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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Komu1048(m): 12:56pm On Jun 05, 2022
Classickj:
A Ugandan female marriage counselor has told women to avoid giving their husbands money.

The Ugandan counselor identified as Zaituni Kakyama, said in a TV interview that even if a woman can afford to help her partner
financially, she should not do so. W.T. H
According to her, God made women to have a desire for more than they need, particularly clothing and shoes, so that men are driven to
work continually and not become lazy.

Kakyama added that men should let women spend their money so it can make them work harder for more. She also urged women to put
their egos aside and remain committed and polite to their spouses, no matter how successful they are.

She said;
“Whether she gets more money than he does, he has to take care of his wife and family as a head.
“I don’t give my man money because when I do, that leads to his destruction when he gets into the comfort zone of being given.
“You find women from such marriages saying their men don’t love them.
Remember how you convinced that woman to marry you, small things matter.”


https://newswirengr.com/2022/06/03/giving-your-husband-money-will-make-him-lazy-marriage-counselor-tells-women/



Imagine Tutsi women called cockroaches now advising people
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by lookingfly: 1:14pm On Jun 05, 2022
My manthra as a man is, show me that you can support me in all aspect of my life including financially and i will adore and even be the one to spend on you big time...... immediately i notice any stinginess attitude or mentality of i too smart when it comes to support. You will only be for the other room, nothing more.

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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by lookingfly: 1:17pm On Jun 05, 2022
Gentlevip:
Men must always be responsible and be in charge of given. And not even expect anything From the woman

But for a woman to say, women should not give money is selfish foolishness. Thats fosters mistrust and far more damages than any repair.
It's the same when a man claims the woman must also give.


Lets all respect our boundaries. His responsibilities and Your help. Except both of you are not interested in healthy family
y do you want to exonerate women from being responsible.
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by BRATISLAVA: 1:18pm On Jun 05, 2022
All these sermons for women are pointless control measures.

There's no hard and fast law in relationships. Do whatever makes you happy, even if it means the woman mustn't encourage laziness in her man by giving him money.

After all, U35 men say that women must be financially capable or they aren't worth it. Thus the same yardstick must be used on men. Men must be financially capable on their own before getting into relationships. Women mustn't help them. Everyone should help themselves. That's the modern mantra, isn't it?

Pity to modern ladies seeking relationships. Rules everywhere, conditions everywhere.

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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by HiFive: 1:24pm On Jun 05, 2022
virginprincess:
cheesy cheesy,funny but true, why should a hardworking and sensible man collects money from his woman,only lazy and shameless men would do such,women should also learn to respect and value hardworking men like she said.


See virgin.
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by JooEeL(m): 1:30pm On Jun 05, 2022
Kollins11:
You're wrong dude.

When you fvck her like a monster especially when you have a long fat preeq like me, she won't enjoy it... She will be feeling pains.

She would want you to stop but she can't say it because she desperately needs the money.

Haha, that happens usually in the event of vaginal dryness and that usually means she's not turned on.

Most women who only want to rip off a man usually are not attracted to the man, hence the dryness. But some 'lube up' themselves in your unawareness.

Besides if you are aggressive and ramming hard and fast, you'll cum in time too.

Either way, the man loses. cool cool
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by gfelo(m): 1:49pm On Jun 05, 2022
Perfect truth
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by SHOCK7(m): 2:17pm On Jun 05, 2022
Holluwhakemmy:
We are help meet nothing bad if we help each other financially.
Omg, pls 're you single? U have good head on your shoulders. What do you drink?

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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by GUNITGuy: 2:54pm On Jun 05, 2022
Noblewealth:
Scholars in the house I need you all to solve thess for me..

Adio is twice as old as he was five years ago.His mother was then six times as
old as he was.she is now 35 years old.
How old is Adio?
How old was his mother when he was five?_
How old will he be when his mother is 50?
How old was Adio's mother when he was born?
What is the difference between Adio's age and his mother's age?
Adio is 10yrs
Mum was 30 when he was 5
Adio would be 25 when his mum is 50
Adios mum was 25 when he was born
Difference in age is 25yrs
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Goldbw122(m): 3:21pm On Jun 05, 2022
Men have been working from the break of dawn, where is this one coming from?
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Emdebby2: 4:13pm On Jun 05, 2022
MadarasBlade:


Any circumstances with which the money was given, I'll definitely return it back to her when i am bouyant enought to pay. It'll always be in my debt book

I try to avoid see finish of any kind.
That's good of you. Not all men would do that. Some will not return the money but be claiming 'we are one'
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by rosamaris: 4:22pm On Jun 05, 2022
Truly, only lazy, irresponsible and shameless men demand money from their wives. Some dey even ask for tp to work like say na ajayi work dem dey go out to do. Some women dey suffer sha. May God wipe our tears in Jesus name. Amen.
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Emeka71(m): 4:23pm On Jun 05, 2022
Holluwhakemmy:
We are help meet nothing bad if we help each other financially.
You sound so genuine.

