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Re: Submission Is Not Weakness - Pastor David Ibiyeomie (video) by BloomingDale(f): 4:34pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
bukatyne: I don edit am, aunty. |
Re: Submission Is Not Weakness - Pastor David Ibiyeomie (video) by HantaVirus(m): 4:35pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
bukatyne: First off,what is the meaning of being submissive? To be submissive is to obey or yield to someone else. When you are submissive, you submit to someone else's will, which literally, you put your own desires lower than theirs. Do you know there are some married women who can't look into their husband's eyes eyeball to eyeball Some of these women fear their husbands and they dare not object to his decisions..... 2 Likes |
Re: Submission Is Not Weakness - Pastor David Ibiyeomie (video) by LadyTara(f): 4:36pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
bukatyne:Hopefully we will. Personally I think misogyny and the "African mentality" has influence on the perception and outlook of these preachers which can subsequently influence their interpretation of scriptures which they turn to doctrines and sermons. |
Re: Submission Is Not Weakness - Pastor David Ibiyeomie (video) by bukatyne(f): 4:37pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
HIPROFILE: The bold must be from Oshodi Bible. For serious Christians, submission and love are distinct commandments; A man MUST love his wife whether she is submissive or not. A woman MUST submit to her husband whether he is loving or not. If you are married to an unbeliever and they have decided to end the marriage, you should infact let them go. Our God given wisdom also helps as a guide in situations. |
Re: Submission Is Not Weakness - Pastor David Ibiyeomie (video) by bukatyne(f): 4:39pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
eas01: @bold: Not true. |
Re: Submission Is Not Weakness - Pastor David Ibiyeomie (video) by bukatyne(f): 4:43pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
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Re: Submission Is Not Weakness - Pastor David Ibiyeomie (video) by bukatyne(f): 4:46pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
phemmyfour: @bold: Which remixed Bible are you guys quoting this afternoon? |
Re: Submission Is Not Weakness - Pastor David Ibiyeomie (video) by bukatyne(f): 4:51pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
Re: Submission Is Not Weakness - Pastor David Ibiyeomie (video) by phemmyfour: 4:54pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
bukatyne:Read Eph 5 22 Wives, submit to your own husbands, bas to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church 25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and hgave himself up for her It's your duty respect him, it's his duty to love him. Stop seeking love from whom you cannot respect |
Re: Submission Is Not Weakness - Pastor David Ibiyeomie (video) by bukatyne(f): 4:54pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
HantaVirus: Submission doesn't work like that in the Biblical context. If you read the stories of couple interactions in the Bible, this strange definition we gave submission doesn't apply. The Bible even teaches us to submit one to another (Eph 5:21). Make woman wey marry masquerade sorry o! Like a preacher said yesterday: you teach a man how to treat you. If you tell him disrespect/abuse is acceptable, he will continue in that line. Don't be surprised that the masquerade at home is a 'simp' to his side chic. |
Re: Submission Is Not Weakness - Pastor David Ibiyeomie (video) by bukatyne(f): 4:56pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
LadyTara: Very true. A lot of them mix culture and traditions with the Bible. That's why a girl should know the Bible for herself so she can sieve her suitors and continue in it when married. |
Re: Submission Is Not Weakness - Pastor David Ibiyeomie (video) by bukatyne(f): 4:59pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
phemmyfour: @Bold: I am asking where you got that interpretation from. When you consider that everyone would face the judgement for their actions individually, I am wondering how 'I was a terrible husband/didn't love my wife because she wasn't submissive' would fly. |
Re: Submission Is Not Weakness - Pastor David Ibiyeomie (video) by princewarri1985: 5:02pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
Easyvibez:No woman will ever be submissive to a broke man! so all men out there "HUSTLE'' |
Re: Submission Is Not Weakness - Pastor David Ibiyeomie (video) by Emdebby2: 5:07pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
Nowadays men have made it impossible for some women to be submissive. |
Re: Submission Is Not Weakness - Pastor David Ibiyeomie (video) by phemmyfour: 5:07pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
bukatyne:The interpretation of Eph 5 isn't a rocket science It's the woman's duty to respect her man...Respect him and you LL get the rest. And the man's duty to Love his woman ....He does that and the rest follows. If they deviate from this default settings, there will be chaos |
Re: Submission Is Not Weakness - Pastor David Ibiyeomie (video) by LadyTara(f): 5:11pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
bukatyne:correct. |
Re: Submission Is Not Weakness - Pastor David Ibiyeomie (video) by Ayomi90: 5:28pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
bukatyne:I never said she is wrong, she even hit herself in the leg, she said in return the husband shld love his wife. You are yet to be submissive and you are complaining about Nigerian men as if Nigerian men doesn't know their duty ND the Bible. That's y I dragged her. |
Re: Submission Is Not Weakness - Pastor David Ibiyeomie (video) by Fortune118005(m): 5:46pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
Dshocker:Submission is one key factor for sustainability of marriage. |
Re: Submission Is Not Weakness - Pastor David Ibiyeomie (video) by cococandy(f): 6:23pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
Let me guess, you’re the one whose shoes he can’t lace? That being said, you want us to appreciate men more. I’m appreciating mine. Why is it peppering you? RightToReject: 4 Likes |
Re: Submission Is Not Weakness - Pastor David Ibiyeomie (video) by Oyindidi(f): 6:29pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
Love your woman to the extend submission won't be a problem, don't command me like a trophy wife and expect me to submit. |
Re: Submission Is Not Weakness - Pastor David Ibiyeomie (video) by judedwriter(m): 6:49pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
