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Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by AncientGuy: 3:06pm On Jun 09, 2022
pocohantas:
You don’t have to keep the baby if you don’t want to. No parent hopes to be in this situation, but if I find myself as the mother of the child- there is no way my 19yrs old undergraduate daughter would keep that baby.

I am sorry, I won’t allow her juvenile mistakes truncate her life.
MISTAKE KE??
shocked
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Subomi11: 3:07pm On Jun 09, 2022
First and foremost abortion is a criminal offence in Nigeria. I will never aid nor albeit you in committing a crime.

As per education, she can still continue her education, pregnancy is not a death sentence. Give her all the support she needed. Roll up your sleeve and get to work. You should not wait for your family to take care girl and her baby. Even if they does getting her back on track to further her education should be your own priority.

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Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by lagosrd: 3:07pm On Jun 09, 2022
Don't do anything silly, the did has already been done. It's needless to terminate the innocent baby's life. Be a man, prepared well foe the baby and the mother.

Speak to your mother about it and tell her to try to show understanding with you. Narrate the challenges ahead and prepare to work and feed the family
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Nobody: 3:08pm On Jun 09, 2022
Icumsa45:
I am a master of the withdrawal art

But if you can't withdraw, fvck her in the ass.
Prof withdrawal Dept grin grin grin
U say Bleep her nyash shocked u wan tak away her toilet sweetness
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Donair(m): 3:09pm On Jun 09, 2022
Start buying baby things before the price increases more than what it is today...
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Psalmemmy(m): 3:15pm On Jun 09, 2022
My advice is that u and dat girl shuld be mad very mad
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Simisohlahhh: 3:19pm On Jun 09, 2022
I'm totally against pre marital sex but I'll advise you to keep the baby and take responsibility to the girl.
Good luck champ.
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by kkinternet: 3:24pm On Jun 09, 2022
Whatever you do, Y'ALL SHOULD KEEP THE BABY.
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Lordedifice1: 3:29pm On Jun 09, 2022
I did that withdrawal method for a year
And i didn't get my ex pregnant
Nothing is as sweet doing raw
But always use protection because of had I known.
Just go and buy pampers.

After unprotected sex use postinor2 it's just ₦500 as at last year I bought it.
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by ayo2008: 3:31pm On Jun 09, 2022
erico2k2:

Did christ not teach you not to judge?
Also of you are not a hypocrite why did you mot answer my simple question *Are U a virgin

Better repent
Jesus loves you instead of looking for who is judging who
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by frozen70(f): 3:34pm On Jun 09, 2022
New222:
I won't try to sugarcoat it. I'm 25 years old, she's 19. Still in university because of the endless ASUU strike.

I've been having unprotected sex with this particular girl for a long while now. We've been dating for close to two years. I practise the "withdrawal" and "safe" days method. I met her a Virgin too.

Just realised she's pregnant. She started showing a lot of symptoms. Darkened areolas, nausea, breast heaviness, headache, back pain e.t.c.

I asked her to get do a pregnancy strip test and it came positive. Two red lines.

Though it's not what I ever planned for myself, I won't really mind having a child at my age. People will so much insult me, including my family but I'm sure my family will take care of the child.

The issue is the girl. Her family (Deeper Life) are wahala, big wahala. Educated people that behaves as if they never went to school. Now, we detected very early, her first period is supposed to start tomorrow (which I'm sure she'll miss). She's still very young and about to start schooling. I'm sure her dad will disown her (he once sent her away from his home over a slight misunderstanding, refused to let her back in until it was shown she was innocent).

I told her we have two choices, keep the baby or remove it. I am confused too, but I didn't show it. Pls what do you think?

We're really considering ending the pregnancy. Since it's very early, I'm considered getting m...p......r..l. I need medical advice pls. Above all, I don't want to endanger the girl's life.
I've read about abortion pills. I don't know how to get them or their price. Or should we keep the baby? Her dad will surely disown her, might later accept her, but it will definitely end her Education. What do you think? Should we get the drugs pls. Or consider another option? Should we keep the baby?

P.S: I know nairaland. I've been here for years, insult are welcomed. I never imaginned I'll ever open a thread like this.

P.S: If you're using withdrawal method and it works, it WILL STILL EVENTUALLY FAIL YOU. I used it for a really long time, now I'm here.

