Evolutionlove:


Personally If I am to become a dictator. Any Poor Couple who bear more than One Child will both be sentenced to death by electrocution..

cayorday89:

Don't mind them, even businesses that is generating good income are finding it hard to meet its obligations like staff payment and every other day to day expenses to run itself without their owners complaining not to talk of an individual with no proper skill to make good earnings to go and hustle and come back to feed mouths he was not meant to be responsible for, how long will he continue to do that for him to balance up and focus on his own life.

You are very correct. Many people on the internet don't know the reality on ground, they just type things just anyhow. They think it's as easy saying double your hustle. I just look at them and laugh

He should rather focus on himself (if he does not, they are damned for a long while and if he does they are also damned but for a relatively shorter period of time) and when he gets a bit of balanced leverage he can come for them not just to feed them but for them to be active participants in that hustle of his.

ibechris:
At 39 years old...I have even stopped giving birth. My 3 children are ok for me.

I don't expect money from them when they grow up but parental care.

The only thing I owe them is financial education and interestingly,formal education which I know is just to brace them up.

Finally,I agree with u that those who have few children do not know what those with many children are going through.
Times have changed many children no longer amount to blessing but more poverty upon poverty.

This is the time for us to all wake up and do what is right.

medropoly:
Damn.. Having plenty siblings is the beginning of your endless suffering as a senior child. Am saying this from experience...
Damn... Just imagine how having plenty children has changed the whole scenario of the family life,.
The mother becomes a ruthless nagging woman and verbally abusing her children
Father tends to shy away from his responsibilities.,
Children fight and disrespect each other constantly..
Verbal and physical abuse becomes the order of the day..
Parent fighting each other in front of kids..

Damn... How I wish when she gave birth to the forth child she stopped giving birth as she promised, but instead she added four more children to the squad.. Giving bullshit stories of "Na God dey give pikin, maybe Na dis one God go use change my story" and bla bla bla

Omo life hasn't be the same, Imaging the the first child being just 22 and already have 7 other siblings behind him,

Cooking and eating of food Na....... , let me don't even go there

Una wey una mama no born plenty pikin no knw Wetin God do for una

medropoly:
Damn.. Having plenty siblings is the beginning of your endless suffering as a senior child. Am saying this from experience...
Damn... Just imagine how having plenty children has changed the whole scenario of the family life,.
The mother becomes a ruthless nagging woman and verbally abusing her children
Father tends to shy away from his responsibilities.,
Children fight and disrespect each other constantly..
Verbal and physical abuse becomes the order of the day..
Parent fighting each other in front of kids..

Damn... How I wish when she gave birth to the forth child she stopped giving birth as she promised, but instead she added four more children to the squad.. Giving bullshit stories of "Na God dey give pikin, maybe Na dis one God go use change my story" and bla bla bla

Omo life hasn't be the same, Imaging the the first child being just 22 and already have 7 other siblings behind him,

Cooking and eating of food Na....... , let me don't even go there

Una wey una mama no born plenty pikin no knw Wetin God do for una

lagosrd:


What works for everyone is different. Obviously he is from a not a good home. If parents do their part every of their kids will be fine averagely.

I also noticed that the OP is a lazy lad and he wants to dodge all the responsibilities meant for an elder child. Even if you have 2 siblings you will still have to help out one way or the other.

Sometimes, it's not the fault of the parents except for those glued to cultural beliefs.

I have a friend that whose first child was a girl and the second were twins while the last conception were triplets . How do you blame God for that.

I also recently read about a lady in Abuja who earlier had 5 children and the family planning stuff failed and the next conception brought four.

Anything that happens in a family is not for nairaland consumption. Parents have their parts to play while the children to have their to play. Even if you have three children if you're poor, your case will be worse than that of those with nine children or be at par.

The reality is getting busy especially the female folks. And moreso, get medical advise from doctors.

Even people that have one child envy those with Four. Cos the ones with four help them grace their functions.

Discipline parents rare the best for children with fear of God.

My cousins are 6 in number and none of them are here in Nigeria. They are in the best countries of this world. Unfortunately they lost their dad while they were very young. And today they are well educated and citizens of UK, US, NZ, AU, CN , all doing great for themselves and their mother also.

Munzy14:

Having a job is a deception our parents leveraged on in their old era..

After 35years of the job, life gradually becomes miserable for most...Except they have their offsprings doing well.