Fahdiga: Abi o |
Re: Submission Is Not Weakness - Pastor David Ibiyeomie (video) by royalfly(m): 7:07pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
bukatyne: Good one.. what about how he loved us Christ like.. did he love you precious like... the instructions on marriage are clear and unconditional.. are you saying I should love without submission. Think of it, there was even submission before the marraige. That's why there is marraige in the first place. The bottom line is submission is the bedrock of marraige.. a sensible God fearing man would never take that for granted. The truth is that the good men continue to love without submission but it's always difficult and definitely bring issues all the time.. my dear, please advice on submission, that's the way forward. They many counter ideas to my stand but believe me count 1 before 2 |
Re: Submission Is Not Weakness - Pastor David Ibiyeomie (video) by HIPROFILE(m): 8:09pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
bukatyne: Haba bros I no quote bible if I did you should have seen the verse lifted too.. That statement is just comon sense for a happy living for husband and wife… Wife no need come bossy on her husband above all understanding is key and now let me quote bible then. Prov. 4:7 get ye wisdom and in all thy getting, get understanding… Bro tell yourself the truth except if you are not married yet then I dont think we should be having this discussion because you will never understand. If you have a wife who disrespects you, I guess you should know in mens world true Respect is seen as love while in womens world complete and proper show of affection means love. Hence if you have a wife who disrespects your oder in your home your show of affections can never be complete towards her and one thing would always lead to another in other words Wife be submissive, be obedient and loyal to your husband (A responsible husband) by doing this you win his heart. No man want to marry or have a disrespectful woman as a wife in the first place. Bro incase you don't know this: In marriage understanding supersedes love. However it takes a wise woman and a responsible man to make a good home. |
Re: Submission Is Not Weakness - Pastor David Ibiyeomie (video) by bluestone2015: 8:18pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
Husband's unconditional love is not weakness and it's not slavery. |
Re: Submission Is Not Weakness - Pastor David Ibiyeomie (video) by Dshocker(m): 8:40pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
bukatyne: My sister for peace to reign, be submissive! |
Re: Submission Is Not Weakness - Pastor David Ibiyeomie (video) by emmyileri(m): 9:33pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
Deborah98:Aren't you suppose to do your own part without waiting for the other person, it's what the scripture teaches. People this days are forming their own Bible and interpretation. |
Re: Submission Is Not Weakness - Pastor David Ibiyeomie (video) by emmyileri(m): 9:35pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
MallamChukwudi:Keep deceiving yourself and cut corners upon sighting the truth |
Re: Submission Is Not Weakness - Pastor David Ibiyeomie (video) by chiedozie198100: 9:53pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
The truth is if a woman submits to her husband in the begining of their marriage, the man eventually submits to her in the long run. It even lasts longer for the woman. I wish most women understand this. |
Re: Submission Is Not Weakness - Pastor David Ibiyeomie (video) by NoToPile: 10:00pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
bukatyne: Some of these Nairaland people will never see the husband love your wives part in the Bible. Shey people that say their wife is not their blood only just relatives and children are the one that can love their wives? People that don't even know what love is, can they love their wives as christ loved the church and gave his life for it, Eph 5:25. They will never ever read their own Ephesians 5 till verse 25, they always stop at verse 24. Eph 5:25-29 below. 25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, 26 that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, 27 othat He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish. 28 So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself. 29 For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it just as the Lord does the church. The word of God is perfect, true and unbroken. Even from what this pastor said, they are conveniently leaving out the Love is a commandment part of his statement. Abeg let everyone read the whole of ephesians 5, pray for enlightening by the holy spirit and many will realize what God expects from us in marriage is much more deeper than what we are seeing around. Why men especially Christain men keep watering down the commandment of love your wives is what I don't get. Submission is there, loving too is there everything is biblical you sef love nau abi or is it that they can't love their wives the way it is commanded? I am pained that the Church is gradually beginning to raise men that are not fit for marriage, have no idea of what it entails and the only thing in their heads is 'my wife must submit to me' they are not taught that it's biblical to love their wives, neither are they taught that they become one flesh with their wives when they marry. Maybe they are taught but they just ignore, Maybe it's the birth of lots of hippy yoppy churches around, I don't know but something is wrong somewhere. Also some people that when tradition clashes with the Bible, they put Bible aside and tradition take the front play, in situations where traditions doesn't favor them they run back to the Bible, is it those ones that want to follow biblical commandments? Generally there's something getting wrong with our Christianity generally in these parts and it's affecting marriage, the family, conduct etc. Don't they teach these things any more ni? Christain conduct etc etc. 1 Like |
Re: Submission Is Not Weakness - Pastor David Ibiyeomie (video) by NoToPile: 10:13pm On Jun 19, 2022 |
gram: Very solid points oo. |
Re: Submission Is Not Weakness - Pastor David Ibiyeomie (video) by Ebymyk(m): 12:49am On Jun 20, 2022 |
Deborah98:another feminist talking trash... Read your Bible very well...what you are saying is not in line with God's Word... |
Re: Submission Is Not Weakness - Pastor David Ibiyeomie (video) by Deborah98(f): 12:53am On Jun 20, 2022 |
Ebymyk:Crawl back to sleep kiddo and stop wailing.... |
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