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Re: My Relationship Just Crashed This Morning. by Jacksparrow7(m): 4:11pm On Jun 20, 2022
grin Olamide once said...BLOOD IN MY EYES OMO NO BE JOKE.
God jam you two times you no wan hear.
When it comes to relationship advice ask your Dad; ask Elders of Nairaland. Don't ever ask woman. Even mommy's relationship advice will come as last defence in some days
Re: My Relationship Just Crashed This Morning. by luminouz(m): 4:14pm On Jun 20, 2022
kelspinall:
love makes men weak but we don't notice it until we start regretting.our forefathers married 4 wives and they we're submissive to him because he never showed weakness.we think being romantic and loving caring makes us a man.no it makes you weaker.relationship is a big deceiver,the Mexican, philippines and Koreans telenovelas lied to us.wise up guys everything is not karma use ya head.

2 months ago 2 different gals came with love and relationship so that they can fool me and I get something from me.i watched closely and asked them"what are you bringing into this relationship" long story cut short they left and no longer show up again.guys are growing weaker nowadays.

i saw a trend where a young guy stood in the rain professing love to a gal under a roof.i went bezerk,why, lastly he will always beg in the relationship when things are going sideways and the same gal will be manipulating him through that..

my ex told me that I have changed because i failed to listen to her manipulative ways of duping men with lies that someone close to her is sick and needs 30k for treatment.i stand on my ground to never give her that money...2 weeks later i asked her how is the sick person doing,she said forget and inserted a laughing emoji..wise up.love/relationship is not the way we think it was.. peace

You are a real nigga!!!

You have my respect for unplugging from the matrix.

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Re: My Relationship Just Crashed This Morning. by ABANGWABOI(m): 4:26pm On Jun 20, 2022
loffyloffy:
Don't worry bros..

Now that you are her ex, she will post your picture too

LMFAO grin grin grin

Most underrated comment here..
Re: My Relationship Just Crashed This Morning. by Joe4real1988(m): 4:28pm On Jun 20, 2022
Alaigbopress:
I came to this Forum to complain about how my Girlfriend always posts pictures of her ex on her Status and uses his pictures as her screensaver.

Here is the link to the thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7133811/girlfriend-keeps-posting-ex-pictures

After her explanations which looked like Truth. We moved on and I have to make a Counter post where I nearly insulted Nairalanders who came to my help with loads of advice to dump the Girl. Here is the link to the second thread I made which also made the front page.

https://www.nairaland.com/7138678/lost-girl-friend-followed-advice

Please Nairalanders forgive me for not heeding to your advice, and also the way I spoke to You guys. I am really sorry about that.

This morning I woke up again and went through her Status and saw another guy she posted on her Status. Jokingly I asked her if this is the Okechukwu (not my name) she is talking about and putting Love Emorji for because she has done that several times. So I was expecting her to tell me that the guy is her Cousin or a relation and to my chagrin she told me the guy is her ex and that she just loves the picture.

I now reprimanded and scolded her that I had warned her not to post anything ex both pictures or videos on her Status. That was when this same girl told me that it is over between us that I complain a lot bla bla bla.

WHY AM I WRITING THIS
I am writing this to advise my fellow guys.
Guys please You have to be careful with these girls, some of them are very heartless, wicked and very manipulative.

Today I am joining the Redpill Gang full time.
Op u might find this helpful.

Re: My Relationship Just Crashed This Morning. by Trendylove(f): 4:30pm On Jun 20, 2022
PAWG:

My dear I don't care how that person sees me
As long as we are done I move on.
If you know you have not move on or you are still in love with your ex then don't rush into another relationship only to have a divided and confused mind by communicating and doing things lovers do with your ex.
Some quickly rush into a new relationship not because they are in love with the person but because they want to past time and hurt someone else as far as they still communicate with their Ex believe me they will still Bleep themselves and still catch feelings excerpt the other is on a revenge mission understand. Bear it in mind most Ex are not coming back to love the person again but coming to scatter the person's heart and keep collecting the pussy while building a new relationship.


I have nothing against you being totally averse to the idea of being close to your 'ex' or even dating them a
gain, BUT you need not see them as VOMIT, because the person you are with today may be another person's VOMIT (isn't that literally worse?). What if the EX wasn't really an asswipe, does that still make them your VOMIT? What if you were the asswipe in the relationship, does that also make you VOMIT?

