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Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by pixey(m): 2:10pm On May 21, 2022
Any lady/girlfriend that finds it difficult to say sorry for any offense commited and known by them in a relationship. They are not fit to be in a relationship no matter the age talkless being married.There is no sugar-coating this one. Same goes to any guy.

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by dochenaj: 2:17pm On May 21, 2022
Onepointfiveodds:
After series of fights, sit downs and admonitions, my wife has finally make some adjustments on the salty food issue.

We had a little argument last week and i demanded she apologise as it was obvious she's in the wrong. She hissed and walked out on me. We haven't spoken to ourselves since then and she seem comfortable with that.

Yes i love her and i want us to move on from it, but how will this not repeat itself in the future if she doesn't own up to her fault and apologise?!
Don't demand apology from someone cos it is never going to be sincere.

It's unfortunate that your wife has no atom of respect for you. It is the nightmare of every man to have a disrespectful wife.

But then respect is earned not demanded, so you need to position yourself in such a way that your wife will respect you, and I know where you can start "stop being petty, and be the bigger man" though your wife is the one who is at fault, don't keep long faces with her, talk to her.

When you love someone you are less prone to seek out their faults and failures. Show that you love her by not seeing all the things she does wrong.

I hope you'll weather through this storm and have a stronger bond with your wife.

Cheers

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by Sukkyy2010: 2:17pm On May 21, 2022
Onepointfiveodds:


I can't help but laugh at this comment of yours. Well, i didn't

You didn't have to reply that fool bcoz the fool is such a jerk I've ever seen on the NL.

Na attention seeker and by quoting the fool you gratify his/ her pleasure.
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by pixey(m): 2:22pm On May 21, 2022
zedegit:



Marriage is not about who's right or wrong. Your wife is exhibing a human trait.

You can learn to overlook a lot of things if you want your marriage to work. Telling her to apologise is not necessary. She might see it as demeaning.
What an excuse for such behaviour. Are you naive that she doesn't respect the op? To men, respect means love. By logic ,she never loved him one bit and this is the sad truth for op.
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by Bodydiialect57: 2:24pm On May 21, 2022
Acidosis:
Stop pointing out her wrong all the time. Give her the opportunity to process her mistake by herself without you pointing it out to her, when the mistake is very very obvious.

[/b]Demanding an apology without allowing her to process how or where she got it wrong may not work for someone with ego issues.[b]

People like that are very hard to live with you just have to leave them and allow their conscience do the work.

If you guys weren't married, my BEST and ONLY advice would have been to end the relationship.
So on point @ the bolded.

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by pixey(m): 2:25pm On May 21, 2022
Udemzy05:


Person wey no fit say sorry when you tell her wetin she do,na that one wan point out her mistake herself?

You funny oo
As in! I am so disappointed by some guys comments here.
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by md17: 2:32pm On May 21, 2022
See a family therapist, this kind of issue is one that you both need to understand how to deal with, conflict resolution is a big deal. You may see any qualified therapist to help you fast, I’m a certified family therapist. Lemme know if you’ll need my services.
Onepointfiveodds:
After series of fights, sit downs and admonitions, my wife has finally make some adjustments on the salty food issue.

We had a little argument last week and i demanded she apologise as it was obvious she's in the wrong. She hissed and walked out on me. We haven't spoken to ourselves since then and she seem comfortable with that.

Yes i love her and i want us to move on from it, but how will this not repeat itself in the future if she doesn't own up to her fault and apologise?!
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by pixey(m): 2:33pm On May 21, 2022
MtDave55:
What's is it that is so important with apology?

Personally I hate it when people come to apologize to me for what they did wrong, I prefer it when the person sincerely repent from that ugly behavior that it's obvious.