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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Agbebakun22: 4:28pm On Jun 05, 2022
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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Agbebakun22: 4:30pm On Jun 05, 2022
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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Holluwhakemmy(f): 4:56pm On Jun 05, 2022
SHOCK7:

Omg, pls 're you single? U have good head on your shoulders. What do you drink?
Thanks, living water.
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Holluwhakemmy(f): 4:57pm On Jun 05, 2022
Emeka71:
You sound so genuine.
That's how it should be.
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Wwwq: 5:29pm On Jun 05, 2022
Yes
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Nobody: 7:11pm On Jun 05, 2022
Classickj:

Are OK all
Why bring my mom into this
Thats your response? How extremely droll.

Don’t insult all women, your mom is a woman. a woman is also my mom. You insulted her by typing that trash about women.

Next time. Only chat shit about the women that have obviously traumatized you and leave the rest of us out of your disgusting rants about women that you cannot say go your mothers face.
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Chizzychinny: 8:00pm On Jun 05, 2022
I don't agree to this, every day is not Christmas so sometimes you give when the need arises.
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Thomasankara(m): 10:36pm On Jun 05, 2022
virginprincess:
cheesy cheesy,funny but true, why should a hardworking and sensible man collects money from his woman,only lazy and shameless men would do such,women should also learn to respect and value hardworking men like she said.

Should a woman be richer and more connected than her spouse?
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Thomasankara(m): 10:37pm On Jun 05, 2022
Komu1048:




Imagine Tutsi women called cockroaches now advising people
.
u are violence personified angry
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by sekzy99(m): 10:15am On Jun 09, 2022
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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Marley125: 1:24pm On Jun 09, 2022
Ballzproblemm:
there are Latinas ,Asians , you can find decent women in Cuba , Dominican republic,guyana, Brazil ,and other south America countries ,low cost ,and very cute ,the world doesn't revolve around Africa women
good for you go get them undecided undecided undecided
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Ballzproblemm: 1:31pm On Jun 09, 2022
Marley125:
good for you go get them undecided undecided undecided
next time no quote me then idiot
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Marley125: 8:57pm On Jun 15, 2022
Ballzproblemm:
next time no quote me then idiot
really. you're so stupid. Even though you're on a face less forum you still maintained stupidity. This platform is meant for fun not for bitter fools like you. I repeat again you're a fool biggest one ever
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Ballzproblemm: 9:11pm On Jun 15, 2022
Marley125:
really. you're so stupid. Even though you're on a face less forum you still maintained stupidity. This platform is meant for fun not for bitter fools like you. I repeat again you're a fool biggest one ever
your father na the biggest fool,if too say in pull out from your mama Toto , I for no they chat with nonentity
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Marley125: 9:13pm On Jun 17, 2022
Ballzproblemm:
your father na the biggest fool,if too say in pull out from your mama Toto , I for no they chat with nonentity
this is to show how useless & bitter you're you mother must have counted you as her biggest mistake imagine having a child like you that's just good for nothing people like you don't offer anything good to their parents apart from sorrow. May no woman encounter people like you as children cos you're as good as non. Oya come on keep disgracing the future you have destroy on your own. Calling Nigeria girls you don't know any girl that has you in her life oh God have mercy people like you still calls their selves men shame on you for making yourself a useless person. FOOL
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Ballzproblemm: 9:24pm On Jun 17, 2022
Marley125:
this is to show how useless & bitter you're you mother must have counted you as her biggest mistake imagine having a child like you that's just good for nothing people like you don't offer anything good to their parents apart from sorrow. May no woman encounter people like you as children cos you're as good as non. Oya come on keep disgracing the future you have destroy on your own. Calling Nigeria girls you don't know any girl that has you in her life oh God have mercy people like you still calls their selves men shame on you for making yourself a useless person. FOOL
enya go and get life. ,no they quote me useless son of his mother , take care bastard son of thousand fathers
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Marley125: 7:50pm On Jun 18, 2022
Ballzproblemm:
enya go and get life. ,no they quote me useless son of his mother , take care bastard son of thousand fathers
which take care we die here. Shee bi you get time idiot after making yourself useless you want to come & drop the angar on me let's continue I only promise to watch my words but that won't stop me from reminding you always that you're a fool for attacking me for nothing on a face less forum. Stupid boy
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by kelspinall(m): 8:38pm On Jun 18, 2022
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