Jus my thinking though.
Re: My Relationship Just Crashed This Morning. by Jijuo: 4:31pm On Jun 20, 2022
Oyerinde16:
Welcome to the geng... Now man up and become wicked... Watch how beautiful girls flock around you...
Haha. Women seem to love bad boys more than good guys.

Good guys would always finish last.

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Re: My Relationship Just Crashed This Morning. by Optmus(m): 4:32pm On Jun 20, 2022
You don finally get sense.

Welcome to the club.

Remember this: Becoming Redpill doesn't just happen in a day. You have to visit the manosphere regularly...

Many times you'll find yourself SIMPing, whenever that happens don't be hard on yourself, take correction and move on.

Search this forum for "ubunja"

Ubunja is a guy that teaches red pill.

But take note that redpill does not encourage you to hate women or suffer women.

It only teaches you to love your self above women, know women shits, recognize their antics and manipulation of men, defend yourself against their manipulations, and make them obey you and treat their fuckups 24/7.

Redpill will make you have self value and recognize your self worth. You will instantly become better when dealing with humans.

Redpill will make you more bussiness and self oriented

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Re: My Relationship Just Crashed This Morning. by darkstar6971(m): 4:33pm On Jun 20, 2022
Welcome to the geng
Alaigbopress:
I came to this Forum to complain about how my Girlfriend always posts pictures of her ex on her Status and uses his pictures as her screensaver.

Here is the link to the thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7133811/girlfriend-keeps-posting-ex-pictures

After her explanations which looked like Truth. We moved on and I have to make a Counter post where I nearly insulted Nairalanders who came to my help with loads of advice to dump the Girl. Here is the link to the second thread I made which also made the front page.

https://www.nairaland.com/7138678/lost-girl-friend-followed-advice

Please Nairalanders forgive me for not heeding to your advice, and also the way I spoke to You guys. I am really sorry about that.

This morning I woke up again and went through her Status and saw another guy she posted on her Status. Jokingly I asked her if this is the Okechukwu (not my name) she is talking about and putting Love Emorji for because she has done that several times. So I was expecting her to tell me that the guy is her Cousin or a relation and to my chagrin she told me the guy is her ex and that she just loves the picture.

I now reprimanded and scolded her that I had warned her not to post anything ex both pictures or videos on her Status. That was when this same girl told me that it is over between us that I complain a lot bla bla bla.

WHY AM I WRITING THIS
I am writing this to advise my fellow guys.
Guys please You have to be careful with these girls, some of them are very heartless, wicked and very manipulative.

Today I am joining the Redpill Gang full time.
Re: My Relationship Just Crashed This Morning. by YoungBruzzy(m): 4:37pm On Jun 20, 2022
Owu don blow my bro � grin
Anyways, it’s better that it happen now than later
Re: My Relationship Just Crashed This Morning. by CAPSLOCKED: 4:37pm On Jun 20, 2022
eguarojeona:
Please explain this red and whatever pills to me

HARD DRUGS SIR. DON'T BELIEVE ANYTHING ELSE.

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Re: My Relationship Just Crashed This Morning. by Anetorfavour: 4:38pm On Jun 20, 2022
Alaigbopress:
I came to this Forum to complain about how my Girlfriend always posts pictures of her ex on her Status and uses his pictures as her screensaver.

Here is the link to the thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7133811/girlfriend-keeps-posting-ex-pictures

After her explanations which looked like Truth. We moved on and I have to make a Counter post where I nearly insulted Nairalanders who came to my help with loads of advice to dump the Girl. Here is the link to the second thread I made which also made the front page.

https://www.nairaland.com/7138678/lost-girl-friend-followed-advice

Please Nairalanders forgive me for not heeding to your advice, and also the way I spoke to You guys. I am really sorry about that.

This morning I woke up again and went through her Status and saw another guy she posted on her Status. Jokingly I asked her if this is the Okechukwu (not my name) she is talking about and putting Love Emorji for because she has done that several times. So I was expecting her to tell me that the guy is her Cousin or a relation and to my chagrin she told me the guy is her ex and that she just loves the picture.

I now reprimanded and scolded her that I had warned her not to post anything ex both pictures or videos on her Status. That was when this same girl told me that it is over between us that I complain a lot bla bla bla.