It pains me more when someone apologize and still go ahead to repeat that same wrong
You are a weird creature or maybe your upbringing is so flawed that is why or maybe you don't have a soul. No offense but you really need to relax and read what you just typed.
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by zedegit: 2:33pm On May 21, 2022
Onepointfiveodds:


Now she's asking me to apologise for demanding an apology for something she did wrong

What did she do wrong?
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by Nobody: 2:36pm On May 21, 2022
Real alpha females are feminine and agreeable.
Alpha female are most sought after and most respected females.
A person who is unable to take responsibility for their action can never be considered alpha.
IgOga:
Alpha female grin
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by engrelvis(m): 2:38pm On May 21, 2022
Onepointfiveodds:
After series of fights, sit downs and admonitions, my wife has finally make some adjustments on the salty food issue.

We had a little argument last week and i demanded she apologise as it was obvious she's in the wrong. She hissed and walked out on me. We haven't spoken to ourselves since then and she seem comfortable with that.

Yes i love her and i want us to move on from it, but how will this not repeat itself in the future if she doesn't own up to her fault and apologise?!
ls very obvious ur very young in marriage.ls nt everything u react to in marriage.sometimes silence send strong message to yr wife dan words.Forget what u hear/ see around u,d trick is studying yr spouse n knowing when to put on pressure.
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by zedegit: 2:41pm On May 21, 2022
pixey:
Any lady/girlfriend that finds it difficult to say sorry for any offense commited and known by them in a relationship. They are not fit to be in a relationship no matter the age talkless being married.There is no sugar-coating this one. Same goes to any guy.

Have you asked to know the offence she committed which op didn't mention?
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by NaijaCars4sale: 2:46pm On May 21, 2022
Inability to apologize is never a good trait, but since both of you are married, just take it to God in prayer

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by engrelvis(m): 2:49pm On May 21, 2022
md17:
See a family therapist, this kind of issue is one that you both need to understand how to deal with, conflict resolution is a big deal. You may see any qualified therapist to help you fast, I’m a certified family therapist. Lemme know if you’ll need my services.
family therapists abound abroad yet divorce rate is very high.Alot of factors come into play with regards marriage conflicts.D trick is understanding yr spouse..l can stress dis enough.every women v their mumu button.Marriage Shud b all about genuine friendship n companionship n nt dis am d head of d house attitude ( God has already made man d head so nobody is struggling it with u).lf u need to constantly assert yrsef as d head of d head of house den something is fundamentally wrong with you.l v been married for almost 17yrs now

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by Confidens52(m): 2:53pm On May 21, 2022
My guy if u know say u want to enjoy your marriage u have to do everything possible to solve this problem.for woman not be apologizing when she is wrong is very very bad habit.and women are adaptive if u leave her now later it will become burden to u.as am talking to you I am facing the same issue from my wife.when she starts it then early in our marriage I thought she will stop in no time but how wrong I was.now 4 years to our marriage no changes.so u better act like a man now before its too late.

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by pixey(m): 3:05pm On May 21, 2022
zedegit:


Have you asked to know the offence she committed which op didn't mention?
No but whatever offense she has committed, it is more responsible to say sorry.The word " I am sorry " had saved a lot of marriages and mends a lot of relationships. I pray you don't marry a disrespectful partner.
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by tayo60(f): 3:18pm On May 21, 2022
U caused this problem for yourself Op. Ur woman has been like this even during your courtship, but you turned a blind eye to her character default, hoping that she will change in marriage. U could have avoided this and ended your relationship then, but you thought she might change. Now see where it has landed you. Men, never tolerate bad character from your fiancées because once married, it becomes a big issue. Op, for your sanity and peace of mind, separate from her. Don't let her kill you untimely.
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by torvickof1312(m): 3:29pm On May 21, 2022
Onepointfiveodds:

We had a little argument last week and i demanded she apologise as it was obvious she's in the wrong. She hissed and walked out on me. We haven't spoken to ourselves since then and she seem comfortable with that.
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Boss, it doesn't mater who is right or wrong. The evenue, manner, approach and her mood at the time you are calling her attention to correction matters a long way.