I think you should keep the pregnancy and inform your parents who will contact her family

If they disown her because of you, then be ready to carry whatever that is in her and move on

Bear in mind that you frustrated her education so don't come later to complain that she is not your class

When her parents calms down you guys can complete the remaining things by getting married to her

Your family will be mad at you but will be lfet with no option than to accept the pregnancy

If all thees takes place be prepared health and sound mind with good emotional stability to stand up like a man to carry your load

Am sure condom 500 would have solved this problem before it started but maybe you don't want to waste that money

Now you will spend it as it demands

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Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Ikokobara: 3:35pm On Jun 09, 2022
ezeifeanyikings:
If u don't think u can handle it,abort it...it's still early and pills re safe...don't mind all dis pple telling u to keep d baby knowing fully well dat it can ruin d gurls life... D best tin u can do for dat gurl is to safeguard her future...don't start wat u can't finish...there are two drugs ,browse about it ...give her d first one to stop d pregnancy from forming.d second one will make her to see her period again..dat one should b taken one week after d first one has been taken...most of dis pple here av removed babies before....since u knw she ll b disowned,save her d stress...shez still very young....make una feel free to insult meoo...idk

What are the name of the drugs Boss and how much do they cost!?
I'm in a similar position
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Iykmann(m): 3:40pm On Jun 09, 2022
New222:
I won't try to sugarcoat it. I'm 25 years old, she's 19. Still in university because of the endless ASUU strike.

I've been having unprotected sex with this particular girl for a long while now. We've been dating for close to two years. I practise the "withdrawal" and "safe" days method. I met her a Virgin too.

Just realised she's pregnant. She started showing a lot of symptoms. Darkened areolas, nausea, breast heaviness, headache, back pain e.t.c.

I asked her to get do a pregnancy strip test and it came positive. Two red lines.

Though it's not what I ever planned for myself, I won't really mind having a child at my age. People will so much insult me, including my family but I'm sure my family will take care of the child.

The issue is the girl. Her family (Deeper Life) are wahala, big wahala. Educated people that behaves as if they never went to school. Now, we detected very early, her first period is supposed to start tomorrow (which I'm sure she'll miss). She's still very young and about to start schooling. I'm sure her dad will disown her (he once sent her away from his home over a slight misunderstanding, refused to let her back in until it was shown she was innocent).

I told her we have two choices, keep the baby or remove it. I am confused too, but I didn't show it. Pls what do you think?

We're really considering ending the pregnancy. Since it's very early, I'm considered getting m...p......r..l. I need medical advice pls. Above all, I don't want to endanger the girl's life.
I've read about abortion pills. I don't know how to get them or their price. Or should we keep the baby? Her dad will surely disown her, might later accept her, but it will definitely end her Education. What do you think? Should we get the drugs pls. Or consider another option? Should we keep the baby?

P.S: I know nairaland. I've been here for years, insult are welcomed. I never imaginned I'll ever open a thread like this.

P.S: If you're using withdrawal method and it works, it WILL STILL EVENTUALLY FAIL YOU. I used it for a really long time, now I'm here.
Don't remove the pregnancy, if you do you will regret it in future. The world won't come to end because you got a woman pregnant, you are not the first and won't be the last. People will only talk about it for sometime then move on, nobody really cares. I got a lady pregnant few years ago and I can tell you , not aborting that pregnancy has been the best decision of my life. All you have to do is start saving money (no matter how small) for antenatal and baby items, in nine months by God's grace everything will be over.
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by YoungDaNaval(m): 3:43pm On Jun 09, 2022
Paypallord1:
Which kind advice do u need again, but you enjoy your 10 minutes alone, we were not there now. Although I didn’t read ur thread anyway.
How did you come to conclusion it was 10mins? cheesy
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Clarecee(f): 3:43pm On Jun 09, 2022
Congratulations, please keep the baby,the baby is innocent,she/He did not tell you people to use withdrawal method
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by thaprofit88: 3:49pm On Jun 09, 2022
New222:
I won't try to sugarcoat it. I'm 25 years old, she's 19. Still in university because of the endless ASUU strike.

I've been having unprotected sex with this particular girl for a long while now. We've been dating for close to two years. I practise the "withdrawal" and "safe" days method. I met her a Virgin too.

Just realised she's pregnant. She started showing a lot of symptoms. Darkened areolas, nausea, breast heaviness, headache, back pain e.t.c.

I asked her to get do a pregnancy strip test and it came positive. Two red lines.

