all already..

Children of this days. .

Yes, I have stopped. I'm just struggling with the after effects.

Soon na nyash go turn u on some of u are just creepy like undertakerr

Hungrychicken:

Yes, I have stopped. I'm just struggling with the after effects.

good..be patient everything will be fine

Ever8090:
good..be patient everything will be fine

Thanks a lot

Ever8090:
Since you know your problem, why not sort it out yourself?.... acording to you, masturbation is responsible for what is wrong with you, so just stop the masturbation and solve the problem already..

You started masturbation at 14...you are just 19 and have seen it all already..

Children of this days. .

Hungrychicken:


What's your WhatsApp digits?

09024387119

Sorry to hear that. All will be well. Pray to Allah yourself. He will turn things around for you too

Masturbation does not affect your financial status neither does it affect anything spiritual..

But It can corrupt your mind , and mental state.. okay which is more of medical..

And when you mind and thought is breached and corrupt this can affect how you see women.. which may even lead you not to be able to cum naturally when fucking women... Until u use hand or pornography..

Why? The mind is conditioned

dontrulee:
You can send me a message on WhatsApp if you truly need help.
I masturbated from the age of 10years till I was 23years. That's 13damn years. It got to a point I wasn't even feeling the guilt anymore. I was damn broke, bad social skills, spent 24/7 on my phone, preferred to be alone, had no friends, had sucidal tendencies. I tried various methods to break free but it didn't work for me. Trust me, I was very spiritual. Funny enough, I was setting others free but I was still in bondage, it was that bad. But one thing got me going, I knew one day I would be free. Everytime I fell, I told myself I would rise again. I became completely free after the age of 23years, my life turned around completely. Now I am doing well by God's grace.

Don't let anyone decieve you that masturbating is okay. The disadvantages far outweighs the advantages. It's a very deadly and dangerous addiction. If you truly desire freedom, I can lend you a helping hand. I can't wait for you to start living your best life now

You didn't leave a link to message you with.

Go see a psychiatrist. You have emotional challenges.

Holly Gram DIS MATTERZ don tire Me 4 NL..


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WTF MAN!

Bro you are broke.... just chill.

Hungrychicken:
Hello nairalanders; I hope you all see this, I need help.

I am 19 years old. I've been having this problem since I was 14.

I started masturbating at that age. Since then I have been withdrawn from people and every other thing. I no longer have interest or feelings for anything. It's bothering me so much, I'm not an introvert. And, I also stopped wanking 2 weeks ago.

I have some friends but, I'd always ignore them. I turned off my active status on all my social media accounts. I don't post, call or even text anyone. I lose interest in people and activities quickly.
It's just as if I don't want anyone to disturb me, but deep down I want to be amongst people, I love it. But, the other part of me is just cold.

The only thing that gets me going is just laying on the bed or being at home or pressing my phone. I have no interest outside. I'm always angry, and a snub. Maybe, the fact that, I'm not living the kinda life lived I'd wish to.

Also, I was at a church, and a lady seated in front of me said, there's something blocking me from getting good opportunities. I don't know if it was because I masturbated alot. But, I knew she was right because; my life is a mess, and I have missed three job possibilities.

I just want your advice. Nothing is moving in my life. I have been stagnant all these years.

We are currently in in the same ship man, I started masturbation at an early age, now I have destroyed my self which have made me to loose interest in associating with people especially girls, because of this behaviour my family members, roommate, colleagues now call me a Loner and craze person....My greatest wish would be to reverse time to 2017 so that I will avoid ever knowing porn and masturbation