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cowboyvs:
. Also I saw so many guys asking her out but she kept telling them she is in a serious relationship and she can’t date them. So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. Is it lack of maturity or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired. Please I need matured advise cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP.

Send me a pm if u are interested....I have a beautiful Igbo babe living in US who needs a husband

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cowboyvs:
Good day Folks, I am not going to bore you with all the details. Ok, I have been a member of this Forum but I really need matured advise cos I am in a dilemma right now. I met this cute babe in 2021. She is from Edo I am Igbo. I was really thinking of getting married to her but I have some serious concerns.

Firstly, sometime last year she came visiting. While she was sleeping on my laps her phone screen lit up so I was tempted to look and I saw message delivered to Mariam. So something whispered to me to check the content of the message. When I checked, I discovered that the message was deleted after it was sent. So being a Guyman, that discovery spurred my curiosity. What I did was to copy the number and checked on Truecaller, lo and behold a Man’s name appeared. So I checked his name on face book and checked on WhatsApp too and I saw it was a married Man with five kids. So I waited till morning and confronted her. Initially, she denied it was a man but when I confronted her with my evidence she confessed it was a married man. I enquired further and she told me they have had s*x like 4 times while we were dating ooo. I butted her out of my house and blocked her completely. But this babe will be using other pple’s phones to call and be sending msgs telling me she is sorry. So at a point I forgave her and we continued, but, I was not ready to start trusting her again. So last week, I was trying to see if she has truly turned a new leaf before making a major move by going to see her parents. I was shocked what I saw in her WhatsApp. There was this random dude asking her out. From their chats she told the guy that she has a boyfriend so she can’t have anything to do with him. But, she sent him a video of her touching her Vagi*a. Telling him she wets and squirts very well. When the guy demanded they see so he can feel her she told him no that her Vagin* is only for her boyfriend. Also I saw so many guys asking her out but she kept telling them she is in a serious relationship and she can’t date them. So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. Is it lack of maturity or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired. Please I need matured advise cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP.

your mumu neva too much? She Belongs to the streets serve her breakfast before she serve u infection plus breakfast

cowboyvs:
This is apt. Letting go is the most difficult part though. Good girls are not easy to come bye.

Waoo..i've been there, i understand how difficult it is but now i've left that state.
well @33 i expect u to go for gold oriented ladies,unless she's willing to learn and unlearn...
We still have thousands of good girls aroundoo sir, I've seen them, though depends on what u mean by good in ur own context.
If u so much love her just give her another chance but do not loose guard untill u are fully convience.

Base on what I understand by ur story is, the lady loves you very much, but she's not yet mature.
Nobody is perfect, she can have so many good attributes that makes u to love her but one bad one can make you think otherwise.
She's still immature.
Before going into relationship with any lady, that lady is supposed to have a transformed mind and spirits and so be matured in her life dealings.
Just give her some time sir, since u love her very much but let ur mind should not be fully in her.

UpInTheSky:
You say she has never disrespected you but,
she slept with another man (a married man) four times
and sent an explicit video or herself to another guy.

If you call these respect, then Idk what else to say, lol.

he is in love,so he doesn't truly know disrespect means

UpInTheSky:
You say she has never disrespected you but,
she slept with another man (a married man) four times
and sent an explicit video or herself to another guy.

If you call these respect, then Idk what else to say, lol.

he is in love,so he doesn't truly know dis respect means

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cowboyvs:
Good day Folks, I am not going to bore you with all the details. Ok, I have been a member of this Forum but I really need matured advise cos I am in a dilemma right now. I met this cute babe in 2021. She is from Edo I am Igbo. I was really thinking of getting married to her but I have some serious concerns.

Firstly, sometime last year she came visiting. While she was sleeping on my laps her phone screen lit up so I was tempted to look and I saw message delivered to Mariam. So something whispered to me to check the content of the message. When I checked, I discovered that the message was deleted after it was sent. So being a Guyman, that discovery spurred my curiosity. What I did was to copy the number and checked on Truecaller, lo and behold a Man’s name appeared. So I checked his name on face book and checked on WhatsApp too and I saw it was a married Man with five kids. So I waited till morning and confronted her. Initially, she denied it was a man but when I confronted her with my evidence she confessed it was a married man. I enquired further and she told me they have had s*x like 4 times while we were dating ooo. I butted her out of my house and blocked her completely. But this babe will be using other pple’s phones to call and be sending msgs telling me she is sorry. So at a point I forgave her and we continued, but, I was not ready to start trusting her again. So last week, I was trying to see if she has truly turned a new leaf before making a major move by going to see her parents. I was shocked what I saw in her WhatsApp. There was this random dude asking her out. From their chats she told the guy that she has a boyfriend so she can’t have anything to do with him. But, she sent him a video of her touching her Vagi*a. Telling him she wets and squirts very well. When the guy demanded they see so he can feel her she told him no that her Vagin* is only for her boyfriend. Also I saw so many guys asking her out but she kept telling them she is in a serious relationship and she can’t date them. So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. Is it lack of maturity or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired. Please I need matured advise cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP.

At 22yrs, she lacks the experience of keeping a relationship

Relationship has lots of sacrifice if you really want it to end at the alter

She is having online fun but dating you so that she will feel the sense of having a boy friend

Give her time to get matured, right now she is Linea flower that must attract every man to touch or feel

That's one of the problems of dating an in experienced or exposed girl

You have to train her and she will have to see reasons why she should ignore those admirers

Go and do your home work on her

But if you don't have that patience then pregnant her and keep her busy with the pregnancy

cupidhero:
This whoring stage you speak of is actually real?

The thing use style funny. So person go just wake up and decide to be having sex like animal and think it is normal. Na wa.