You might be right but to calm situation you've to be polite when present the correction, you don't expect her to feel alright when you don't praise her when she did gud and be expecting her to be ok when all you do is to complain, common. She might feel bad base on how you present issues. Don't forget dat no one is perfect neither does that mean dat you don't offend her in anyway.

Try n know her some more n tolerate something's that never hold waters n accommodate each other.

Lastly if you don't give out respect and love brov, don't expect love n respect in return but instead you will be seeing fear n tern it as if your wife respect u n don't be a monster in your home.

Observe this n thank me later
Don't be bossy or Mr rightq

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by Abbertee2: 3:39pm On May 21, 2022
Candidlady:
sad


She doesn't apologise undecided and you haven't beat the living soul outta her undecided Damnnnnn Iam so disappointed rn lipsrsealed

Next time when she does something crazy hit that beeaach angry after that look for a hotel lodge for the weekend with a sex worker sad have numerous unthinkable sex.

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°°°°°what a redpiller would have said°°°°

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by dgreatrock(m): 3:40pm On May 21, 2022
Guy rest!
Any married man should be ready to apologise to the wife for the offence she committed

Onepointfiveodds:
After series of fights, sit downs and admonitions, my wife has finally make some adjustments on the salty food issue.

We had a little argument last week and i demanded she apologise as it was obvious she's in the wrong. She hissed and walked out on me. We haven't spoken to ourselves since then and she seem comfortable with that.

Yes i love her and i want us to move on from it, but how will this not repeat itself in the future if she doesn't own up to her fault and apologise?!
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by DeLaRue: 3:41pm On May 21, 2022
APOSTLECHUMA:
ANY... ACCEPT THAT YOU ARE WRONG, WHEN YOU ARE NOT AND THATS IN THE INTEREST OF PEACE.

What kind of peace is it when you have to constantly 'accept that you're wrong even when you're not.'

This is very unhealthy in any relationship.

You need more than peace in a marriage. Happiness is essential. Living with an arrogant narcissist is hardly going to bring you happiness.

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by DrDunamis(m): 3:48pm On May 21, 2022
Onepointfiveodds:
After series of fights, sit downs and admonitions, my wife has finally make some adjustments on the salty food issue.

We had a little argument last week and i demanded she apologise as it was obvious she's in the wrong. She hissed and walked out on me. We haven't spoken to ourselves since then and she seem comfortable with that.

Yes i love her and i want us to move on from it, but how will this not repeat itself in the future if she doesn't own up to her fault and apologise?!
Call for the elders before it escalates
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by vickydevoka(m): 3:48pm On May 21, 2022
Onepointfiveodds:
After series of fights, sit downs and admonitions, my wife has finally make some adjustments on the salty food issue.

We had a little argument last week and i demanded she apologise as it was obvious she's in the wrong. She hissed and walked out on me. We haven't spoken to ourselves since then and she seem comfortable with that.

Yes i love her and i want us to move on from it, but how will this not repeat itself in the future if she doesn't own up to her fault and apologise?!
Women don't find it easy to apologize. It's Ur duty to protect your marriage
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by Tunagee(m): 3:50pm On May 21, 2022
Randy100:
Silent treatment. It works, if it doesn't, time to move on from her, marry another wife. Don't mention.

People will just be saying 'marry another wife' 'marry another wife'. Se you know wetin the one wey you wan marry go carry come?
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by vickydevoka(m): 3:52pm On May 21, 2022
Obinna666:
Get a separate room,its Time overdue, secondly ,work on yourself,not depend on a woman for everything,if she cooks salty food and u cant eat, reject the food ,if it continues,eat outside or cook urself,if she can't say sorry,ignore her,stop competing with a woman ...find joy without her and be a man u should have been
Nice one
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by vickydevoka(m): 3:53pm On May 21, 2022
Obinna666:
Get a separate room,its Time overdue, secondly ,work on yourself,not depend on a woman for everything,if she cooks salty food and u cant eat, reject the food ,if it continues,eat outside or cook urself,if she can't say sorry,ignore her,stop competing with a woman ...find joy without her and be a man u should have been
Nice one good advice. If na me she no go touch my one naira. I go de go market myself
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by Tunagee(m): 3:57pm On May 21, 2022
nokia1000:
I am facing the same problem. My own always claim she is right.

