The heading sounds funny and I trust Nairalanders to take a swipe at me. But this has been disturbing me and I want you guys to help me look into this matter.

In 2021, I came across a young lady. She is beautiful and she has the right curves in appropriate dimensions. I liked her instantly. We exchanged contacts and we started talking.

I was very busy with work and we spoke like twice in a week though I used to see her briefly whenever she visits my Uncle's shop.

I later noticed this girl usually hangs out with a lot of guys. All these boys who wear stockings, carry cross-bags, lock their hairs and wear 'oroma' earpods.
She is constantly on TikTok and all my 'crush' for her has disappeared.

In April this year, I received a call from her and she told me she went to Abuja for a programme. She said she was stranded and needed some funds to sort out something.

I wired her the money and I relocated from the town in May. I waited till June and she never called to dicsuss the money.
I started calling her two weeks ago and she wouldn't pick my calls. After series of unanswered calls, she picked and told me to send my account details.

She did not send the money and has not returned my calls since then.

How do I get the money back?

how can you lend a Nigerian girl money and expect her to pay back? You no even see the colour of her pant sef not to talk of shifting the pant.. Nawa 4 u.

But if your fellow guy ask you for financial help you go say you no get money.

I have said it here countless times... I don't just give Nigerian ladies my hard earned money anyhow, she must work (fvck) for it... Whether she's married, single, in a relationship, divorced, complicated, single-mother or my crush I don't care her status.. All I know is that She must work (fvck) for it before I help her financially.

Forget it. Investment gone bad

Forget about that money man.


It will be very hard to get it back at this point unless you are ready to go extreme.

Don't make such mistake next time

God1000:
That money has gone man

I'm regretting my sheer generosity.

PavillionEnergy:


I'm regretting my sheer generosity.

I used to lend one of my female school friends money too.

But we were just friends, just on platonic level, no feelings involved.

Each time I borrowed her money, she would return it.

business and relationship never work, especially with women, some women know that psychology that they can still chop your money without sleeping with you..... that's some the reason some women die mysteriously, they don't know one-day she might meet different guys that are friends who may plan to get their share of the cake by force

God1000:
I used to borrow one of my female school friends money too.

But we were just friends, just on platonic level, no feelings involved.

Each time I borrow her money, she must return it.

This girl is constantly on my WhatsApp status with her tiktok videos but she ignores my calls.

Juicie2u:
business and relationship never work, especially with women, some women know that psychology that they can still chop your money without sleeping with you.....

I agree.

I know other guys have been gifting her money.
She now sees it as a normal stuff.

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This girl is constantly on my WhatsApp status with her tiktok videos but she ignores my calls.

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she has over 20 guys she is ignoring at the same time

PavillionEnergy:


This girl is constantly on my WhatsApp status with her tiktok videos but she ignores my calls.

you can reach out to her family if you know them

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True.

Lalasticlala.

God1000:
you can reach out to her family if you know them

I wanted to disclose it to a mutual friend.
But I feel its breach of privacy.

PavillionEnergy:


I wanted to disclose it to a mutual friend.
But I feel its breach of privacy.

she's insulting your intelligence.

I don't know how much you borrowed her, if the money is huge, then you have to

That money don go o

But Incase you wan treat her Bleep up

Tell her to resend her account number that you want to send some small change to her

You know the rest


Looooool

Camelot65:
You might not get that money anymore. If the disturbance gets too much, she'll block you.

I feel she'd do so very soon.

God1000:
she's insulting your intelligence.

I don't know how much you borrowed her, if the money is huge, then you have to

The money is not too huge but in double digits.
I feel I need to teach her a life lesson.

PavillionEnergy:
The heading sounds funny and I trust Nairalanders to take a swipe at me. But this has been disturbing me and I want you guys to help me look into this matter.

In 2021, I came across a young lady. She is beautiful and she has the right curves in appropriate dimensions. I liked her instantly. We exchanged contacts and we started talking.

I was very busy with work and we spoke like twice in a week though I used to see her briefly whenever she visits my Uncle's shop.

I later noticed this girl usually hangs out with a lot of guys. All these boys who wear stockings, carry cross-bags, lock their hairs and wear 'oroma' earpods.
She is constantly on TikTok and all my 'crush' for her has disappeared.

In April this year, I received a call from her and she told me she went to Abuja for a programme. She said she was stranded and needed some funds to sort out something.

I wired her the money and I relocated from the town in May. I waited till June and she never called to dicsuss the money.
I started calling her two weeks ago and she wouldn't pick my calls. After series of unanswered calls, she picked and told me to send my account details.

She did not send the money and has not returned my calls since then.

How do I get the money back?

which language will you understand make we use tell you say u don fall maga

PavillionEnergy:
The heading sounds funny and I trust Nairalanders to take a swipe at me. But this has been disturbing me and I want you guys to help me look into this matter.

In 2021, I came across a young lady. She is beautiful and she has the right curves in appropriate dimensions. I liked her instantly. We exchanged contacts and we started talking.

I was very busy with work and we spoke like twice in a week though I used to see her briefly whenever she visits my Uncle's shop.

I later noticed this girl usually hangs out with a lot of guys. All these boys who wear stockings, carry cross-bags, lock their hairs and wear 'oroma' earpods.
She is constantly on TikTok and all my 'crush' for her has disappeared.