Their mates who started a business then and see to it growth, transited leaving huge fortunes for generational inheritance.

For that your stable Job, any day you are out, somebody will take over without a blink...In fact the person will give testimony.

Having a job is temporary...

Having a business to your name is permanent.

The problem is that lazy folks prefer already made which is a mere optical illusion after retirement.

Kpata kpata you go manage train kids wit basic degree, build small house for village, and buy half plot for town...For the ones that are fortunate.

The unfortunate might keep stressing to feed after retirement.. Especially those that worked for government with no gratuity and pensions..

If you are a man upto 30, and you have no business you throw in funds, Your name is sorry..

You will understand when you approach 55years.

Tomahawk99:

Atiku has 38 children which means his first son has 37 younger siblings but zero complaints.
Na your papa no prepare well na why.

Sion47:
I totally agree with this.
Especially our brothers up north.

No government can create job for everyone,

Our population is damm high yet our political leaders are shying away from that ugly trend.
Can u image a poor shoe shiner having 3 wives and 21 children,
Isn't that a security risk on it's own.

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APC2:
I stopped my siblings from coming to my house so that I and my wife can have peace and feel like newly married family. My marriage was not up to 4 months when my mother keep on disturbing me that my younger brother should come over and stay.
Imagine my brother, any time he sees my wife, his pen1s will just rise.
I don't even call anybody again since they were angry with me for sending my brother away

iamjp87:


You are too quick to conclude. You have no idea what we go through. It’s not because we are lazy.
We are victims of our parents’ poor judgement and decisions.
We are doing so much to ensure that our lives are not significantly affected by the responsibilities before us.

Kobojunkie:
Wow... head of family means he controls his wife's womb? His wife, equally equipped with a fully functional brain is nothing but a figure head? Yikes!

Smilesvilles21:
Is there a legit reason for the man to be devoid of a fully functional brain where it concerns the welfare of his own children?

Evolutionlove:


Personally If I am to become a dictator. Any Poor Couple who bear more than One Child will both be sentenced to death by electrocution..

iamjp87:


I have 10 siblings. How I remain normal still baffles me. I just thank God for His mercies.

thebosstrevor1:


Are you in business or writing because you read a motivational book.

Being in business is hard. Making a business profitable is more harder.

Most business fail, atleast if you have a job with the government, you can have a stable life and a regular salary.

Munzy14:

Lmao....Motivational ko speaker ni..

You choose the easy side...Enjoy now and suffer later..

Go and make Inquiry and consult wide...

The next generation ahead will be more Of developed AI and Robotics doing human Jobs exceptionally...

Life come when you will be asked what do you own and not where do you work.

A generation takes 15 - 35years before we move to the next.

The new generation kickstarts by 2026.

Artificial intelligence age...Robots will be performing major work, living us to skills and business development.

Scary years ahead..

Kobojunkie:
Same question can and should be asked of the Woman whose body is busy popping out said children

thebosstrevor1:



You sound like one of those motivational speakers selling those multi marketing products. Even from what you wrote, i know you have never even founded 1 business before

There is nothing like an easy side. Employees need to work, some of them work round the clock and that is not easy.

Smilesvilles21:
Same question can and should be asked of the man whose dick is always busy knacking for reproduction.

Munzy14:

I wish I am a motivational speaker sha..

I must have worked on some youths to put sense into them...

Employee = slave

Employer= master.

You gerrit

If not, it is the high way..

You sound so proud...But very far from confident.

thebosstrevor1:


Are you a business owner?

Mariangeles:


No, it's not.

Just find out what people need, and provide that need.
Nigeria is blessed with people.

Smilesvilles21:


Same question can and should be asked of the man whose dick is always busy knacking for reproduction.

armyofone:


Please give me idea what people need.

Mariangeles:


Within Nigeria, anything edible.

If one is outside Nigeria and want to bring in goods, used phones, tablets, laptops sell.
Used kitchen appliances that are in good condition too. Things people can afford.

armyofone:


I see - thanks sis.

medropoly:

Omo life hasn't be the same, Imaging the the first child being just 22 and already have 7 other siblings behind him,

Cooking and eating of food Na....... , let me don't even go there

Una wey una mama no born plenty pikin no knw Wetin God do for una

Mariangeles:


Within Nigeria, anything edible.

If one is outside Nigeria and want to bring in goods, used phones, tablets, laptops sell.
Used kitchen appliances that are in good condition too. Things people can afford.