Women with their bad behaviour
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by Tunagee(m): 4:00pm On May 21, 2022
Jaboranky:
my brother I am facing exactly the same problem,, there was a day I called my wife to sit down in the parlour and let talk sense into her,could you believed that she slept off,as I was talking to because there was no light and we using the light on our phones to see,so I didn't know that she has slept off,after the talk,I ask if she has anything to say only for me to see someone sleeping and snoring on the sofa

grin this is very funny. Mine did that once, but most time when am talking sense into her, instead of concentrating she would just be going to toilet everytime, and she go dey argue. very annoying
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by DeLaRue: 4:01pm On May 21, 2022
Onepointfiveodds:


Honestly i do that every time i feel I'm in the wrong. I just spoke to her and she said why will she apologise when i didn't apologise for telling her to apologise for something she did wrong... I just weak sef

She's asking you to apologise to her for asking her to apologise for what she did wrong?

Were you people forced to marry? Where's the love, mutual respect and affection in all this.

Your wife seems like a bully. No reasonable person behaves like this.

You sef, you get for hand. Why calling her again to keep asking for an apology she already told you she's not prepared to give. An apology that you have to beg for is not an apology anyway.

Letting it go might actually help her to reflect and apologise when you least expect it.

Let it go. I know it's difficult to do.

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by SPAMBOX7: 4:04pm On May 21, 2022
Onepointfiveodds:
After series of fights, sit downs and admonitions, my wife has finally make some adjustments on the salty food issue.

We had a little argument last week and i demanded she apologise as it was obvious she's in the wrong. She hissed and walked out on me. We haven't spoken to ourselves since then and she seem comfortable with that.

Yes i love her and i want us to move on from it, but how will this not repeat itself in the future if she doesn't own up to her fault and apologise?!
You married yourself cheesy

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by Mayeldah(m): 4:06pm On May 21, 2022
APOSTLECHUMA:
ANY MAN THAT BEATS HIS WIFE IS NOT A MAN BUT A BEAST. CONCERNING HER INABILITY TO APOLOGISE, YOU CANT HELP IT BECAUSE IT IS IN HER NATURALLY AND SHE'S NOT THE ONLY ONE BUT ONE OF THE MANY MILLIONS THAT CAN NEVER SAY SORRY EVEN WHEN IT IS CLEAR THAT THEY ARE WRONG. YOU HAVE TO LIVE WITH HER LIKE THAT AND MANY TIMES ACCEPT THAT YOU ARE WRONG, WHEN YOU ARE NOT AND THATS IN THE INTEREST OF PEACE.

So what is a woman that disrespects her husband? Na people like una dey make these women misbehave daily

Not all women are loyal, most men who beats do so out of frustration.

Don't beat her and don't divorce her, so the man should die instead?

I am not in support of beating but those who tells a man not to beat must also teach the woman to submit. If the teaching is not balanced then you are part of the problem.
Re: My Wife Doesn't Apologise For Anything.. I'm Tired by abdulwassi(m): 4:06pm On May 21, 2022
Onepointfiveodds:
After series of fights, sit downs and admonitions, my wife has finally make some adjustments on the salty food issue.

We had a little argument last week and i demanded she apologise as it was obvious she's in the wrong. She hissed and walked out on me. We haven't spoken to ourselves since then and she seem comfortable with that..

Yes i love her and i want us to move on from it, but how will this not repeat itself in the future if she doesn't own up to her fault and apologise?!

I see you paving way for ur untimely death by your self

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