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Sweetplum:
You did well by describing your generation.
I did well by telling you hidden secrets of the misfortune that befell you & them.
Regards to your relations

AutoRedux:
It is not a must to speak in English. Use pidgin if you can't construct simple English sentences.

AutoRedux:
It is not a must to speak in English. Use pidgin if you can't construct simple English sentences.

cenaman:
because they are single mothers, they should remain single forever isn't it?

Toktee:
that lady is very bittered..

Manner less.

Toktee:
you are pained cos u are a single mama... nut am not responsible u know.



You are very bitter old lady and just you know I don't comment to entertain sadist like you.

MistarT:
Please candid opinions will be appreciated. Thanks.

Itwill do humanity great good, if we hear from marriage counsellors with wide range of experiences, thanks.

Puskas:
She will end up loving and caring for her child more than you

Sweetplum:
Lol. I m young, bright, pretty & v my money.
I v no child yet cos I m not married.
I m entering your eyes abi?
Be a good boy. You may be lucky to get a good woman like me.

SugarGirl44:
Your mum right?

stanliwise:
you sound empty. Abeg move jare.

UncleKoboko:
This is where your sense should tell you that MEN AND WOMEN CAN NEVER BE THE SAME.

WE ARE NOT EQUAL AND WILL NEVER BE EQUAL FOREVER NO MATTER HOW SENSELESS FEMINISTS AND SOCIETY TRIES TO EVEN FORCE IT.

KNOW THIS AND KNOW PEACE.

DON'T COMPETE, WE ARE HERE TO COMPLEMENT EACHOTHER AND NOT TO COMPETE FOR EQUALITY.


You dey see Nerd nwoke? You see the late aalafin of Ọyọ? Etc

cenaman:
Same thing that is giving me sleepless nights.

My current girlfriend was my childhood friend in primary school before we lost contact after our FSLS.
Though she's a single mom and independent woman, I don't know how to tell my parents that she is a single mom.

MrBrownJay1:
what qualities a single woman has that is "exclusive" to them (aka that a single mother cannot possess) apart from virginity but that aint a quality....??!?



as much as your English is great, you are saying nothing valid to this issue. you are now placing your misplaced ego in the way of your common sense. as much as a baby daddy can certainly have contact with his child/baby momma, that person has NO VALID leverage upon the r/ship you have with babymomma. so i dont know what circumstances you are talking about, but its evident that you are talking from an insecure man point of view....therefore you are looking down on a woman because of the possible unforessen circumstances that may or not ever happen. that would be as foolish as me saying that i wont drive a car because many have died in car accidents. highly stupid wouldnt you say?!



kai, come on bro....the above is far fetched. been with countless of single mothers, and can only say great things about them. just like there are great single women out there, there are bad single women out there, and same goes for single mothers.

Sweetplum:
Your are mannerless.
Mumuman!

Deeace01:
I'll still refer you to the first statement up there.

I'm neither convincing anyone to believe what I've said neither am I preaching an epistle to anyone.

If you're a single mother with baby daddy then its apparently you're clueless of the narratives coz you're subjected to the matter

If on the other hand you're a young man that's NEVER MARRIED then I'll say you can swerve your preference on single mothers so you can practically have experience of what many here have been saying.

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Fearlez:
only if you can close that maggot pit in-between your legs. I heard you have a rare disease called perpetual vulva itching disorder.

Big toto idiot.

sparko1:
Not exactly, let me ask you.

If a man marry's a single mom, and he expect they will go for honey moon, will she go with the child or not, do you expect her to leave the child with her parent and go with you to North Korea to have sex she have been having for over 10 years.

Let say she agrees to leave the child, do you think she will be comfortable without hearing from the child in a day (she can't really be with you, no matter how much she pretend), every call she receive, she want to know the thing going on with her child, the experience is not the same, that time is suppose to be for just both of you, but, now its 3 of you and there is nothing you can do about it.

Then come the choice that is usually associated with having a child, or do you think every man wants a child? No! but if you marry a single mom, the choice is not yours to make, and the experience of having to decide is all that matters.

Do you know why if a woman cheat, men won't forgive, because, a woman don't have sex for fun, a woman is incapable of loving more than one person at a time, if she love her son, (which is of course the case, not a problem) but what are you to her, a provider, the bitter pile that we need but can't swallow, the piece that doesn't fit, you will always compete for her love.

Now move to you having your own family, some women won't want to have another child because of the experience from the previous relationships, they will just say, this one is enough, but what about the man, the man that want to have a family, trust me, until you reach that bridge, you can't understand the difficulty in crossing it.

Then come the ferminist path, most single mothers have developed so much hatred because of the father of their child, every man is a Devil, the man keep trying and eventually, even the strongest of us give up and give in, when you discover that it doesn't matter what you do, it will never be enough, then why try.

There's is a lot to consider, I just don't have the time to put them up.

MadeMan01:
Don't do it. She will lose respect for you in her mind,you came to her because you could not get a girl of your own who is childless. You are just an ATM to her.

Fearlez:
another kobo prostitute trying to justify her wayward life..

Use and dump tool.

AutoRedux:
Is that not the reason why we say that you should do a check about what brought about the singlehood of any such girl? If she became a single mom because the father of her child is late, then that is totally understandable. If she is also a single mum because the father is a deadbeat dad, it is also understandable. But you see, and I am sure you know what I want to say. You see, for the most part, those ones who became single moms from circumstances like party sex, one night stands and other related scenarios, trust me, they are very horrible. I am talking from my experience, they are very, when I mean, very, I mean very very horrible. And there is this resentment they have against men that I can't seem to understand. Like honestly, am I the cause of your predicament? Not only that, they often think they should be pitied because they have a child they are taking care of.
Why on earth should I pity your ass cause you have a child? Bitch shut the f uck up! The time you were moaning and shouting baby harder—baby give it to me—baby this—baby that, you did not know that you were gonna end up with a kid.
Oh please. O please I say!

Toktee:
I will never marry a woman that ho about insulting her father's age mates on faceless forum.

dontrulee:
You're sounding like a pained single mother? Are you a single mother?

MistarT:
Please candid opinions will be appreciated. Thanks.

Itwill do humanity great good, if we hear from marriage counsellors with wide range of experiences, thanks.

Ninisun:
You should've written this your fo.olish write-up before concluding initially. Na una gender still dey misbehave that leave these women the way they are. Men with diapers full here ooo.

Acidbath:
Have you gotten the validation you seek now?

Something as sensitive and as personal as marriage, you bring it here for useless red pillers that have zero qualities of being good husbands to analyse for you.

That's why oyibo people are ahead of you. They stick with their guts and do it without people's opinions.

Ninisun:
Single mother ke? You guys here reason like babies in diapers. When you go abroad, you marry a woman that has grandkids. But you open your gutter mouth to insult single mothers in Nigeria you do not know their story.


U.seless hypocrites

Ninisun:
Single mother ke? You guys here reason like babies in diapers. When you go abroad, you marry a woman that has grandkids. But you open your gutter mouth to insult single mothers in Nigeria you do not know their story.

Alaye, calm down joor.
Why is it now paining you?



U.seless hypocrites

Toktee:
*Your are mannerless*

Ninisun:
Single mother ke? You guys here reason like babies in diapers. When you go abroad, you marry a woman that has grandkids. But you open your gutter mouth to insult single mothers in Nigeria you do not know their story.


U.seless hypocrites