The hormones are raging during that period, and with male attention ditto male gifts and money, a girl can easily indulge in sexual intercourse with different men. The difference between males and females is that most males during that period 18 - 25 do not have the finances to satisfy their rage. Women do not need to fund theirs, they just need to be women

Boss , kindly post the pictures of her vagina and naked pics , I want to confirm something . ..,
E don tey I see 22 years old vagina.

Don’t discharge . Correct her . Give her your principles. She’s still in her whoring stage . And maybe she’s a student . Diick her well . Give her 3-6 months to observe, if she change marry her . Nobody got it all.

cowboyvs:
Good day Folks, I am not going to bore you with all the details. Ok, I have been a member of this Forum but I really need matured advise cos I am in a dilemma right now. I met this cute babe in 2021. She is from Edo I am Igbo. I was really thinking of getting married to her but I have some serious concerns.

Firstly, sometime last year she came visiting. While she was sleeping on my laps her phone screen lit up so I was tempted to look and I saw message delivered to Mariam. So something whispered to me to check the content of the message. When I checked, I discovered that the message was deleted after it was sent. So being a Guyman, that discovery spurred my curiosity. What I did was to copy the number and checked on Truecaller, lo and behold a Man’s name appeared. So I checked his name on face book and checked on WhatsApp too and I saw it was a married Man with five kids. So I waited till morning and confronted her. Initially, she denied it was a man but when I confronted her with my evidence she confessed it was a married man. I enquired further and she told me they have had s*x like 4 times while we were dating ooo. I butted her out of my house and blocked her completely. But this babe will be using other pple’s phones to call and be sending msgs telling me she is sorry. So at a point I forgave her and we continued, but, I was not ready to start trusting her again. So last week, I was trying to see if she has truly turned a new leaf before making a major move by going to see her parents. I was shocked what I saw in her WhatsApp. There was this random dude asking her out. From their chats she told the guy that she has a boyfriend so she can’t have anything to do with him. But, she sent him a video of her touching her Vagi*a. Telling him she wets and squirts very well. When the guy demanded they see so he can feel her she told him no that her Vagin* is only for her boyfriend. Also I saw so many guys asking her out but she kept telling them she is in a serious relationship and she can’t date them. So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. Is it lack of maturity or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired. Please I need matured advise cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP.

Young girls and hoeing are like 5&6
Look for the matured ones that have retired from hoeing and manage one if you really want to get married

I stopped reading from Edo.

Nice story. You've got the attention you're craving by coming up with this cock and bull story

Life is a choice

Persephone1:
Rule 1: Never personalize a public hole or pole

Rule2: Never be serious with anyone at his or her whoring stage

Rule 3: Forgive a cheat at your peril!

Go and give Ariza her phone!

guy you better run out of the relationship

Don't marry her.

All these mumu older men who think they can satisfy younger babes still in theirs hoe phase lol

Receive sense........

Rrrun oooooooo!

Stopped reading when I read that she was from Edo state. Sorry

If you can stay with a woman that cheat fine if not, don't even hope she won't cheat on you after marriage because na there u deceive yourself.

cowboyvs:
Thanks. I have totally lost any iota of trust I had for her. I’m jst so sad.

move on.change environment. u will forget that hoe.

Hello Sir, Forgive and forget her period... Haba how can you be asking for advice with all these evidence.Do you want her to give you a deadly STD or STI. Or except you want to be a young divorcee. No long thing just let her go and be with her Indecency customers. Na dem fit her pass.

cowboyvs:
Good day Folks, I am not going to bore you with all the details. Ok, I have been a member of this Forum but I really need matured advise cos I am in a dilemma right now. I met this cute babe in 2021. She is from Edo I am Igbo. I was really thinking of getting married to her but I have some serious concerns.

Firstly, sometime last year she came visiting. While she was sleeping on my laps her phone screen lit up so I was tempted to look and I saw message delivered to Mariam. So something whispered to me to check the content of the message. When I checked, I discovered that the message was deleted after it was sent.

So being a Guyman, that discovery spurred my curiosity. What I did was to copy the number and checked on Truecaller, lo and behold a Man’s name appeared. So I checked his name on face book and checked on WhatsApp too and I saw it was a married Man with five kids.

So I waited till morning and confronted her. Initially, she denied it was a man but when I confronted her with my evidence she confessed it was a married man. I enquired further and she told me they have had s*x like 4 times while we were dating ooo. I butted her out of my house and blocked her completely.

But this babe will be using other pple’s phones to call and be sending msgs telling me she is sorry. So at a point I forgave her and we continued, but, I was not ready to start trusting her again. So last week, I was trying to see if she has truly turned a new leaf before making a major move by going to see her parents. I was shocked what I saw in her WhatsApp.

There was this random dude asking her out. From their chats she told the guy that she has a boyfriend so she can’t have anything to do with him. But, she sent him a video of her touching her Vagi*a. Telling him she wets and squirts very well. When the guy demanded they see so he can feel her she told him no that her Vagin* is only for her boyfriend. Also I saw so many guys asking her out but she kept telling them she is in a serious relationship and she can’t date them.

So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. Is it lack of maturity or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired.

Please I need matured advise cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP.

What makes you think she wasn't deleting the parts she agreed to see those guys while allowing the parts she refused seeing them?
Or refused seeing them on WhatsApp chats but accepted via phone calls?
Use your head bro

Thank God say you never marry her yet... You're still young and agile to look for another woman

peacettw:
Stopped reading when I read that she was from Edo state. Sorry

weyrey.I wanted to stop too.

Avoid her like a plague. She is loose. She will ruin your life with affairs if you marry her