Though it's not what I ever planned for myself, I won't really mind having a child at my age. People will so much insult me, including my family but I'm sure my family will take care of the child.

The issue is the girl. Her family (Deeper Life) are wahala, big wahala. Educated people that behaves as if they never went to school. Now, we detected very early, her first period is supposed to start tomorrow (which I'm sure she'll miss). She's still very young and about to start schooling. I'm sure her dad will disown her (he once sent her away from his home over a slight misunderstanding, refused to let her back in until it was shown she was innocent).

I told her we have two choices, keep the baby or remove it. I am confused too, but I didn't show it. Pls what do you think?

We're really considering ending the pregnancy. Since it's very early, I'm considered getting m...p......r..l. I need medical advice pls. Above all, I don't want to endanger the girl's life.
I've read about abortion pills. I don't know how to get them or their price. Or should we keep the baby? Her dad will surely disown her, might later accept her, but it will definitely end her Education. What do you think? Should we get the drugs pls. Or consider another option? Should we keep the baby?

P.S: I know nairaland. I've been here for years, insult are welcomed. I never imaginned I'll ever open a thread like this.

P.S: If you're using withdrawal method and it works, it WILL STILL EVENTUALLY FAIL YOU. I used it for a really long time, now I'm here.


You should sha have gotten advice before getting someone pregnant. Congratulations in advance
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by erico2k2(m): 3:59pm On Jun 09, 2022
ayo2008:


Better repent
Jesus loves you instead of looking for who is judging who
Bross I belive you need jesus pass me cos as it stands,me and Jesus live in same street .same city.but you and devil live in same street.same town same state ,same country and same continent

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Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by paix(m): 4:01pm On Jun 09, 2022
techgen:
Sex produces babies...when you were having unprotected sex, what where you expecting...if her dad disown her take responsibility is your call...that child might be the break through you need!
She can always go to school, if she sole wishes.

Above all else...I've been in your shoe before, what made me keep my beautiful angel...was the fact that; it's better to offend man, than God!

Chill op...this too will pass, say strong for ha ND get ha register for antenatal.

Congrats cool
You had offended God even before the pregnancy - sex before marriage.
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Alsakinah: 4:04pm On Jun 09, 2022
Be sincere to yourself. Do you really love the to keep as your wife? If yes, let her have the baby. If no, you are the architect of your problems. Why will you raw Bleep a pussy you are not ready to spend the rest of your life with.
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by ezeifeanyikings: 4:05pm On Jun 09, 2022
Ikokobara:


What are the name of the drugs Boss and how much do they cost!?
I'm in a similar position
...mifepristone and misoprostol...it has d injection,it also has tablet too...whichever one u use is ok..just make sure d pregnancy is still early..like 1mnth...d tablet cums togeda...just 2 tablets...I dunno d price dese daiz since tins don de cost...used it once when I was in skull...paid around 4500 then...
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by AndSunGorilla: 4:05pm On Jun 09, 2022
New222:
I won't try to sugarcoat it. I'm 25 years old, she's 19. Still in university because of the endless ASUU strike.

I've been having unprotected sex with this particular girl for a long while now. We've been dating for close to two years. I practise the "withdrawal" and "safe" days method. I met her a Virgin too.

Just realised she's pregnant. She started showing a lot of symptoms. Darkened areolas, nausea, breast heaviness, headache, back pain e.t.c.

I asked her to get do a pregnancy strip test and it came positive. Two red lines.

Though it's not what I ever planned for myself, I won't really mind having a child at my age. People will so much insult me, including my family but I'm sure my family will take care of the child.

The issue is the girl. Her family (Deeper Life) are wahala, big wahala. Educated people that behaves as if they never went to school. Now, we detected very early, her first period is supposed to start tomorrow (which I'm sure she'll miss). She's still very young and about to start schooling. I'm sure her dad will disown her (he once sent her away from his home over a slight misunderstanding, refused to let her back in until it was shown she was innocent).

I told her we have two choices, keep the baby or remove it. I am confused too, but I didn't show it. Pls what do you think?

We're really considering ending the pregnancy. Since it's very early, I'm considered getting m...p......r..l. I need medical advice pls. Above all, I don't want to endanger the girl's life.
I've read about abortion pills. I don't know how to get them or their price. Or should we keep the baby? Her dad will surely disown her, might later accept her, but it will definitely end her Education. What do you think? Should we get the drugs pls. Or consider another option? Should we keep the baby?