In April this year, I received a call from her and she told me she went to Abuja for a programme. She said she was stranded and needed some funds to sort out something.

I wired her the money and I relocated from the town in May. I waited till June and she never called to dicsuss the money.
I started calling her two weeks ago and she wouldn't pick my calls. After series of unanswered calls, she picked and told me to send my account details.

She did not send the money and has not returned my calls since then.

How do I get the money back?

you have been scammed Op, many Nigerian girls are using this borrowing format to scam any guy who SIMPed around Them, this happened to me too few weeks ago, met this girl which I liked so much, I asked for her number she refused, I Ignored her for a while, after many months she came by herself to give me the number, the moment she gave me the number my instinct told me that she wants to bill me because she probably saw me as a SIMP, that same evening while we were chatting, she started the billing, she indirectly asked me of 3k saying the Chase her sister out of school that she wish she could get 3k to send to he sister, I Ignored her, month later, she messaged me to help her with 1k to complete something, I Ignored again, few months again she massage me again to borrow her 5k that wen she come back From work she will refund it, I Ignored her the 3rd time , that was how she stopped chatting with me. Girl where no dey gree come my house,

.

Wotoporiously speaking

Hahahaha, kunle come carry your brother o, client wey dey send am make him go bill don bill am o

Send her a message and express your annoyance.

PavillionEnergy:
The heading sounds funny and I trust Nairalanders to take a swipe at me. But this has been disturbing me and I want you guys to help me look into this matter.

In 2021, I came across a young lady. She is beautiful and she has the right curves in appropriate dimensions. I liked her instantly. We exchanged contacts and we started talking.

I was very busy with work and we spoke like twice in a week though I used to see her briefly whenever she visits my Uncle's shop.

I later noticed this girl usually hangs out with a lot of guys. All these boys who wear stockings, carry cross-bags, lock their hairs and wear 'oroma' earpods.
She is constantly on TikTok and all my 'crush' for her has disappeared.

In April this year, I received a call from her and she told me she went to Abuja for a programme. She said she was stranded and needed some funds to sort out something.

I wired her the money and I relocated from the town in May. I waited till June and she never called to dicsuss the money.
I started calling her two weeks ago and she wouldn't pick my calls. After series of unanswered calls, she picked and told me to send my account details.

She did not send the money and has not returned my calls since then.

How do I get the money back?

Is either you wait till infinity to get the money or consider the money gone

Next time you will have sense

Never borrow a person money you can't forgo incase they refuse to pay back. Move on, the money is gone.

Just forget the money and dobo her even if na once, so that the regret nor go pain you much.

Never lend out money you can't afford to lose.

Sadly, people learn this basic lesson the hard way.

PavillionEnergy:
The heading sounds funny and I trust Nairalanders to take a swipe at me. But this has been disturbing me and I want you guys to help me look into this matter.


How do I get the money back?

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Stop dwelling on d past.


Money given to a woman is lost FOREVER.

Unless u r ready for unnecessary drama.

That's why my dad can give my mum 10k to prepare food.

Mum would cook jellof rice without meat, fish or even satchet tomato.

Yet, dad would just murmur and forget about it. He dares not ask for any balance because definitely, the 'high cost of living' would be d reason.


Your story started with how curvy her buttocks is.

Pls, u didnt view it for free. The payment is that loan u gave her.

Just assume that u did it for love, then count ur losses and move on.

Jesus Christ loved d world and died for love.

Same as Romeo and Juliet.

Can't u lose money for love?


Pls, let it go.
The lord will bless u in 100 folds for being f**lish.


Had it been u spent that money to get premium softwares like Grammarly, Quillbot, Canva Pro, Turnitin, etc from me for as low as 3k....

It would have been a more profitable venture.

My contact details has always been in my profile here for d whole world to see.

Clearly visible even to the blind.

But hell NO....!!! You didn't see it.


You may even give the money to me as a surprise gift.

Atleast for once in my life, lemme have a reason to do "Aaaaawwnn"

Then blush a little.
Then pray for u for a whole week.

But u didn't.


Anyway...

In this time of sorrow and grief , all I can do for u is to lend u some motivational quotes (out of d 10 quotes wey I dey manage)


Here:

1. Blessed is he that giveth than ye that recieveth. Mathew 3: 17 - 18

2. No one has ever become poor by giving.

3. When u give, you are piling up gold in heaven. Just die, then go and claim your inheritance.

4. Normally, All men are scum. But when u wholeheartedly give ur money to women without expecting it back, all scum in ur life will be wiped away.



NOTE: when this ur time of sorrow and grief is over, pls return d quotes I lent u. Make I use am hold body too.

I'm among d foolish men that lended money to a woman last year because she had beautiful eyes.

I've not fully recovered from d shock and trauma yet.

Simp Dan learn. If na your childhood friend now, you go talk say things hard.

I pray you get it back though

Voicemail ..

A friend did something similar recently, when the loan was due(without interest based on our friendship) for payback, she deliberately ignored my friendly message, I didn't say much. I just told my woman and she messaged her ASAP..

To the glory of God the money came out ...

The money is probably gone because she has no intentions of paying you back, this is not just about female folks, it also happens from guys too, personally I don't like to lend money I can't forfeit or I can't retrieve back in cash or kind...