WHY AM I WRITING THIS
I am writing this to advise my fellow guys.
Guys please You have to be careful with these girls, some of them are very heartless, wicked and very manipulative.

Today I am joining the Redpill Gang full time.
the deceptive odour dum spread like wide fire and ur eye dum clear las las! Nor carry woman matter for head if u wan live long oo !
Re: My Relationship Just Crashed This Morning. by Slynation(m): 4:44pm On Jun 20, 2022
ABANGWABOI:


The best gift nairaland forum gave me was the Redpill..
And it is the best gift I would ever treasure in life.. knowing, understanding and applying all concepts and facets of Redpill..
I always navigate other aspects of my life on my own..
Except one, Relationships.. Babes been dey do me strong thing.. I kept on wondering what women men want and how to navigate around it.. confused on it until I encountered the Redpill on niaraland..
Ever since then, Handling women generally is as easy as licking my second finger whilst munching a delicious plate of Eba..
All the times.. what my Gfs tell me is, You are so cold,I fear you so much.. I don't understand you.. You are never predictably.. etc..

Make I stop to the CAP..
God bless the Redpill till I die..
Ubunja na MAN..
CAPSLOCKED .. I can never stop saying silent prayers for you...
A particular comment of yours in a thread I can't remember now changed my life around women and mainstreamed me into the Redpill forever..
I swear....grin Ever since I took the pills, it's been more money and more kpekus without stress and simping...!! grin

I can even predict ladies and there next line of action, while I sit back and enjoy their lies and manipulations when I already know the truth grin

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Re: My Relationship Just Crashed This Morning. by litaninja(m): 4:48pm On Jun 20, 2022
Una no dey always hear word. Its all about balance. By all means, luv o, enjoy trip with una sef, buy gifts sef, BUT DON'T LOSE YOUR HEAD. Once nonsense don start, clear am straight, if e no clear, HIT THE ROAD JACK.

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Re: My Relationship Just Crashed This Morning. by Optmus(m): 5:09pm On Jun 20, 2022
Alaigbopress:
I came to this Forum to complain about how my Girlfriend always posts pictures of her ex on her Status and uses his pictures as her screensaver.

Here is the link to the thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7133811/girlfriend-keeps-posting-ex-pictures

After her explanations which looked like Truth. We moved on and I have to make a Counter post where I nearly insulted Nairalanders who came to my help with loads of advice to dump the Girl. Here is the link to the second thread I made which also made the front page.

https://www.nairaland.com/7138678/lost-girl-friend-followed-advice

Please Nairalanders forgive me for not heeding to your advice, and also the way I spoke to You guys. I am really sorry about that.

This morning I woke up again and went through her Status and saw another guy she posted on her Status. Jokingly I asked her if this is the Okechukwu (not my name) she is talking about and putting Love Emorji for because she has done that several times. So I was expecting her to tell me that the guy is her Cousin or a relation and to my chagrin she told me the guy is her ex and that she just loves the picture.

I now reprimanded and scolded her that I had warned her not to post anything ex both pictures or videos on her Status. That was when this same girl told me that it is over between us that I complain a lot bla bla bla.

WHY AM I WRITING THIS
I am writing this to advise my fellow guys.
Guys please You have to be careful with these girls, some of them are very heartless, wicked and very manipulative.

Today I am joining the Redpill Gang full time.

You don finally get sense.

Welcome to the club.

Remember this: Becoming Redpill doesn't just happen in a day. You have to visit the manosphere regularly...

Many times you'll find yourself SIMPing, whenever that happens don't be hard on yourself, take correction and move on.

Search this forum for "ubunja"

Ubunja is a guy that teaches red pill.

But take note that redpill does not encourage you to hate women or suffer women.

It only teaches you to love your self above women, know women shits, recognize their antics and manipulation of men, defend yourself against their manipulations, and make them obey you and treat their fuckups 24/7.

Redpill will make you have self value and recognize your self worth. You will instantly become better when dealing with humans.

Redpill will make you more bussiness and self oriented

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Re: My Relationship Just Crashed This Morning. by ABANGWABOI(m): 5:18pm On Jun 20, 2022
Slynation:
I swear....grin Ever since I took the pills, it's been more money and more kpekus without stress and simping...!! grin

I can even predict ladies and there next line of action, while I sit back and enjoy theirs lies and manipulations when I already know the truth grin


Exactly Bro.
More money cos I focus on my Goals..