P.S: I know nairaland. I've been here for years, insult are welcomed. I never imaginned I'll ever open a thread like this.

P.S: If you're using withdrawal method and it works, it WILL STILL EVENTUALLY FAIL YOU. I used it for a really long time, now I'm here.
The deed has been done, no need getting beat up over that. My opinion is be ready for all the insults, bashings and all that will follow. Keep the pregnancy and yes her parents may disown her but if you too are ready to dig in and bear through all the pains, all should eventually be well. If she stops her education now, I hope you are willing and ready to commit to ensuring she finishes her education some time in the future. Let this motivate you to finish school well and work hard to sustain your "young family", but my guy, if you take that decision, it would be a long hard journey sir.
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Ikokobara: 4:05pm On Jun 09, 2022
nedekid:
Oboy, what the big deal in belle? I you both don't want it, the. Get rid of it!
Go and buy that combination drug, the one you take orally and the one you put in the pussy. Belle don japa. 100% safe.

Boss what's the name and how much can I get it
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Ikokobara: 4:07pm On Jun 09, 2022
nedekid:
Oboy, what the big deal in belle? I you both don't want it, the. Get rid of it!
Go and buy that combination drug, the one you take orally and the one you put in the pussy. Belle don japa. 100% safe.

Boss what's the name of the drug and how much can I get it
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Ikokobara: 4:10pm On Jun 09, 2022
Nobodyany1:
Your story is similar to mine, bro. But, you'll be fine.
My take is, do not let nobody judge/condem you. Most people bashing you here wish they can do what you did but chance, time and nature haven't allowed them to.
My advice for you in this hypocritical society/platform (that you'd think would help you or lend you money), is sit down in a tranquil place and think! Think; weighing the advantages and disadvantages side by side, call your name and ask yourself, can I carry this burden?! Will my love for this girl later fade, will her love for me later fade?
Once you can answer these questions, then your decision will come to you! But in all, decide fast (time is your enemy)
You can hit me up for anything, I'm your friend!
Help may not come from nairaland like you reasoned...

Hey Boss
Can we talk on whatsapp, in a similar position

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Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by erico2k2(m): 4:14pm On Jun 09, 2022
Ikokobara:


What are the name of the drugs Boss and how much do they cost!?
I'm in a similar position
Go to your Doctor do not self medicate it dangerous.
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by erico2k2(m): 4:15pm On Jun 09, 2022
paix:
You had offended God even before the pregnancy - sex before marriage.
U be virgin?
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Bluntemperor: 4:17pm On Jun 09, 2022
Bornbiafra:
For the fact you registered the account today ...I have no comment

OP,in paragraph six of your write-up, I quote ' the family na deeper life..... educated people behaving as if they did not go to School'
How dare you insults the Christians Faith like that?
Are you ok at all?
Are they the one that forced you to have illegal fun with their Child,when you know you can't enjoy their lifestyle,then why are you abusing their faith?
So by keeping their child as a virgin means they have done you evil?
You are a wicked soul that should not be taken seriously and infact,you should be taken to police station for child defilement!
So the Parents of this girl that kept this Child up to this stage wants you that is jobless to come and make her a burden! If that is the norm of the modern day Society that is rotten and stinks,why not go to hotel to look for the Oloshos? No remorseful beign with loose talk!
Shame on you!
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Ikokobara: 4:18pm On Jun 09, 2022
Bobmarie:
Get the drug. It’s safe, message me if you need more information.

Hey sent you a message
In a similar position
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by Abu06(m): 4:20pm On Jun 09, 2022
You try..
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by MaskSubzero: 4:26pm On Jun 09, 2022
NobleSeed:
19 yrs old girl shocked

ENDLESS ASUU STRIKE shocked

CONSTANT NKACING shocked

WEDRAWER METHOD grin

Parents deeper life shocked

But comrade why na?
hahahaha wahala no too much?
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by baralatie(m): 4:28pm On Jun 09, 2022
Lovelydaisies:


Lol. Guy, your list is sort of exaggerated o. Just give the list once and stop increasing his blood pressure with each item.
Way!
You just reminded me

How much is 50kg Ariel ,far big sack because h will b washing baby clothes every day for the next six months or
He can get a washing machine(e no cost around #65000)
Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by baralatie(m): 4:31pm On Jun 09, 2022
AncientGuy:
MISTAKE KE??
shocked
That is why I use long distance look at her comment .
I no say na offpoint

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