Dorwadora:
I don't think God will look favourably upon an abusive marriage.

This teaching is the reason Osinachi died. Cheating to me is not only bleeping another woman or man outside the marriage. The day you try to rob your partner's happiness then you've cheated.

If the marriage does not worth staying, then kindly get da guck.

Unshackled:
potential divorcee

tiswell:
it's vice versa





...don't cheat on him

Dorwadora:
I don't think God will look favourably upon an abusive marriage.

This teaching is the reason Osinachi died. Cheating to me is not only bleeping another woman or man outside the marriage. The day you try to rob your partner's happiness then you've cheated.

If the marriage does not worth staying, then kindly get da guck.

Triangles1:
Cheating is inevitable in relationship, consciously or subconsciously you must cheat, eyeing of another person.

Acehart:
“Here is another thing you do. You cover the Lord’s altar with tears, weeping and groaning because he pays no attention to your offerings and doesn’t accept them with pleasure. You cry out, “Why doesn’t the Lord accept my worship?” I’ll tell you why!

Because the Lord witnessed the vows you and your wife made when you were young. But you have been unfaithful to her, though she remained your faithful partner, the wife of your marriage vows. Didn’t the Lord make you one with your wife? In body and spirit you are his. And what does he want? Godly children from your union.

So guard your heart; remain loyal to the wife of your youth. “For I hate divorce!” says the Lord, the God of Israel. “To divorce your wife is to overwhelm her with cruelty, ” says the Lord of Heaven’s Armies. “So guard your heart; do not be unfaithful to your wife.””‭

SmartyPants:
“To divorce your wife is to overwhelm her with cruelty, ”

Where in the Bible is this?

Acehart:


God hates unjustified divorce (You didn’t read those texts carefully. A woman would leave her husband if he has been terrible to her). We made vows to be faithful, caring and to protect. When ones breaks that vow, the spouse has valid ground to divorce.

God hates abuse.

Dorwadora:
I respect the institution of marriage.... Very well....


But my happiness is more important.... If I'm not happy then how can I make the people around me happy?

Don't share your thoughts with me tho....

Unshackled:
can you point us to any place in the bible where it was recorded that marriage vows were exchanged between husband and wife?

Neimar:
Omo una dy waste time
Cheat on her jare

Dorwadora:
I read the text sir.... I'm only contributing to the post sir.... I do not oppose or support anything.

Pimine:

Aswearugaaad

Me, me, me. Look at me, it's all about me. I'm a princess so I must be happy at all times. Your sole purpose, the reason you live, is to keep me happy. If you can't do that, you're undeserving of me.

Lemme burst your bubble, princess. Selfish people die alone.

Acehart:


Would you want that for your daughter or sisters?

Dorwadora:
If trying to pursue happiness makes me selfish.... Then I'll rather die selfish but believe me I'll always get people around me... Even the vilest of all men has companions.

I can not give what I don't have.... Never.

Unshackled:
can you point us to any place in the bible where it was recorded that marriage vows were exchanged between husband and wife?

Acehart:
No verse expressly shows where vows were exchanged. However, this verse is profound in showing two people had some form of agreement before they tied the knot- Amos 3:3 Can two walk together, except they be agreed?

Another verse is this: If a man vows a vow to the Lord, or swears an oath to bind himself by a pledge, he shall not break his word. He shall do according to all that proceeds out of his mouth (Number 30:2).

Whether a promise to a girl is made in secret or in the public, a man is bound by the words of his mouth.

Dorwadora:
I respect the institution of marriage.... Very well....


But my happiness is more important.... If I'm not happy then how can I make the people around me happy?

Don't share your thoughts with me tho....

Acehart:

“Here is another thing you do. You cover the Lord’s altar with tears, weeping and groaning because he pays no attention to your offerings and doesn’t accept them with pleasure. You cry out, “Why doesn’t the Lord accept my worship?” I’ll tell you why!

Because the Lord witnessed the vows you and your wife made when you were young. But you have been unfaithful to her, though she remained your faithful partner, the wife of your marriage vows. Didn’t the Lord make you one with your wife? In body and spirit you are his. And what does he want? Godly children from your union.

So guard your heart; remain loyal to the wife of your youth. “For I hate divorce!” says the Lord, the God of Israel. “To divorce your wife is to overwhelm her with cruelty, ” says the Lord of Heaven’s Armies. “So guard your heart; do not be unfaithful to your wife.””
‭

Acehart:


No verse expressly shows where vows were exchanged. However, this verse is profound in showing two people had some form of agreement before they tied the knot- Amos 3:3 Can two walk together, except they be agreed?

Another verse is this: If a man vows a vow to the Lord, or swears an oath to bind himself by a pledge, he shall not break his word. He shall do according to all that proceeds out of his mouth (Number 30:2).

Whether a promise to a girl is made in secret or in the public, a man is bound by the words of his mouth.

Unshackled:
selfish carefree little tot.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Don't cheat on her cos it's morally wrong not cos the Bible book say you shouldn't...

Dorwadora:
Selfishness is when you think your opinion is better than mine..... Deal with the entitled mentality first then come talk later

I'm entitled to my opinion, if you don't like it.... Then you do something bad to yourself.

Ciai

Triangles1:
Cheating is inevitable in relationship, consciously or subconsciously you must cheat, eyeing of another person.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Don't cheat on her cos it's morally wrong not cos the Bible book say you shouldn't...

stanliwise:

Morality really has nothing to do with cheating. Morality is a relative concept and if does not appeal to my believe. I am not doing any harm to myself.

Cheating is basically going against rule to amass gain. More like a selfish adventure for one own gains without considering what has been agreed upon in the past. It happens in games, social settings, office etc

Unshackled:
nope, selfishness is when one is so self-conceoted that she thinks cheating in marriage amounts to when her partners tries to take her happiness.

You're either alexythemic or one little 5 year old baby in an adult's body who thinks life evolve around her toys and cookies.

You're just one little stiff-necked, greedy taker in marriage, never a giver.

FERNANDEZISBACK:

I am talking about relationship here..Well let’s start with basic morality 101: It’s wrong to hurt someone..
If you are only concerned about yourself then you are a selfish individual..

They put their trust in you...you are cheating them on that...
They gave themselves to you...ou are throwing that back in their face...
They have hugely invested in the relationship with you..their time..effort..feelings etc..you are disrespecting all that and them...
The golden rule for arguing about morals is the golden rule itself: One should treat others the way one would like others to treat oneself...so your point is borne out of cluelessness..

SmartyPants:


“To divorce your wife is to overwhelm her with cruelty, ”

Where in the Bible is this?

Cutehector:
Na only man dey cheat on wife? Iffa woze all of una slap now.....

I wanted to say something regarding to the unbalanced nature of the write up... but I am not ready for an argument with anyone...

All I see in the write up was how to use the old testament scriptures to cage married people. ..