More kpekus cos I spin plates like Mad.. and they don't inconvenience me..
Babe no fit come meet crib without calling me first.. Dem no born am well not to call me first, I can't be at work and any of my numerous girlfriend would be disturbing me.. You go call tire.. me wey be say since my days in the jungle fighting Bokoharam I dey put my phone on silent cos of how bad noise can be in the jungle.. not even on Vibration.. to my days in the University that regular lectures then meant you have to put your phone on silent cos Dem no born your papa na Prof dey teach and your phone dey ring..
Till this present day that my phone being on silent has become a part of me.. How you wan take disturb and distract me as a babe..
Finally I don't spend Shi Shi on them.. if we fuxvk you tire.. You move on.. I sign new players from other clubs to mine or promote from my relationship academy team..

Bro.. make I no too Cap..
God..
Allah.
Chineke
Oluwa
Osebuluwa
Bless the Redpill..

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Re: My Relationship Just Crashed This Morning. by Lastmankc(m): 5:31pm On Jun 20, 2022
omolasho:

I will commend you for being sincere enough to keep us updated not minding the mocking emoji. It shows you are ready to learn and learn faster for that matter.

Now oops, remember my response that day I said and I quote,
" chai see this fresh mugu! Well the elders are waiting because surely you shall come back".

You should be grateful for Nairaland. Myself and many people on this platform have been badly manipulated and dealt with by these virginarians years before the advent of this great platform. Check out my head, it's bald. It's not age per say but brutality from lot clitorical differential calculus.

We are not saying you should be wicked to girls, but for the wellbeing of your heart always be 10 steps ahead and never let down your guard for just a minute. Peace o!
Who be dis?

Re: My Relationship Just Crashed This Morning. by Keephope: 5:33pm On Jun 20, 2022
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Re: My Relationship Just Crashed This Morning. by Haynnie: 5:33pm On Jun 20, 2022
eguarojeona:
Please explain this red and whatever pills to me

Red pill:
cause (someone) to have their perspective dramatically transformed, especially by introducing them to a new and typically disturbing understanding of the true nature of a particular situation.

Blue pill:
As in the film, to be blue-pilled is to accept the mainstream narrative and choose to live in ignorance of the truths of the world. Red Pillers see themselves as intellectually superior to “blue-pilled normies.”
Bluepilled normalfag is an offensive term used in male internet spaces for a man who lives a conventional life, unwoke to the “realities” of men's oppression by women. It's closely associated with incel and alt-right culture online.


Black pill:
Those who call themselves blackpilled tend to have a defeatist attitude where they believe they are too unattractive (and that dating practices and standards are so rigid) to ever have a physical relationship.

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Re: My Relationship Just Crashed This Morning. by LagbajaTheBEREAN: 5:43pm On Jun 20, 2022
Ion know a thing or two about your relationship but man, here's an advice, a lady you're in a relationship with that find it hard to respect you is clearly a red flag, never sleep on it.

And again, you'll need to intentional with other relationship going forward, there are a lot of damage souls out there who just want to fvck and move on, nothing real anymore.

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Re: My Relationship Just Crashed This Morning. by Konjiboii: 5:50pm On Jun 20, 2022
Welcome onboard my brethen, you can't go wrong being a redpiller.that same girl will test you in the future to come back only then we will know if you have finally obtain redpill jutsu.

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Re: My Relationship Just Crashed This Morning. by Goldbw122(m): 5:52pm On Jun 20, 2022
The relationship just crashed like bitcoin

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Re: My Relationship Just Crashed This Morning. by PAWG(m): 6:06pm On Jun 20, 2022
[quote author=Trendylove post=113988729][/quote]


I admire your disposition on this issue of EXes (keeping communication to the barest minimum), if guys and girls thought and acted the way you do, most of the tension you see in relationships today won’t exist. I’m not friends with any of my exes but I’ve learnt not to hate them nor keep in touch too much. I’m a very handy guy so they still reach out for advice occasionally but it’s strictly professional cos I make money off it.

Maybe you’re one of the few smart ones wink

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Re: My Relationship Just Crashed This Morning. by Qew1: 6:09pm On Jun 20, 2022
Really
Re: My Relationship Just Crashed This Morning. by CAPSLOCKED: 6:17pm On Jun 20, 2022
ABANGWABOI:
CAPSLOCKED .. I can never stop saying silent prayers for you...
A particular comment of yours in a thread I can't remember now changed my life around women and mainstreamed me into the Redpill forever..

I'M HUMBLED SIR.

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Re: My Relationship Just Crashed This Morning. by Nobody: 6:30pm On Jun 20, 2022
almarthins:


He is free from manipulative parasite. Them full streets. If God open Ur eyes, you go see the inscription wey them put for front of their chest, " my love is for sale". grin

fact

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Re: My Relationship Just Crashed This Morning. by oluplus(m): 6:35pm On Jun 20, 2022
Zonefree:
A high chief in Comradeship, Comrade OscarJaden prophesied you'll come back here again for advice towards your relationship and here you're today grin grin

That was prophecy on point. He nailed it. Abeg make the guy prophesy about 2023
Re: My Relationship Just Crashed This Morning. by oluplus(m): 6:36pm On Jun 20, 2022
Zonefree:
A high chief in Comradeship, Comrade OscarJaden prophesied you'll come back here again for advice towards your relationship and here you're today grin grin

That was prophecy on point. He nailed it. Abeg make the guy prophesy about Buhari
Re: My Relationship Just Crashed This Morning. by Plugsk(m): 6:54pm On Jun 20, 2022
Welcome on board
Alaigbopress:
I came to this Forum to complain about how my Girlfriend always posts pictures of her ex on her Status and uses his pictures as her screensaver.

Here is the link to the thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7133811/girlfriend-keeps-posting-ex-pictures

After her explanations which looked like Truth. We moved on and I have to make a Counter post where I nearly insulted Nairalanders who came to my help with loads of advice to dump the Girl. Here is the link to the second thread I made which also made the front page.

https://www.nairaland.com/7138678/lost-girl-friend-followed-advice

Please Nairalanders forgive me for not heeding to your advice, and also the way I spoke to You guys. I am really sorry about that.

This morning I woke up again and went through her Status and saw another guy she posted on her Status. Jokingly I asked her if this is the Okechukwu (not my name) she is talking about and putting Love Emorji for because she has done that several times. So I was expecting her to tell me that the guy is her Cousin or a relation and to my chagrin she told me the guy is her ex and that she just loves the picture.

I now reprimanded and scolded her that I had warned her not to post anything ex both pictures or videos on her Status. That was when this same girl told me that it is over between us that I complain a lot bla bla bla.

WHY AM I WRITING THIS
I am writing this to advise my fellow guys.
Guys please You have to be careful with these girls, some of them are very heartless, wicked and very manipulative.

Today I am joining the Redpill Gang full time.
Re: My Relationship Just Crashed This Morning. by Slynation(m): 7:20pm On Jun 20, 2022
ABANGWABOI:



Exactly Bro.
More money cos I focus on my Goals..

More kpekus cos I spin plates like Mad.. and they don't inconvenience me..
Babe no fit come meet crib without calling me first.. Dem no born am well not to call me first, I can't be at work and any of my numerous girlfriend would be disturbing me.. You go call tire.. me wey be say since my days in the jungle fighting Bokoharam I dey put my phone on silent cos of how bad noise can be in the jungle.. not even on Vibration.. to my days in the University that regular lectures then meant you have to put your phone on silent cos Dem no born your papa na Prof dey teach and your phone dey ring..
Till this present day that my phone being on silent has become a part of me.. How you wan take disturb and distract me as a babe..
Finally I don't spend Shi Shi on them.. if we fuxvk you tire.. You move on.. I sign new players from other clubs to mine or promote from my relationship academy team..

Bro.. make I no too Cap..
God..
Allah.
Chineke
Oluwa
Osebuluwa
Bless the Redpill..
Tuale bro...I feel you

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Re: My Relationship Just Crashed This Morning. by okezuoemmanue(m): 7:26pm On Jun 20, 2022
We no tell am?? tongue [img][/img] tongue tongue
Re: My Relationship Just Crashed This Morning. by InoGetJoy: 8:21pm On Jun 20, 2022
luminouz:


Lol...she served you a hot one.

You goofed by forgiving her for cheating....never ever forgive a cheating woman
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